Romance › Re: When a lady is too difficult. by Fourwinds: 2:51am On Jun 08, 2019 |
BabaIbo: I remember asking a girl out, babe was like I really love you but we can't date cos I don't want a heart break(I guess she was acting base on her past/experience). The thing vex me sha, her reason was annoying, imagine she said because I am handsome and she felt she's not in the class of ladies she think I can/should date. I told her point black that she has low self esteem.
Meanwhile I wanted to date her for a serious relationship that might leads to the alter.
P.S- She told me whenever I'm ready to settle down, she's also ready but for courtship, she's afraid  that lady was very right except where she entertained fear of low self-esteem |
Romance › Re: When a lady is too difficult. by Fourwinds: 2:47am On Jun 08, 2019 |
ibkayee: Lol I didn’t say friendships that hopefully turn into relationships though, I mean relationships that just happened to start as a friendship, if that makes any sense  Oboy... That guy mentioned good example oooo... That man died on friend zone in GOT ooo |
Romance › Re: When a lady is too difficult. by Fourwinds: 2:40am On Jun 08, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: When a lady is too difficult. by Fourwinds: 2:30am On Jun 08, 2019 |
Toks2008: That is the best way to woe a lady you sincerely want....start acting like her man and observe her.
If she flows with you then you are in but if she starts acting difficult then accept the red flag and try to chance somewhere else.
Wooing a lady outrightly is for immature guys. Acting as if you are already dating is wrong because it might be too late and you can't blame the girl if she is seeing someone else |
Romance › Re: When a lady is too difficult. by Fourwinds: 2:30am On Jun 08, 2019 |
internationalman: Your last sentence is kind of true..
I have not told any girl before I want to date her.. It just kinda works out Acting as if you are already dating is wrong because it might be too late and you can't blame the girl if she is seeing someone else |
Romance › Re: When a lady is too difficult. by Fourwinds: 2:28am On Jun 08, 2019 |
[quote author=breakerofchains post=78906728][/quote]you are very correct... Acting as if you are already dating is wrong because it might be too late and you can't blame the girl if she is seeing someone else |
Romance › Re: When a lady is too difficult. by Fourwinds: 2:09am On Jun 08, 2019 |
Toks2008: A cheap lady is a lady that sleeps around.
Comporting yourself means acting virtuous. acting virtuous is different from being virtuous... The former is fake while the later is genuine |
Romance › Re: When a lady is too difficult. by Fourwinds: 2:01am On Jun 08, 2019 |
Toks2008: I decided to drop this after I read a thread on the front page where a lady advised fellow ladies on the criteria to look for before they give a man attention on dating sites.
The truth is that there is no rule when it comes to dating except one basic rule..BE OPEN MINDED.
It is quite understandable if a lady is very sure she does not want a guy and tells him out-rightly but we have some ladies who are just difficult for the wrong reasons...this set of ladies will like a guy but will still be acting up with the notion that if the guy truly wants them, he should sweat blood in the bid to win them like a trophy.
When a lady is too difficult, she may remain single for a very long time or most likely attract the wrong guys cos Players usually find difficult ladies very fascinating.
Real mature and responsible men don't have the time and energy for drama but they will express their sincere intentions to a woman they truly desire and will move on if she shows no interest not because they don't want the lady and it's not about pride but it is simply because they are too responsible and focused to waste their time and energy chasing an unresponsive lady.
That a guy chases you for a long time does not mean he truly wants you but he just might want to prove a point to you.
Agreeing to date a guy quickly does not mean you are cheap but it is the way you comport yourself whilst dating him that matters. Proving hard to get is old fashioned and only for ladies who don't know what they want.
I hope this makes sense. the truth is.... Toks2008 you just revealed my kind of person.... All my years of wooing a girl... This is exactly me |
Crime › Re: Missing Oluwakemi Soyebo Found In Lagos (photo) by Fourwinds: 7:37pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Lovelyn451: could be rape I doubt.... Like someone said, can she say what really happened to the parents |
Crime › Re: Missing Oluwakemi Soyebo Found In Lagos (photo) by Fourwinds: 7:23pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
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Crime › Re: Missing Oluwakemi Soyebo Found In Lagos (photo) by Fourwinds: 7:20pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Wiseandtrue: No be me go talk am
E heavy for my mouth!!! hmmmmm...stick was involved |
Crime › Re: OSPAC Clamped Down On Kidnappers In Rivers State(photos) by Fourwinds: 11:16am On Jun 07, 2019 |
if these criminals wan piss, how them go do am |
Romance › Re: The Weather Is Too Cold Tonight. by Fourwinds: 9:45pm On Jun 06, 2019 |
tee59: Please landers, how can one get warm tonight. I'm thinking of wrapping myself up with many blankets after taking a hot tea. Or do you have any better idea? I'm shivering typing this. I know wetin dey ur mind... Wa gba Kondo |
Crime › Re: Woman Bites Off Tongue Of Rapist In South Africa (Photo) by Fourwinds: 9:17pm On Jun 06, 2019 |
Waakanda: The pain and agony this man will go through is inexplicable... tongue?! Your own don done  yes....im very happy.. God bless the nurse |
Crime › Re: Fully Armed Fulani Herdsmen Nabbed At Ikare Junction In Owo, Ondo State by Fourwinds: 8:30pm On Jun 06, 2019 |
Those rifles are up to three... Hmmmm |
Crime › Re: My Story As A Cult Member........initiation Phase Included... by Fourwinds: 7:51pm On Jun 06, 2019 |
It shall come pass...... JC |
Crime › Re: Construction Worker Kills Prostitute In Jos After Night Out (Photos) by Fourwinds: 6:14pm On Jun 06, 2019 |
Amanda4life: Cultist form school you might be right... Something tells me it is not the first time of committing such crime |
Politics › Re: 8th Senate: Read Senators Melaye, Mark, Akpabio, Others Valedictory Speech by Fourwinds: 5:43pm On Jun 06, 2019 |
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Politics › Re: Governor Bello Mutawalle Suspends Emir, District Head Over Banditry by Fourwinds: 5:22pm On Jun 06, 2019 |
Ewedegubbler: E be like say this next level go jell well well for all these emir dem body.
