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Hi everyone,
I have two close female friends. They are my closest friends in my school. One of them is married while the other is not. I'm very free with both of them and I love and cherish our relationship. I have a girlfriend as well but she is away for the moment. Recently I started noticing that I'm kind of sexually attracted to the unmarried one, and nothing more. Just sexual attraction. I'm beginning to think about what sex with her would feel like. I'm really confused. I'm even trying to keep my distance from her cos I don't want to do something that would jeopardize our relationship. All I want is to have sex with her and get it off my system. Would have opened up to her and told her but I don't know how she would react to it. I don't know what to do? What do you think.

ElFenomeno1: Tell John to break off his relationship and go fu..ck a h..o somewhere.

Why cheat? why go into a relationship with a girl who wont be dropping the pants till after marriage?

If he cant wait, break the relationship off and go find a single needy person or a fu...cksluuuuut

Lastly, warn your friend not to go near the needy girl with a boyfriend far away!

if I may ask, why shouldn't he go near the needy girl with a boyfriend? And what about the one that just broke up with her boyfriend??

psychologist: Something in me is telling me that op's real name is john

op's name is Fredrick, john is op's friend

Xenaf: In need of wot ?

sex

I have a friend who is in some sort of dilemma. He has been in a relationship with a girl for more than two years, they both love each other and wish to spend their forever together. But there is a problem. This girl is a virgin and is dedicated to remaining so till she gets married. Now my guy has been deprived of sex for 2 years and is likely to be deprived of sex for as long as 5 extra years. He has been able to put himself together for d time being because they have been together (i.e within the same location) all the while, but now they are apart in location and so would be for the next five years. John (my friend) recently told me that he was getting closer to two different female friends and that he was sexually attracted to them. One of them whose name is Tanya has a boyfriend who resides in a very far state from where she is and she kind of gets needy atimes. The other one whose name is rachel broke up with her boyfriend about 2months ago and is also kind of needy. John is sort of confused as he doesn't want to ruin his friendship with these girls and his relationship with his girlfriend. But at the same time, john is needy and doesn't know what to do. Please what do you advice.