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tioluwalasee:
I don’t mean physically because violence does not mean anything to me. Do you think Martins can hold his own verbally against Tram?

Martins won't even engage him because they're not mates. It's what I would do.

tioluwalasee:
Lmao Tram will so wound him at the reunion show after he sees his nonsense comments about the housemates

Tram will wound WHO? I hope he tries it sha.

Tifay:
This Chimsom is a combo of Jason Jae and Kola bad traits from last season. Really wish the camera stops showing him at this point.

Nonsense boy

What did he do?

lebete3000:
I tell pesin before say Tram go chop dah geh, una dey joke.

Kontinuu. Na 4 tour very eye hin go happen.

Tram na the kain guy wey ladies like, nonchalant yet not hiding shyness under pride like Ricky. The guy even talk am sey if to say hin really dey interested in any babe, hin go chase. Guy obviously loves that life out there.

Until one bros brush am like the small pikin wey e be.

Neche, watch your drinking. And hope she knows about Barry's antics in the house and what he told Kamsy?

Hazardfan1:
Nomy has the best body

Nah, Abi. Nomy's doctor did a very good job,but Abi is just levels above her.

safarigirl:
I don’t know what anyone knows these days

I am not even harsh lambasting the guy. I literally said he looked like be could play a romance lead if he cleaned up, that is a compliment to his looks. I called him handsome, and you skilled all that to say I lambast him? Wetin Chimsom wey I say him nose dey like bottle opener go come talk?

Dat Chimsom own na just banter, you know there's nothing wrong with his nose. That's a one-off.

You've been on Ricky for quite a while now. I even had to ask if you're his ex.

Maybe, just maybe, Neche really needs a friend like Aikou. I still feel bad he's a gambit.

She should sha not bring her naughty gist near him. Since knowing he's a virgin, some girls in that house have turned trolling and teasing him into a sport, from Mercedes to Nomy.

Evaress:
they should stop bringing married people to the show. They will be so stiff in the show and bbn is all about having fun, forming ships, games, gbas gbos. I mean these are what viewers enjoy. She has nothing else to offer to the show.

She has the best body on the show, so people might want to keep seeing her.

safarigirl:
Shocked I have to explain literary agents to you

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Shocked you think i don't know what similes and metaphors are.

You just seem to excel at harsh lambasting a guy who just rubs you the wrong way for no apparent reason. Maybe bandanas are his unique identifier like 2018 Cee-C & her lashes that made her look like a housefly 🙂.

Evaress:
I was rooting for Abi but from the way things are going, i don't think she might make it to the finals except she has a strong fan base that will keep voting for her. Abi isn't really doing anything exciting.

Abi doesn't do gbas gbos and she dare not try any ship. She even tried with doing one Truth or Dare. Don't forget her husband warned her not to come for the show.

tioluwalasee:
Sheba likes to laugh and Tram is funny

It's a weird mother/son thing. These Gen Zs are odd, the minute they see any Millennial they automatically assume they've seen their mummy, daddy or elder sibling and then they start acting bratty and entitled. Tram , for all his bravado, sees Sheba,Cassi and Ricky as role models & guardians/mentors.

Temi Nkem is even worse than Baye, she directly screams out "I am the baby of this house and should be treated as such", so the housemates pet her too much. The most mature of the Gen Zs this season is oddly enough, Oyin. You'll think she and Flora are age mates.

lebete3000:
Na hin Tram come dey chop am. Chei, thus life no balance true true

Tram no dey chop anytin, but he dey see hugs and cuddles steady. I still don't know why Sheba indulges him though.

safarigirl:
Chim Gini? Be like say na blind cat

Chimsom wey him nose dey like bottle opener?

Yusuf is not cute, Yusuf is sexy. You cannot look at that face and call it cute. “Cute” is adorable, and Yusuf does not look adorable. Keivo is cute

Barry’s face is okay, but Barry works as a whole package.