Sanusi don collect am from oloshi gondollar Now this mumu cattle rustling Emir don collect too
We Dey watch  |
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Politics › Re: Governor Bello Mutawalle Suspends Emir, District Head Over Banditry by Fourwinds: 5:18pm On Jun 06, 2019 |
Tboysalau: Good riddance
Space for sale cc sex position guy, MTN airtime guy Bad market bet9ja guy I took on that sex position guy... How can someone devote so much time posting images of sex positions and the Mods here see no reason to stop him... I took it upon myself to attack him seriously and I was banned... I abandoned this moniker to another... Nonsense everywhere... There is hunger and terror in the land and the most stupidest thing that comes to someone mind is sex positions |
Romance › Re: Nine (9) Mistakes Most Ladies Make But Do Not Know. by Fourwinds: 5:02pm On Jun 06, 2019 |
patroit001: Billionaire Ned Nwoko married 19yr old Regina that is moral but if its not a rich man we will shout morality. Hypocrisy It is not about Regina here... now let me educate you in the case of Regina... She is guaranteed for life by the wealth of her husband.. And she not underage OK... But if it were to be a struggling guy, I won't advice a girl of such age to marry him because she still has time to engage in productive things that will bring wealth to her... So you don't just jump into marriage... Now back to the topic.. Morals is what every society look forward to even as useless as people look at USA.. They still preach good moral. That is one of Donald Trump wish for USA.. Now imagine Africa that has be known for such decided to deviate from it...So what OP state is very much what is happening today. .and I stand by it. |
Crime › Re: Lady Found Dead Behind Cool Breeze Bar, Anambra. Do You Know Her? (Graphic) by Fourwinds: 3:48pm On Jun 06, 2019 |
Omihanifa: Man's inhumanity to man 
Most likely she was dumped into the drainage and her slippers kept by her side yeah..she was dumped there...that is a gutter |
Celebrities › Re: Yinka Ayefele Denies Welcoming Triplets In USA by Fourwinds: 3:44pm On Jun 06, 2019 |
enemyofprogress: Na who dash am the prick to burn three childrens at a time? E easy to burn? Lalasticlala wey be horsepower na only one children him wife burn the last time she burned not to talk of ayefele wey na featherweight prick he get  |
Travel › Re: Why There Is Always Accidents On Third-mainland Bridge (see PHOTOS) by Fourwinds: 3:40pm On Jun 06, 2019 |
pocohantas: My own be say, why do those vars never go across...into the water?
I have never seen/heard about such.
 they do sometimes... Look at the pictures he presented you will see one there |
Sports › Re: Hope Akpan And Wife Expecting Their First Child (Photos) by Fourwinds: 3:31pm On Jun 06, 2019 |
Monaco2: Spelling Dey hard some people o, wat is my babies?!? Instead of my baby is  Ugwanu....Akukuleke |
Celebrities › Re: Yinka Ayefele Becomes Dad To Triplets As Wife Gives Birth To Three Babies In US by Fourwinds: 11:29am On Jun 06, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: Men Are So Cheap, They Can’t Reject S*x – Slay Queen by Fourwinds: 11:15am On Jun 06, 2019 |
Skmoda360: She no get sense at all....fool sha no mind the idiot |
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Romance › Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by Fourwinds: 11:06am On Jun 06, 2019 |
Ahmed0336: My Grand father once told me not to marry any lady out of pity. haa...mine said same tthing |
Celebrities › Re: Yinka Ayefele Becomes Dad To Triplets As Wife Gives Birth To Three Babies In US by Fourwinds: 10:59am On Jun 06, 2019 |
tohyorsih2: Oh! thanks  if I handle u.. Na fourplet u go born |
Celebrities › Re: Yinka Ayefele Becomes Dad To Triplets As Wife Gives Birth To Three Babies In US by Fourwinds: 10:56am On Jun 06, 2019 |
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