I have a friend who is in some sort of dilemma. He has been in a relationship with a girl for more than two years, they both love each other and wish to spend their forever together. But there is a problem. This girl is a virgin and is dedicated to remaining so till she gets married. Now my guy has been deprived of sex for 2 years and is likely to be deprived of sex for as long as 5 extra years. He has been able to put himself together for d time being because they have been together (i.e within the same location) all the while, but now they are apart in location and so would be for the next five years. John (my friend) recently told me that he was getting closer to two different female friends and that he was sexually attracted to them. One of them whose name is Tanya has a boyfriend who resides in a very far state from where she is and she kind of gets needy atimes. The other one whose name is rachel broke up with her boyfriend about 2months ago and is also kind of needy. John is sort of confused as he doesn't want to ruin his friendship with these girls and his relationship with his girlfriend. But at the same time, john is needy and doesn't know what to do. Please what do you advice.

am super-confused ...i donno d advice i fit give u....

Grab hold of control.

If he truely want to marry her g/friend(virging),he should control himself as a wise man,i know its hard atimes to be faithful,but i guess he should endure,have convenant with God,he should also know that there is blessing in marrying a virgin,he should not cheat,sex is not love/happiness.why should he broke his happines just because of a momentary satisfacation? Lets be wise please,a world is enough for the wise.

He shuld wait for his gal o if not dis will be his ringtone wen gobe happen- johnny leave me follow cynthia nd I dunno wat to do and he talk say I no do am like d way cythia dey do, johnny give uche belle e talk say e wan marry nene nwokem kedu ihe neme johnny mo johnny mo am lukin for my johnny!
A word is enof for___

rozzay: He shuld wait for his gal o if not dis will be his ringtone wen gobe happen- johnny leave me follow cynthia nd I dunno wat to do and he talk say I no do am like d way cythia dey do, johnny give uche belle e talk say e wan marry nene nwokem kedu ihe neme johnny mo johnny mo am lukin for my johnny!
A word is enof for___

Jhonny bro, please press ctrl+D ( dickkkk)
And u'll be fine,,...omo ale oniro oshi

This world is really a small world. I have a friend that has the exact same predicament and i mean exact to the last letter. He is as confused as you are.

He should wait for Yemi Alade;she's been looking for Johnny.

I have a friend who faces dis kind of treatment bt it may sadly not be his own to dig into the girl's own. Its another man's own to dig in and I hope he sees it dis way unless if he go marry d Girl

In need of wot ?

is he a born again, heaven and hell brain washed christain?

sleep with the side beaches already jor

Xenaf: In need of wot ?

sex

Something in me is telling me that op's real name is john

psychologist: Something in me is telling me that op's real name is john

. Seems u read my mind

psychologist: Something in me is telling me that op's real name is john

op's name is Fredrick, john is op's friend

chymystique: Did u say your friend needs SEX? He needs Jesus Christ.. I dunno y ppl attach much importance to sex lik say na food.. He shld focus his energy and time on somethings more productive dt will better his life and nt sex. Well, If he cnt cope he shld tell d gf and if dey both cnt come to an agreement then he shld call it quits.. If he cheats on the gf then IMO, he is an asswipe and a coward..

sanctimonious BulllshiTt

chymystique: Did u say your friend needs SEX? He needs Jesus Christ.. I dunno y ppl attach much importance to sex lik say na food.. He shld focus his energy and time on somethings more productive dt will better his life and nt sex. Well, If he cnt cope he shld tell d gf and if dey both cnt come to an agreement then he shld call it quits.. If he cheats on the gf then IMO, he is an asswipe and a coward..

Babe sorry ooo, Are you a Virgin? plus when last did you had Sex? you should please take it easy now.. the guy needs sex and I don't see anything wrong with that.. expect you want to tell me that you have not had sex for the past 2 years. D guy tried for even staying for 2 years without sex.

emmyw: If he truely want to marry her g/friend(virging),he should control himself as a wise man,i know its hard atimes to be faithful,but i guess he should endure,have convenant with God,he should also know that there is blessing in marrying a virgin,he should not cheat,sex is not love/happiness.why should he broke his happines just because of a momentary satisfacation? Lets be wise please,a world is enough for the wise.

what if the babe breaks it bèfore returning

Jenams: sanctimonious BulllshiTt

Lol @ "sanctimonious" ......

silvertuke:
Babe sorry ooo, Are you a Virgin? plus when last did you had Sex? you should please take it easy now.. the guy needs sex and I don't see anything wrong with that.. expect you want to tell me that you have not had sex for the past 2 years. D guy tried for even staying for 2 years without sex.

