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Beyhiodie:
I see a couple coming together....me am waiting for pre wedding pinshures ooo,,,,,,,

hahahahahaaa

Beyhiodie:
I see a couple coming together....me am waiting for pre wedding pinshures ooo,,,,,,,

hahahahahaaa...na Baba God hand e dey ooooo

Lalas247:
Ok oh hope it's for business
Use my yim

i don't know how this email work here

Lalas247:
Before nko
Who will dominate if not me

i will like to chat you offline here... I will give you a number to flash ok

Lalas247:
Lol they should learn jare
One can't be doing boring missionary it should be eradicated

you like to dominate...

very dirty and corruption fill force

KendrickAyomide:
dem tie chain follow centre of e yansh

KendrickAyomide:
dem tie chain follow centre of e yansh

MrSly:
It is easier said than done. Even Evaberry, herself won't do what she had advised if she was in OP's shoes. A marriage with kids! And you advise the mother to leave, hmmm! That is the real NONSENSE dear.

if the woman is capable of taking care of herself and the kids.. I will advise her to do so... I'm a living witness to it... this very woman is a federal civil servant...the trouble she went through raging from beating, threat etc... she left her husband and the man went and marry another woman but she remained single... the man is late now and she lives on

Ginaz:
I'm not angry I like asking questions so I get a clear picture of what someone is saying. Happy Sunday.

same to you... do have a wonderful day

Nemesis1:
How did he escape if they want him dead?

i don't think you read the story

Ginaz:
You like me, A step forward? A step forward to where?

are you angry...? misquoted... the like is not the step you are insinuating...those response were according to your previous statement... we can be talking for now

Saintsammurai:
SO many NIGERIA christians are with these mindset of going to church with any amount of cash in their their hands..to use for offering....AS a worker or as an employed human, that receives monthly salaries,, And as a true and a non hypocritical christian, you should be able to put nothing below 1,000 naira every sunday in the offering box. "You cannot spend thousands on drinks, food and recharge cards, including dstv and go tv subscriptions, etc.. without setting outside nothing less than Four thousand naira for the four sundays in a month, just to use as an offering, "note" "this is excluding "tithe" "Putting 100 naira, 500 naira, 50 naira in an offering box shows disrespect and disregard for GOD almighty, for he deserv much more than that.....WE dont have to be christians by mouth making, we need to show it too with our money....i hope you all change for the glory of GOD.

you are one of the intending pastors... so I'm not surprise

emerged01:
Oga I'm not saying what the man did is right. I only proferr forgiveness as the solution to the problem on ground,you are busy twisting issues. Ok! Give your judgement on the matter,let me know how sound you are. Did God not forgive David?

He forgave King David but still punished him remember( the child died and he grieved over him) ... even if God forgives you will still serve your punishment... so the husband deserve punishment and we'll as the girl... the girl's punishment will be to lose her fiancé( by a pm alerting the young man with the details of her misconduct) and start all over again...while the husband need to tender an apology with their pastor or imam in the knowing... then their forgiveness is well deserved

Ginaz:
I'm not ready o. You want to marry me cos of the "tin"

why now... you know I like you... it is not because of that... let's take a step forward

Ginaz:
Nice one though you both looked bored in the first pix. You didn't wanna take the pix on that day? You looked tired.

marriage things....Ginaz prepare oooo because it is getting close

emerged01:
Which is one soft landing? She should arrest him and jail him? I don't know what you want her to do o. Maybe she should park out of the house?
Op said her husband is a nice man. And she also said they live separately because of job transfer. Such situation can show the weakness of any partner.

look here... if King David who is married could snatch another man's wife does that mean there was no Joseph who wasn't married and refuse to sleep with his boss wife.? I tell you it would have been much more justifiable for Joseph than King David... it is only a stupid person that will use distance as an excuse to cheat... what happens if you visit your partner every two weeks or monthly... I have colleagues that do that... one of them work in Ogun state and his family are in Osun state

SalamRushdie:
If a valid need to cheat ever pops up I will take it

that is what I call foolishness... it is better to end the marriage and have a free conscience to do whatever you want

Lalas247:
Wtf is a premature d*ck

to me OP lack sense... how can the girl know when the guy is about to cum? only on few cases... If I were her.... simply say no sex till marriage.... there is no need putting the pen.. is in the first place

SalamRushdie:
I currently live like that and my phone doesn't even have a password but my woman will never touch it even if you beg her with money but the good thing is I have never cheated till date but I don't know what the future holds

good ...keep it steady that way but yet you can't say what the future holds... cheating is bad whether done by a male or female

