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sekzy99:
Abegi, na wash jare

naijaboiy:
Its possible for you to get married to your first Love.

But I don't know if it's possible for the both of you to be together from the onset till you finally get married.

Most times they separate and end up meeting other people that they may date for a while before fate brings them back together again.

NiceMan4:
I submit.

MzNelly:
I'm not talking of experiences here; I'm talking of things I've seen.
Many people? Truth be told, the only "first lovers" I've seen get married are my parents and...well, Mrs Rokiatu.
Factors may warrant that "first lovers" who swear heaven and earth in promising not to leave each other still part ways and find, even greater happiness in someone else's arms.

This whole "first love" issue is seriously overrated. And I stand here to say today, that THERE IS NOTHING SPECIAL ABOUT ONE'S FIRST LOVE.

Are you still with yours?

NiceMan4:
I just understand you are being influenced by your experiences to hold that view. Actually, I'm aware of what OUR present reality is turning to be like, hence my advise. However, I know there are people (many) who still get married to their first love, not because they wanted to from the onset, but because of the overwhelming power of their bond as "new and fresh lovers", they can't afford to loose each other. I know you are aware of cases many people confess to still being attracted to their first love-well, its the work of first love chemistry, as I would term it.

NiceMan4:
Sounds romantic. Thats good.

MzNelly:
Lol

Life is not white and grey, anymore.

The times have changed.

This is OUR reality.

rokiatu:
lol I don't relate my happiness to only a man really, I believe we are solely responsible for our own happiness. But no doubt he make my life brighter, he's a wonderful guy. I couldn't ask for better. But I'd don't think am happy because he's my first love but rather because he's the man for me.

NiceMan4:
Wrong statistics

Wrong orientation

False reality.

rokiatu:
Yea thanks indeed very rare. Destiny brought us back together.

rokiatu:
I got married to mine.

MzNelly:
99% of everyone on earth won't get married to their "first love."

Yes, welcome to reality.

MzNelly:
99% of everyone on earth won't get married to their "first love."

Yes, welcome to reality.

xpac01:
Nice one. But all these effects only sets in if the person in question has a sound conscience. I've met lots of people who don't give a damn about the past and not even the future. Smh for them sha.

NiceMan4:
Dating is good, it exposes both of you. You know yourselves better, and yes, no one is perfect, but you are aware of each other's imperfections, you work to adjust it.

I know many people will argue that dating helps you to know the right man or woman-there is actually no perfect one, dating only helps us to get familar with each other, along with our good and bad sides. Because of that argument, people continue to jump from one girl/boy to another in search of mr or mrs right, and most times this search is frustrating because non of those you meet seem to be right in your perception, so who then is the right or perfect one? Are you perfect to start with? At the end of the day, we hurt ourselves instead of finding what we desired.

These are the effects of dating who you'll not marry.

You feel guilty of your past deeds. Especially the females, you remember all the rough play you had with some guys back then, and you feel guilty.

You are hurt: As one relationship terminate and the other, there are always tears of heartbreak.

You may develope feelings for your past lovers, and then you may just cheat. This can kill your marriage, you know.

You are likely to love your present spouse less than you normally would.. Because you've loved several men or women before, and it seems love is not even real again.

You may be ashamed of some people you dated before, especially when you attain greatness.

Please, keep to one boy or girl and be faithful to him or her. Let your first love also be your last love. I know what I'm saying. The love and affection you share is unqualifiable.

bashydemy:
The Directorate of Security Services (DSS) has reportedly told Governor Ayodele Fayose to get out of Ekiti State ahead of today rally by the presidential candidate of APC, General Muhammadu Buhari, warning that he would be held accountable for any security breach against the former Head of State.
The order, according to sources, is necessary because the presence of Fayose in town will embolden the thugs already recruited to cause mayhem in tomorrow rally.
The warning came on the heels of intelligence that all allegations of premeditated attacks on the convoys of the APC candidate and his supporters are true.
Intelligence sources confirmed that Fayose has procured the services of OPC members belonging to Dr Frederick Faseun faction through alleged help of Dele Olugbemi, a member of the House of Assembly recognised as the Speaker by Fayose. Olugbemi is a member of Faseun's faction of OPC. The sources also confirmed that the thugs are being accommodated in Adesua Lodge of the Government House.
It was learnt that President Goodluck Jonathan has turned down Fayose's request for security cover to enable him deploy the OPC members, who security services have confirmed to be kitted in fake DSS, Army and Police uniforms.
According to sources, the President is already disenchanted with Fayose after confirmation that the governor has turned President Jonathan's election campaign into a business venture.
A source within intelligence community said: "The president has discovered that Fayose has his own agenda. The presidency knows he will be removed. He himself is aware of this and so he is using the president's campaign as a business venture to make money.
"The President is angry with him for two reasons. One, the President was shocked that Fayose never spent one kobo in the N100 million he was given for Jonathan's campaign in Ado-Ekiti. Instead of spending the money for mobilization, he was levying PDP candidates in the February general elections, including wealthy members.
"Two, the party top echelon is aware that Fayose is secretly making overtures to APC for safety in case Buhari wins, but in the open, he would behave as if it is Jonathan or nothing. The reason for this is to place himself in a position to be in charge of election funds to be deployed by the Aso Rock.The presidency prefers Mimiko but Fayose doesn't like it. While Mimiko can be tolerated in the PDP national secretariat, no one trusts Fayose any longer."
The source added that Fayose's plan to relocate to Ghana after leaving the office is also known to the Presidency. "They have traced his mansion to Ghana. Fellow Ekiti indigenes have already traced the mansion and it was a marvel to them," the source explained.
Meanwhile, Fayose has turned down the security advice to leave town, saying nobody can chase him out of a state he is governor. For now, Ado-Ekiti, the state capital, is upbeat with thousands of APC members already in town in readiness for tomorrow rally.
At Ajilosun state secretariat of the party, hundreds of armed soldiers provide security to thwart any plan to cause security breach while police are already on patrol of strategic areas of the state capital.

donphilopus:
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PDP and thuggery sha... But remember you're talking to an Edolite!

KenSaroWiwa:
Jonathan fúcked things up. Vote for change in the educational sector, vote for Buhari...
SAI Buhari

donphilopus:
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Stop consoling yourself. Jonathan is already on his way to Otuoke to evade arrest after Buhari is sworn in. But there's no way he can evade that, prison is sure for him.

FeBuhari 14th!
#IHaveDecided!

Papist:
I thought you said he should shut up and learn....and the teacher is jack chick through his messenger olaadegbu.What a shocker

Harbosede02:
uncle get a job or get lost!the choice is urz.

clevvermind:
God will end our search.

Movesz:
is it a sin to be interested in a womans body..

Purplehisbiscus:
,why u sef fall mugu nau,u nor be sharp warri guy again..

elantraceey:
Ladies beware of perverts that are only interested in your body

LadyX:
Ladies beware of run boys too. They look for rich women to give them money.

clevvermind:
u can say that again. i'm even still searching till now.

elantraceey:
Just based on my judgement

chuksfor13:
Dat may seem careless 2u. But spiritually am not. It is carelessness when u chose a wrong hospital 4ur wife 2 give birth in.

elantraceey:
That's what supposed to be.

sCun:
Amaechi hasn't seen anything yet, what was he thinking? After using the stadium for his party's campaing twice, he thinks he can stop a whole President from using it? Mabye in the north but not in the ND where the Presido hails from.
What rubbish!