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Kaybobo should take one for the team and give this Ivatar girl what she wants. It's either he's just not into sex, or he has a very serious level of self-control, or he has some deep trauma, or he doesn't want to risk losing Thelma, or he's scared of PDA on live TV. |
tioluwalasee:You might have a point,but they're both very strong-willed individuals with a sprinkle of arrogance and both very allergic to losing (they're both the top 2 highest winners of sponsored tasks this season). But for some reason they are like fuel & fire, they don't gel well without explosions going off. Faith on his own just needs to be more tolerant of people and he should realize that if he can blend in proper people skills with his impressive intelligence, he'll go far. Why antagonize most of the fellow guys in the house as well? There are still women who are wowed by brainy but humble guys, not to mention that he's potentially the most stable guy there, before Yahoo boys & Afrobeat artists,there was a time young single doctors were like celebrities. Does he know that Dede for example is wowed by his IQ? He should understand that rejection with stinging words that might involve body-shaming comes with the territory as a man, even though the girls in the BBnaija have been particularly mean to him. I just hope outside the house he doesn't let Joanna use him as a rebound or settle-down option after years of "living her best life". Either way, he has shown himself to be a worthy finalist this year. In a more advanced society, he would been arguably the winner of the show. |
Even in someone else's event, Dede won't let her main character syndrome allow her rest!😒 |
Am i the only person that has noticed Isabella is actually the wife in that Robb advertisement? |
Oshokhai69:And are people so damaged that because of BBnaija, people should dig up info on CHILDREN and use for trolling & bants? Has the APC finally turned Nigerians to evil bar.ba.rian.s ? |
Oshokhai69:And massive public bashing after the show? You think a sane person will come and lie her parents gave her off in a child marriage on national TV because of BBnaija votes of all things? Nawao! |
Dannyxy:A woman would lie about being basically pimped off as a child and having kids from a forced marriage for highlights on a reality show? Is that the kind of thing you would do? Abi you're just throwing bants? |
fitzmayowa:She said she's way older than 25. |
Tifay:I just don't know why the girls in that house & even some female viewers can't see through Jason. There's just something off about him, he looks like he was the most popular guy in places like The University of Ado-Ekiti, or the main romantic interest in a Wale Adenuga campuses movie. I now understand why Sultana gives off this vibe of low self-esteem. I really feel for her, she didn't stand a chance! No wonder she's very appreciated of any kind of attention from the guys. The camera man is very senseless for not focusing on her. It would have been a good chance for viewers to really connect with her and understand her character below the surface. |
Tifay:Ah, you mean am?! Is she a nympho? Or did she suffer some form of abuse? Denari had made a similar earlier comment that she was a little bit.....easy for someone so attractive. The problem with Sultana's behavior is that even guys benefiting from the free nacking will be disappointed because pure beauty comes with a responsibility, it is precious and isn't for everyone. That's why Dede's fans were pressuring Ebuka to say something to distance her from Kola because sadly, 150m isn't the prize for them, it's Dede's 'chastity'. Many of them would rather she gets disqualified and do a fundraiser than see her get nacked and win the prize money. Sultana's fans will rip her to shreds. |
drimzsmoke:If Joanna is truly 21, then she's still too young for something serious, no matter how mature she sounds. She'll have her free-spirited fun in and outside the house and will keep Faith in reserve simp mode when she's really ready for a relationship. Faith's words would have had more effect on the likes of Soso or Thelma that are ready to settle down. |
Mensan is obviously a punk. Even if he belongs,he obviously saw or experienced no action. Why can't he just shut his mouth & walk away? What kind of weak over-sensitive men are people raising nowadays? |