SalamRushdie:
How am I a cheat? Quit playing with words you don't fully grasp their content

if you need your privacy then you don't need to get married.... how can tell me your wife has no right to check your phone... and you are bold to say if she does catch you cheating the marriage is over. it means you are a cheat

phintohlar:
i swear u've said it all

meeennhhh....that girl fit break person back bone ooooo

donteddy:
if women can channel this type of FBI work into building there homes. Then no cause for cheating from there husband
Whatever you are looking for is what u will get. Going through phones,chats and even stalking man is not really advisable if he is not failing in his duties as your husband at home.
Madam settle with your husband pray for him and give him reasons that he is only meant for u also learn to ignore some things if you dont want to die young because every avarage man cheats.

is this a good advice? supposing it was the woman that was cheating, will you tell the man to pray for her, go to Mr Biggs and buy her pepper soup and ice cream?

Tiwaladeice:
..bad advice from u..violence begat more violence

a cheat won't like what you just spoke against

SalamRushdie:
Abeg it's not by force to be married , if you can't stand his cheating then call it quits , as for me any woman that ever does what you did to Ur husbands phone to me would be an automatic end to any level of relationship we have ..Now go and find the perfect man please

you are a cheat... that's why you are not comfortable with what the woman did...

emerged01:
@ honestwife,Yes! Yes!! Yes!!! You just confirmed your husband is cheating on you.
You don't have to go further. Pause and think over,over and over again. They have both acted foolishly. All you have to do is to leave the girl to her fate. The girl's fiancé maybe a cheat too. Reporting a cheat to a cheat is senseless,so Leave the girl and face your husband.
You have no choice than to forgive your husband. You have said it all,he is a nice man. Living separately may be the cause of his wrongful deeds.
Madam,pls take am easy.

did you catch the girl's fiance cheating? why will you assume he may be cheat too... you must be a cheating partner... because you expect a soft landing for the husband... nonsense

surrogatesng:
Young woman,make amends with your husband.Let sleeping dog lie.And continue with your life.You had the audacity to snoop on your husband.You have seen what you were hoping for.Your marriage will soon crash,you fool

nonsense..." you have the audacity to snoop on your husband"? what about it? there shouldn't be anything private about him... if he wants privacy then he shouldn't be married... I cannot snoop on Lalas247 phone because I'm not married to her... but you can't say the same when im married to her

FemiEddy:
One of the best way to win in this life is to mind ones business, let This woman focus on her own family, I know as a lady it hurts, but save her from unnecessary added wahala
Lalasticlala , Mynd44 . Please front page to gain more knowledge from the married and experienced please and to save a marriage

nonsense talk... this woman can't mind her business because the business concerns her... how can you say she should mind her business when her husband is cheating on her and a foolish girl who should mind her business is involved.... please think properly with the brain

Diamondville:
You didn't get the sarcasm

well...probably because they way a lot of guys came here pouring their foolishly support for a cheating husband.... no no no I detest it... some guys think with their ANUS these days

Mindfulness:
And then what? He will be extra nice to you again so you will open your legs or he will transfer the blame onto you so you will be the one to apologize at the end of it all.

Take revenge on the mistress if you feel like it. Maybe, just maybe, it will help you in the licking of your wounds.

i call this a useless thought... being extra nice after causing so much damage.... I hope you will feel better when the table is turned

chinnasa:
calm down u didn't marry an angel (angels don't marry) you married a man. forgive both them. and u will see how happy u home will be. be wise otherwise you train 3 kids all by yourself.

foolish statement.... who ask you to marry if you cannot tame your third leg?

Osashalom:
I still think you would have be happier if you didn't spy on your husband. Don't call that girl's fiance at all. Forgive your husband and amend your ways.

see nonsense talk

mumexcellency:
My opinion: stay calm, i am with a man that cheats but i have been able to have peace. Stop monitoring his phone or him, it will not do you any good. I know it hurts but you cant stop a cheating spouse, if its not that girl, it will definitely be another one. Pls focus on how you live more beautiful and healthy. Focus on your kids, acquire new skills, and think about making money for yourself and plan towArds the rainy days. Good luck.

see mumu talk... even my elder brother knows I cannot support him cheating on his wife how much more another man... for you to advice your fellow woman to condole a cheating husband is not different from a Christian nailing Jesus Christ to the cross again... and feeling good about it...

MrSly:
My sister never mind this one her. A spinster is not qualified to talk about families, especially the ones facing one challenge or another.

nonsense....why wont OP mind Evaberry,'s advice ? she gave a very good advice... only a cheating fool will dislike it....