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[quote author=tioluwalasee post=140311457][/quote]Lol

Anniemae:
I thought men said women liked bad boys,nonchalent men..but in this situation they don't like your Ricky. I'm glad he's keeping to himself and not forcing shit
With that his Pete edocie haircut

I think at this point, Ricky isn't forming it, he just doesn't care. Once a female rejects him , he doesn't apply pressure,he just walks away.

safarigirl:
Thankfully, I have been studying human beings for too long, and have a long history of it even on this site.

I don’t use buzzwords for the sake of, I speak factually. I am not one to deceive myself into thinking all humans are the same or equal, I believe there are structures in place, that ensure society is run in a particular way.

Race/Ethnicity, Gender, Class, Religion and Sexuality are societal structures that exist for a reason, and beneficiaries of these structures are never in a hurry to dismantle them, even when they seem like allies. An equitable world, is but a dream.

Riveting take you put forward here, but it's still very utopian. Not all women are victims, and not all men are beneficiaries. There'll always be something to complain about.

I find it amusing when the women that yell "Misogyny" like banshees typically look the other way when more serious issues like child abuse, especially child labour abuse involving house-maids and house boys, come up.

Misandrists are also a thing,but most men would rather focus on choosing women that suit them instead of red-pilling indefinitely.

safarigirl:
lol

No mind the werey

Make Nomy top Temi, Ricky and Tram ke? Even Sheba she no fit top

She could be Top 5, but she’s not topping that list.

My own prediction is that Gerald and Abi leave on Sunday, only thing that may save Abi is if her Italian husband drop voting money. If Goddessa doesn’t leave, or fall in that bottom 3 at least, na God do am for her.

Godessa might be a problem, she's actually gathering female fans who see her as doing what Dede thought she was doing. She's actively juggling 2 fresh boys while being dominant about it and messing with their heads, talk about female empowerment!

Araga is more likely to leave.

safarigirl:
Didn’t say I don’t like it

I said I have never tried it, so, I have no opinions about it.

And why do we discuss anything tbh? For enlightenment. What is humanity, if not curiosity? Essentially, if you’re an avid learner, you want to learn about everything, especially things that make people human.

Curiosity killed the cat, remember. Kudos on being celibate this long, it's actually admirable.

safarigirl:
Even the most open minded men have misogynistic TRAITS. It cannot be helped, same way patriarchy will always exist in society.

Some things are actually baseline, and that’s why I mentioned even queer men, because the whole fight for trans inclusion in women’s spaces, is also misogyny.

Essentially, just like racism, and anything that bestows privilege on certain persons, everyone who benefits from such a system, will have traits that support the system. It’s really all down to human selfishness, and that cannot be helped

This is sounding like something Angel would say. The girl knew all the buzzwords from "Patriarchy" to "Pick me", but she was a glorified entitled call girl that depended on men for her survival.

It's either you're a misogynist or simp or weak man, it really doesn't matter for me as long as reciprocal respect is practised.

There'll always be something to complain about i guess.

safarigirl:
I have never trolled anyone about having sex on that show, so, I don’t know why you’d write either of these paragraphs.

What about the post you quoted, gave, “I am trolling Nomy over sex”?

I do not care about what people choose to do with their bodies. In that conversation, I would be Aikou.

Hmmm. Why discuss about sex when you don't even like it in the first place?

safarigirl:
Ricky is misogynistic.

Even the most open-minded of men has traits of misogyny, how much more Ricky. Even queer men are misogynistic, how much more Ricky.

He’s not my cup of tea, like many of the other men on this show, but that is why they brought 24 housemates. Everybody will find their cup of tea, we mustn’t drink them all.

Hmmm, you're some sort of expert misogynist whisperer. Noted. Aren't you the same person that has an issue with generalizations and how fallacious they can be? Because i don't get the "Even the most open-minded of men" verdict. Anyway, that's your private grief.

But what are the traits you saw in Frederick to arrive at this conclusion though?

safarigirl:
I don’t own a toy and have never used one.

