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Luak:
. Ladies in such situations will usually ask for time to think about it. If that was the case, then she should continue with the friendship while working hard inorder to give him an answer within the agreed timeline.

the man should have ask her in private

a lesson to all guys,before you propose, be sure of the person's answer. public proposal shouldn't be done until you are very sure

some of you who are saying the girl should have accepted in public and rejected it secretly, have you thought of her public image? do you know how many girls are lord of the rings? no lady should accept a marriage proposal until that man start planning for the wedding.

Have you ever trusted a person so much,who had the ability or resources to do something for you but never did it? Have you been in a situation where you thought that all you need will be met by some particular persons because they are your close friends or relations? Sometimes we even go to God in prayers while thinking that God will answer us using those persons. Just because He used your uncle the last time doesn't mean He will use him again. He may use your uncle to start a business for you, but He can also use a friend or other means to substain the business. He may use your aunty to start paying your school fees and He can use someone else to continue paying the fees for you.
We rely so much on one way that God must answer. We set our hearts always on a particular method through which God must answer, but God has A MILLION WAYS to meet your needs. Have you ever wondered why trees do not have one branch'. Trees always have several branches so that the farmer will always have fruits. The branch that bears more fruits this year may bear less or may even be cut off before the following season. The other branches will continue to bear fruit for the farmer. God made it like that.
In the same way, God has many 'branches' or ways to answer you.
Even if the brother says he can't marry you, God has more than A MILLION WAYS to bring you the best suitor. Don't look at the calendar (time), look at the commander (God).
Stop limiting Him by believing only. Your true position in prayer should not be who God is going to use. Your true position is to believe. Mark 9: 23 says "all things are possible to him that believes". Remember God has A MILLION WAYS.
frankinspires

Have you ever trusted a person so much,who had the ability or resources to do something for you but never did it? Have you been in a situation where you thought that all you need will be met by some particular persons because they are your close friends or relations? Sometimes we even go to God in prayers while thinking that God will answer us using those persons. Just because He used your uncle the last time doesn't mean He will use him again. He may use your uncle to start a business for you, but He can also use a friend or other means to substain the business. He may use your aunty to start paying your school fees and He can use someone else to continue paying the fees for you.
We rely so much on one way that God must answer. We set our hearts always on a particular method through which God must answer, but God has A MILLION WAYS to meet your needs. Have you ever wondered why trees do not have one branch'. Trees always have several branches so that the farmer will always have fruits. The branch that bears more fruits this year may bear less or may even be cut off before the following season. The other branches will continue to bear fruit for the farmer. God made it like that.
In the same way, God has many 'branches' or ways to answer you.
Even if the brother says he can't marry you, God has more than A MILLION WAYS to bring you the best suitor. Don't look at the calendar (time), look at the commander (God).
Stop limiting Him by believing only. Your true position in prayer should not be who God is going to use. Your true position is to believe. Mark 9: 23 says "all things are possible to him that believes". Remember God has A MILLION WAYS.

*God has A Million Ways*
Have you ever trusted a person so much,who had the ability or resources to do something for you but never did it? Have you been in a situation where you thought that all you need will be met by some particular persons because they are your close friends or relations? Sometimes we even go to God in prayers while thinking that God will answer us using those persons. Just because He used your uncle the last time doesn't mean He will use him again. He may use your uncle to start a business for you, but He can also use a friend or other means to substain the business. He may use your aunty to start paying your school fees and He can use someone else to continue paying the fees for you.
We rely so much on one way that God must answer. We set our hearts always on a particular method through which God must answer, but God has A MILLION WAYS to meet your needs. Have you ever wondered why trees do not have one branch'. Trees always have several branches so that the farmer will always have fruits. The branch that bears more fruits this year may bear less or may even be cut off before the following season. The other branches will continue to bear fruit for the farmer. God made it like that.
In the same way, God has many 'branches' or ways to answer you.
Even if the brother says he can't marry you, God has more than A MILLION WAYS to bring you the best suitor. Don't look at the calendar (time), look at the commander (God).
Stop limiting Him by believing only. Your true position in prayer should not be who God is going to use. Your true position is to believe. Mark 9: 23 says "all things are possible to him that believes". Remember God has A MILLION WAYS.
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sleeping with your brother's wife on the same bed is totally wrong. how can you even think such? To avoid sin, you must avoid the scene. No one will ever believe you., you are totally wrong for touching her. I believe you have a future, don't lose hope inspite of the trials u are facing now. it will surely pass away but my only thought is this scenario will be hard to forget.
firstly, don't fight with your brother even if he wants a fight. he is only acting based on his emotions.if u were in his shoes, u might have done worse.
secondly, take out time to report to your parents, or elder people in the family, and let them settle this
thirdly, call your brother when he is calm.
fourthly Pray and take a seed of Faith to God on the altar of prayers because nothing is too impossible for God to do Jeremiah 37:26. Mark 9'23

