₦airaland Forum

njays24:
Deltans,itshekiri'urhobos'ijaws'isokos,ibos, all hve been living peacefully in the state since its creation. No tribal bigot from other Nigerian tribe should use their tribalism to sow bad blood and enemity in delta. You people should face your tribe and leave delta alone. As far as am concerned this is a malicious and inciting thread.

Did you read the piece to the end at all? #pheww

God bless you ma'am, I share same line of thought with you. This is so inspiring.

Evina:
@geekybabe: I know most of the responses you got to your predicament are from mature and married posters.

I just want to give my suggestion based on my personal experience.

I will be getting married in May. It ought to have being on the 28th of March, but elections in Nigeria made us move the date.

My fiance and I started dating in 2006. I already had my first degree then and preparing for NYSC, while he was studying to be an engineer. By the time he had his B.Sc, I already had a few years work experience.

Like you, I am very driven. I started a business at 20. I am one of those people that can start 5 projects, run a business at the side while holding down a job and still think of fresh new opportunities to explore. He was laid back, I had to push him to always go for more.

In fact, I did not have a problem with being the bread winner until the Holy Spirit convicted me and told me I was subtly placing a curse on my intended. I mean it is NOT the place of a woman to be the SOLE provider. She is the helpmeet, the support system. The bible says a man who cannot provide for his family is worse than an infidel!

When I got that understanding, I revamped my mindset. I showed him the scripture, and told him. You know me. You know how driven I am and you know I will not let myself be limited by a man. I will not soft pedal on achieving my dreams because I don't want you to feel inadequate, so you need to sit up.

Then, I began to find ways to push him towards accomplishing his goals. While he was awaiting NYSC, I was the PR manager in a school. I organized the annual Christmas party, which was unlike any the school ever had. We had sponsors and media coverage. He is a great dancer and had a group in school, so I suggested he should consider training the students in dance;salsa, ballet etc. He was excited. I proposed the idea to the board and he was hired as the choreographer. He did an EXCELLENT job!

Next, I had an idea for weddings, talked to him about it and we made business cards. He was the MD and I Business development manager. Our biggest client was from him. (An aunt of his).

Shortly, he went for NYSC and I secured another job in another city. I developed his resume and would check for jobs online, write cover letter and apply on his behalf.

Now, several years after. I am AMAZED at the man he has become! I am soo proud of him. He is a sales Engineer, confident, driven and dedicated. He once told me he used to think he couldn't get a job without connections. But now, he doesn't think there's any interview he'll go for that he wouldn't scale through. I remember, I used to prep him for interviews back then.

I asked him recently, where that unmotivated, timid guy was, and he gave me one kind look. LOL. Now, I don't have to do any of those work I used to do because he is on top of his game.

I really thank God because even his mum, turned around and loved me when she saw the direction her son's life was headed and realized he was at his best with me in his life.

In summary, I just want to say, we should endeavor to make an impact in the lives of people we encounter. 9months is too short to give up on him. Give it your best, if it means finding time to search for jobs with him and even applying on his behalf, do it. His seeming controlling nature may just be because he feels insecure. Help him get past the insecurities. I believe the role of a woman is to build up her man, to help him reach his full potentials. That is why there is no end to how high a man can rise if he's got a good woman by his side.

That laid back dude today can become a driven, goal oriented man tomorrow. Mine is a living proof. he is not just an Engineer, he got certified in HSE and picked up great designing skills. I once got a contract to supply table top calendars. He designed it and managed the printing process. I would have spent 100k, paying a designer for the designs. He stays dedicated to tasks and wouldn't give up until he has seen it through. I didn't see these qualities in him before and wouldn't have known it was in there if I gave up on him.

All the best gurl.

Ogheneyoma- God is good
Eseoghene- God's gift
Uvieoghene- The kingdom of God

Thank you sis',I'm vexed because goods that one sells to the public is supposed to be treated with all carefulness in the world.

urchbarbie:
Just let it go. Altho av read of someone wining a case like dat, i tink its guiness. If u rily want to cpmlain, go dier office n they could settle u out of court with crates of sprite #winks

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I didn't upload an international passport too.

kenkristoph:
Wow....congrats and all the best in your application process...pls I want to know your qualifications and whether u uploaded all your documents including international passport cos I didn't get any mail and I uploaded all required documents except international passport. Pls I'd be happy if u reply...

I guess you are the only one here that was sent a message or could it be in batches?

jayplect:
Good day. The ExxonMobil simple psychometric & aptitude test has been sent to your provided email address following your recent application, which will be used as one of our final candidate pre-employment assessment. You are to answer and submit latest 12:00pm 17th march 2015. Good luck

otimothy:
im a guy however tunji is cruel,we guys know whom we want to date or marry after 6months and he stringed her along for 11 years,mehn that fellow is stone livered cos he aint got no heart.

Please bro' what are the telltale signs that a guy is gonna marry a lady he's dating especially when he promises the lady in question marriage when he's financially stable?I'm asking coz you said guys know whom they're gonna marry after 6 months. Thank you.


From An Inquisitive learner.

Airforce1:
even if I sneeze e go get likes

Take heart bro',no likes at the time of this quote. Don't be so full of yourself. God bless you.