DJ-ing is something I am familiar with off the internet.

I do not perform any form of seggsual acts, at most, I read about them and find discussions about them enlightening, as I do any other discussion about human beings.

I find it funny that the average Nigerian is so limited in thought, that they make blanket statements about certain things, and their brains scramble when they meet people who do not conform to these standards set.

I am not like most of you, or the people you have met…and that is why I am on my own.

It's okay to toot your own horn(no pun intended), but couldn't you just have said "I am asexual" or "I am celibate" or "I rather use my fingers than a toy"?

I wasn't too sure what you were on about here.

safarigirl:
To short no be crime

She will meet her tall king that will love her short self one day

Her height isn't the issue, she doesn't have a pronounced bum to match her upper body even though she's not flat. Low-key, men love portable "fun-sized" women that are well-proportioned.

There are also guys that consider the likes of Neche or Thelma Lawson "too big".

Cee-C was a legit Maltina bottle, but she caused serious problems with her face, figure, dress sense, and carriage.

safarigirl:
Nomy is telling Aikou about her sexual experience, Yusuf is an observer by the way

She tells him that she didn’t think she had an orgazzimm until someone used a vibe—rator on her. Aikou is intrigued by this, and asks how the introduction of the “machinery” helped the process. He asks if it was the pace that brought the climax, and Nomy says it was the precision.

Yusuf provides some exposition on how people experience pleasure differently, and some men are often intimidated by the idea of exploring and finding what pleases their partners. He informs Aikou that he is quite passionate about seggs in case Aikou needs any further lessons.

Yusuf goes on to say that he was having seggs for a long time and didn’t know he was doing nonsense, then he goes into a whole discourse on the difference between just getting a climax, and truly enjoying seggs to an electrifying point.


I am finding this discourse quite interesting. Love it actually

Just say you own a toy, almost every woman does at this point, especially in Lagos where hook-ups are hard.

Regarding Nomy, i don't know what's taking Cassi so long, the girl is ready. Why can't he move in and close the deal?

safarigirl:
This is not h*rny levels, this is adults having a very engaging and necessary discourse on pleasure

With this talk, i don't trust you surviving as a housemate in that place for more than 4 weeks without duvet action o.

There are cases of online BBnaija analyst viewers that trolled female housemates over sexual matters, only to become housemates themselves and get involved in aggressive cuddling within days on the show.🙂

safarigirl:
Funny enough, I would have engaged Ricky at first. He sounds intelligent enough to engage at first listen. I would have been turned off by some of his misogynistic beliefs, but if I were in that house, I would continue to engage him, for argumentative purposes solely.

I do not think that Ricky is ideal for a ship, but if you were looking to debate gender politics, he’d make for good company.

Ricky isn't misogynistic, he just practices intentional nonchalance and is open about being sexually active with a seeming dislike for commitment unless he considers it worth the effort.

It's just ironic that he's being hated for not being the ho he said he was, and he's trapped in regarding female options. Any female he approaches will always suspect she's just Neche's rebound, though Sheba is wearing him down slowly.

He's not that bad, give him a chance.

safarigirl:
Nothing.

Una no ask me this question when I dey glaze Araga and Sooj, but once I dunk on GehGeh Students, una go dey ask wetin men do me.

Is Ricky more of a man than Araga? Abi na every man I suppose like? Una don dey here yab Nomy finish, insult Goddessa, and I never ask anybody wetin women do them.

No be every man person go like. Normal stuff

So on a normal you go bounce Ricky. He's not your spec, i don't get why you dedicate energy to him. It's the same thing with the girls in the house and many female viewers. They hate him simply because of his deeply annoying habit of maintaining his distance and keeping mute along with totally leaving where he's not wanted.

Isn't that supposed to be a good thing for a man?

safarigirl:
The last time I had any sort of reasonable interaction with any man was 2019.

So, na Ricky know who threaten him life, but I honestly couldn’t be bothered about males like that. Also, na PH he dey. Never been

Nothing I posted reach for this take

Hmmm. Celibate, asexual, gay or having an array of intimacy gadgets?😏(I kid, i kid).