If he wants to ve sex its his business.. Am only sayin he shld talk to d gf one more time if she cnt b convinced then he can as well break up with her instead of cheating behind her back.. He shld b man enuf.. The excuse of him cheatin cos d gf is a virgin and doesn't wanna ve sex is jst bullcrap

Two years without sex?!... If i catch myself!8-) the guy don try joor, he should chop the next available kpomo and clean his damn mouth! This is what happens when people fail to realize that s.ex is a crucial component of a man's life, 4th to only air, water and food.

fredrick007: I have a friend who is in some sort of dilemma. He has been in a relationship with a girl for more than two years, they both love each other and wish to spend their forever together. But there is a problem. This girl is a virgin and is dedicated to remaining so till she gets married. Now my guy has been deprived of sex for 2 years and is likely to be deprived of sex for as long as 5 extra years. He has been able to put himself together for d time being because they have been together (i.e within the same location) all the while, but now they are apart in location and so would be for the next five years. John (my friend) recently told me that he was getting closer to two different female friends and that he was sexually attracted to them. One of them whose name is Tanya has a boyfriend who resides in a very far state from where she is and she kind of gets needy atimes. The other one whose name is rachel broke up with her boyfriend about 2months ago and is also kind of needy. John is sort of confused as he doesn't want to ruin his friendship with these girls and his relationship with his girlfriend. But at the same time, john is needy and doesn't know what to do. Please what do you advice.

Tell John to break off his relationship and go fu..ck a h..o somewhere.

Why cheat? why go into a relationship with a girl who wont be dropping the pants till after marriage?

If he cant wait, break the relationship off and go find a single needy person or a fu...cksluuuuut

Lastly, warn your friend not to go near the needy girl with a boyfriend far away!

ElFenomeno1:

Tell John to break off his relationship and go fu..ck a h..o somewhere.

Why cheat? why go into a relationship with a girl who wont be dropping the pants till after marriage?

If he cant wait, break the relationship off and go find a single needy person or a fu...cksluuuuut

Lastly, warn your friend not to go near the needy girl with a boyfriend far away!

if I may ask, why shouldn't he go near the needy girl with a boyfriend? And what about the one that just broke up with her boyfriend??

fredrick007: if I may ask, why shouldn't he go near the needy girl with a boyfriend? And what about the one that just broke up with her boyfriend??

Do i need to explain anything to you further?!

Someone has a boyfriend, yet you are asking me why he shouldn't go near her with a view to smashing.......

John is in a relationship and therefore shouldn't be looking for anything more than platonic friendship with the two ladies. END OF

If he needs to sling some di...ck to any random girl, tell John to break off his relationship and stay away from ladies who have fellas.

Just an innocent question for the guys

How difficult is it to practise abstinence??

Luckygurl: Just an innocent question for the guys

How difficult is it to practise abstinence??

Very very difficult!

donpeey22: Very very difficult!

I'm just being curious.
Just how difficult is it?

chymystique: Did u say your friend needs SEX? He needs Jesus Christ.. I dunno y ppl attach much importance to sex lik say na food.. He shld focus his energy and time on somethings more productive dt will better his life and nt sex. Well, If he cnt cope he shld tell d gf and if dey both cnt come to an agreement then he shld call it quits.. If he cheats on the gf then IMO, he is an asswipe and a coward..

Abeg park well..... If he is an asswipe and a coward, what will you call the girl/girls that give it to him free of charge... There are always two sides of a coin...... Only God knows what the so called virgin is doing right now

Luckygurl:
I'm just being curious.
Just how difficult is it?

There's a disease called conjilitis which a guy suffers after one week of Total abstinence. The disease kills faster than Ebola fever. So, u see, it's very serious.

Luckygurl:
I'm just being curious.
Just how difficult is it?

extremely difficult,especially when a guy has done it atleast once,fantazasis about it always,when all his coleagues and friends talks and live on it,underates him if he doesn't make effort to belong.when all he sees on the streets and screens are semi to nude figures.

donpeey22: There's a disease called conjilitis which a guy suffers after one week of Total abstinence. The disease kills faster than Ebola fever. So, u see, it's very serious.

One week, as in seven days..
U're joking..