I think Araga has very sexy eyes, and his facial structure is impressive. I find him good-looking. Araga and Yusuf looked alike to me in the early days, like they could be brothers, but not anymore.

Ricky is handsome, and if he cleaned up better, he’d look like the lead male in a romance film, but he prefers to be a bandana-wearing cultist, so….

Cassi is just okay, facially, he’s better looking than Chimsom, some might even call him handsome, but he doesn’t carry himself well, so, he just is

This was uncalled for

The Neche, i don't think what she has is beauty, she's a legitimate soft sweet girl, raised and pampered in abundance(what Nomy actually thinks she is). She just oozes privileged upbringing, something many BBnaija It-girls try to fake until you find out they're just corporate runs girls or dating Yahoo boys.

Na dis kain babe dey ginger man to hustle money any which way just so he can spoil her. None of the guys in that house possess the maturity to handle her.

It should have been Ricky ,but he simply doesn't understand the concept of treating females delicately.

safarigirl:
I really hope he gets well soon

I heard he actually passed out. Ricky stoically muttered that it looks quite bad.

safarigirl:
Barry said home finds his conversations with Neche stiff.

This is after Kamsy and Gerard teased him about putting leg in 2 ships (Neche and Goddessa)

He them says conversations are easier with Goddessa, and he doesn’t know what to say when he’s with Neche. He usually clams up when he likes a babe

Kamsy asks, “So, you really like Neche, but you’re attracted to Goddessa?”

He pauses and says, “I’m just more comfortable with Goddessa..”

Then he shrugs and goes, “it doesn’t even matter, wherever I have with Neche will most likely just end in this house, because she has boyfriend outside…” Then he says he will go back to his ex post show, because he’s stuck on her


Anyway, Nerry abi na Cherry ship, make una just manage the boy this period. Don’t think he really likes the Neche like that.

Goddessa might be toxic, but she has raw sexual aura, which enables her to mess with the heads of guys who aren't careful. Her charms have now caught Yusuf, but Araga asked him to back off as his guy.

By the way, hope Araga is okay?

tioluwalasee:
You’ve repeated the same nonsense enough times now. I’ve answered you clearly, you’ve chosen not to understand it, and now you’re just recycling insults and weird insinuations.

Oga, argue with yourself. Weirdo.

If Flora had heard you talk she would probably chase you with a frying pan. Keep peeping at people bathing till they catch you okay?

tioluwalasee:
At this point you’re embarrassing yourself. You keep asking whether I personally stand around watching women bathe because you have absolutely nothing left to argue, so you’ve resorted to repeatedly insinuating I’m some kind of sexual deviant. That is not debate, it is gutter behaviour. If you have to keep attaching perversion to me personally to make your point sound stronger, then your point is already dead.

And no, the logical link is not difficult unless you are deliberately being obtuse. Consent is literally what separates consensual intimacy from voyeurism. If people agree to bathe together, fine. If someone watches them without consent, not fine. This is primary-school-level distinction, yet you have spent half the evening pretending not to understand it so you can keep shouting pervert. You’re not confused, you’re being dishonest. I’ve explained this enough. Go and argue with the imaginary creep in your head because he clearly has far more to do with your obsession than I do.

Answer me you oxygen thief - did the girls consent to being watched? Did Flora complain about people consenting to bathe together? Why are you being defiantly asinine because you're hell-bent on showing me how clever by half you are?

Is all of this to justify your possible habit of staring at naked people bathing? Let me know how you process things.

tioluwalasee:
Oga please rest. You have spent three posts doing unnecessary gymnastics, only to finally land on the very obvious point that consent matters, as if anybody argued otherwise. All the Pornhub, mothers, Frodd, MouthAction and morality sermon was just noise because you wanted this discussion to sound more scandalous than it actually was.

And this listen to understand, do your intelligence a favour routine is very funny coming from someone who has been fighting an argument he created by himself. You don’t get to misunderstand somebody repeatedly, add your own nonsense, then start forming lecturer when they correct you. If this is the hill you think I’m dying on, at least first locate the hill correctly.