I guess he realized some girls don't like being toyed with. Maybe it's why he has decided to simply lay low and let life happen.

safarigirl:
As he dey tie bandana dey form hard guy with aura, make he do bouncer

Nah, Ricky na your ex and e be like say e really break your heart. Ricky mentioned a girl that threatened his life outside the house that he saw BBnaija as an escape for his safety, sure say the babe no be you?😏

Chimsom you don see say Kamsy don go, you wan carry your nonsense begin target Blue abi?

safarigirl:
I can’t like him, because I have a visceral reaction to loose-mouthed men, but when he’s not saying ridiculously disrespectful things about women, I’m cool with him

I have the same feeling for most of the boys here

That's where you're wrong. Tram isn't yet a grown man. You might cringe if you watch a video of your 24-year old self, even though girls attain maturity and exposure faster than boys.

Cee-C on the All Stars show said she remembered the Cynthia of Double Wahala and was just thankful for growth and maturity, which is why she resisted the urge to whoop Ilebaye. Venita was more of a wicked aunty to her though.

Haven't you noticed the look of casual amusement playing on Ricky's face whenever he watches Tram talk? Yusuf just can't stand him because he admitted Tram reminds him of how he was in his university days and how childish he was looking back. Sheba and Godessa are always amused by him, even when he's handsy with them they are not in the least upset, like they can see through his bravado & they're utterly convinced he hasn't even seen a woman's nudity before.

Tram has the typical exuberance and arrogance of youth. He only gets vulnerable with Cassi who he sees as a big bro for some reason. He's actually catching an increasing number of Millenial fans who have one or Trams in their own homes.

It's the same reason i involuntarily smile whenever I see Blue and Temi on my screen.

Eeghe:
He has an irresistible ?impish charm

Or he just reminds you of a rascally nephew you're quite fond of?

safarigirl:
If any babe Chike any of these guys, I pity them.

Anyway, Barionwo had multiple green lights, when I knew he no too serious, was when Keivo jump over am, collect Temi. Normally, Keivo suppose collect woman from him hand?

Now, he has gone to settle with Neche, since Ricky no dey interested again. No road with Goddessa, Araga fit comot him teeth, even as he’s about 6 inches shorter.

And no be say green light been no dey, but an indecisive driver will surely be stuck in the same spot when that green light is gone

Lol, the guys this year are serious yappers sha. A Bright Morgan alone would have scared & aroused them all at the same time and bagged Neche by the 3rd day in the house.

Chuka is practicing a deep level of delusion that i can't even grasp. I think he has some borderline personality disorders, like he's an OJ Simpson aspirant.

Gerard talks & moves like a Millenial, but insists he's 26. He's just too advanced for Kamsy.

Ricky should go cold turkey with the females for now and focus on sponsored tasks 100%. He should also embark on friendly gists and singing for the females.

Barry doesn't see Temi that way, his prime desire is Godessa,but Araga has successfully intimidated them all except Sultex. I still don't know how Blue feels about him.

Cassi has been in commercial modelling for years and attended UNILAG, i don't know why he's too scared to front Neche. Well, Nomy would be glad to have him.

safarigirl:
Forgot I didn’t respond to the first question, but Nwa Charlie is Temi Nkem, as per British babe

Lol, that rascal!I just hope she never runs into Uriel. I don't want people thinking my beautiful Igbo women living in the UK are wackos biko .

safarigirl:
There is nothing wrong with all these things in our daily lives…nothing wrong with being peaceful and cooking…me sef I am peaceful and cooking IN MY HOUSE.

People are paying subscription for a show, and it is not far-fetched to expect a show from housemates. If everybody was cooking and peaceful, this thread will still be on Page 50 by now.

So, in the absence of a show, I believe it is fair to call him boring.

Now, I know you people don’t like my Osuji too here, but I will now be citing him….he was wooing Nelly the same period Mayor was wooing her. She told him she wasn’t there for ship, she told Mayor the same thing. Mayor took a step back, Sooj said, “I will change your mind”

There is nothing sexier than an audacious man that sees what he wants, notes the obstacles, and surmounts it.

