₦airaland Forum

pocohantas:
That's a minor, why would I leave a minor with anyone?
I visit the crime section a lot, my reaction to such issues has earned me a man hater badge, so...I know all that.

This is two grown adults, none is a minor. Now I know better, I will trust no man. I expected too much...

good...nice decision ....that is the reality of things now.... nobody wish it but it is like the devil is fully in the world...

empressteemah06:
Let her go.. Just pay her a surprise visit when she get there

can a surprise visit be made at night.? supposing the OP is in Lagos and the girl's I.T is in Benin, can you explain how a surprise visit can be done in that manner

pocohantas:
Reading comments here makes me weak, is this generation now so sex starved? Lord help your children.

You mean, once a guy and a girl are together, next thing is to start fukcing each other? Nawa! Na real wa!!!!

I doubt if you are in planet earth... can you trust a pastor or an Alfa with with a 15 years old girl for two weeks.... please you can visit the crime section here in nairaland or the Nigerian dailies each day... I don't need a prophet to convince me in this era we find ourselves

Yellowdayzee:
Ok since you don't feel comfortable... Did you offer her an alternative solution

Can you get her another place to stay?

Don't point out a problem without a solution

hmmmmm....two months is a long time to observe before blasting through the great walls of China

sinaj:
Hehe


I comment my reserve

Op abeg even if it's mud house, just rent for her b4...

OP wants to keep goat and yam together ....my hand no dey

Benita27:
This really has nothing to do with trust but jealousy which is a normal human feeling among spouses.

Whether family friend or not, it's not advisable to live under the same roof with someone of the opposite sex 'cause one can't really tell what would happen. Certain unplanned events just happen. The op doesn't have a choice 'cause whether he likes it or not, she'll still stay with the guy 'cause her mind is made up, his best option is to offer her where to stay while she's there.

e clear say the other guy go prepare the snail with pepper soup spices

Preciousify:
Unbearable
But you can go down with other people's sisters and feel very confortable!
Weldone.

can a married man tell his friends how his wife was responding when he was banging her? or can a married man tell his neighbour how busy the wife pvssy his or how dirty her pant is? I tell you the answer is affirmative if it is boy friend and girl friend relationship which may eventually break up... can you see why guys may not approve of such dating

Isyomah:
Pls i need good and reasonable answers oooo..

Why is it that you guys dont feel comfortable with your sister dating any of your friends.

can a married man tell his friends how his wife was responding when he was banging her? or can a married man tell his neighbour how busy the wife pvssy his or how dirty her pant is? I tell you the answer is affirmative if it is boy friend and girl friend relationship which may eventually break up... can you see why guys may not approve of such dating

Dillusionist:
stupidity at its peak...

leave it busy OK... don't shave

Ladyjumong:
Oh mine! whats up with all this dirty sound

keep quiet... as if you don't make sound when you are rocking it

Precial419:
Ok I See Ur Point. She Hav Tasted Enough Of D Forbidden Fruit To Remain Wit One Person, She Luvs Variety.

you got it...the reason why I always advocate girls to stay of sex in their teens and wait till they are ready to marry... you will say what of boy... the truth is truck get accident and car do too but who do you think will easy get damage if both vehicle are to collide with same obstacle?

Precial419:
He Acepted D Girl As A Prost N Even Went Ahead To Marry Her Even To Marry Even After Evidence Of Her Being A Prost. He Didnt Marry Her Without Knwin Hu She Was .

a leopard can never change its spot.... that is the case of that girl.... I can belt that that girl will never stay under the roof of any man... the prostitution is now part of her like a birth mark

Rorachy:
Sex101.

I know you won't like that three minutes.... you fit slap the guy

Precial419:
He Did Nt Blive Shes A Prost., Bt Wen D Girl Asked To Abort A Preg Which Is Nt His He Accepted N Is Even K Wit It because Shes Used To It. Pls Read Thru Again, Its Obvious He X Aware She X A Prostitute N Even If Hes Nt Sure, R U Telin Me He Didnt Nt Ask Anyone Abt D Family He Is Going Into. Maybe D Girl Hav Even Slept Wit Sum Of His Friends. Pls Dey Fell Out 4 A Diff Reason.

you didn't get the jest....he said his friends told him about the girl but he refuse to believe... again the baby... he believes it belongs to him not someone else... it was when a friend got to a hote which I call real evidence and saw the lady's picture ....which I believe it must have been snapped and sent to him that broke the camel's back...you need to read through

