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chuzydon:
Used to be crazy about big butts like chai until I met my ex,hers is even bigger than this and to top it all up she had this very cute baby face,when that girl finished with me eh she cured my craze

ezebrain:
I'm sorry for your dream experiences, but the sad truth is; no one can give you the real interpretation of your dream than you yourself can do, as long as you know the laws that govern this Creation.

Your dreams are the reflections of your present inner state. The dreams you had are in reality not attacks from your enemies, as you may assume, or as others will want to tell you in order to flatter you. But they are signs that the reciprocal effect of your formal deeds are now pressing forward to manifest in your life as JESUS said, "what a man soweth, that shall he reapeth". Of cause you know that the word of JESUS are LIFE itself.

Now, this is not intended to create panic in you, but to help you onwards. To warn you so that you may rethink and change your present direction. Indeed, it expresses the endless mercies of GOD if HE allows you to see in your dreams what is in stock for you; what may later manifest in your earthly lifes.

In order to convey to you this truth, i wil give you an explanation of the process, if at all you will be able to grasp it.

Every thought you think, every word you utterd, every action you take immediately takes on form in the "unseen world" aroud you, ready to manifest in the physical world. During sleep, your soul is equivalent with that world where the forms you created exist. hence you experience the forms you created as dreams. Do you see why JESUS said that "when you think to lust with a woman in your heart, you have already committed lust in the spirit".

I did not open this "secret" of life to you so as to fill your brain with the knowledge you cannot make use of. But i'm doing this for you to know the value of thinking good thought, uttering good words and doing good deed.

Of cause you know that no amount of prayer can make rice to grow where corn is planted. Therefore do not think that any amount of prayer can change the situation. The force in control of plantation is the same force that controls our fate, our prayers.

I give you the assurance that IF YOU CONCENTRATE YOUR VOLITION ON DOING ONLY WHAT IS GOOD, NOTHING BAD WILL EVER HAPPEN TO YOU.

You should not say that it is not easy to do what is good. With the tip of your finger you can feel what is good and what is bad. The simple rule is: "that which you know you will not want others to do to you, do it not to others. That which you know you will want others to do to you, do it also to others.


Thanks for taking your time to solve this..... U have half solved my problem.... Thanks

Kunmius:
Post ur dream here for proper analysis and instructions: dreamtorchlight.org

Kunmius:
Post ur dream here for proper analysis and instructions: dreamtorchlight.org

lodscott:
dreams are predictors of the future or revelations of present/past. pray for the person. u don't want to he in a situation where something happens and you wish u had don't something abt it.

I hv so much to say bt I can't cuz m nt sure ur preapared for it. the second one might be an attack, make sure ur house is clean and always pray before you sleep.

hungryboy:
'each time he sends money to you, you feel very guilty',
Aunty leave trash for lawma abeg,
If na so you been feel guilty, why you no reject him money, tell am say you are not interested in supervising his project,
Aunty,you don't need a bible to tell you what is right or wrong, na your conscience you need,
But in case you wan wash away your sins,
Abeg send me small thing, make i take chop

Keneking:
lalasticlala ...please oil and gas job available as per advert

ernesty20:
Go and pay ur rent

pinkiberry:
NEPA bill is something we must pay as tenant. you can't enjoy light without paying the bills. its compulsory. even if she pay small small every month. its something

Bacteriocin:
Why she go pay?
It's only when you buy landed property that you will inherit the liability.
Na rent she rent.

@ op, which state is that?

mutter:
Handle it and live with it, it is only for a while.
You know the culture , you are not the first woman to cope with it so just try and pray for God to give you the patience and strength.
It will be hectic and hard but when she goes end of topic.
However if you choose to confront the situation, she will leave your house with stories and spend the rest of her life waging war against you.
If you truly love your husband make that sacrifice. It is difficult for any one to be torn between his/her mother and the spouse.
Maybe you can ask for someone else to also come at that time, a relation from your side who can help you cope.
Be wise and patient and all will go well. Mother in laws are jealous of their sons wife. She does not mean you harm, she just longs for more attention of her son.
Go out of your way to show her that she has not lost a son but gained an extra daughter and grandchildren.
Try to handle the situation with love and understanding and you will surely prevail.
I know it is hard because a woman is most vulnerable after giving birth but God will see you through. And do not fail to show your husband your weakness and your difficulty in coping with everything. Communicate with him respectfully and he will certainly help you out also by appealing to his mother to show more understanding.
Another issue is that your MIL may not help if you do not directly ask for help.- Mama please carry the baby while I wash the cloths. She might not want to interfere. If she wakes up latter let her bath the baby when she wakes up. A baby must not birth first thing in the morning. The woman has had a hectic life, let her also have some rest now.

enoqueen:
This Op is always coming up with different stories.

enoqueen:
This Op is always coming up with different stories.

gbl01:
I do understand you and its quite frustrating, coupled with the fact that demons have infiltrated the job market of househelps. Its dicey! Your case is different though, you might need to prayerfully get househelp, or a younger sibling or relative to help or if you live in an area where you can get people to do some tasks for you for money, that will help. Final straw, one of those cool romantic time, you can state the issue to him and ask for his advise and offer of help or just understanding if things aint properly done.


Generally most guys are lazy and shy away from household chores, so they eat outside, live in unkept houses or marry to shift the responsibilities, so you'll need to understand his peculiarities and find a way around it, not change him or force him to do the tasks. What if one of the reasons he married you was for that? (not saying it is though)!

angieberry:
I know in igboland, it's the wife's mum that comes over to help. Can't you get your own mom to come around?
Since your MIL doesn't help much, try and explain to your husband in explicit details how you feel about this, and try and get him to convince her to actually help.
BTW,do you ever ask her to do anything or do you expect her to know what to do?

gbl01:
Dont be quick to judge ma'am, i concur with him, not because he was right and not because i co-sign letting women do all tasks, but because op didnt give the full details. Think abt it, husband stay at home "pressing phone" all day while she do household chores all day, is the house a triplex or an entire community and is the husband jobless? too many questions unanswered.

Nazeeboy:
I didn't see anything wrong in this. You're performing your marital duties. Doing house chores doesn't make your body aches, you're just lazy.

bukatyne:
What about your husband?

vichks:
meriem16 my E crush and ish!love to slap the hell out of her