I’m a romance writer, dynamics like that tickle my brain in a good way. These are the things that give me a show. I love a good story; I don’t mind suspense, I don’t mind conflict, I don’t mind a slow burn.

This is why I enjoy the show differently than some people, and this is why I have faves that some of you find boring. I see men written by women, and it thrills me.

Mr Barry can be a leading man in a compelling romance, but he has chosen to be a supporting character, and for this reason, I, personally, think him boring.

Konji is an equal opportunity employer as far as I'm concerned. We also have women knowing what they want, going for it, and taking it by force.

Bambam, acting like a mumu, tamed Teddy A and ended up as a Mrs.

Khaffi audaciously took on Gedoni (something Kim Oprah couldn't do) and is today a wife and mother of 2 while a solid babe like Lambo might soon start doing NSPPD 6am WhatsApp Status updates and disturbing Pastor Jerry Eze.

We all laughed at how Jackie B rushed Michael,but time proved her right. They dated for a really long time.

Razz local Phyna got Groovy after warning Beauty point blank that if Groovy entered her space, she would move in. She broke Groovy down with just submission while Beauty was shouting "Betrayal" like a mad woman.


Adekunle was basically a monk and even Allysyn, the girl with the best figure in the history of BBnaija, couldn't break him, but Venita, a supposedly washed-up mother of 2, got him in just about 4-5 weeks.

Goddessa is comfortably dogging down Araga & she has Barry on reserve, it's just that she has no beef with Neche & Araga worships her. If Sheba knows what she's doing, she'll slowly break Ricky down.

Forget his macho forming, Bells is the one looking to even discharge Yusuf. She knows he wouldn't look at her twice outside the house, so for her, Yusuf is actually a notch on her belt.

Women are human too, no law bans them from flashing green light or chyking guys too. I understand that masculinity is under attack generally, but at least cut men some slack. The fear of rejection, especially on national TV, is real !

Akpakomiza2:
Who won't run away from a loud mouthed, noisy, bitter oyin

No matter the konji wey catch me, gisting with a girl like Oyin for 5 minutes will turn me extremely off!

safarigirl:
When I told you it is Araga I rate most in that house, you come dey ask me some kain question. Na small thing separate Barry and Cassi.

Do you know that Martins did not have a bed on Day 1? As soon as Goddessa cleared that hideous makeup from her face, do you know Araga went up to her and asked if he could share a bed with her, because he didn’t have a bed? That is how Martins got a bed. Araga said if she has refused him that night, he’d try again the next day.

Do you know what Mr. Barry said when they asked him the girls he fancied in that house? He said: “I respect Ricky and Araga too much.”

This was Week 1 o, so, overtaking was expected.

A moving man, will meet his luck one day.

I appreciate initiative.

Mr. Barry does not believe in his own sauce, who am I to counter the chef himself? I wish he was the guy the ladies want him to be, but he’s really just Cassi Pro Max.

Nawao, with this your response, it seems women nowadays are very open about what they want and they are even moving like guys nowadays, is it now wrong for a guy to simply decide he wants no drama & keep to himself?

Abi to be fine boy don turn crime?

Ricky's biggest offence is that he didn't come with the ashawo/lover boy script you thought he would display.

Understand Cassi biko, that guy attended Bible college, small fear go still dey catch am.

All Topher wanted to do was just eat food and cruise,but at least 4 girls in the house drew his map.

Kaybobo just cared about cooking food and sports,not knowing Ivatar, Imisi, Bella,Soso & Thelma were all playing a silent game of who would take him down first. Thelma finally realized he had a soft spot for single mums because of his own experience and used that level to enter him.

Mide actually used "everybody needs a friend" format on Bright until she got what she wanted.

Jason was too embarrassed to admit that he was basically Sultana's sex slave, only for the crazy girl to ask him at the reunion: "You're an adult, did i force you?".