Quick one - Do you stand and watch people of the opposite gender bathing where you live? You seem deeply invested in this matter. Or are you projecting because you felt Flora was talking about you?

What's the logical link between the scenario of the women being watched as they bathed, and consent? Are you saying they consented to being watched? I would appreciate it if you can be more coherent please.

Love800:
Yea.

Biggie already put things in place to get the housemates Hot.

Biggie knows what he is doing.

I mentioned earlier at the starting of the show that biggie is just using this housemates solely for his profit. He doesn't care how the season affected the housemates emotionally and mentally after the end of the show.

Yea, the show is a coded porn, so housemates gat to use their brain so make person no looseguard his/her secret.

I always put it like dis that housemates coming to big-brother will always sacrifice his/her privacy in exchange for fame.

Those guys(contestants) are trying. Initially when big-brother officially launched, people thought they were eating free food, but those housemates are being traumatized inside that house.

It's why I'm surprised a nepo baby like Neche chose to come for the show.

tioluwalasee:
You’re doing it again. My original point was explicitly about consenting adults choosing to bathe together, and you keep desperately rewriting it into me defending men watching unwilling women bathe. That is quite literally the strawman here. The fact that you need to keep changing my argument before you can attack it should tell you something.

And spare me the fake concern about ad hominem after you already insinuated I’m a pervert and suggested I belong on porn sites. You don’t get to throw personal filth into the conversation, then clutch your pearls because I called your reasoning intellectually lazy. If you want a respectful argument, start by actually arguing with what I said instead of inventing a creepier version of it and attaching it to me.

Listen to understand, not to get your lick back. Did the incident Flora mentioned imply consent on the part of the girls which wasn't even the topic? Why are you doing your intelligence a disservice? Do you not see how weird it is that it's this hill you want to die on?

tioluwalasee:
You wrote an entire essay arguing with points I never made, then had the nerve to call my reply word salad. Barging in on unwilling flatmates, Frodd and Tacha, Pornhub, MouthAction and somebody’s mother have absolutely nothing to do with whether consenting adults can choose to bathe together. it’s just you flinging every sexual taboo you can think of at the wall because the actual point is too simple for all this drama.

And this idea that if two women complain then everybody else must secretly agree is just intellectually lazy. People are perfectly capable of speaking for themselves. You don’t get to invent hidden victims, assign them feelings and then use those imaginary feelings as evidence. If someone was uncomfortable, listen to them. If they weren’t, stop desperately trying to be offended on their behalf.

And the cheap little insinuation that I must be a pervert because I don’t share your prudishness is pathetic. If your argument is so weak that you have to imply something sexual about me personally instead of addressing what I actually said, then you’ve already run out of substance. Disagree with me all you like, but keep that gutter-level nonsense to yourself.

You're commiting the same strawnan you accused me of. Is the bone of contention people agreeing to bathe together or pervs watching fellow housemates bathe?

So your intellectual muscle is focused on justifying guys watching females bathe and laying it all on "This is an adult show afterall"?

Do you not see how mentally hurtful your arguments are, apart from your slowly trying to go ad hominem? You're not asinine na, do better!

Love800:
Yea.

Na only FG(federal government) fit challenge bigge about dat.
But at the moment, that is what production want.

Biggie don't want the house to be looking like a primary school ground were morals is strictly followed.
Its for the crazy geng people "woke!"

Housemates already know what they signed into.

That's why Biggie was codedly gassing up Kamsy in the diary room to try under duvet tins when the girl expressed that she wanted to do it but felt uncomfortable because of her Christian faith.

I love the show,but my pikin or small sister no go fit go am abeg. And guys now are getting crazy, many of them this season stated they don't mind their nudity being recorded on Biggie's camera while they're having sex. The females know virtually all the guys have plans for them, but konji is a bastard.

Biggie worsens things by bombarding them with food,drinks and its secret weapon, the air-conditioning, to get the girls in the mood. Many female housemates complained about the air-conditioning making things worse, coupled with the boredom.

