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As a man, if you're rich or comfortable ur inlaws will respect and serve you, if not you'll serve them. Meaning if rich your money solves their wants but poor your manpower does that.

women welcoming sibblings and parent into their homes is "show off". they want to prove to their family there's "much" to go round.

women only accept inlaws on health ground, emergency purposes except she needs you as a house help.

they should replace chinedu ikedieze with osita iheme. he's just so bland in the crew

i'd prefer condominum in downtown US to living in banana island nigeria

when this kind of killings happens, the president will visit, declare a day of mourning, sanction for relief materials, order security presence, provided medicare and start rebuilding of destroyed properties to restore the natives confidence of govt protection of life and properties.

if all of these is not implemented by the govt then the govt is complecent in the killings moreso when those accused of killing occupies the territory within a short time without getting arrested.

one quick question please... that flag with arabic inscription buhari received shortly after winning the election from foreign islamist, whats the meaning to that adventure?

if your husband is an ibo man, defininately he's a rabble rouser and wont do jack...another wife?,that's a taboo.

if he's a yoruba...prepare for the worst. it's a culture thing.

but if your husband is a moslem, you need not complain. thats a religious obligation.

this is an internal crisis, i repeat this is biafra crisis...we'll handle it!

oduduwa descendants should worry about her depletion on lagos' otedola bridge calamity.

A Multi Millionaire Igbo business Man Importer In Lagos Is Crying To Vote Out Buhari For The Harsh Economy But A Yoruba BMC crew member on a 30k monthly stipend want to vote buhari in, even a hausa shoe mender want to do same.

my question is, among the trio, who is likely to survive buhari reelection?

OboOlora:
Pretty lady married to a focused man!

Not that one that married a fake freedom fighter that led his people astray only to be fcxking a yoruba boy for political appointments and contracts

i'll recommend you SENSEdyne very effective for brain damage

190theclown:

r231 who the Phuck is this person sir?
She seems like an experienced troll
interested in the affairs of everyone and who doesnt seem 2 have a life

big nose lemme alone.

Abagworo:
You're wrong as there are two roads here. The major dual carriage road was built by Okorocha but the dilapidated feeder road which was built by NDDC several years ago is what she talked about. That's International Secondary School road.

We approached the narrative from different perspective yet you didnt address the salient issue knowing you're versed in the geographical terrain.

did buhari rehabilitate that road?

Ovamboland:
And those representing the people who are dying to have the airport work actually voted to cut funding for the project, how neat.

if the whole parliment is allowed to scrutinize the budget, nothing will be achieved hence creating of committees and the appropriation committee is dominated and headed by hausa fulanis

GavelSlam:
You mean Rochas abandoned a federal road?

that road is not even close to a feeder road. the federal road it tee off from is currently being dualized by okorocha

that road is an abandoned road project of okorocha. it tee off from the popular banana junction and terminate at the town centre. a stretch of 1.5km. it can be passed for a farm road and federal govt dont handle feeder roads.

Yorruba muslims must be stopped driving the narratives with their usual propaganda!

Buhari should stop playing to the gallery and create a supplementary budget for the project instead of hookwinking the gullibles not believing his divisible antics. we know his die hard senators positioned at the appropriation committees levels did his bidding.

This bigot buhari closed that airport last december on flimpsy excuse when it was expected to become a beehive of activities.

They don't want that airport to work!

adorable29:
Who says you are. I ain't either so where is that coming from. You have been quoting me upandan for saying it as it is because you insist the lady is the monster even when the truth is hitting you in the face. Women like you always want to be all cheerie and popsicles just to pander to the opposite sex. I fear your kind.

either i lack comprenhension skill or you're emotionally imbalanced.
please intepret op for me:

"had velma 3 weeks to grad. then the real challenge started. we were in a legal battle. I WANTED TO BE IN MY DAUGHTER'S LIFE SO BAD. the mom got engaged to another man and moved to a DIFFERENT state. I WAS DEVASTATED.

adorable29:
Naaaa. They disappoint every damn time. They seem scared of the large percentage of guys on this platform or don't want their "market and DM value" to reduce so they hide and kiss the ass.sses of nairaland guys and never defend their gender. Instead they even join to condemn based on wife material bullcrap.
I see through them.

i aint a feminist. i am too rational to engage in gender war and maturity makes me understand that i am equal to men. fighting men expose our weakness and inequality.

