Hi everyone,
I have two close female friends. They are my closest friends in my school. One of them is married while the other is not. I'm very free with both of them and I love and cherish our relationship. I have a girlfriend as well but she is away for the moment. Recently I started noticing that I'm kind of sexually attracted to the unmarried one, and nothing more. Just sexual attraction. I'm beginning to think about what sex with her would feel like. I'm really confused. I'm even trying to keep my distance from her cos I don't want to do something that would jeopardize our relationship. All I want is to have sex with her and get it off my system. Would have opened up to her and told her but I don't know how she would react to it. I don't know what to do? What do you think.

Castrate yourself before we hear "I don give my friend belle- please advice"

fredrick007: Hi everyone,
I have two close female friends. They are my closest friends in my school. One of them is married while the other is not. I'm very free with both of them and I love and cherish our relationship. I have a girlfriend as well but she is away for the moment. Recently I started noticing that I'm kind of sexually attracted to the unmarried one, and nothing more. Just sexual attraction. I'm beginning to think about what sex with her would feel like. I'm really confused. I'm even trying to keep my distance from her cos I don't want to do something that would jeopardize our relationship. All I want is to have sex with her and get it off my system. Would have opened up to her and told her but I don't know how she would react to it. I don't know what to do? What do you think.

mumu you are confidently telling nairalanders that you have been friend zoned by not 1 but two women??

and you claim you are in school, which of the college of education?? (no ofense)

My brutha Sex is a very very very very bad thing. Although when I read about the dangers associated with Sex, I gave up reading

Give ur life to Jesus christ my friend b4 it is too late.

Tell her and stop killing yourself unnecessarily.

hey if you FÜCKING cherish your FÜCKING relationship with your girlfriend you'll FÜCKING think with your head & you'll not allow your body
FÜCK up a good FÜCKING relationship.

FÜCK!!! unless you are in a FÜCKING open relationship then you can FÜCKING shi/t go ahead tell her how you FÜCKING feel about her
& if she FÜCKING feels the same way. gbam!! you'll get FÜCKED.

Life is too short to regret. Who are you? A fool or wise one? Let your action decide.

BoiledCorn: Castrate yourself before we hear "I don give my friend belle- please advice"

hahaha

You should just control your self

i tink there is a word called control. find it and wen u do hold it tight.

Ceasar1: Bro, suppress that urge and stop thinking with your balls. Trying anything stupid can ruin the three bonds you've got.

True

Its best if you can control yourself, so you'll not ruin your friendship. But for your information bro, except for the married ones...friendship with opposite sex normally lead to intimacy with time. so, don't be in haste.

Yea, speaking from experience... I ended up having sex with all my female friends except the married ones cos that is a line I will never cross no matter what.(I believe i'll one day meet one that will keep sex off our friendship, I'm still waiting)

Mostly, we don't even communicate it... we just see it happen. Some will make it just that one time thing while some happened multiple times, infact some are still happening.

Which is why girl-guy friendship must be limited and formal. The moment you start to hang out together at romantic sites, granting each other unnecessary privacy... something else go enter.

Note: Most of these sex scenarios between me and my friends were not even initiated by me... I just play along. It all start when their boyfriend is not treating them right and you give them a shoulder to lean on... LOL

Abeg na wetin she dey do diffrently self wey make u dey get that urge self.... because am sure u did never had the urge to have her before not untill sometins did change



because untill you come to identify those things and try ur walk ur ways out of those things..... u will keep having those urges and one day, the big man down stairs will have his way and u do what ure suppose not to do

Nothing.

may mencade5 signature apply to u.

Konji na baaaassstard

Fornication is your constitutional right

ITs your right. use it.

Op fear God

fuckshit: hey if you FÜCKING cherish your FÜCKING relationship with your girlfriend you'll FÜCKING think with your head & you'll not allow your body
FÜCK up a good FÜCKING relationship.

FÜCK!!! unless you are in a FÜCKING open relationship then you can FÜCKING shi/t go ahead tell her how you FÜCKING feel about her
& if she FÜCKING feels the same way. gbam!! you'll get FÜCKED.

Fu.cksh.it

When man and woman get unnecessarily close, it happens..

She is feeling same way. There is no way you will be in.love or lust with someone you see everyday, they won't notice via your eyes and actions..

okparaugo:

Fu.cksh.it

yea, my FÜCKING name

Go jump off a cliff nd make life easy for everybdy around you. :/

Why do we have the exact similar case. Pls can we meet and perhaps discuss dis case beta. At least let's exchange contacts.Holla me if u are interested