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DieeDiee:
Engrish is what you speak because English is clearly above you. Case point? Saying Mr to a woman, well... Unless you used Mr to show I have an intelligence of a man which you clearly view as above yours in which case you mean my intelligence exceeds yours. So... THANK YOU!!!

kisses

Midehi:
pls how old are u,i hope u are more dan 18yrs ooo,if u are,so sorry abt ur shallow tinkin...did i tell u his complement on me is only on cloths...i av notin to xplain to u agn cos i blive u are underage... all i kno is i av d best r/ship.

lo why won't u,when u've got nothing to offer lmao

DieeDiee:
If you want to say something to me you are need to learn English. I do not speak or understand ignorant language.

Ps before you use big people language it will help you immensely to learn the meaning of words first

hehehehe,lmao

DieeDiee:
Just curious: Have you ever had a differing opinion to his to something important? Did you suppress it or express it? If you expressed it, what was his reaction and how did that make you feel? (Really am curious, I'm trying to understand the kind of relationship you have)

Btw I find it hard to believe he only has complements for your outfits. Surely if he is someone who likes judging your clothes there have been outfits he hasn't liked, unless you deliberately dress in a way you know he will find pleasing...? In which case that means you have absolutely no mind of your own in this relationship. Do you not then see that not being allowed/given the opportunity to have a mind of your own means he has authority and power over you? In other words you are a child and he is your father?

love u mucho honey,I bet all she does is to cower in fear without hurting her man's ego,so all he does is to complement ur dressing?wow,that really shows how shallow minded u are,didn't I say u have nothing to offer in d r/ship?lmao I tot love is patient and not selfish,so for a man to love u whole heartedly,u have to be submissive?he has to make d ultimate decisions without your opinions?wow,babe wake up and smell d coffee,and ask self dis qst,(Are u really happy)cheers!

Midehi:
U are jus a cheap LovePeddler dat has reduce ur tinkin facaulty.. ur brain is so loosed dat u dint get me...i dint ask of ur dull opinion...freak*harlot* stilvryproudofmywaywittreasure...

lol u call me a harlot?well thnx becos I know no guy is entitled to see my unclothedness just my future hubby. I really want u to be sincere honey,don't u have sex wit your bf?doesn't he pay your bills?isn't that why u have no dignity or a say in d r/ship?don't u clean and cook?what have u contributed to the r/ship since it started?its only a lady who has lost her dignity and pride as a woman thinks exactly like u,must u be dependent on a guy?can't u make ur own a decision?what makes d guy superior to you?becos of the two balls between his legs?smh,u really need to re_ orientate yourself,becos u've really lost it,if u know your worth,no guy should lord over you,you should be his partner not slave,I bet all u do is cower in fear and leave everything to ur bf lmao,have some sense of dignity and pick up d left pieces u've got,A man has got to respect ur decisions and opinion not u been submissive as if he birthed u,he's your lover for christ's sake,u both compliment eachother,not u acting like a dumb indecisive gal becos u don't want to challenge his ego and he lording over u. Inspite of all these ur submissiveness,I won't be surprised if he still cheats on u,that's to show that guys loves an independent woman who knows her worth,value and can make decisions herself not one who always have to look up to her man for direction (lmao),its shows how shallow u are becos deep down,u know u've got nothing to offer!!!cheers

Midehi:
Its nt control cos most of d do's & dont are things dat will favour me & @ d end tankin him

lol,so u are dumb enough not to know things that are beneficiary to u?smh,I bet all u have to offer in the r/ship is ur body and d guy pays all ur bills.becos if u know ur self worth as a lady........................well ma opinion differs to urs sha,sorry bout any derogatory words

Carotone is a nice cream,it brightens and tone d skin tho it might take few days for u to see the result,buh its always awesome,have been using it for almost a month now and ma skin colour is cool,even ma face is smooth and clear tho I mixed d oil with it.if u're light skinned naturally,it maintains ur colour,I'm really loving d cream. U can add glycerin to it for faster result,buh I'm using strictly the cream,oil and d face cream(for anti spot)for ur bathing soap,jst get caro white bathing soap(carrot)its lovely*cheers*

kristina1:
Maybe you have a bad breath or something.

