@marydre

can't you see i just resigned, i don't think i'm interested again, i think i need to check front, lol

@izeek

u are such a fool,

i'm sure u are dateless, and u will forever be

fool

@johnchuks1

i dont think i want a date again, am scared ooo, with pics like that, look as if u are ready to , ummm

for those of us that that doesnt have a boyfriend now, how do we spend our valentine?

Please, i need information about unilag DLI,, the entry exam is this saturday, pls do you guys have any idea what the question is like,

Single and not ready for now,

@topup

exactly what i feel, i wouldnt have gone into the relationship if i knew he had a serious relationship,even as a fling, i wouldnt have dated him if i'd know he had someone , what he told me was that his last girlfriend traveled out of the country, no girl would want to ccompete with anyone,

NO!!
Why give up?
You should have continued! The source that told him that 1 and 2 were the ones will eventually narrow down the options but with you out of the game,the source has limited options! Go back,maybe the source will choose you!
You never thought it this way? Don't worry,thank me later!

yes, i've actually asked myself that question, if he wasnt giving her all the attentions ect ect, but what if i decided to continue tthne after sometime he now come back to me and tell me he doesnt want me again, then i would have wasted my time hoping he would chage, and before i ended it , i sat him down to ask him his feelings for the #3 lady, and begged him to be honest with me, guess what he told me, ? that he truly love the girl, just like he claimed to love me too

@Sisi Jinx

this is not all abt attetn, fine, when we started , i never expected things to get serious betwn us,or me to fall in love with him, but talking abt kepping several relationship, would u have loved your man to prefare other ladies to you have keeping several relationship, no i believe, so if we were just two, i dont think i have problem with that, all i had to worked on is to win his heart, but when he started the office stuff, which i couldnt take ,,

@Busy_body, i agree with you, i wasnt realy bothered about the first girl, untill he started with the colleague, and like we all know when u start a relationship in your office , your other relationships will suffer for it, that was why i had to pull out,

dear, we've all been there i tell you, u see, there comesa point in your life when you realize who matters, who never did, and who wont anymore, and who always will, so forget abt pple from your past, there is a reason y they didnt make it to your future. so dont worry, God will definetely give u someone that will appreciate you and know your worth.

take care of urself and move on, let him see you again and regret his actions.

@ alfchye

Does it work for u?

guess u have more than 7 girlfriends, but will that give u happiness?

think abt it,

cheers

@ sissy
is that u well she you did the right thing by leaving him

yes its my story, u think so?

well thanks

Let me share a story with you, there is this lady madly in love with a guy, fine the relationship was suppose to be a fling but as time goes on they claimed to love each other and turn it into a real one , along the line the girl discovered that the guy already had a serious relationship, but the girl did’t mind, after few months, the guy started a relationship with his colleague in the office and it gets to intense that the girl has to pull out of the relationship cos the guy is not giving her attention and the love she deserved, but before that, she sat the guy down and asked him some questions and he failed, initially, the guy claimed he went to find out somewhere to know who is right for him cos he claimed he is in love with the three ladies, and the result of the findings was that its only the first and the second that were good for him but he only spend, give attention to the first alone.
So tell me guys, the 2nd lady had to end the relationship saying she is not ready to compete with anyone, and also claimed that when she asked the guy whom he truly loved and if he sees himself marrying his colleague, which he said yes to, do u think she did the right thing?
Please I need your advice

i need a change of job first, 'maybe' after that, we will talk about marriage


same old story

can u imagine, fall in/out of love, ? and you expect her to take you back?

In my own observation about men, they are not ready to get married, and when u are dating a guy, free him, let him explore, because if you don’t , it will look as if you are choking him, and I wont advice you to date for that long again , a relationship that is more than a year, and you didn’t see any sign of commitment , what are u doing there ? i happen to be a victim and mine is more than yours, just don’t want to go into details , let me advice you, you will meet another person that will appreciate you, your ending a 4 years relationship is not the end of the world, even if he doesn’t want you, you don’t have to cry or allow anyone to make you sad okay, if the relationship is not working out, please end it! You don’t have to wait till another 2years for him to now kick you out of his life.