MisterLongman:
Bros brain don spark

[color=#000000]Serves him right [/color]

searching4love:

SO YOU SAW TWO USED CONDOMS PROVES WHAT DID YOU MET HIM ON TOP OF ANOTHER WOMAN IF I WERE THE GUY I WILL SEND U PACKING LIKE A PIECE OF GARBAGE. IF YOU CAN'T TRUST HIM IN LITTLE THINGS THEN YOU DON'T DESERVE TO BE A WIFE IF WE DIG DEEP INTO YOUR AFFAIRS NOW YOU WILL SURELY HAVE OTHER GUYS SHINING YOUR CONGO TOO SO WHATS THE FUSS ABOUT MANY OF YOU GIRLS THINK YOU CAN EAT YOUR CAKE AND HAVE IT. AFTER SO MANY YEARS OF SLEEPING WITH VARIOUS MEN ALL IN THE NAME OF LOVE, YOU THINK YOU CAN HOOK A NIGGA TO BE THE PERFECT MAN FOR YOU. I DON'T PITY YOU AND IF I WAS THE GUY I WILL BEAT YOU WITH MY BELT BUCKLES BEFORE I THROW YOUR ASS OUT NONSENSE

you're SICK,you're a PSYCHO. Your place is in the funny farm,that's where you belong! Psycho of a being!

gegeski:
Mine is 6yrs bt am happy bcus itts beta dan dox whose year are 00.

Even better than those whose numbers end with 90-99,Rotfl.

All of you calling Preetygina names,she aint telling a lie,there was a test held in Abia state polytechnic,Aba,2 saturdays ago(7/2/2015). And congratulatory messages were sent to those who were successful on friday night,the 13th of feb.2015. The next stage which I presume is the Interview stage is coming up next. Mind you this recruitment process is for Entry level positions. So quit calling her names and apologize where you erred.

sexyseun:
At the Bolded, what does that even mean? Ex- best friend? SMH

Meaning his wife is now his New Best friend.

@ Besto et al please can you help us with someone looking for a roomie(male) or any cheap accomodation. Please do well to PM me,so we can discuss. Thanks

PrinceGozie:
There's a room 4 120k wit water nd well fenced,,, anoda two of 130k (one @CHS nd one @ sandfield).. wit water too nd good achitecture... Dere re odas of 100k nd 90k bt ma guy hz nt chkd dem out... If itz too xpensive, den get a roomie,, ah nid a roomie too... (Male)... Am a 200lvl student... Biochemistry....

Please my younger bro' is a jambito n looking for a roomie,do you mind? He's already in school. Please pm me if you haven't gotten a roomie yet. Thanks

Can this be true?

kazyman11: Three Sections: Verbal 25, Quantitative 20 n Critical 5.
You something like Nearest in Meaning, Opposite in Meaning too. I want to believe DAT that selection of location of test recruit is for 3PA,Meet d Executive n d rest it all about casual work (Marketing). because I work wit Sterling bfor on contract so I HV guys in d HR Der.

kazyman11: For those DAT received d successful mail congrat once more...Entry Level salary 180k... plz for dose thinking der iz going to b a second batch plz forget it n move on...dey invited 200applicant for d test only 90 was picked based on d result..

Source: https://www.nairaland.com/1983477/sterling-bank-calls-test-else/4

[quote author=olapo
]Hello house. I got employed by sterling bank about 5months ago and I can tell you it's one of the best places to work in Nigeria.The pay is fantastic and you have an avenue to develop yourself. The recruitment process can be long. I waited almost a year to be called to training school. Which was fun, six weeks of food,fun,rigorous tests and all. Sterling test takes place at workforce,interviews at the head office in marina and training at Ikeja.
I was employed as an executive trainee.
Just be patient, the test is pure GMAT and interviews not tough just be confident and practice what you can add to the bank to make it better and be hopeful. Score 70% in all courses in training school you are good to go.[/quote]Source:
https://www.nairaland.com/1983477/sterling-bank-calls-test-else/2

cooltare:
I reside at lagos. ..I ave no relation at bayelsa...do u ave any vacant one that if I come jan13....I will pay the money and start living once pls help me out....

please I'm interested too,pls if anyone knows of a vacant room,please kindly pm me. Thanks.

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desoul2004:
ok

please respond to the mail,so I can discuss with you. Thanks

desoul2004:
Is't an objective questions?

Desoul2004 please I sent you a pm

Hello People,we have a plot of land for sale -100 by 100 at Abraka, Delta State, at a very considerate price. Please pm me if you're interested.

N.B: This is no scam,it's genuine. Thank you. Compliments of the season.

Hello People,we have a plot of land for sale -100 by 100 at Abraka, Delta State, at a very considerate price. Please pm me if you're interested.

N.B: This is no scam,it's genuine. Thank you. Compliments of the season.

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tradeplusib:
Please move aside because your post is pathetic. Do you prostrate in homage after paying someone for a service?!

Thanks to sir Lagtech and sir Jimmy,I've picked up my accessories and additional bonus. God continue to flourish your businesses.

Thanks

Besto:
dean of student affairs situated @newsite

Please where should one go for the hostel registration/application?

jimitacomputer:
FOXIE, HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU.... I WISH U D VERY BEST. JIMMY

Thank you my Oga,I really do appreciate.

lagtech:
Happy Birthday to @Foxie. We appreciate your business. When you pick up from Jimmy during the weekend-there will be gift there for you. Working hard on your Black Friday items.

Thanks so much sir.

dannytwix:
you would have to apply for it, application hasn't started though, you'll know here when it starts

Thanks so much.

johntheguru:
i think it's payment of departmental fees and faculty fees.. During d process u may require evidences such as school fees reciept/teller and others..then after that, then go to ur faculty and collect course enrollment form which u'll fill..then go to ur department, where u'll be given a small green card...then the next step is medical test which u'll carry out(x-ray inclusive)... U can go to d school for more info or call some of their care-numbers.

Thanks JTG. Please how can one get school hostel accomodation?

johntheguru:
yea... No date for now..

Ok. So after payment of school fees,what's next?