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tensazangetsu:
RADIO BIAFRA HAS REACHED ABUJA NEXT IS LAGOS

pls hw do I get it in abuja?

bbel:
I need advice....I have this guy, we have been together for 3yrs but he cheated last yr june, and I found out, he promised it wont happen again, but as at early jan, he started chatting with dis girl, even till 12midnight, but he says there is ntn going on btw him and the girl, when the girl calls he doesn't pick whenever am around bt when am nt around he picks, once he even lied that he was going to see a friend only for me to find out he took the girl to his house, I have tried everything....what should I do??...cus now we have distance between us...

talk to him nd find out why he is doing all that to yu, if there's the need to amend it if nt move on.

bbel:
I need advice....I have this guy, we have been together for 3yrs but he cheated last yr june, and I found out, he promised it wont happen again, but as at early jan, he started chatting with dis girl, even till 12midnight, but he says there is ntn going on btw him and the girl, when the girl calls he doesn't pick whenever am around bt when am nt around he picks, once he even lied that he was going to see a friend only for me to find out he took the girl to his house, I have tried everything....what should I do??...cus now we have distance between us...

talk to him nd find out why he is doing all that to yu, if there's the need to amend it if nt move on....

andromida:
Actions speak louder than words. You should definitely tell him you feel uncomfortable about his lukewarm attitude towards your relationship and its makes you doubt if he really wants you. If he can wake up and be the man for you then all good if its all talk and no action on his part then you have to reevaluate if this is the kind of relationship you want to be in because constant communication is important in a relationship if this is what you need and he is unable or unwilling to give it to you be prepared to make yourself available for a man who wants the type of relationship you want.



Follow his actions he didn't use your picture on your birthday, you don't use his picture on his birthday this is not tit for tat but following his leadership in the relationship if he wants to keep his investment at minimum level then you keep yours at minimum level too. Try not to concern yourself with why he has refused to use your pictures on his dp he has told you, you have to go first which all looks like games to me. If he is lukewarm and acting like a friend then that is what he is.

I encourage you to date other men who are interested in you to avoid settling for a barely there relationship and possibly discover a better type of relationship for yourself.

the guy is just selfish.

uniquelycool:
my second question
His birthday is nextweek, and he's really looking forward to me using his pic on my dp with a romantic PM..but he has never used my pic on his dp or a pic of both of us, when i asked him about it, he said its till I use his pic on my dp, that's when he'll use my pic on his dp..And it got me thinking cos it sounded like a condition..I see other guys putting up their gf's pic on their dp's with nice status, so why should his own be different Pls advice me on what to do because i can't use his pic on my dp with any romantic msg for his birthday because he has never used my pic on his dp..Its jst unfortunate that his birthday is around the corner(nextweek) and mine has passed..pls why do u think he has refused to use my pic on his dp..its really not a big deal, but little things like this matters a lot..Please advice me!!

if yu can't live with such act from him move on abeg.
relationships ain't made to be 1 sided nd it can't survive without communications

malele:
need som advice on what really went wrong.

I was chatting with a girl (my town girl sha) via BBM last year September, during Christmas we later met in there home town which happens to be mine hometown too. She really liked me.
Infact our house is 3mins away from each other house.

When we met in the Christmas, I spent some time with her family, I was really impressed.
After Christmas we went to our different states to work, I stay in lag, she stays in PH , but I made it a routine to be visiting her every end of month.
My first visit, I told her ma intention, I was straight, I told her am coming for marriage, I also told her no sex till after our intro (wanted her to know am not coming to have sex and run).she accepted to date me, though I didn't realise that because I was waiting for her to give me a yes reply.
I call her twice a day to know how she is doing in the PH, I really love her, I even told her to come to lag so that I can introduce her to ma people atleast let them know her.

Fourth month into the year, I noticed her phone is always biz when I call, our communication began to drop.
She now fares up over little things.
I told her to let me know ma faith in the relationship.
She didn't give me a reply.

I decided when I get to PH I will see whether I can resolve things.

When I got to PH I was faced with a long list
From her.
Some of the things in the list includes
I don't make her feel like a woman.
she does not think I find her attractive.
I don't encourage or scold her.
A lot she wrote.
Because of that she pulled the plug.
Am still in pain cause I gave a lot into the relationship and I really wanted it to lead to matrimony.
my question is, we're did I go wrong,
Cause she told me I did nothing wrong, just that the connection was not there again.
I still like this girl.
The surprising thing is she calls back anytime she see ma missed call.
Is there anything I can do to win her back.
I bought her some designers perfume which I told her before she broke up with me, should I still send it to her

well bro in my little sense as a man I'd want yu to ask her again what is her stand with yu, cuz I don't see the essence of giving much with nothing in return, talk to her later today, don't go see her nw talk on the phone ask her what she wants the relationship or nt..after yu hv asked her whatever she says don't call her for like a week nd see if she will chase yu if nt forget her.. Make sure yu guys talk things out well, yu get? Then after that leave her for awhile.
Good luck to yu.

malele:
need som advice on what really went wrong.

I was chatting with a girl (my town girl sha) via BBM last year September, during Christmas we later met in there home town which happens to be mine hometown too. She really liked me.
Infact our house is 3mins away from each other house.

When we met in the Christmas, I spent some time with her family, I was really impressed.
After Christmas we went to our different states to work, I stay in lag, she stays in PH , but I made it a routine to be visiting her every end of month.
My first visit, I told her ma intention, I was straight, I told her am coming for marriage, I also told her no sex till after our intro (wanted her to know am not coming to have sex and run).she accepted to date me, though I didn't realise that because I was waiting for her to give me a yes reply.
I call her twice a day to know how she is doing in the PH, I really love her, I even told her to come to lag so that I can introduce her to ma people atleast let them know her.