Barry should stick with his being peaceful and cooking food for the house. Or you think the girls calling him "Mr Barry" just want to be his gisting partners?

Do you even know if he's scared of PDA or being naked on live TV? Afterall Soma was terrified of even kissing on camera.

Tifay:
This your Ricky sha. I still dont see the hype yet maybe cos I havent really been following plus I dont think he has that much supporters anyway, at least not to the point of Top 5 if I'm being honest. But of course, we are still in early days and things may change.

About the bolded, True, every one of the women on these show who's displayed these toxic behaviors tend to behave better at some point when they get their desired male attention. Tacha did with Seyi especially with the secret room closeness before they later became sworn enemies. Ceec with Tobi too and I think Nomy is starting to fancy Cassi in the way you suggested, he's defended her to a large extent and a part of me likes that about him. Not everyone has to think in the same direction like all the housemates

As for Neche, to be fair, I did think she'll be very controversial especially how she went about the Ricky thing. Explaining all over the house and even embellishing some details, but ever since then she's carried herself well and generally been laid back and gentle with everyone. I guess that incident with Ricky is just the Ricky curse and luck with women - which he alluded to in his intro.

I however think she's lucky to get with someone like Barry instead of Ricky or worse-off someone like Yusuf who wont mind romping her on live Tv. I do think this season, the housemates have shown sexual restraints so far but this could also be cos Big brother for some reason hasnt turned up the AC like he usually does these past seasons.

Ricky is a representation of the current Millenial - pre-occupied with adulting, nonchalant about many things, angry that they haven't achieved set goals, shocked at how fast time has flown by, and generally a mix of amused and sometimes irritated by Gen Zs. I strongly believe he'll win by simply going through life in the house and annoying the women some more.

Sheba gets this, and it's why i think they're a good match, if Ricky can control his konji.

The women thought he would be a very Hot rabbit chasing all of them after making mouth on the first day.

Goddessa is mad her charms didn't work on him. Neche, Nomy & Blue are irritated that instead of applying pressure, he just walks away if a girl tells him no. They instead started accusing him of aura farming and called him all manner of taunts from "bad b*tch" to "poohsie nigga" to "a princess".

Barry's own was worse, even female viewers of the show were calling him a soft boy and weakling for simply maintaining his distance with Neche!

The only difference is that he seemed charmed by Godessa. The guys are acting weird this season though, the women are kinda more in charge sexually.

The boys also look better than the girls according to viewers, so many of them have decided they won't settle.

Gerard almost reasoned Oyin,but she opened her mouth and he ran away.

Mercedes don go, chai! I enjoyed watching her o.

She was a big oxymoron on this show. How can you be a stripper that can give a lap dance, but you won't ship or even dance with guys?

At least Chichi loved cooking for the house, Chichi made it clear that she loved fine boys, Chichi was steadily on Deji till she finally got him, and she still gave a very hot lap dance.

What was Mercedes thinking abeg? Nigerians sef no try, Mercedes out while Keivo is still in?!

safarigirl:
Barionwo is just a talller, finer WhiteMoney

All he does is cook and manage the company his co-delawood, Neche. Only time he comes alive, is when he’s either with Nwa Charlie or Resident Dominatrix

Who's Nwa Charlie?

Can you honestly say you won't enjoy a person like Barry cooking for you, serving you food, and cuddling you? Or you'll accuse him of being a soft weakling that doesn't know how to apply pressure?😀

Tifay:
Back here again.

Although I havent really been following this year, just snippets here and there. Although I did think I would be passive during 10/10 but it was really good a season and dragged me in. Sadly I dont see this one doing same

Can see my guy from last season Friendly25 here too. He's probably the most well informed and well versed BBfollower here, I'm constantly in awe of his recollections and how he draws parallels and contextual comparisons from various seasons of BB despite how early those seasons may have been.