It's why sooner or later, even the good girls among them start joining the Truth or Dare games, especially by the 7th week.

Blue that was initially stubborn is now melting for Chimsom,she might not be always around to keep sharing a bed with Neche, clearing the road for Barry or Ricky. Even Nomy has started gisting about sex.

If Neche finishes this show without duvet tins, it's either her chi is strong or Barry/Ricky decide to control themselves, or she remembers her home training and maybe the fear of being slutshamed. Not everyone has the guts of Ka3na , Erica or Mide.

Love800:
No dedicated room for female or male bathroom is part of the show system. So housemates will talk about something sensitive. How the housemates express it is up to dem.

Biggie did it like dat for chaos and discussion highlights.

Its an adult show and biggie does not care.

Any housemates wey looseguard his/herself is on simply alone or their cup of coffee.

Until one no-nonsense government enters and decides to face them. I remember when it got so bad that BBA actually charged $10-16 a month, in 2013 i think, to watch housemates bathing.

That was how the video of Dilish bathing circulated. That was how i knew Fatima had a ring piercing in her private area. I saw all kinds of nudity and even then, i knew it didn't just feel right. They reduced the nonsense to calm Nigerian viewers down.

Give a man an inch, he'll take a mile. You see that shared bathing? Make e stop.

tioluwalasee:
Your examples don’t even address what I said.

1. I never said they should show footage of them showering. That was never on the table, so the whole defecation/used-pad comparison is a strawman. They don’t show individual showers either, so why would I be arguing for couple shower footage?

2. Even if they did show something suggestive, are we children? It’s an R18 show on a subscription platform. Adults choosing to watch an adult reality show do not need Oyin, Flora or anybody else acting as moral guardians on their behalf.

3. And comparing two consenting adults bathing together to taking a dump or displaying a used sanitary pad is frankly ridiculous. Those things are considered private because of hygiene and bodily waste. Two adults being intimate is not remotely the same category.

4. Jackie B choosing not to kiss Michael because of her son was her personal boundary, which she was perfectly entitled to have. It doesn’t magically become the moral standard every other adult in the house must follow. Likewise, someone avoiding the show because they’re in a relationship is their choice, not evidence that everybody else is doing something wrong.

And “bathing together can lead to something” made me laugh. Yes, two adults who are attracted to each other might eventually have sex. Shocking revelation lol. That still doesn’t make bathing together immoral.

This is exactly the fake morality I’m talking about. Nobody is forcing anybody to shower together, kiss, have sex or even approve of it. But acting scandalised because other consenting adults have different boundaries from you is just pearl clutching.

Yeah, you definitely know the type of content you really want to watch.

There are porn sites for that.

Even in reality, do you go barging in on your female flatmates bathing because you're all above 18?

If even 2 females speak up about it, shouldn't that tell you it might be something also felt but ignored by the other housemates?

Tacha almost broke Frodd's head because he insisted on sharing the shower with her. Same thing happened with Ike and Mercy.

It's not even morality, it's public decency.

If 2 people decide to bathe together, how is that same as people passing by and watching bathing women like a gallery? Do you not see your own equivalence? Or is it when it finally causes an issue in the house you'll calm down?

Biggie sha absolved himself from legal risk with a warning from Ebuka:- "Remember that cameras are always watching".


Nigerians should quit using "Nobody holy pass" & "Nobody be pikin for here" to push the boundaries of sanity. It's how some housemates unknowingly found themselves on Pornhub. I doubt any man would want to stumble on videos of his mum bathing naked while being gazed at by Hot strangers or giving MouthAction on a live reality TV show decades ago.

Your reply is just flowery word salad, you know exactly wetin you dey find.

tioluwalasee:
There is absolutely nothing wrong with consensual adults bathing together. This is a r18 show, it’s this fake morality by the p*rn capital of the world that is holding this show back. People like Oyin and Flora clutching their pearls at the mere mention. Please they should grow up

We all defecate, but should cameras zoom in on people taking dumps because it's what we all do?

