Very true especially the one that when you have sex with them and maybe she have a bad character which she did not want to change and you leave her.


They will start the curse. Afi tio ba gun orin mi lokun. Meaning except you don't have sex with me.

No be say we both enjoy am ni abi na me be the first.

But few girls don't think like this sha but experience have it that does girls are heartless.

If he is a good person then why not.

If he is a good person then why not

He does not love you.


A guy telling you some ladies are begging him, is either childish or just stupid.

She does not respect you and thus he does not deserve you.

I think his lusting you and he enjoy having sex with you. That is his definition of his I love you, the moment he sees another sex satisfying lady I can bet it with everything he will be the one to leave.

am afraid for you cus that time you might have been used and maybe terminate pregnancy for him.

Be wise and respect yourself and find someone that will make your heart smile.

Speechless.












I know a woman that build a house on her husby watch, she rented the house out and stay back with her husby in his rented house until the man finish building his choice of house.

That is a wife not bc she a woman but she's a good wife and good person.

To the question,

I can sleep in my wife house if the wife in question did not see herself just like a woman but a good wife and a good person.

My opinion.

A woman will always behave like a woman while a man will always behave like a man.


Only few get to be a good wife and a good husband.

drnairalov:
I do pray

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My wife scored a free Kick against me with Mikel OBI while playing FIFA 13...

i broke up with her...aint no way she learnt how to do that if she wasnt taken lessons from another man *sadface

Thinking of leaving this forum but with this, I don't think I will ever leave.


Seriously, I laugh that I was on the floor.


Nairalander are indeed sick in the head.



And I love that.

2,6,8. Na so. Smart would have been there but the numbers is too much but I think sense of style will cover it.

kaima1984:
Very true,na so 1 guy visited me during my school days,as he entered my room,yawah gass,for hours d whole house Ws in a mess,infact I been dey lik DAT guy ooo n I don brush ma mouth finish unto say I go kiss am die,as DAT happen na so I delect am sharp sharp f my mind,wen I dey sick he visited n as I open d door see am na so I carry chair come out BC I no fit shout again

Hv a frd like that. Sweat in d legs without sucks.

idu1:
are u ok? What is APCshit? Behave yourself o.

Oh I forgot to answer your questions.

Am fine .


And APCshits is a shit of an APE. Shey you gatrit.

idu1:
are u ok? What is APCshit? Behave yourself o.

I laugh in kogi. So you have come with your thug attitude abi. Shey na you I dey talk to ni abi u just finish dry weed missed with regal so you kan dey find attention abi.


For your information am not interested.


For all I cares, I will call them APCshits even in my dream . Mofos.

nnekamezor:
Abi oo.. Datz some H.beings fr u... I hope he has bin given a lengthy ban sha. Let it serve as a deterrent fr some bad/ callous eggs here

Like seriously the guy need more than a ban. Am sure the guy is an APCshits member with their lies and propaganda . Stupid mofos .


Hope you re not APCshits?


Lmao I will be drm if you are.

ericessien24:
Na wa oh,this one we need to seat and chit chat LOL

Will take that as yes.


Toothpick things . Bad man

nnekamezor:
Well said... He is indeed an animal. No two ways abt it

I don't understand some people in this country any more after all they will blame it on economy.

What is the criteria for banning someone on nairaland? This guy should be ban for life .


The guy is an animal. Beast. I am so angry and I admit I take this personal but how can someone be so cruel and say this kind of thing about another human being.


Guy if you are listening, there are lots of prophets on nairaland and what we say always come to pass.

I just hope God forgive you for what you did.


To the lady.

It will be well with you in jesus name and remember the bible says whom shall curse whom have not curse.

You no get problem jo

undercat:
@blesie

In all honesty, both of you are wrong.

Your hubby is dead wrong for forcing you to have sex. It does not matter that you are his wife; there is no rule that says a married couple must have sex. Sex is the norm, but technically its not a must.

On your own part, you should have discussed your stance on sex with your husband beforehand. I know nobody usually has such a discussion, but where you don't have any desire for sex with a man, you should let him know before you get married to him. I was stunned to read that on your wedding night you just bathed and proceeded to sleep. Who does that?!

That is still no excuse for him to rape you. He should really, utterly apologize for it.

If this marriage is to work, you have to be more forthcoming sexualli, since it appears that every time you guys have had sex, you did not really consent to it. Under our laws, divorce is actually permitted on grounds of denial of sex. Another ground for divorce is the abuse you have received.

In any discussion you guys have on what the way forward is, be ready to negotiate away some of your frigidity.

I'm just being curious here...are you attracted to him sexually? Didn't you guys ever make out before the wedding?

" there is no rule that says a married couple must have sex. Sex is the norm, but technically its not a must.

On your own part, you should have discussed your stance on sex with your husband beforehand. I know nobody usually has such a discussion, but where you don't have any desire for sex with a man, you should let him know before you get married to him."




Are u serious? Did you even know why God said multiply.