Quite similar to Safarigirl too who's really really good with this stuff too but her biases for some housemates sometimes gets the better of her, Just like friendly's exaggerated sexual innuendos does too at times. But make no mistake, these two are people who many of us look forward to their analysis and reporting. They've got lots of depth when it comes to the comprehensive housemates evaluation, and breakdown of their personalities. And I want to use this opportunity to thank them and let them know that even if some of us cant say it, we actually do appreciate.

Now to speak on some of the housemates this season and what I think of them.

Goddessa - Seen so many talks of her but I think those who talk about her having sex appeal are right on the money, but that's just about it to her nothing more especially when you look at her ojuju face. I also think she's quite sneaky judging from her conversations and her holier than thou atitude post eviction.

Chimsom - This one annoys me a lot, and to be fair to him, he's actually given it his all - wagers, house drama, ship triangle and he's also quite competitive too. I just think he sometimes exaggerates his capabilities especially with his talk of people envying him. I also think he can be quite sneaky and he sometimes reminds me of Jason Jae with the way he tends to overate himself

Bluetopia - She's the confirmation I've gotten after watching Dede and Nengi that younger ladies do actually have way more sexual restraints than their older counterparts. I remember it got to a point last season Friendly25 had to say Dede was asexual as she wasnt giving in to all the fishes sexual energy despite them being all over her. Anyway this was before Kola finally got lucky whether it was kiss or whatever. Blue is giving that vibe and hers is even worse as she's usually in way more closer proximity with dem boys with all the touches here and there. I hope she has the strength to repel them all season. Asides that I like her personality too albeit she can be very childish, I just think she gives off good energy and is a good vibe most times.

Temi Nkem - If I were a betting man, I would call it as it is, she is most likely going to be winner. I know y'all will say the season isnt predictable but we all know that's not the case. I also have a feeling the big brother team did show Kievo as bottom 3 on purpose to cannibalize some of her votes with the ship thing. Also, the gambit thing worked and may have tilted people away from Flora but it did seem to head towards Temi as she's winning people over with her antics and bubbly energy even though it comes across as calculated at times, especially with the camera peeping.

Tram - I dont like this one, well I generally dont like braggarts, so maybe that's why. And this is me who's usually drawn to young male characters of Big Brother. Thabang is still in my Big Brother hall of fame till today. For Tram, I just cant connect though. I am just amused by him and find him annoying at times. I just think he's very childish with his whole streamer bla bla bla energy and his constant bickering with the women in the house

Nomy - I know some may think the opposite but I think her strategy may still work for her. I also dont think she's as bitter as is being said when she clearly came to play the Tacha script plus I also see her try to rationalize her wrongs at times and sometimes I see the logic in some of the things she says. Could also be because I dont like Tram. But I suspect her antics especially with the strike think may have won her those supporters that like to support controversial housemates - just like Beorn said

Ricky - I'm yet to see the hype beyond being tall, millennial and a fine boy. I dont understand those who had the guts to compare him with an Adekunle when he's just a Teddy A in my opinion and I did hate Teddy A in his season. One thing I cant stand which Teddy A had lots of - was feeling himself too much without any substance to show for it. But I dont think Ricky is that arrogant though, just a laid back personality who's still yet to impress some of us and show us what he's about

Aikou - Was drawn to him, his calm demeanor, how he spoke, his honest intentions, retrospection and his desire to grow by learning through his journey in the house but sadly there are times I find him underwhelming. He really needs to give more and show himself more as it wont be long before some of us start to view him as Ricky as being without the action

This is just about it in terms of the housemates that I can remember at the moment, but I'll be watching and chipping in from time to time and when time permits. Please forgive my typos - if any

Hey brother, how your side na? Long time no type, hope you've been good?

So yeah, your analysis is on point, but i still think the prize will be a strong tie between Ricky and Temi. Temi's ginger might reduce it Keivo leaves, except if she tries Barry again, but that one has friend zoned her and is still not over Godessa despite virtually bagging the ultimate fine girl of the season.

Nomy might go far,but the housemates, especially Tram , have clocked her. Tram hours ago said he'll ignore her and the housemates should as well, otherwise she'll keep gathering fans like Tacha and Lucy did . Toxic behavior sells heavily on BBnaija.

