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[quote author=Oly23 post=56393001]You practically took the words out of my mouth! Like seriously that's what I was just thinking about!! And seeing some comments didn't even help my mood!! Why must she be the one to compromise completely!! He refused the employment of a househelp and insists she resigns from a job she loves why?? Because she is a woman and so has no right to what gives her joy apart from her family!!thats bullshit abeg![/quote

No mind them, speaking from experience my parents both had good jobs and my mom didn't quit even after she had us.....when things weren't going smoothly business wise she was the one carrying the family. Some men go just they para anyhow but never doubt that some of us know that marriage is not a dictatorship or one sided.

bimberry1307:
guy, your head get oil. #kisses

It's the truth tho

but let me still take the kisses

marvwhite:
abandoned ship!!

I repeat 'abandon ship'



abort ship,this story ain't gonna make it to the end


#too bad

Update don land ooo

marvwhite:
*running and shouting* ghostwritter done post oh!


freakthingz Jasmine4 Hollysaint JOMAX LilSmith55 mhizv come and see




thanks for the update sir

Thanks I don wait tire, might have missed it if not for you

Nah this is that African mentality the woman must be submissive no compromise...she must quit her job, no part time option. I've read too many horror stories about this thing

Now if tomorrow turns bad she's penniless with no options....

They can get a house help with good background check

He can help as well if she can take care of two kids, her job, still cook and clean then he can do his job and still help

We african men always claiming strong, I'm sure his job ain't that strenous physically


Also when she was pregnant, he still wanted to smash its hard but seriously a full human being is growing in that woman....just too selfish

ghostwritter:
thanks a lot sir, I understand ur point. I had considered all these but I need a strong link to the editors and publishers who can understand my kind of works and person...I have more interesting write-up I had finished in print form but all this naija editors will tell "what sought of scary thing is this, try and be realistic like contemporary writers" and I get discouraged and it makes me feel my works will only get appreciated by few if I get them printed out. I know nothing about publishers.

Nah don't let people discourage you stay true to yourself that is what seperates you from everyone else. Have you read any Stephen King novels they are gory and scary, that was how his books where rejected by publisher after publisher. Now he is one of the biggest horror writers with film adaptations sef.

Keep going I will try and check out some publishers in the U.k and Ireland, try and get in touch with other nairaland writers with experience. Same as you I don't really know much but I really believe in your work especially this story. Keep going

ghostwritter:
OMG!!!
for the first time ever, I made front page....Na God win....GOD I THANK YOU O!!
Truth be told, my next post for the write-up is unknown to me, I end up wondering if someone else is writing the story through me....and I think it's GOD.
For all it is, I pray HE inspires me to getting this write-up to the highest level...(I really hope to get all my works to the big screen some day).

Make sure you copyright your stuff then get in touch with editors and book publishers, not just in naija try abroad too....

I'm in europe and theres a market for African books if its high quality......no dul Oh

Bro I'm hooked as I was reading this story I was just hoping you didn't leave it uncompleted




Please continu

Please na beg we dey beg