Precial419:
Yes, There R Girls Hu R Prostitutes Dat Dnt Want To Settle Bt I Dnt Knw Of Guys Hu Enjoy Deir Lady Wit Multiple Sex Partners Or Even A Guy Nt To Talk Of Havin Knowledge Of Her Being A Prostitute. With Guys I Knw Theres A Diff Btw A Sex Girl N A Marriageable. So U Wld Open Ur Two Eyes N Marry A Prostitute Abi? Pls Be Sincere

for you saying it is not possible for the guy to know and still marry her... that's what I'm arguing against.... you have not seen someone that will be told something and they refuse to believe until it comes late? that is what I suppose the guy find himself.. it was not that he knew but people around him where telling him but he was blinded by love or whatever ... so why are you doubting when it is a come occurrence

pocohantas:
OP, post the evidence he said this. For clarity sake...
A screen shot from wherever would serve.

a leopard can never change its spot... that girl mean well to married but the evil of prostitution will never allow it.... I laugh when I see both guys and ladies double dating thinking they are smart... the truth is that when you get use to something it is difficult to break... reason why there is cheating in marriage... any man or lady that does not cheat in marriage... I tell you the truth go and find out his background.... he or she was contented with one relationship

Precial419:
D Guy Is Jux A Pathetic Liar. Hw Many Guys Wil Marry A Retired Prostitute If Told Nt To Talk Of One Hu Is Stil In D Biz. U Married Someone Hu Wasnt Ready To Settle. Infact Is He Nt A Fool. U Entered Convenant With A Family Thats Has History Of Prostitute, Mother N Daughter Alike. This Is Hard To Believe, He Does Nt Even Knw Hw To Lie.

neither will I believe what you are saying... I have seen such girls... so I'm not surprise

Nma27:
Any1 who allow these point to hinder them from marrying no ready in d first place. You owe it to yourself to be happy.

the truth is that I have seen what OP stated as facts... I know of ladies in such predicament

Lalas247:
lol Kolewerk my dear

I know you won't take it...

Josephjnr:
Personally, I see those who protest or claim to be activist for something as being part of the problem rather than solution. There are other ways one's voice can be heard. #Bring back our girls# frustrated a lot of people but failed to mention dying soldiers and never did any of them go to Sambisa to help return one of the chibok girls. Easy said than done. So if you can't do,shutp up and let those that are trying do rather than insulting and frustrating their effort. They should let police do their jobs for this is not the first time someone is escaping from custody.it happens all round the World.

I just read nonsense.... criminals escaping from police custody is becoming rampant.... so if tomorrow people result to jungle justice I hope you won't complain.... let people protest against police stupidity and negligence

caught and killed that is the good news I want to hear next time

the police are culpable.... the reason why I sometimes don't sympathize with them when they are killed... I believe it is law of karma catching up with them... who ever that allowed that rapist and killer to escape will pay in due time with his head

rossyc:
I believe God forgives all our sins, secondly she is a convert according to the story so old things are passed away if she truly understands the call to Christianity.

hmmmmm...ok thanks for your response... are you a Catholic?

rossyc:
How?? If she isn't married to the man legally that's fornication that's why I said she should marry her own husband.

i mean she will be committing fornication or adultery since she was married before or if you put it unmarried

rossyc:
The man should stick to his first wife while she moves on and marry her own husband.

is that not fornication or adultery?

with drug money anything goes with girls....

Bestie0309:
Abi ooo. We that are innocent

you virgin? impossicant

refiner:
U aint a woman yet until u av sex...oya open lemme put just d tip...it is sweet aswear!

you are a woman now

rossyc:
Biblically a man is not allowed to marry two wives. As long as the first wife is alive that marriage is invalid so she should marry her own husband legally and in the church too as a christian.

ok but she has committed fornication or adultery and the man adultery...so what will they do now

EtherealAnn:
Only naive girls fall for their whims

a lot has fallen to what OP mentioned.... funniest thing they want to act like big girls not knowing they are foolish falling to what OP mentioned

folakemigeh:
That's sad o

Guys marry your friend, marry your friend!!!!

Someone you can fart inside her mouth while she's watching Telemundo and will chase you up and down the house while the kids laugh at you guys

Listening to simi- Love don't care

at least the banging is over....

rossyc:
You can only receive communion when you are married in the church that is when it comes to married people. Even after traditional marriage as a Catholic ,Church wedding or marriage blessing is a criteria for receiving Holy communion. The problem here is she was married traditionally as a second wife and christianity doesn't support polygamy.

so she should divorce the man right....