Takia dear and stop worrying yourself, there are several guys out there that knows your worth,

cheers

@almondjoy
madam, u spoil small oo lol
but i love ur spirit and ur sincerity
cheers

valentine, what abt people like me that dosent have boyfiend/date to val wit, what do we do

NEW YEAR RESOLUTION?

GET A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP

THOUGH AM NOT LOOKING FOR LOVE COS I DONT HTINK THERE IS ANY LEFT

BE SUBMISSIVE
AND LEARN TO TOLERATE THINGS

GUYZ, RELAX NOW…. PEOPLE MAKE MISTAKES, LEAVE HER AND LET HER BE, THE GUILT ALONE IS ENUF FOR HER TO PAY FOR. PLS ENUF OF THE INSULTS OKAY
WHAT SHE DID WAS VERY WRONG BUT……
AM SHORT OF WORDS
ENUF OF THE INSULTS OKAY

Flexjada dear, am truly sorry, I can see u really love this guy, but relationships entails RESPECT, UNDERSTANDING, CARING, LOVE. If a guy truly love you, he won’t be picking other calls in ur presence , and ladies we should always learn to accept the fact that guys/men will always be who they are, there is know way u will ever be the only gurl, there will always be concubines somewhere somehow, what u have to fight for is his heart, for u to be on the top list not to tell him not to, it has always been like that and will continue to be, except th grace of God, but that does not mean he shouldn’t respect u, a guy that dose not show u respect is not worth to be with, so gurl move on with your life there are better guys out there looking out for a pretty gurl like u, let him go if he doesn’t know ur worth okay. U deserve better than that.

It depends on what causes the break up, but dear since you are into another relationship and u really care about this new guy, I will advice to please don’t try in cos If you do, you will fall into temptation. Am sure he is only planning to lure you back or something. Just let him go and face this new guy.

Girlfriend I must tell you, the guy is lying, he only claimed to be two weeks ago but am sure its more than that, I believe he still have feelings for her, gurl please don’t dull yourself and don’t allow him to play smart on you. Catch your fun too, and don’t allow anyguy to use you. am sure he is trying to prepare before hand so that when you finds out he will have something to say

cheers

hello guys, the question is WHO SHOULD ASK, WILL YOU MARRY ME not the other way round. anyway, to my own beleive, i think the guy should, and its not just any guy, u dont ask a girl in marriage just becos ur folks want to, or becos ur mate are doing it, i believe a guy that is ready, and willing to take responsibilities, not some guy that will go into it then 2/3 years, he will start fooling around nooooo that is wrong, so please GUYS out there, am not saying a guy should not have one or two flings outhere but not in the early of ur marriage, at least take a break, enjoy it for at least 5 years b4 fooling around. one thing ave always known its that, no one guy/man on this planet will stick to just one girl, NEVER, SO GUYZ no one is forcing you to do it, do it when u are ready okay.

i dont think there is anytin wrong in dating a guy that smokes or drink it all depends on he love u have for each other, though i did not and will never approve of it, but my ex use to, and i did not leave him al becos he smokes/drink i left him on a diff issue entirely, what i did was to se my influence as a woman and change him. which i almost ahieved until we broke up.so girls its no big deal, i cant stand them too, all u need to do is to stop it not to avoid then, if u do then what will we have left?
cheers

welll well well. am kind of interested in this topic, cos am also a victin and am happy i did, ask me why? my boyfriend and i have been dating for 4 years the, when i discovered he had another relationship, a guy i couldnt live without with, i do watever he wants, he told ma not to kip friends and i obeyed untill i found out .so i went for the next available guy and we had fun and the guy was even better than him, ave left the guy now and am now single and happy.

dear friend, i dont think there is anything serious in making friends, if you fing the right person all you have to do is to learn how to communicate cos the way i choose my frinds if i have a friend that doesnt call or text i delete his/her number from my phone and one more thing, learn to appreciate pple and learn to give a helping hand to ur friends when they are in need, u can meet people on line or on the road if u see somone u like , u can start by appreciating them, either by what they wear and ssying nice things to them, we all love compliments , when pple give me attentions i make dure i return it. so dear, making friends its no difficult at all its what i do everyday.
av a lovely day.
ur friend,funke