nah,if she is a staunch christian,I understand her point of view. The bible says(flee from any form of fornication)kissing can lead to something serious like smooching,heavy petting and even sex,since it involves two grown adult that are in love with each other and we all know this is a sin according to standard of the Bible. Its really not easy to keep a Godly r/ship,that's if the foundation was based on it in the first place buh with perseverance and d word of God u find it easy..is ur gf spiritual enough?how often does she talk about God?is she the doer of those words?(That is,does she practice what she preach?)How is her personal r/ship wit God?does it reflect in her life,appearance,dressing and talking? I need u to answer dis questions. if its affirmative,that means u have to respect her opinion if u really love her,but if she doesn't posses any of the above quality,maybe she's jst pretending. Don't get me wrong,I'm not being judgemental here,I just believe there's a reason behind it,if u both are good christians,let ur r/ship be pure and chaste,talk to her about it. note: kissing is a gesture of showing affection to ur loved ones,if u really wanna kiss her without any evil intentions,u can kiss her in an open place where u know u can easily control urself.*cheers* pls I aint acting sanctimonious,just expressing ma opinion. ciao!!!

FLAWLES:
Am just speechless...................30men?me daht can't go 2rounds

I thought u said u're a virgin?lol

Anuoluwap:
reg is on.

in ur dreams right?d sch is on strike joor

freenwosu:
I really think it becomes insulting when u downgrade a school. When you are there, you are there. If you feel otherwise, quietly opt out.There are so many institutions looking for you, especially ABUAD where nothing probably sucks. Dont go about discouraging rubbing s**t on faces.

forget it,dis sch sucks for real

okparaugo:
It doesn't matter.

My elder sister married a man 10 years older.

I have a babe I am eyeing. She is 9 years younger than me. It works. 14 years isn't that much and he even looks younger than his age..

The question is, do you truly love him ? As in if he walks away today, will you feel empty without him ? That's how to realize you love a person..

yea,I really do like him,he understands me better,I talk to him abt anything I'm really free with him .I always feel happy and comfortable whenever I'm with him,I don't feel d need to impress becos he understands sooo much

Raymondenyi:
pls leave that old man and come to me, I am far more younger and very fitt ING for you
10.24.14

lol,jst checked ur pix,he even looks younger than u. For real,he doesn't look his age lol

mizzkeji44:
Where have u been?
D age distance is much,bt love conquers all,if u love him,keep calm,it will work out.

have been around dear,thnx

misshoree:
14years,that's a real lotta age oo,but are u sure he loves yu

yea,he's been on ma case for 1yr and7months now. He always makes me wanna strive harder,he encourages me,supports me,comforts me,he understands me better. We are really cool friends irrespective of the age difference. He always makes me feel better whenever I'm down,he's very intelligent and has a good personality(tho he isn't really buoyant,buh I know he has a bright future)he's abt starting his 3rd degree. I know he's crazy abt me and I really like him too buh d age thinghy is making me scared.I don't wanna break his heart(that's if d r/ship doesn't work out)u get?yet I don't wanna lose him.*sighs*he's a perfect example of meeting d right person at the wrong time.

misshoree:
Please tell them

hmmmmm,that's true oooooo,I have a guy asking me out(marriage ish)buh he's 14yrs older(33)tho he looks younger than he's age,me on d other hand I'm still pretty young I'm still in d uni,he's tru wit both first and second degree and he's on d 3rd one.I like him,he's really cool and matured,buh I'm jst scared abt d age ish.(Tho he said he's gonna wait for few years for me to see if I'm gonna come around)I don't wanna lose him lol,buh I'm confused

JOETYNO:
Dat babe fit be saucy o! Maybe she dnt wana show u ha bad mouth.


My opinion sha

Exactly,she might be a very rude gal,buh becos she loves u,she's tryna hold back,buh it won't last,she's gonna show her real colour real soon.jst chill

olarafiat:
what do u mean 2 small 10k is a luxury i recieve 4500 per month n i also live off-k d 4500 gan na all sources bros shld learn tu manage

wow 4500?hw do u manage?

firstlady4:
@postal, you are a wicked man o! so you want to know if long usage of postinor can prevent her from getting pregnant so that you can abandon her. Sebi? God help you.