i am a mother to a men and married to a man. symbiotic relationship.

adorable29:
It is too early for me to be faced with his kind of IQ.
Madam, where did "extra" and marriage come in contact in this story. You think this is Africa Magic where impregnating a girl automatically means marrying her.

read paragraph 5 of op.
custody battle started 3 weeks after kid was born and lasted for 4 years. that's mean he man up but baby mama wanted something more but he chosed his daughter and career above her desire.

abertedze:
Seems most ppl didn't see this part. Sure a broke college student and u couldn't use protection or at least support her emotionally...do u know what she went thru all dat time.put urself in her shoes first...did u even ask for her forgiveness...don't blame her.

he should appologize to a lady that doesnt know her safe period for what the mutually enjoyed?

adorable29:
"As a broke college student I told her I’m not ready for anything extra now other than graduating and getting my life together. So it was tough"

You left her to suffer and go through it alone because YOU wanted to get your life together. Your own family not even having any idea for two years goes to show where you placed the baby in your "untogether" life. Typical and selfish. Shebi her own life wasn't worth "getting together" especially as she was the one going to go through the major pains of pregnancy and childbirth. No wonder she treated you that way.

Now you are ready to be in your child's life, it is a good thing and just enjoy the baby you initially abandoned but quit making it seem as though you were the angel and your ex the devil. There are two sides to a story.

the "extra" means he wasn't ready for marriage but wanted to be in his child life. the baby mama moved on quickly and started frustrating him from what he had dream of doing.

2buff and freecocoa, old fire being rekindled.

Airforce has returned his completed illuminati membership form too quickly without seeking wise counsel o.

Two reasons why Buhari must probe Obasanjo.

1. thieving billions of dollar in the guise of giving us light but we got darkness.

2. supporting and voting him (buhari) into power to wreck nigeria.

maybe, just maybe constitute an investigation panel to find out why herdsmen has not invaded otta farm.

Abagworo:
This is Wike's 1st real project. The others were just taking glory of Amaechi's sweat.

you need a painkiller. unfortunately buhari has close down emzor that could've given you cheap alternative.

CilicMarin:
Buhari doesn't recognize cowards. Prof Nwosu chickened out when it mattered. He refused to announce the remaining results, even when he was advised to relocate to the American embassy and do the needful.

So how do you expect a coward like him to be honored?

Jokers!

if he's a coward like you said, why are we now celebrating abiola?

a court process annulled it.

ModelX:
Nairaland my nairaland.

I had the biggest crush on EfemenaXY, on that blasted jokes thread with idowuogbo, she seemed to reciprocate for awhile but it all went to shît

Freecocoa don't you think it's about time you stopped defending your scammy boyfriend Coogar. It gets old. I hate to stereotype but if it's because of the tenners he been dey send back then in exchange for ya nudes, girl you can drop the mic now.

freecocoa has a thing for kidnappers, yahoo plus and swindlers. chucky234 is yet her other man friday.

where can i buy genuine animal skin/hide (leather) for sofa making?

handsomeclouds:
Igbo Amaka

I can't see them complaining of marginalization

Modified:
And because the coach is a foreigner doesn't mean he can't be influenced

It's not like foreigners aren't guilty of corruption either

His appointment as a coach didnt come from heaven. There must be an element of political influence and he's answerable to those people!

merit bro.

if everything is done on merit in nigeria, it may not be surprising if an ibo man become the ooni of ife.

Yoruba Muslims don't care about Osibanjo,they support Buhari because he's a muslim extremist and the Yoruba Christians support APC cos Osibanjo is one of them.

Buhari is a master strategist when it comes to yoloba politics.

From being a car dealer to become a prison inmate in couple of days.

Village people be stirring someone's destiny like akamu.

if a side guy got her pregnant, she'll detest you much this period.

When A Woman Start Acting Stupid, She's In Pain For A Lost Relationship.

ImaIma1:
If the OP was a guy, would you give this kind of advice. Try to be reasonable and impartial. She should take responsibility but he shouldn't.

it's unwise to attack my post base on sentiment and uncontrolled emotion.
whatever money her hubby borrowed was for the good of the family, she decided to support him by increasing her stake in bills...(not doing hubby a favour but making sure her young family does'nt run aground). this is the point i allude if she thinks she need recompense then she's selfish.

men has been taking financial responsibilities of home without grudge so why is it difficult for a woman to step up without demanding for some sort of accolade?