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Nawa o

Thank u. Thats why u r selling your properties ba. Pls if you have nothing reasonable to write.
Bleep off my list and mentions.

ogawisdom:
U r just a lazy boy with an oversized ego

30 yrs is not 30 months better go n hustle and earn a living

U r wasting your life

I really wanna thank everyone for advice. I might not be smiling but i have a good heart,its only my mum that calls me on a daily and for that i always puty her because i know what life is as a widow. But this 2020 i think am gonna turn my back on my rest 3 siblings. To hell with them. I have been showing self pity and made sure the house and everything in it is ok. But alas a king is never respected. Last 2years my elder bro knrlt down to beg me but i can never forgive him and i swore to kill any of his kids if they comw clowe to me. While growing up as afults hebecame something else. Doesnt talk tp me,if i ask to wear his clothea he would slap me,beat me on a daily.infct i went to my fathwe then to aak who really was my father.whether my eldee bro or my dad. Today i have so much hate for him. Even if he send me money,i never asked him to and i dont care. My kid sister that i use almost 16yrs to senior still acting like a fool in her early twenties. I believe so much in nature and i pity whoever gets married to her. I keep thanking my late dad and mum for at least training me right. I must start a business before april this year. Even if its to be selling beer and peppersoup asun,fried meat. I'm all in. My kid sistee cannot even prepare stew. If she does u will vomit and stool for days. This dame attitude she used to travel and came back. Rather she would prepare pancakes,fry plaintain and egg,indomie. My mother felt she was protecting her. My mother should not worry,when she starts staying with my kid sister. Lets see who will cook and clean. By the way my star sign is cancer and i have lived wth diff ppl who always missed me when i left.

Sometimes i felt i have mental problem. A girl i dated always doubt me and asked why my phone never rings.i couldnt answer cause all pplninhad been nice too always mockrd me so i change sims a lot. I feel i was not meant to be born and breed in nigeria. I feelnso sad,i drink alone,obey rules.dont stress no one. Yet all i ger is disapointments,heart. breaks,insults,humiliation.
Well af accepted my faith

bolayei:
Op what is your star sign? What I gather is you are a nice guy but want people to be nice to you in return, you respect people and expect it back, you are mad at your sister because she doesn't respect you.

My guy some people are lone people and it takes time for them to realise it. Keep yourself to yourself and keep your body and mind busy with positive energy. Don't stop being nice and don't expect people to be nice to you.

Not everyone is lucky with the opposite s.ex too so if that's not working pay less mind to it because girls will break your heart.

Please don't axe your sister and please please don't contemplate taking your life as it seems you are kind of depressed.

Tey and get a job and do whatever you are doing on the side. The good forces of nature guide you

Af been independent since 2015. Even mt mum lends close to 200k frm mt savings. Im determined to make it in life against all odds. Gone are the days where i will phone them to assist me,rather na insult. Since 2015 ive been doing it myself

RisenPhoenix:
Don't waste your time on their matter; not even to show them up. Think of how to set yourself up financially for your own sake and become self-sufficient. Until then, behave as if you are a polite guest. Cook only what you will eat and when you finish, wash pot and go hustle.

I dont have anger issues. But the day i get mad.
Crowd always gather. They feel im high on colorado. But im not. I wish i was a soldier

Davash222:
Lol
Abeg don’t ace her to death, na small pikin dey worry her.

You’re endowed with great potential hence everyone is trying to pull you down. I know what I’m telling you.
You need to be careful, learn how you can manage your anger.

Abeg i no dey here for jokes

donbachi:
3 hundred naira is 3 hun in ptown

Thanks.i really appreciate your advise. Yeah im working on how to set up a business.

TruthTella:
People are not targeting you guy
The truth is that many Nigerians are selfish and entitled and will repay your kindness with evil. It's the nature of many people though not all.
If I tell you my own story of how people I basically took under my care and was sharing my pocket money with turned around and cut me off totally for no just cause you go shout.
Your best option is to go out and get a job, be determined, shun laziness and procrastination, gather money and build your life outside that environment and make yourself happy.

In this part of the world a man's worth is judged by how made he is before anything else that's why they don't respect you. Try and make money and make yourself great. Goodluck

U cant understand
Wetin be 3h

donbachi:
U sure sey ur fada no swear for d person wey steal him 3 hun?

You dont get it,i contributed to her return ticket almost 40% of it. Well i think its time i moved out and rent somewhere . I have come to realise no one gives a damn.if i make new friends its what they will gain they are after. I would start doing it all by myself,eat,drink,work and sleep.

I am very disturbed. I have no relationship with my family members because i felt they used me all my life. I am 30 this year and im jobless.however i still have some lil thing i do to keep side together. My kid sister returned back from abroad and have refused to do anything. Doesnt sweep,doesnt care to ask if im hungry or i have eaten. Cannot prepare soup. Does absolutely nothing. U can imagine how angry i felt after taking 2hours of my time to prepare a meal and after eating and went to bed.i woke up later to realise that my kid sister had the nerve to eat the food i cooked but could not wash the dishes i used or even the pot. If my elder bro comes he will be telling me look wt where your mates are. I mean i have been troubled since childbirth that i feel everyone uses me.i help someone today the perzon insults and curses me tomorrow. I have not found any gal to love and marry. They all have the same entitlement mentality like my kid sister. Lazy,arrogant and want to do nothing.
Well i really appreciate the way my late father beat me cos last last i go still steal 300naira from his wallet when he went to drink beer and fell asleep later in the night.then in 2001 and do big boy at secondary school during break time.
But now i cant think straight. I feel my gamily members hate me .my kid sister dont even have respect for me,call me by my name. I blame my mother because she is the cause of it and now it affecting my life. While growing up they kept saying all sorts of frustrating insults on me and i have no love in my heart for them. I feel like an outcast and this is one question i have been asking God. Why me.
Since yesterday evening was when i ate last,till now my kid sister dont care but will eat from the pot i cook with. If i use axe to ace her to death. Will anyone blame me