lol,don't blame d op,d lady was foolish and useless enough to open her legs for a guy who isn't her hubby.at d long run d OP may not marry dis gal in qst,den in future she's might be having problem wit conceiving,putting her innocent hubby in a mess(that's if he's a gud guy)due to d harmful drugs she has used in d past. A lady should always remain chaste and innocent,that's ur dignity as a woman!guys will always respect u,buh its a pity now adays,that ladies see sex as a vital ingredient in sustaining a real r/ship(SMH)@op desist frm premarital sex and cleanse ur mind frm such thoughts till u're married.

voodoo85:
I dont mind, since they take precautions

u're a disgrace to womanhood,*c'mon,where's ur pride and dignity as an african woman?u aint fit to be a role model!smh

Bleshh:
I dont support no relatioshp b4 u prepared for marriage.... Lol, boys like me dont need to bang @ all na, i can keep myself...

are u ok?

Bleshh:
I dont support no relatioshp b4 u prepared for marriage.... Lol, boys like me dont need to bang @ all na, i can keep myself...

are u ok?

Bleshh:
I dont support no relatioshp b4 u prepared for marriage.... Lol, boys like me dont need to bang @ all na, i can keep myself...

are u ok?

pretydiva:
I pity 4 d youths of dis days.wat part of marriage is honorable n bed undefile we don't understand. God made sex jst 4 married pple.we shld nt allow d devil rob us frm eternity, he does nt want 2 go dere alone.pls let's say no 2 premarital sex,n kip our body 4 our future spouse

God bless u dear,d only man/woman entitled to see ur unclothedness is ur hubby/wifey,buh today,they see SEX as a natural thingny wen its meant to be sacred!i think d best way to remain chaste is staying outta r/ship till u wanna get married.

valmunich:
Look atew!
Can you kiss in a park full of people

ok that can be awkward tho,buh why didn't u use her as dp?aint u proud of her?

tosyne2much:
we no dey talk abt gf for here.. Gf is a different case.. I don't joke with the needs of my gf

wow that's cool

Acidosis:
I think you should move on. What do you expect from a fresh graduate? Lol
Do not expect marriage in 3,4 or 5years. What you guys had together is what they call "student relationship, campus s €x, one-campus stand."

About the issue of money; I really do not know your monetary and financial expectations from an average Nigerian student who receives barely 10k/monthly for feeding and maintenance.

You need to wake up from the slumber of romance-tism, love-tales, "I loff you this - I loff you that" I used to be on that lane, infact, in my own case, the campus girl won't stop telling and describing the future with me. Guess what? She got married about 7 weeks after final departure on campus (while, my main concern as I type this is MY CREATOR & MY BUSINESS. Aint ready for any marriage with anyone).


And Oh My sister, marriage nor be Baba Ijebu naa! " If you wan play jackpot, go NairaBet.

Take Risk, or Risk Leaving. You can't stand at the middle and claim you loff him.

God bless u for dis comment,i jst don't understand why female students date students like dem,wen its sooo obvious it aint gonna work out,they keep promoting premarital sex all in name of been in love*hehehehehe,a guy is never really matured enough to know what he wants out of life till he's done with service this time,he's seen it all and he's in d real world of making it,it might him 5yrs to get his acts together so can u wait?cos he might dump u for someone younger.long years of r/ship aint cool at time

Its really not cool if a lady asks a guy she jst met for recharge card!its soo downgrading

tosyne2much:
bros abi I no talk am well ni ?

so if ur gf of few months ask u for recharge like 1k for d first time u will decline right?

benromeo39:
When I came first from jss1 first term till ss3 1st term only to come second the last term of secondary school. wait, is it relationship heartbreak? Never had one.

awwwwwn sorry

Hadizy:
Awwww. So sorry.

I understand that feeling. Same reason my last relationship got sour. I was immature from start to end. I wanted everything my way and my terms. Even when he (my ex ) talked to me I was just not ready. I had friends and loved the way they talk to their boyfriends and he obeys, I wanted to be like them.

Well he broke up with me on this grounds also. Later I realized I was stupid and I blame myself for all that happened.

I was at fault. And he was the best thing that ever happened.


Why not talk to her after a week who knows she might be reasonable by then. Believe me if he had talk to me later after some weeks I wud have accepted. But u don't eat your cake and have it.

awwwwwwn soo sorry honey(sad face)he should have known u're were still immature and naïve,he could have stick around to groom u(sadface)trust me babe i know exactly how u feel

Daninya1:
I appreciate you. Tnx a million for your advice.. I will sleep over it..

u're welcome