₦airaland Forum

Jennyclay:
Even if she's 32 years old, she has every right to plan how her wedding would be.

Just tell her your budget probably she might work with it.

All I can see here is a broke poverty stricken man ranting up and down.

Men who don't have anything are the ones making noise. an empty barrel makes the most noise

Nonsense!!

Aunty, go and work for your own money.

Iyaebe:
Leave her alone, God will bless her with a man that'll more than take care of her.That's how all these oversabi elder brothers will not allow someone rest and have fun, they'll be behaving like monitoring spirit. Leave her alooooooooooooooone oooooooo.Raspberries what do you think?

You this witch.
So the guy should watch her younger sister go astray abi?

Your elder brothers watched men over used your pussy doesn't mean everybody should be like your elder brother.

Witch.

Jennyclay:
Whenever a man is on heat like a community dog, he can promise a lady heaven on earth. After the sex, for him to honor his promises it a big problem for him.

He must have promised her probably 2 million naira but only to give her just #370 after sex. We need her type in Nigeria, so that she can bite off the ears of those promise and fail men.

Serves the man the right. Next time he would learn to fulfill his promises.

Witch

lilyheaven:
This is a good advice, or she can go with her girl to the shop, once she starts feeling irritated, she can come back home leaving her girl at the shop.
By the time she delivers her baby, her girl would have mastered everything about the business.
Please OP, take care of your wife, this is her first pregnancy, don’t compare her with other pregnant mothers.

My agreement with the maid was domestic chores and running errands not going to shop with my wife. Now I will have to increase her salary if she start following her to shop which I know that's what my wife is trying to manipulate me into but I won't fall for her trick besides I have lot of expenses to take care of this period.

I can never compare my wife with any woman, I take good care of my wife. I've already promised her a car as soon as our child arrives so it would be easy for her move around.

I just want her to be hardworking, the laziness is getting too much even before the pregnancy.

Candidlady:
Since you her very well why complain now




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Hmmm
Again since you know her well it means she didn't just start exhibiting this spirit of laziness yesterday

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iam sorry I still need to hear from her




How old is your maid ?

I know she didn't start today, Infact when I told her to get a master degree and probably get an office job. she said "No oo, BSc is her last bus-stop she's not wole soyinka".

My maid should be 25yrs. Why the interrogation? Please I need advice I'm so confused right now.

YinkaOlusesi:
Mr man dont stress yourself too much, am also into baking, that`s my profession, i can manage the business for her if you are ready to pay me well, i need work.

That's the issue, I have lots of expenses I do take care of, that's why I said for now I don't want to employ any worker. I also need to discuss it with my wife.

Besides where is your location? Mine is airport road, Benin city.

Candidlady:
Ibelive she has an explanation to all you stated up there, so Iwill wait till ihear from her

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You have a maid who you pay 20k monthly, how old is she ?

she has no explanation, if she have any explanation she would have tell me, Infact we communicate real good.

She is just lazy, I know her very well, and she is not making profit because she loosing customers.

Someone that refuse to get a job before i considered opening a business for her. She loves doing nothing and she's so skillful.

My job requires critical thinking and full of deadlines, I work from mon - Fri, I return home as late as 9pm, my weekends seems like I'm working from home. Seriously, I don't want to manage her business in addition to my work, Please I'm human, I'm not a robot or machine, blood runs through my vains not wires.

The Business I opened for my wife is worth over a million naira, she sells baking flour, baking utensils and baking ingredients. She is also skillful in baking cakes, she has customers. She delivers cakes to Mat-ice, for those of us in Benin will know Mat-ice.

Though she is 5 months pregnant (our first child) but that is not enough reason why she would stay at home besides she's fond of it even before the pregnancy, she goes to her shop 10 or 11am return 3pm, sometimes she won't go at all. if I question her she would say she's working from home that if any customer need her services, she will send the maid to her shop to attend to them. (and that wasn't part of our agreement with the maid)

There are some lazy traits she's exhibiting that I'm just enduring, I can't even write them here or speak out else even my great grandfather and my ancestors will come out from their grave with cane, put me in the middle and flog endurance out of my body. Honestly speaking I've really endured enough.

Now that we are expecting our child I want her to be hard working, so she can support our child financially, everything shouldn't be me alone. She's a graduate from BIU and she can't manage her business.

Please don't suggest sales girl, I don't trust them, aside from that I just employed a maid and she's on salary of 20k every month. I can't afford to pay any worker for now.

Please how do I manage her business, I feel I've wasted money venturing into the business she knows and understands.

That's why it's good to do DNA test

LesbianBoy:
Can you imagine! Men are becoming stupid by the day o.

No wonder women are now shouting equality up and down! Because they have seen that they can use the head of men

My parents didn't train me to be a woman beater.

Pls Help.

I married my beautiful wife January this year, I Love my wife so much, I have never cheated on her since we got married. I opened a business for her worth 900k. i've already promised her a car this coming year (well I ride camry muscle and I'm tired of sharing the car with her).

My wife is too lazy, all she cares about is her eye lashes, make-up, nails and watching Zeeworld all day, She goes to her shop 10am and return 3pm, She barely take care of the house. Sometimes the plate I used for breakfast before going to work would still be on the dining table unwashed when I return. Her make-up tools and bag littered everywhere in our sitting room.

We're expecting our 1st child, Now that She's pregnant (4 months) she's worst. Na so so chop chop, I will jokingly say babe Pls don't go out of shape I won't look ur side again, Is like the more I beg, the more she chop chop. ...weird food carvings. Coconut water and bread, shawarma and pepper soup with sugar cane in her hand, I dare not buy it for her otherwise I won't sleep.

I still cook when I'm back from work. Anytime I tried to talk to her, she would say can't I see she's pregnant, she's having waist pain, leg pain, Infact body pains. I wanted to employ a maid she refused, she spoke ill about maids, she said they are husband snatchers e.t.c.

3 days ago, She asked me to renew our dstv sub and I refused. Yesterday I noticed she has done it (first time). I saw her watching Zeeworld, laughing sheepishly and pointing to the TV, I needed to watch man united match so I changed the channel, she dragged the remote control from me and changed it back to Zeeworld, she said I'm too stingy, I didn't sub for her, I refused to buy her a car.

I don't know what to do. With her lazy attitude I'm scared during delivery she would be saying I can't push o.

Experienced men help a brother.