Eeghe:"Peetana"? When did you become so petty?😃 But I'm kinda disappointed in Sultana. She's just letting Jason browse her body like free WiFi & giving her fans a very hard time, which is why they hope the same thing can happen with Dede so that "Ojoro go cancel Ojoro". For a guy, i LOVE running into girls like Sultana, but seeing your female relatives or even close female friends handled like that on live TV can be infuriating! This is minus the fact that she narrowly escaped being ran through by Mensan, Victory & Koyin! Doesn't the girl know she's too beautiful for all of this?! |
Tifay:Not if they're explicitly warned about it. It could be a contract for a certain sum not to spill in exchange for coming into the house and really shaking things up. Jon entered and brought out the cougar in T-Boss. The guests of the All Stars season kept shut except for Prince. Kim Oprah came & shook things up badly. Or have you forgotten Chizzy or Rachael that made Diana Mon Cheri run made because of Giddyfia? Or Deji entering the house and driving the women mad? Or Modella being remembered as one of the most shapely women to enter BBnaija? At least it will kill Dede's main character syndrome. |
godislove79:Who? |
Christlike01:You're right & wrong about Dede. For a girl so young, she has mastered the art of female manipulation too well. It's what happens when agbaya Nigerian men chase little girls too much and expose them too early. But you're wrong about Kola being her ultimate prize in the house. Kola is simply the best looking guy after Bright & Kaybobo, and since she feels Mide is on her level or higher in terms of looks and isn't afraid of competition, she decided to leave Bright. She wasn't really interested in Kaybobo. That leaves Kola, who has also shown the entire Africa that he's her most loyal & adoring fish. That's a crazy ego-boost for any female. She might even tell herself she's starting to like him,but no, she's simply afraid of losing in any way. The person she was actually confused about & interested in (not sexually) is Koyin,but for a youngin that one matched her in pride & shakara nonchalance. This is why the new/extra/rider housemate concept remains goated in the show. I wish Biggie would introduce 4 models as house guests, watch what the reactions would be. |
renderme:Sometimes, it's good to intervene. A social experiment is still an experiment, a test within a controlled & CONFINED environment based on external stimuli like tasks, exercise regimens, and even controlled social activities like parties with the added factor of being watched 24/7. You wouldn't easily share a bed with someone of the opposite gender you're not romantic with, neither would you be in a confined space with chykers you would have blocked or refused to even talk to. You wouldn't even meet certain people in the outside world if not for BBnaija. If Biggie intervened in BB Africa, what happened with Richard & Ofunneka would have been stopped. If Biggie had intervened earlier with a stern warning in See Gobe, the T-Boss/Kemen thing would have never happened. T-Boss actually complained in front of the housemates before that Kemen was misbehaving with her. Infact, it was noise online from viewers that finally made Biggie act. T-Boss herself didn't even know Kemen had assaulted her. It's different from Kuture being too handsy with the females like Sultana & Isabella, because the females haven't complained yet. But it seems he has given himself sense and reduced it a little, or someone spoke to him about it. This year, Biggie used his brain by sharply removing the kitchen knives when he senses things could pop off. Isn't that tampering with the social experiment? The minute Dede uttered not consenting to hugging Kola of all things, common hug o, Biggie should have called them into the diary room and cleared it out, because the girl seems very good at saying one thing and meaning something else. Ebuka said his aim is to trigger a reaction right? That in itself is influencing the game. Erica was cool with Laycon until Ebuka threw in a bomb there. Nobody knew Koyin & Sultana kissed until Ebuka busted it up, thereby alerting Dede. Same with when the Jason and Sultana thing got blown up, alerting Dede as well. So, fans wouldn't be out of place to say what they want out of a need for drama, entertainment or protection of a housemate, afterall they're the ultimate consumers of the BBnaija content. Afterall, Ebuka let Kola know he was a fish to Dede and he still died there, so why not spill the side-talk of any other housemate to get an expected reaction? It will force the concerned to own up to their words and actions ("standing on 10 toes" as these Gen Zs & Alphas call it), retract & apologize, or clarify that they don't mind what was being said and done about them, so nobody can claim to be a victim or free of responsibility. |
