Romance › Re: Advise From Nlanders by folameme(f): 8:21pm On Oct 11, 2014 |
tosyne2much: we are still saying the same thing, just that you are explaining in details.. *check the bolded* Nooooooooo!!!, what u are saying is dat bf should be superior to her,in way she'd have to be relegated to the back,for God's sake he's not her father,and they both equal right in the r/ship irrespective of their gender!u dig?they've gotta compromise and sacrifice,not one stepping down for the other |
Romance › Re: Advise From Nlanders by folameme(f): 5:01pm On Oct 11, 2014 |
rozzay: Like serious wateva happened to double standards. He can flirt but I can't. Hmmmmmm Don't mind d dude jare,i don't know why africa men reason dis way,a lady always have to sacrifice everything not a man!!!nonsense,they've got both right mister,after all he's not her father!!!he's jst her man so they've both gonna sacrifice,compromise etc to make r/ship work not one stepping down for the other! |
Romance › Re: Advise From Nlanders by folameme(f): 4:54pm On Oct 11, 2014 |
tosyne2much: I smell FP.. Back to the topic.. Even if you have your personalities, I think you have to reduce the rate at which appear online if he insists cos it will cause more harm than good to ur relationship.. Rozzay I can deduce you seem to be matching shoulder with him.. If quitting NL will make your relationship healthy, why not quit or limit it And that is where I'm gonna have issues wit u,whats stop her from been a nairalander if he's also active?i believe in equality of both gender!@rozzay,u guys should sit and talk about it,at times to me,u're always acting childish,mentioning ur man's in every post,u've gotta protect ur r/ship if u think its worth it,don't go all d way displaying it online,limit ur flirting so far he doesn't do so and he respects u,u also have to respect him ok?all da best sugar,do quick i wanna chop jollof rice |
Romance › Re: Does Class Matters When Searching For A Life Partner? by folameme(f): 4:43pm On Oct 11, 2014 |
nabsprada: Your head dey there infact you sabi better thing thnx hun |
Romance › Re: Do Nigerian Girls Really Appreciate Flowers As Gifts? by folameme(f): 11:01am On Oct 11, 2014 |
I prefer teddy to flower |
Romance › Re: How Do You React To An Accidental Kiss by folameme(f): 10:54am On Oct 11, 2014 |
Afrok: U know how we do feel when an accident is about to happen or did happen, I will shout "Jisos" coz that's definitely an accidental response . lmao,lobatan |
Romance › Re: Is This Message Enough To Break Up With My Girlfriend..........*see Screenshot* by folameme(f): 10:15am On Oct 11, 2014 |
farano: Wow! Special adviser. mtcheeewww what is wrong wit u babe,have u no sense?@op,ur gf wants ur attention,try spending time wif her and talk about the issue |
Romance › Re: Does Class Matters When Searching For A Life Partner? by folameme(f): 11:39pm On Oct 10, 2014*. Modified: 12:06am On Oct 11, 2014 |
nabsprada: @bolded,I really don't know what your cute girl fell in love with after her findings but there,you said it,you don't feel anything! At least not what she hopes you feel
Give the relationship a chance? Really Everyone deserves to be loved but not out of pity or as a favor...you obviously love the attention but do you love her?
Does class matters in a relationship? I wish I could answer this but I can't cause my heart has been programmed to love only my kind of persons even if you are Dangote's son,if you ain't my kind of person,my heart ain't looking your side,class is class when you see it as class! God bless u sugar,the 3 things i value in a guy are: intelligence,personality and potential lobatan!i dnt care if u're bill gates son if we don't connect lailai,i won't give u attention!@op are u classy and sophisticated as u've painted?huh? |
Romance › Re: Does Class Matters When Searching For A Life Partner? by folameme(f): 11:10pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
Shydon: There's this cute girl that we both agreed to be friends on Facebook; unknown to us initially, that we are residing in the same neighbourhood/area. We got chatting the next day and in no time realised that fact. But due to the fact that I hardly spend much time at home because of school couple with the fact that she recently relocated with her mom; we both don't know each other..even after exchanging pix.
Thereafter, she took it upon herself to dig deep into my background..she got obviously impressed with the findings. I understood this because of her sudden change..she became nicer and more committed even before meeting me in person. It was surprising..she took the friendship which was at that time not more than two days old to the next level..she literally toasted me! I kept enjoying the show on my own part..told her what her ears wanted to hear..no dulling!