Moreso, i feel Nomy is also suffering from konji and a lack of male attention. Her face lit up when Godessa told her Cassi was interested and even though Godessa kept calling him names and trying to poison her mind, Nomy had a coded smile on her face. If Cassi even cuddles her, she'll lose her bitterness and might even start cooking for the house. A satisfied woman is one of the friendlest people you'll ever meet, they smile like hyenas 24/7.

Blue is a kid,but at least she sees what Neche doesn't. She trusts none of the guys in the house and doesn't mind waiting till the show's over to know who's genuine. But I'm not sure Neche can wait, she's getting hungry and Barry has been saying and doing the right things.

Anniemae:
It's really not a crime for women to enjoy doing sexual things. For the sharing of sexual gadgets, that's ew.

Lol, many women have been in threesomes before, with one guy doing too women at once. So for them, sharing a toy is normal, besides they clean it up after use.

lebete3000:
So lucky for the guys, they can use their hands. Hope they are sha, cos these ladies are already using cheat codes. Hope Mercedes would leave her gadget for the ladies once she leave the house sha, cos if not, Kampala go burst for dah house.

Make d guys zero their mind till Week 7 or 8, na dat time the girls go really begin looseguard. Already Godessa and Bells don collect, Sheba & Neche fit join the list soon.

Kamsy said she's a virgin so she's out of it. Flora , Blue & Mercedes won't do anything in the house. Same with Temi, she get home training .

Oyin & Nomy don zero their mind say cold go catch dem till the show end.

Estellie:
Dede shot herself by sharing bed space with Kola but Mercy that allowed Ike suck her boòbs in the toilet is the perfect example??

In this game of control and fishery, no one comes close to Dede, not even after Ebuka tried to use his big mouth to expose her game..

Also, it’s how yall always try to use the bedroom action talk against Dede. Even if she did anything with Kola, which she clearly didn’t. It wouldn’t even shift the crown on that girl’s head so yes, she’s the perfect example.

Lol, Mercy was open about her sexuality and set limits, plus she & Ike were an official relationship, not a fishery. Ike even made it clear he didn't like Mercy dancing with other guys.

It's the same thing as Chinwe & Zion having sex in the bathroom which really wasn't news because they were an official ship.

Dede & Kola was the case of a hunter and bush meat. The bush meat was outsmarting the hunter for weeks, but for some reason walked back to the hunter expecting to be pampered.

The morning after that night, Dede woke up and out of character, started doing chores round the house, with an obvious mixed look look of regret & hope that the camera didn't see what happened on her face.

If it was with Koyin, it would have been more age-appropriate and seen as 2 kids just fooling around. Koyin ended up displaying sound maturity by never badmouthing Bella or even kissing and telling, even after the show.

And she was lucky, the cameras actually missed it,but Kola senselessly ran to Bright Morgan to spill (something Bright never did with Mide) and even promised to give him full gist later. That was the calibre of person Dede succumbed to, an effeminate nepo baby version of Victory. Ebuka now made things worse by exposing it at a live show, which led to Dede crying (Ebuka shouldn't have, but Dede had been giving him attitude for weeks so maybe he was in no mood to pity her).

It hurt me because Dede reminded me so much of some rascally younger ones in my family .

She's still a well brought up girl, but i hope she never meets a guy like Kola or attempts that silly fisherwoman nonsense.

Hopefully Neche watched that last season and took notes.

Clement1111:
ewww

Lol, e go shock you. Females actually have some stuff they do that can be really disgusting to guys. Even in Level Up, Diana borrowed Chichi's toy.

I think Bisola even wanted to ask Tboss for hers as she left her own at home.

In All Stars , Venita said she had more than 20 toys, Cee-C said she had a number of toys but not up to that number. Lambo had hers. Doyin openly talks about her toys. Tolani, just like Maria, preferred using her fingers.

Most of them have been in threesomes,

Last night Neche was teaching the girls how to orgasm from urinating.

Yeah, chicks can be crazy.