renderme:Lol, i said it here that ALL the girls have their eyes on Bright except Doris who's safely in the sister zone with him and maybe Dede out of respect for Mide. |
ultraviolet27:Lol, who's this Gentlefury? |
Tifay:Kola has obviously never been accused by a woman before so his mind might not be there. Back in school, a girl invited me to her miniflat, cooked for me, even offered to run hot water for me since she understood i was sleeping over. This girl laid beside me on the bed and was making calls while smacking my hand away as I was trying to press and handle. I assumed she had given me consent anyway. The lights were off so i was pulling off her clothes when she pretended like she woke up from sleep and started asking "What are you doing?" ,"What's this?", "Are you actually trying to penetrate me while I'm asleep?". I was dazed, i honestly thought she was joking until her voice went soft, almost like a little girl's voice, and she told me while smiling wickedly, "You know this is my compound and I'm friendly with my co-tenants? Hope you know i can simply rip my clothes & scream at the top of my voice (it was between 1-2am) and accuse you of trying rape me by the time everyone gathers? It will simply be my word against yours!" I had to plead for more than an hour before she calmed down, only for the same girl to ask me for sex 1hr later!!! Once 6am show, i RAN. My erection went dead and I saw my life flash before my eyes! This na girl wey dey allow me kiss and press o. Dede french-kissed Koyin in a Truth or Dare, but Koyin sensibly maintained distance. Sultana kissed Koyin, but she still maintained a boundary. Isabella, Ivatar & Thelma have all shared a bed with Kaybobo, but that one maintained 100% self-control. Even if Dede asks to share a bed with him(something she does with Koyin), Kola should not mistake that for consent o. Bright Morgan with his fresh boy still ensures Mide consents to whatever they do in bed together. I actually like Kola,na why this Dede gist dey vex me! |
Kingcid:There's one major evil that the APC brought to Nigeria - the introduction and popular use of online"influencers" using bot accounts to say anything and defend any kind of evil for as little as 20k. I wonder how a sane human being will wake up and say his "work" is to propagate lies, gaslight, troll, bear false witness, and defend evil, all for peanuts! They're talking confidently because they're either mentally unstable and don't understand the consequences of their actions or they believe they can easily deactivate their accounts if Kola's family takes the matter up. That job of "influencer for hire" should be rendered illegal in Nigeria! |
Christlike01:It's talk like that that will lead to problems. Which one is "apply pressure" again? She has actually told him no many times,but Kola used something close to emotional blackmail. He just kept gisting with everyone in the house about her(something she complained about in the diary room) until after many weeks in a confined space, she don finally give am peck. I agree that her style of Onitsha love(I like you,i don't like you) is very annoying,but is Kola under a spell? We're still not very sure she's gaming him or she's genuine or she doesn't want to get intimate on camera or she just enjoys the attention. Wasn't that how some of us actually thought Laycon had a chance with Erica until she disgraced him on live TV? Everyone has advised Kola,from Bright & Mide to almost all the girls in the house - LEAVE DEDE ALONE, if she wants you, she'll locate you. If i was Kola, i would focus on Thelma 100% and pepper Dede for weeks! Dede has seen her move didn't work, Jason is worried about his ship outside and has Sultana to warm his bed. Koyin didn't even flinch when he saw Dede & Kola on the bed, so that's dead on arrival. I just wished Biggie would bring in new housemates, even if they're fake or riders or house guests that will stay till week 9. |
Nkl4u:I dey tell you! |
Kola should help himself, this thing is getting close to obsession. Dede has told you she wants distance, don't come to her bed ESPECIALLY after Thursday or Saturday parties. Don't feed your haters with ammo. Not every girl is okay with doing stuff in front of the camera. That's the problem with this type of Dede's shakara. Once you start it, see it to the end because when you delay or rubbish a man for so long and finally decide to give him a chance, he'll want nothing more than to prove a point by treating you as a conquest. It's not just applicable to Kola,but the other 2 fishes as well. I saw how Kola couldn't sleep but kept sitting up to look at Dede's bed last night. That was how Mercy delayed Pere till around the 8th week, and even on the last day of the show, the guy was doing his best to sleep with her in the house because he needed to prove a point EVEN THOUGH he liked Mercy, same thing he did with Maria. It's just that Mercy is too street-wise and dragged it till after the show. Kola is a cool guy though, and it wouldn't hurt if Biggie or Ebuka gives him a hint of what's happening outside. Some of Dede's fans are actually planning a defamation campaign against Kola should anything happen with Dede. He should follow Bright's advice, dey your dey and share a bed with Thelma. |