Sallah break came, and I travelled home. While at home we met frequently..not a day would pass without us seeing each other. She was nice and sweet to be with but, no matter how I try to reciprocate the love, I just can't. I couldn't feel any love..in fact the little hope I had for the relationship hit the rock the very day I learnt of her family background. They can be classified as lower class. Don't get it twisted, I am not materialistic or expecting to get any financial or economic benefits whatsoever from my bride's-to-be family. My family: we are neither upper nor middle..because we have the connections and popularity around.
Prior to this experience, I used to think that ones class does not really matters in a relationship as long as there is love..was I right? Should I still give the relationship a chance? Have you experienced something similar? is ur father as rich as mike adenuga or dangote?to hell wit u and ur money biko!!!do u knw wah she can be in future?only if she aint goal oriented!why won't u date her?i guess d gal herself has low self esteem,why will she be acting all over u and even asked u out?chai i love d way God created me sha,no matter how rich a guy is,i can never bring myself soooo low by acting all over him to make him feel fly or tripping mbanu eeeeeewwww,if i don't like ur personality,we can't connect!@op i don't blame u,na d gal jabo ma hands sha,so u're feeling fly now abi becos u think u're better than her?mtcheeeeeeeeeeeww!!! |
Romance › Re: How Best To Answer The Question,"how Did You Get My Pin?" by folameme(f): 9:52pm On Oct 10, 2014 |
MizMyColi: My dear, nuh be lie you talk. Just yesterday, someone messaged me on watsapp.
Okay first off sha, I didn't like him joor.
So I asked, how did you get my Number, BBM PIN is not as important to me as my number. and he be like I don,t know how, is not bad now If he had said something trippy, I for listen, buh he was just being eiiisshhhh 
Me sef weak for the matter.
Okay, fine, I give out my call card a lot, because of my line of work, but then....................
So I just imagined him saying Your Left Yansh
Jeeezzz  lmao,i tire oooooooo!some can't even talk in a cute way to get ur attention,some guy dey sabi jabo hands jare lolz |
Romance › Re: Getting Engaged @19 by folameme(f): 6:40pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
2sExy1: smh... I sorry for you.. I pity the dude and I weep for your future.
You live to regret the kind of life you are currently leading. At 19, relationship was the last thing on my mind... Fast forward to present day, some 19s are graduate from Uni and here you are talking about engagement... Even had to ask questions which shows you are even considering the rubbish. You are not wise... Guys know and often stare clear of wise girls.
The country is getting worse daily because your likes don't know how to set their priorities right but putting the cart before the horse. God bless u for dis,pls tell her |
Romance › Re: Getting Engaged @19 by folameme(f): 2:34pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
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Romance › Re: Getting Engaged @19 by folameme(f): 12:41pm On Oct 07, 2014 |
MarthaK: Awww... So cute!  are u dis dumb? |
Romance › Re: Getting Engaged @19 by folameme(f): 10:14am On Oct 07, 2014 |
MizMyColi: Uhn Uhn
Two Decades and A half 
sorry babe,meant proof read,oh u're 25?u're ma lil mum on nairaland now *kisses* |
Romance › Re: Getting Engaged @19 by folameme(f): 9:32am On Oct 07, 2014 |
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Romance › Re: Getting Engaged @19 by folameme(f): 8:59am On Oct 07, 2014 |
MizMyColi: I quite agree with you. I think what irked Folameme and most of the people throwing jabs at her is that, she sees nothing wrong in/with doing so. Not really the fact that She's doing it. You get? I quite agree that they were extremely harsh, but then, different strokes, different folks.
Besides, I think it's in order to make her see reasons, if I have the capacity to do good to One Single Person (Tautology), do I hold back simply because there are a million more who are in the exact same (Tautology again) position? And for obvious reasons, I couldn't possibly reach out to them?
These are my thoughts on the matter.