Fourth month into the year, I noticed her phone is always biz when I call, our communication began to drop.
She now fares up over little things.
I told her to let me know ma faith in the relationship.
She didn't give me a reply.

I decided when I get to PH I will see whether I can resolve things.

When I got to PH I was faced with a long list
From her.
Some of the things in the list includes
I don't make her feel like a woman.
she does not think I find her attractive.
I don't encourage or scold her.
A lot she wrote.
Because of that she pulled the plug.
Am still in pain cause I gave a lot into the relationship and I really wanted it to lead to matrimony.
my question is, we're did I go wrong,
Cause she told me I did nothing wrong, just that the connection was not there again.
I still like this girl.
The surprising thing is she calls back anytime she see ma missed call.
Is there anything I can do to win her back.
I bought her some designers perfume which I told her before she broke up with me, should I still send it to her

well bro in my little sense as a man I'd want yu to ask again what is her stand with yu, cuz I don't see the essence of giving much with nothing return, talk to her later today, don't go see her nw talk on the phone ask her what she want the relationship or nt..after yu hv asked her whatever she says don't call her for like a week nd see if she will chase yu if nt forget her.. Make sure yu guys talk things out well, yu get? The after that leave for awhile
Good luck to yu.

cannonnier:
Happy you. Want to donate mine, but nobody is applying.

hi! Bro I greet yu all, this is good I hv been thinking of what to do about my hearing wahala for long till I saw a guy wearing the device well me nt knowing what it is used my number 6 nd here I am I jst hope I never late cuz it is better I am late than never..... Abeg I go need to hv 1 of those, if una go help me let me knw I beg? Thanks
God bless us all.

EggovinMma:
Nairaland errs and bad belle. Allow guys wey like the babe to compete na.

I like yu..

axiliborha:
Silence they say is the best answer for a fool... I rest my case

nne! Hw old r yo? 16?

Mcbussy:
Lolz... it seems u have no idea what genes mean, and probably u have not stumbled on d terms; dominant & recessive genes b4. It's not every child from tall parents that have d tendency of being tall. Trust me, some genes from as far as 4 generations before have a way of resurfacing.

I think I'd rather invest on intelligence than physical attributes. That's what has gotten mankind to this stage. Man isn't fittest and ultimate predator because of height and muscle mass.

Don't get all sentimental... I ain't short, I'm 5'8

biko still tella ha.

Rilwayne001:
Chai....Better wake up from your dream

biko tell ha!

kkkossy:
The snapping of the finger instigates completeness and manliness. Unlike when u shake a lady

yu be real G!

j0rdannkyle:
I think you should go ahead and meet up with her, from there you can really know what she's about. If she's for real or no. Cos there are a apple lotta things you can't tell just from phone conversations, and chats. But when u meet up, you can tell for sure...

yes! Thanks I will go see her, when she returns to her base this weekend......

Bless yu!

playboy99:
if it sealed dere wuld b nowhr to catch fun on NL.mayb one day sum1 wuld give testimony of finding is or her luv on NL #ACE

I am waiting....

sandrannna:
U r bleaching.

I fall for this, prove to her that yu r real?

playboy99:
lol who is looking invicible luv on NL d person must b as clueless as ******** #ACE

if so then romance section need's to b sealed.... Then person go hear word.

[quote author=BUTCHCASSIDY post=35120622][/quote]the face had said enough, yu knw..

BUTCHCASSIDY:
Indeed it is how guys can be easily fooled

Johnny walker.......this na walking 100Mt runs..

sandrannna:
Yeah, I did bt u fell in luv with his ryhmes first, so he should go for u.

D rhymes are crappy.

I hear yu! Crappy indeed.

sandrannna:
This goes out to the guys who luv me, pour out ur luv in writing.

well my kinda guy is nt good in writing, but rather good in acting..


yur head is sparkling..............brightly.

sandrannna:
That girl is already tripping for ur rhymes, go for her.

Dis is lovely bt nt stupendous.

it was meant for yu.

sholikay:
lovely you said,. But it has never got me any girl.

hahahahaha! eyaa

Maybe the grammar aplenty, use small nd then act..

vizkiz:
I think your dad wants some
E still dey body!
Abeg leave the old man alone let him have fun a little.

I think something went down during that period she came visiting... I smell something fishy

By the way, I have a feeling pop man use to do all these small girl in those campus at night!

Abeg na Joke oh, before them kidnap me for here!

nd tonight feels like the night that yu come here to joke? Akpa amu!

Mhizizzy:
Are u a yahoo boy?

why nt come find out of that.... Btw r yu a runs babe? cuz I don't allow those with worries look for me..

hi! Hw r yu doing? Pls what do yu think on this? Met her online then I asked her out thou she stays in another state working there, but nw she is on leave, well she said she won't say yes or no till we see... But what I didn't get is why is that some times when I call her she won't answer nor call back, but any time I call again if she picks we would talk for minutes nd she always sounds eager for me to come see her.... I don't understand why she does that? Abi na game she dey play with me?
What do yu think pls? Thanks... Make I leave her?

AsanwaKC:
you have big yansh?..yes
you have big breas-t? ..yes
then you are fit for the job

good for yu, thou becareful with the job.. If yu follow, yu fit get hunted...

It beats me so hard to get around this thing some girls do....yu knw, no matter what they can never get enough which leads most of them to the butcher's table........ Kai!

Mhizizzy:
Funny

Ask yahoo boys d questions too

nd hw r yu gonna ask that to a yahoo Bobo?