All women menstruate,but why do people get creeped out when they see used pads?

We all sin,but let's not lose our sense of right & wrong. Some things are simply meant to be private.

Remember when viewers trolled Jackie B in SYE for always saying "My son is watching"? Well, she approached Michael first and they became a thing. She cooked for him, i think she even did his laundry and she gave him cuddles, but even kiss, she no gree, telling him to wait till they leave the house. You think she didn't experience konji?

Why do you think parents kick against the show? Why do people in serious relationships avoid going to the house?

Did you notice that in NLG season, nobody except Chinwe & Zion had sex. Why? Because they came with family.

Bathing in a shower together can lead to something. Or do you want to go back to the days of Shower Hour that was glorified OnlyFans?

tioluwalasee:
This Flora is such a snitch. Do you think Big Brother did not see what happened? You yourself did not see what happened, you’re reporting based on hearsay you heard from Oyin who exaggerated and put her own spin on the entire thing. Judging characters babe, fix up your own character. Character is not about who is pretending they can’t bath with the opposite gender.

tioluwalasee:
This Flora is such a snitch. Do you think Big Brother did not see what happened? You yourself did not see what happened, you’re reporting based on hearsay you heard from Oyin who exaggerated and put her own spin on the entire thing. Judging characters babe, fix up your own character. Character is not about who is pretending they can’t bath with the opposite gender.

People bathe together & have sex, but on camera or with strangers? I still don't get why Biggie can't simply build 2 separate bathrooms and toilets for male and female housemates.

The organizers of the show are all about their profits. This is the same Biggie that kept quiet and the Tboss/Kemen issue till people made serious noise about it online.

He was very close to using wuru wuru to evict Pere in favour of Angel in SYE before people made noise and even went to Ilupeju to protest. #JusticeforPere was trending on Twitter.

The seeing people naked is something biggie might need to look into. Devil fit go enter one of those guys, plus one female like Nomy fit package story set up pesin pikin.

tioluwalasee:
This Flora is such a snitch. Do you think Big Brother did not see what happened? You yourself did not see what happened, you’re reporting based on hearsay you heard from Oyin who exaggerated and put her own spin on the entire thing. Judging characters babe, fix up your own character. Character is not about who is pretending they can’t bath with the opposite gender.

People bathe together & have sex, but on camera or with strangers? I still don't get why Biggie can't simply build 2 separate bathrooms and toilets for male and female housemates.

The organizers of the show are all about their profits. This is the same Biggie that kept quiet and the Tboss/Kemen issue till people made serious noise about it online.

He was very close to using wuru wuru to evict Pere in favour of Angel in SYE before people made noise and even went to Ilupeju to protest. #JusticeforPere was trending on Twitter.

The seeing people naked is something biggie might need to look into. Devil fit go enter one of those guys, plus one female like Nomy fit package story set up pesin pikin.

FortCavazosKnox:
This is how to live as a man!!

Confam o!

safarigirl:
I do not look away when child abuse come up, both in child labour and child sexual abuse.

Again, we return back to society and what it enables. The reason child abuse thrives, is because we have a society that enables it.

In a country like Nigeria, for instance, the abuse of children is not even called abuse. Children start getting spanked while still in pampers and nobody owns up to it.

Funny enough, the women who partake in the said child abuse, often have accomplices in men. What is the husband doing while the wife abuses these children? Men who have kids will get remarried and sit by, while their new wives abuse their kids. Married women look away, while their depraved husbands sexually abuse the little kids they have brought in for child labour.

Whatever the society enables, is what thrives. Ultimately, there is a hierarchy of power, societally especially, and whatever form of abuse that happens with the vulnerable in society, is enabled or inflicted, by those who are higher up that ladder of power.

Lol, are you blaming men as enablers of the vices of women? So women are pathologically unable to assume accountability? Seriously

bentenny:
😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣

Na true na