u aint standing alone on dis matter jare babe!d truth of the matter is,any young lady who isn't ready for marriage yet,shouldn't go into r/ship becos doing this prolong thingy of r/ship,becos it will bring abt wah u're tryna avoid.men these days do not value/appreciate a decent innocent woman,they believe they've gotta be physical wif a lady b4 love can be proved! Buh sex aint love,and i strongly believe a woman's pride and dignity is in a virtue asides other qualities that makes a real woman(attitude,loving,God caring,understanding,impacting lives ETC)don't get me wrong,i aint hating on the d non-virgins,i jst believe there's a way they can start been celibate and keep their dignity. Virginity is not a big deal,its all about discipline and self control!its not a passbook to a successful r/ship its jst doing what u know its right even wen others are doing otherwise so@op,I'm also 19,done wit one course and I'm studying anoda course in uni,i gained admission at a very young age and i get loads of guys asking me out even wen i knew i was that young,i knew i shouldn't get myself involved wit such!dnt get me wrong,its not as if have never had a bf too,atleast in ma church mind i tot i had one earlier dis year we met jst once and we communicated through fone .jst checked ur profile pix,and u're a really pretty gal,i dnt even look or act my ma age,that always make me have more advances from guys,u need to see me(lipssealed),buh i believe one's got to be focused. for now its all abt keeping ma grades up u can also do that sugar,dnt break up wif ur boyfriend,jst stay off sex and NO dnt get engaged now,i believe u're also naïve like me too,so we don't really know what we want out of life. For now,so jst focus on ur Education and wen d right time comes,u'd know wah to do and pls babe,before going into a r/hship pray abt it,i hate it wen ladies have so many Exes it aint cool,isn't it better jst to stay single till d right guy comes?so babe i love u as a friend,dnt accept d engagement ring.ps:I'm sorry abt how harsh i sounded the first time,its jst becos u're same age wit me,and i believe there's a way u could have abstained sorry babe,love u mucho.@mizcoy hw are u doing today?hope u're gud? Funny enough,most of ma friends are way more older than me lolz |
Romance › Re: Getting Engaged @19 by folameme(f): 11:54pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
MizMyColi: You know normally, when I see people being bashed here, I'm always quick to come to the rescue or offer a word of encouragement.
For the first time on NL, I decided not to say anything.
I am indifferent. Sometimes, people need to go the hard way to learn.
Unfortunately, I'm loosing my hard talking skills.
Ride on guys.
I'll come around later to do my part 
[size=2pt]Tag: Ihedinobi2[/size] lolz,how are doing sugar? |
Romance › Re: Getting Engaged @19 by folameme(f): 11:14pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
3DCYCLOPS: Like seriously...you think we believe you....msthw
"in charles inojie's voice" impossible i wasn't tryna convince or persuade ok?that was ma opinion! |
Romance › Re: Getting Engaged @19 by folameme(f): 11:11pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
Pervert1: ...and where in her comment did she say S.EX was a priority? sorry bro,so u can advice ur lil sis to go and have premarital sex?#smh# |
Romance › Re: Getting Engaged @19 by folameme(f): 11:00pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
Peterjosh: Medicine after death..So so too late..You know,when u try to make shit a beauty,thats the case here..What is wrong can never be right unless if corrected. Sec and relationship are too far apart things.. Exactly,imagine she's jst 19 and she's that bold to say she's already had sex with her bf severally,i mean how do they gather that courage from?doesn't she feel guilty?wow!jst stop opening ur leg for a man that is not ur husband,have u no dignity or pride?hmmmmmm*sighs* |
Romance › Re: Getting Engaged @19 by folameme(f): 10:01pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
Tswaggs1: Y'all calling me names cos I said we'v done it severally thanks a lot I really appreciate it.... Btw he his the only one I'm seeing, what's the big deal. Trying my best here not pretend. Even if one has made a mistake with something calling her names is not the best way to correct her..... But I don't care... Whatever name u choose to call me cos i've had sex severally with my bf doesn't change a thing abt me.. Gracias shut ur trap babe,I'm also a young girl like u,d guy didn't force u,u had d right to NO so why are trying to justify ur actions?babe sex is not love ok?its not a priority for a guy who really loves,he's always gonna wait if he knows ur worth,I'm saying all dis becos I'm also a young gal like u babe be smart and keep urself for husband! |
Romance › Re: Getting Engaged @19 by folameme(f): 9:52pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
boombay: op,so the boy don enter your well... Seriously 19yrs and you've Done it severally and m sure he is not the first.... op in one word...