Vijuchoco:He was giving some of the housemates a free medical lecture and they were just asking him questions which he calmly answered. |
Nice one Dr Faith!!! |
drimzsmoke:Which frat be dat, APC? |
fitzmayowa:He's probably a system man. |
Christlike01:Lol, she probably gets lots of attention in the real world because of her gigantic bum,but in the BBnaija house, there are girls that are levels above her in terms of looks. She can only do well in Nigeria because honestly,many Nigerian men don't have taste in women. Just have big back or front and wear body magic, they'll rush you with money. So she genuinely believes she has what it takes to pull a guy like Kola who takes his physical looks extremely seriously and expects the same from people he associates with even though he is friendly with all women generally? Confidence is good, delusion isn't. Ibifubara was CONFIDENT she could pull Bright if she had more time, at least she's tall & has beautiful boobs. Thelma is CONFIDENT she can pull Kola because she has the body for it even though he's intimidated by taller women. Dede is CONFIDENT that she can pull Kola & Jason because she knows she has it. She's actually not too sure about Koyin who is sure that in looks,he can match Dede. She's realistic enough to know she can't easily pull a guy like Bright, which is why she didn't bother looking at him at all. Mide is very very beautiful,but she's REALISTIC about being able to colonize someone like Bright, hence her strong use of emotional blackmail on him. Imisi was REALISTIC about her chances with Kaybobo & Faith, though Faith's rejection was hurtful. Doris, somehow, with her stomach that looks like a barrel of Munchit, and her Labubu vibes, believes Kola should be very happy she noticed him, so his refusal genuinely baffled her, when other girls like Isabella that got turned down by Kaybobo & Kola simply kept it moving with no hard feelings. This is apart from her being a very toxic person on her own with added gbazaquin behavior o! Denari is in for it! |
I know I'm not the only one that finds it a little weird when Imisi breaks character and uses vocabulary you would associate more with someone like Gigi. I'm in Lagos and i know ordinary Ebute-Metta girls or even many campus girls don't use words & sayings like:- -"There's beauty in silence" -"Improvise" -"Transferred aggression" What kind of ghetto Yoruba girl knows the lyrics of songs like Dido's "White Flag"? She doesn't even flinch when she hears certain monetary sums being mentioned by other housemates. When Mensan said his carved staff costs 95k, she just answered "pere?" She was almost offended when Thelma said she looked like who would do lipo & fat transfer after the show. Imisi just said she could have done that way before the house if she wanted as such procedures could be had for "just" 2-5m Naira! Most of the housemates now know she's acting, what they now want to see is how long she can stay in character. It's too late though, she even has the largest team online media influencers that kick-started a bandwagon from Wk 1, and all things being equal, viewers are already convinced she'll win the show. I don't like her style,but i admire the work & dedication she put into her game plan. Afterall, except for Kuture who might not be able to afford & Mide, virtually all the housemates came prepared with media teams and game plans or heavy pockets for voting. Even Tracy's team managed to trend her on Twitter! So may the best gamer win! She once mistakenly hinted to Kaybobo that she's deep in character. She is friendly with Isabella, Dede, & Mensan, but when she's with Kola, she breaks character almost 100%. Maybe it's because he has a way of bringing out her inner child the way guys do with their sisters. Doris is really mean for saying Kola is only close to her because of food. How can someone so small in stature be filled with such explosive bitterness? She already has Denari, why's she still on Kola's case? |