Why married when you know you don't want to have sex abi na confu den dey do there ni

Na wa o.

andromida:


Every man who wants a happy wife should understand that women are emotional beings she cannot satisfy any husband if her emotions are off. She may become the agreeable wife that gives him sex any time he asks but she will not be happy. From what i am reading here i can see many men only care about submission not the full joy and happiness that comes with living.

It is important for a man to be able to catch his wife's emotions.Submission is easy if a woman is happy and can see that her welfare is priority in her man's life when she can't see that she starts fighting for herself because she feels alone and threatened hence the power struggle. I truly cannot see why this man married her he talks of love but all i see is a selfish man whose sexual needs MUST be met even if the wife is harmed in the process.

And the Bible said a man should love his wife as Christ loved the church we all know how much Christ loved the church- he died for the church.

The wife is to blame? What i am reading on this thread is alarming clear lack of accountability on the men's part which is a reflection of our society unfortunately it is these same men that are driving the society driving it to pieces and blaming the women anyway history is always on repeat button so we shall see.

Even thou I agree with you on the basic of the bible you just quote.


But do you remember the same bible said " the woman must be submissive to her husband' when I say submissive I mean everything including her money lols.

If I was ask to judge both of them.

The husband.
I will give the husband 15 lashes (offense - for not loving and adoring his wife the way he should)


The wife.

She need either a sexomilkymilky deliverance or baptism so that she can satisfy the soldier in her husband. (Offense- proud and not ready to learn new things even if it means to make her husband happy).


My advise to both of them is " if you want a smile give a smile first"


Pastor sexomilkymilky.

andromida:
I honestly find it hard to believe this story. If its true i am sorry you are going through all this your husband seems insane to me from your story.

I am curious though have you never enjoyed the s3x with him?

Why is he communicating with you in such a violent way and why do you have to tolerate this nonsense? when the pastors wife told you to kneel and beg him you should have said NO. You can't just be crying and tolerating some extreme s3x just to please him look for a solution abeg since he is also a skilled manipulator and you've lost your voice you may need to go back home.

You don't have to pay any price you didn't commit any crime you only got married.

Are u sure u are saying the right thing?

The bible even say a woman should satisfy her husband. Am not saying its right for the man to rape her but I think the lady cause this to happen.


If its sex, food and character that is causing there problem. I think the wife should start knowing what she is doing rather than blaming the husband and saying she need a divorce.

I hate woman who let there emotion control there thinking. Divorce my foot.

Sheggy13:

I never implied Jimi isn't doing well in his chosen career. Far from that. He has at a time held the position of National Chairman of Nigerian Association of general Practice Pharmacists. I'm only trying to react to the guy I quoted who was saying nobody knows Ambode, like he's not competent. I take exception to ur insult, telling me garri is blocking my way of thinking. If you want to have an intelligent debate with me, then please try to be civil.

Ok am sorry.



Ara aje lo tami.


Jimi all the way.

Sheggy13:

Lol @ drinking garri with Sugar. To be honest I like garri o, ijebu one. What do we know about Jimi Agbaje. In what capacities has he served in governance, whether local, state or federal level? He's just a pharmacist that wants to chop politics money lol. This Ambode has been involved in admin duties with Lagos state government for close to 3 decades starting from as low as junior accountant in LGA to Accountant General of the entire state bringing up laudable policies that both his principals Tinubu and Fashola have been credited for. Check out his CV na. He understands governance in Lagos better having been actively involved over the years. Pls put party affiliations and let us have the best man for the job. I don't really fancy Tinubu personally but he's got very good eyes for identifying achievers and potential change agents.

Bros, stop drinking gari heavily it is blocking you eyes and your way of thinking.

So anybody who did not at one time serve in public office can not do well in the top administration?

He succeeded in his profession and he is a good and gentle and self driven vision oriented man too .


My opinion.

Jimi is good.


ambode a looter already.

Firefire:



Ko ti mo... Alakisa to njo loru ni,bope ile a mọ



I beg tell am not to smile again, because na weeping go end that smile soon

weeping is for Apcshits now? Pls support jimi agbaje all the way so that we can all look back and thank God that we have chase all the looters out . We are fighting the good fight here and hopefully I call on all of us to join hands together.



Am pleading.

No more weeping for us all bc now is the time to weep no more and make the change possible.

So much more to come. We will not relent because we have a good man to follow.

Eko ma dun lasi ko tiwa .

ericessien24:
bad guy

Na u I learn am from but seriously have u encounter one or s**k it? Jist me

Chiadanin:
I am one of the trends.

I am braless in the mornings because.....

I don't wear 'em to bed. Geez..

I wear bra all day (most times) so...

It feels really good to have no restraint at night.

Relax and let them "my girls" be free with their bad perky and taut selves....

And there's a guy on the other side of bed, then much less work for late night, middle of night, early morning shenanigans.

Speaking of bra, I need to drink my coffee, put on my work-out bra and head to gym.

Damn. Ugh..Monday mornings.