You need to pray now, let God take over.

*Comparison is the mother of all jealousy*
Have you ever wondered why the Manuel of a car is different from that of a bike or a bicycle? Have you ever wondered why a cup will not complain that 'its fellow called 'plate' always carries the food? Or have you ever wondered why the spoon doesn't say i am supposed to be the one in the fire? Each kitchen utensils or cutleries helps to make its own contribution. Just because an axe is big doesn't mean a razor is not important. We are all important. A bitter leaf in the mouth is bitter but it is very good for the stomach. You cannot write yourself off because of comparison. You are needed in this world no matter the level you are in right now. Stop using others' manual to read your life. Life is a journey,it is not a competition. Life is like a contribution. All the kitchen utensils helps to make the soup taste better. Even the bitter leaf is very useful when you apply it to the right soup. You are not what you say you are. Your true identify is in the Word.
Stop comparing,start contribution your quota . If no one appreciate your contribution, appreciate yourself.Be the best you can be. Never forget " people's success are not your failures and vice versa. Just because others are succeeding doesn't mean that you are failing
Keep trying, keep moving and keep working. Your Light will keep shining more and more if you don't give up

written by me ENABULELE Francis
I like writing articles to show Hope,Love and Compassion

*Comparison is the mother of all jealousy*
Have you ever wondered why the Manuel of a car is different from that of a bike or a bicycle? Have you ever wondered why a cup will not complain that 'its fellow called 'plate' always carries the food? Or have you ever wondered why the spoon doesn't say i am supposed to be the one in the fire? Each kitchen utensils or cutleries helps to make its own contribution. Just because an axe is big doesn't mean a razor is not important. We are all important. A bitter leaf in the mouth is bitter but it is very good for the stomach. You cannot write yourself off because of comparison. You are needed in this world no matter the level you are in right now. Stop using others' manual to read your life. Life is a journey,it is not a competition. Life is like a contribution. All the kitchen utensils helps to make the soup taste better. Even the bitter leaf is very useful when you apply it to the right soup. You are not what you say you are. Your true identify is in the Word.
Stop comparing,start contribution your quota . If no one appreciate your contribution, appreciate yourself.Be the best you can be. Never forget " people's success are not your failures and vice versa. Just because others are succeeding doesn't mean that you are failing
Keep trying, keep moving and keep working. Your Light will keep shining more and more if you don't give up

written by me ENABULELE Francis
I like writing articles to show Hope,Love and Compassion

*Comparison is the mother of all jealousy*
Have you ever wondered why the Manuel of a car is different from that of a bike or a bicycle? Have you ever wondered why a cup will not complain that 'its fellow called 'plate' always carries the food? Or have you ever wondered why the spoon doesn't say i am supposed to be the one in the fire? Each kitchen utensils or cutleries helps to make its own contribution. Just because an axe is big doesn't mean a razor is not important. We are all important. A bitter leaf in the mouth is bitter but it is very good for the stomach. You cannot write yourself off because of comparison. You are needed in this world no matter the level you are in right now. Stop using others' manual to read your life. Life is a journey,it is not a competition. Life is like a contribution. All the kitchen utensils helps to make the soup taste better. Even the bitter leaf is very useful when you apply it to the right soup. You are not what you say you are. Your true identify is in the Word.
Stop comparing,start contribution your quota . If no one appreciate your contribution, appreciate yourself.Be the best you can be. Never forget " people's success are not your failures and vice versa. Just because others are succeeding doesn't mean that you are failing
Keep trying, keep moving and keep working. Your Light will keep shining more and more if you don't give up

written by me ENABULELE Francis
I like writing articles to show Hope,Love and Compassion