₦airaland Forum

Johndoe100:
It is becoming clearer that you people never really wanted to help the family without strings attached (you decide everything for them), all you were intrested in was to play "god " with the guy's life.
Someone asked what he would do with 100k, he will rent a 1000 naira shanty where they pay per person in the room and use the rest to level himself. That is most likely what he wants. It is truly amazing how the true motivations of we 9igerians are brought to the fore when we cannot tell people what to do. Morally you people are bound to use the money collected to help the familly, I don't understand why the man wanting his own priorities makes him any more insane than anyone posting here.

You are very wrong. what are the strings attached? ensuring that out main objectives are fufilled?will you expect to see this family under the same bridge after handling the money over to him?
The man has got better offers that was more that the 100K. I was wondering what he was going to do with the money when he had better offers.
I don't know who is in insane here, so you expect ppl to donate money and hand it over to him so he can and continue with the same priorities that let him to this predicament. However you are free to say what you like it's a free world.

Like yamakuza rightly said he is trying to make the best out of the whole situation. Well stupidity also sells.

@armyofone
The Guy needed a 100,000 bucks. What was he going to do with the money? From your experience, could he be probably into drugs?

armyofone:
in doing this kind of thing, people should set things in order. rehabilitation is very important as he has been there for a while and his mind is wired. he need to be told how things will go, this is what we are going to do this year, next year this eg we pay or we will give you a job and then you can afford to pay etc

with pple just giving him this help right away without proper rehab, there won't be success as we are seeing now. the guy is afraid of the future. he should be made to know that things will be okay

you Just made a point.

@r231
Terrible. The fact that the man is mantally ill is not a reason why his family should be exposed to that kind of a dangerous environment

My question is this, is ther no way the child and the pregnant woman can taken away from him? He is just punishing them with his mantal disorder.

This is another disturbing story. i will not support the handling raw cash over to him. alternatively we will donate that money to an orphanage home. heaven knows we 've done our best.

We 're trying to comfirm to what extent the person who provided them with a home is willing to help, then we can decide on where we can continue from. But one thing is very important we must try and organise a substainable life for this family so that this will not repeat itself again.
And besides, the pregnant woman will require immmediate medical attention. we can't just assume someone has provided them with a home so we should forget about the other areas. Let's help this family if we really want to.

Kelvinprinzyy:
some mothers are just true mothers

TRUE TALK JARE.

Try and visit the web site of the embassy of the country you wish to visit. you will get all the informations there.

lo! @ replies.

Nigeria, where i was born no regret.

^^ That will be great. God bless you.

^^ how do we get a bank acct now?

@190 YOU ARE WARNED FOR THE VERY LAST TIME.
JUST TRY ME

I can see some progress. What i understand now we 're still yet to secure a bank acct in Nigeria.
@Ify, can you open a bank account with their names and keep the documents? I'm also against placing any money directly under their care at this time, they might divert the fund on other things at this critical time.

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Sarah a:
let see the pictures we are all waiting.

what do you still want to see?

^^We assume you can take care of the issues relating to that if Nigeria. I will give you a call later in the day or later tomorrow morning.
@ r231 have you heard from OAM4J?

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Odunnu:
Lets hurry up. [s]before I start xmas shopping and become broke and cashless[/s]

Na lie ooo you no go finish all the money for xmas shopping

Is there a way you can get to ify directly on the phone?

Just like the fingers on you hands are not equal.

@Bro r231 Enough has been said how do we help this family? its doesnt make sense if we have a 50 pages of discussion here and we 're still yet to act. where do we start from?

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more on its way.

These pictures were taken few hours ago.

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very heart breaking one.

They 're too large to be posted here i've got to work on them.

Ladies and gentleman i'm so upset with these pictures lets do something. They are nothing but humans. I'll be back.