Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 3,165,777 members, 7,862,584 topics. Date: Sunday, 16 June 2024 at 07:58 PM

Freedater's Posts

Nairaland Forum / Freedater's Profile / Freedater's Posts

(1) (of 1 pages)

Romance / Re: Lady Snatches Friends Boyfriend And Weds Him Secretly (Photos) by freedater: 1:21pm On Feb 03, 2016
shocked

for my brodas in the friendzone, my 2kobo http://freedater.com/datingandrelationships/5-ways-to-avoid-the-friendzone

The lord is our strength. cool
Romance / Re: Five Criteria Ladies Use In Disqualifying Suitors by freedater: 1:17pm On Feb 03, 2016
the post funny sha grin

for my brodas in d friendzone i give this to u http://freedater.com/datingandrelationships/5-ways-to-avoid-the-friendzone.

the lord is our strength cool
Romance / Re: 5 Ways To Avoid The Friendzone by freedater: 9:28am On Feb 03, 2016
Thanks for the contribution @Adekunzy.That also works. Once you get perceived as the needy type,there is trouble.
Romance / Re: 5 Ways To Avoid The Friendzone by freedater: 8:56am On Feb 03, 2016
Bless
Romance / Re: 5 Ways To Avoid The Friendzone by freedater: 8:36am On Feb 03, 2016
@RadicallyBlunt i see you, i guess gal wey you like never friend zone u since dem born you abi shocked. And no one is teaching anyone to be a woman wrapper here, knowledge is power, and power can also be absued, since our naija boys started yahoo, have they banned Internet in Nigeria undecided. Bros abeg no chance boys wey still dey try scale that friendzone fence. Bless

Romance / Re: 5 Ways To Avoid The Friendzone by freedater: 8:10am On Feb 03, 2016
Deleting her off your mind is the best approach after you must have tried severally (read the content on try again). Deleting her is better than helping her polish her nails thou wink, once you enter the friend zone its takes a lifetime to get out, let her know that you wont settle for less, show her your worth.

I dedicate this to the current and formerly friend-zoned brothers in the house grin
Romance / 5 Ways To Avoid The Friendzone by freedater: 8:00am On Feb 03, 2016
I was asked a question recently: “How to avoid the friendzone.” If you don’t know what the friend zone is let me provide some context, rather, some seasoning on just what this magical zone is.

The friend zone is a place where people who want to be in a relationship with someone who’s already a friend go to die. Shitty, right? Right! It’s not a fun place to be. This is a place made for people who hate to be tortured to go and get tortured. It sucks, it sucks, it sucks! Yes, the friend zone typically happens to good people; people who often haven’t taken the chance to make their feelings known. How do I know so much about this? Because, I used to be a resident in the friend zone. And that was worse than losing a betting slip at the 90th minute.…

If you don’t believe me, here’s the Urban Dictionary’s take on it all:
[img]screenshot20130304at10.57.09pm.png[/img]

How Can You Avoid Being in the Friend Zone?

1. Don’t be safe – If you’re interested in someone, there’s ways you let them know. Maybe coming right out and saying “hey baby, I wanna Bleep of you!” Now, that doesn’t really work (though, I’ve said that a few times of late… I don’t think the women minded, but it hasn’t lead to getting laid… yet). The object of your desire should know that you notice them; that you might see them in a non-friendly way.

I’m a loser and dull, or shy… You decide. But I don’t let that get in the way of letting women know that I’m a man and that I notice them and their lady bits. Anyway, I think that many of my female ‘friends’ know that I notice them when they look good. I have ways I let them know. Sometimes I’m blunt, I’ve told women that their “boobs are the star of the show” and far, far more inappropriate. If I like a woman, I am sure to let her know that I see more than just my friend in a little black dress. I let her know that she’s a woman and that she’s MY kind of woman. Which leads me to…

2. Flirt. – I can’t tell you how to be a good flirt. I’m operating under the assumption that you have more charisma than a dried up bone and that you don’t sweat or have twitchy eye brows as you re-read ’50 Shades of Grey’ for the 50th time. Flirting is fun, flirting is a playful way to let a woman know that you are into her without being absolutely blunt about it. Flirting is the chisel compared to the hammer.

3. Ask her out on a date. A friend told me once that: “Fortune favors the brave.” I know he didn’t coin that, but he mentioned that to me right before I asked our waitress out on a date and she smacked me down… hard. The last time I’d been rejected that bad was when I was went out for a house party on Saturday at a friends, and got my clothes soaked by my drunk best friend; fucking kid was a monster. But yeah, it was that bad. Rejection should be seen as a friend here; should be, but it never feels like that when it happens

4. Try again – I had a gal that I asked out three different times. Three! Each time was separated by… I dunno, this all happened over the course of 6 months. Let me tell you........

grin all these gals sha. Grabbed from http://freedater.com/datingandrelationships/5-ways-to-avoid-the-friendzone

(1) (of 1 pages)

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 15
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.