She's rapping bra lex. Or lex bra.

ericessien24:
haha only women with firm breast go out without bra oh, the ones that have witnessed everlasting rest ,slippers ,they sleep without bra and wake up with bra,magic

I almost bite my tongue while laughing.


Have a neighbor that does the morning breast thing. Omo na free show o bc the breast be like mango.

Say nay if you have ever seen a mango breast.


So okumanded.

:oI think sai buhari only have one agenda.

Tackle corruption, how? Memory lost :PI think sai buhari only have one agenda.

Tackle corruption, how? Memory lost

Afroconnect:

I tell u again fool,you have a slave mentality.

You must be deranged mentally cos between the two of us,everyone can easily tell who the dummy is.

I can pay your father salary...I don't work for people,I employ people.

You talking about stealing is funny to me cos one day Nigerians will burn all PDP thieves and their supporters,and am sure a mediiocre coward like you won't be bold enough to stand for PDP on that day...little kid like you still living with your folks-i got tenants idiot,and I don't lick ass like you poverty deranged minded zombies,I work smart to earn my money and I don't have to be a puppet or waiting for free money from politicians likes slaves like you.

My bloodline is royalty,I am way higher than zombies like you,an idiot like you have no reasonable question to ask-when the revolution kicks fools like you will be burned.

You are truly an Apc.


Always boastful of there stupidity and never achieving one single thing rather than propaganda.

Like I ask you before and I will still ask you again, reread the op comment and prove to me he is wrong or better still slowpoke, can you prove to me he is wrong? Bc am open minded.


Lastly, who ask you to tell me what you have in your bank acct?

Really, you have achieve so much by stealing and am sure you are from the royalties of tifnubu .


Mofos.

Afroconnect:


Your fada,all the gangsters and thugs you pawns are supporting smoke what?

The Op has a small brain and slave mentality like you,you guys are no better than boko animals-blinded by your ethnic leanings cos I know you are a poor ass,not getting any benefit from the corrupt ruling party that you dumbly support.

I pity for your mother,y'all have not evolved yet-live like domestic animals...as long as y'all eat,bleep and survive you are happy.

I suggest you start smoking a little so you lil mind opens up a bit.

I only ask you a simple question and what you can do it vex your frustration on me. Why? You fight with your wife this morning? Or you just finish smoking your usual burial weed?

Apc and its people vexing there anger and propaganda on average nigeria with there dirty ass .


You bera get a life and come back to reality before it is too late for you bc if they catch ona and you counterpart stealing at alausa am sure you no how lagosians treat and burn people like that to death.

Mofos.

Afroconnect:
0p Soyinka is not a PDP paid slave like you.

Soyinka is a citizen,a civilized and learned man,unlike you he understands that democracy is about the people being masters and political office holders being servant-not hungry goats like you that is selling his conscience and birth right for crumbs.

APC is not the ruling party,Soyinka has every right to criticize the president if that president is from PDP is no one's concern-he has no business with APC cos they are not the ones leading this failed government,so the next time you come online to type nonsense,keep in mind that not we all are political bigoted slaves like you...very dumb post.

Civilized people worldwide criticize and protest against their government,especially when they are misruling like Jonathan-only blind fools that deserve to suffer support a failed criminal political system.

Oya stop.












Smoking igbo.










Read the op comment again.










Tell me he no make sense.

cococandy:
Ready.

Can't wait.





Emeka emeka.

Stelvin101:
This girl na poverty dey worry you and It's obvious. He should recharge your fone, give you money for your hair, change your wardrobe. what's the use of your parents? Why do ya ladies feel it's your boyfriend's duty to provide all these for you. If your parents can't provide them for you then go and Stand in Festac! Your bf is suppose to do things on his own and not ask him. Thats where guys differ from one another cause some of us like giving willingly and others unwillingly buh that doesn't give ya the impetus to tax us. Lastly, girls asking for all these things you just mention are the ones who usually get fvcked cheaply for money, you beta reboot that ur brain and think straight b4 I classify you among the Un-loyal hoes.

I wonder why many of you ladies opening this type of provocative thread always hide ya Ugly faces. Maybe that's the reason a brother don't wanna spend on ya, coz ya ugly. Just saying

Gbam.



Oya show ya face

Clerverly:


Ishilove, Obinoscopy and Seun! If this guy is not given a lenthy ban, then I will react going forward!

Enough said!

For what? Saying the truth. Fear God

ToyozzieTohBad:
if only we can exercise faith...i dont know...but to prove if God really exist...

Are u serious?

pendy179:
He hasn't seen anything yet, despite the fact this was a talkshow to bribe and pay off the obas, the students gave him what he should expect from the south west and other parts of Nigeria peopled by people who have common sense and reason based on reality and not sentiment of religion and tribe.

Let him keep his campaign to the south South and south east, the south west have sworn to broom his ass off Aso Rock.

Small small now haba , remember is still our president and we must give him the respect he deserve.



If you don't want him to be there come nextyr I think your vote should do that not throwing pure water on the president of a country you so much want to glo.

Word.