you are a wh0re  God bless u for dis comment imagine! |
Romance › Re: Getting Engaged @19 by folameme(f): 9:49pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
Tswaggs1: My parent would totally disagree no point telling them.. And we done it severally@ur no2 u've done wah severally?premarital sex?*faints*@19 u're already having sex?smh |
Literature › Re: My Husband(a Poem) Dedicated To Flakkydagirl. by folameme(f): 1:00am On Oct 06, 2014*. Modified: 1:47pm On Oct 06, 2014 |
Wow,dis jst brought tears to ma eyes,buh dis days,love issue does not interest me,i haven't even written any love related poem for a while now!writing is all abt inspiration,buh i can't jst sit through a romantic movie,to me its always too emotional so i jst stick to ma epic bloody movies!nice poem@op,i love d way u played wit words,i love creative writers,ma past romantic poems/stories always bring joy to ma face!nice one op |
Romance › Re: He propose with a car after my Refusal To Accept A Friend Car Gift[Photo] by folameme(f): 11:22pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
Famouspecky: we are Nigerians pls stop this hate I know u leave in pit hole lolz pit hole?nah that's grossss babe i aint hating on u ok?was jst saying ma opinion sorry if i ruined ur mood!*sadface*hehehehehehehehe |
Romance › Re: He propose with a car after my Refusal To Accept A Friend Car Gift[Photo] by folameme(f): 10:59pm On Oct 05, 2014*. Modified: 11:20pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
2sExy1: i read the other thread and I can't stop laughing at the way people value material things... God knows that no matter the amount of money I make now and in the future, it won't make much meaning to me... I have clothes and shoes that I rarely wear but same shoes people would kill and flaunt for.
What is a car? If I get one tomorrow, I won't value it much like most people do or even a house...
I have a Canadian friend who's wealth is currently useless to me.
If she needed a car so bad, why don't she work for it, huh? It disgust me when humans behave like this.
It therefore means that if she wasn't dating boyfriend, she would have accepted the BMW for quench her greedy desires.
Well, this is Nigeria so, what do we expect?  God bless u for dis post sugar,i jst dnt get it,so many ladies are telling her congrats as if that's d highest achievement in life lmao,wen a gal of 16 yrs old in US dey cruise range rover!that aside,sorry@op,buh i dunno why things like don't freak me! |
Education › Re: I've Gotten Admission Yet My JAMB Status Displays "No Admission Given Yet" by folameme(f): 10:43pm On Oct 05, 2014 |
Andy790: all this jambites have started again.... Cant u listen to simple instruction... Fupre said be patient so follow their advise... Most of my mates didnt get their admission letter till we got to 300l. My friend in uniben doesnt have an admission letter...likewise my sister in delsu This is nigeria bro U guys should better learn to follow instructions else the school will be unbearable for u... lolz,u were once like them nah lol*@op dnt worry ur admission is guaranteed |
Romance › Re: I Just Broke Up With My Girlfriend by folameme(f): 2:34am On Oct 04, 2014 |
imas: Well don't be angry, that is life, get a new babe to make her jealous. that's a very wrong advice,why do pple jump into r/ship without having a purpose for it?feelings aint a play thing,the word LOVE is a very sacred thing,buh i wonder why its been played around wit,jst move on wit life if u knw u can't settle d ish wit her and dnt jump into anoda r/ship becos u're bored,lonely or single,always have a purpose/reason before going into smthg,female/male aint a play thing!!!. enough said! |
Romance › Re: Is He In Love With Me? by folameme(f): 2:26am On Oct 04, 2014 |
nekaa: what exactly do you mean by "we do what lovers do"? God bless u for dis qst bae.btw:i wonder why ladies spend sooo much figuring out if a guy really love dem,are there no other things to get urself busy wit?babe dnt be desperate,never rush thing there's a reason u're stil single,ever heard of d phrase*the lord maketh everything good in his own time*dnt ask d guy if he loves u or not,u're a woman,we are blessed wit intuition to always decipher what is wrong or right,listen to wah ur heart tells u and stop chasing after a guy,jst let it happen naturally that way its gonna last forever.ps:wah do u mean by#we everything lovers do#?pls enlighten me on that. |
Romance › Re: Know Your Lover's And Your Enneagram Type by folameme(f): 3:01pm On Oct 03, 2014 |
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Romance › Re: Know Your Lover's And Your Enneagram Type by folameme(f): 2:56pm On Oct 03, 2014 |
MizMyColi: Not at all Dear, it's just, I can be overly passionate when it comes to things that interest me.
I'm good Hun, you? very well dear thank u,missed ur pretty face hun*kisses*i saw ur post on why d beautiful ones are still single,babe ur integrity amaze me glad to have u as a friend,looking forward to see more of u around |
Celebrities › Re: Toolz Goes Sexy On Her After Workout Selfie by folameme(f): 2:42pm On Oct 03, 2014 |
marieolae: This girl is only workin on her stomach. She might as well stop working out cos its not showing any justice on her arms and legs. I'm not a fan of this girls body at all. She's trying to prove to the world that she's curvy, but she's on the edge of being obese. i dnt need to reply u,ur picture says it all lmao stop hating bae,toolz is gorg |