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Shollypopzz:
Feminism has nothing to do with your post but it has everything to do with mine.
If you believe that women are better caregivers, then this thread is not addressing you.

but. . . .but they are . . . . . .




***takes off boxing gloves and slinks out of thread disappointed***

Shollypopzz:
Huh??
I'm sorry, I thought you were a feminist. Discard my post.

What has feminism got to do with my post?
Hian.
I hope you are not implying that feminists deny the biological differences in both genders? The negative stereotypes misogynists have heaped on feminism are enough, no need to add that one to it.

Shollypopzz:
First of all, you're making a ridiculous assumption that only males are capable of pedophilia or child molestation.
I wonder how you would feel if a white person denies you a job because you're black. And then went on to say he would rather dismiss your credentials and judge you by a silly stereotype. Your beliefs already makes you sexist.

That analogy does not hold water in the context of this conversation.
Males and females are biologically different. Different hormonal makeup, different physiology, different preferences, likes and dislikes.
Admitting this does not make one sexist.
Apart from the fact that men have a higher proclivity to commit sexual abuse (because of their higher libidos and greater sexual needs), women are in an overall better position to be caregivers because they are naturally more intuitive and emotionally sensitive to the needs of children.

^^^Is that Kylie Kardashian? She looks so different.

dominique:
How about men that frustrate and abuse their wives because they have no jobs and it's their wives fending for their sorry arses?
These women literally walk on eggshells as every move they make is counted as disrespect by the jobless egomaniac husband. Infact, in this country, the women that are suffering most are those that have to burden all the financial responsibilities of the home and still have to put up with spousal abuse. So oga op, get your facts right before starting a woman bashing thread

That's all they know.
Claiming head, claiming superior, claiming more intelligent. Put Nigeria on the world map, they cannot, make ground breaking discoveries to draw respect from developed countries and end our suffering, they also cannot. It's only when it comes to fighting and running down women they become very proactive.

Of course, everyday you see topics about men sleeping with any and everything, from mad women to their own daughters to babies and even animals, why won't women hide their kids from them?

I'm not taking any chances, I would rather hire a female than expose my innocent kids to someone from a gender of sex crazed maniacs just because I don't want to be sexist.

Purity01:
Yh! Its saddening dat d sex who r meant to protect women as d weaker vessels take delight in bashing, e-raping, insulting women. Forgetting d fact dat some1 birthed them.

Yes, almost all men are sociopaths with self esteem issues, get over yourself.

Op, tosyne's threads are not unhealthy.
The truth is that the average man looks down on women and is ever ready to insult and degrade them, mind you I said average not everyone. And this their mentality is what shows in tosyne's threads because they are usually perfect grounds to bring out that side of men.
Have you not asked yourself why women don't jump into threads that critisize males to hurl insults the way men do? Its cos they don't have that mentality.
Women typically don't need to bully others or run them down in order to feel good about themselves.

ShirelleBaby:
He was the best mod for romance!

Then was when romance section made brains--

Only intelligent topics were seen

Trolls were banned and if u dare open anoda acct--ur ban is extended!

He will follow u to make sure u obey the punishment .

Now--romance section has lost it to gay guys with female handles--stealing DP and enjoying their fellow men crush on them!


Teenagers who just got a new fone--opening 10topics in a day!

Insulting and being stupid on a forum.
You can't come here and seek for advice again.

You will be flooded with curse and insults.
Hmmm!!


Here is one of his post-
I make life miserable for trolls and nuisances. I
don't allow them the free will to run around the
romance section perpetuating their stupidity and
disturbing tendencies, I clip their wings by
banning them out, so they have no choice than
to hate and lie. . .
www.nairaland.com/1253767/y-most-nairalanders-dislike-d

He had his bad side too--but he was good in keeping madness in check!

The entire Nairaland made more sense back then. Until mature people left and the facebook children started having liver to post more.

Lol. Forgiveness is for losers, lmao. I don't engage myself in that rubbish. Bearing grudges is more satisfying to me. Which dirty forgiveness?

Oyiboprincess, am sure many nairaland guys are already bombarding you with emails. Be careful with them oo. Many of them are jobless scammers. A word is enough for the wise.

soulglo:
How can you say it is fake when there are people on this thread who are advising her to swallow it just to save her marriage. Obviously there are people who feel think this way. Anything to save your marriage seems to be the idea

read through the thread again. The married men spoke against it, the ones saying save your marriage are sex starved bachelors.

ileobatojo:
The wife should just come up with a sexxual fantasy of her own. Tell him you'd like to pee on his face during sex, or you'd like to ram a small baton up his arse or something. If he doesn't agree, it means he doesn't love you. Equation balanced.

lol, Of course. I think the story is fabricated though.... No mentally mature person will actually force his wife to swallow his semen even after she gags. Unless he is tired of the marriage and wants her to get tired as well.

nani667:
I'm also a serious fan of Candy Crush ✔

Level 202? ?? Kudos.

ellahzy:
Mama fine pass pikin.

hmmMmm

Am so glad to see that there are many men with common sense that don't support this nonsense, do it to preserve your marriage my arse.

olu77:
Standard question: Do you have a dog and where is the picture of your eyebrow?

@topic, Seun abeg gree for dis one, u don dey turn to old papa small small and yet no wife

Op ask him to swallow your vaginal fluids.
Eat plenty garlic and onions to give it a very horrible smell and taste then act offended when he gags.

Good Luck!!!

mutter:
If he is not complaining you don`t have a problem.
Some people just need their privacy and are not great talkers.
Besides you cannot make an interesting conversation, when you have no interest in the topic.
I and my husband don`t talk that much either. We spend time each doing our own thing. It took some time getting used to but it does the mariage allot of good. We don`t get irritated and we have never gone to bed angry with each other.
Sometimes just sitting together in silence is more that a thousand words.
Like now I am here on NL and he is watching his TV in another room. Every now and then I go to him hug him and return to what I`m doing. He does the same.

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha!!!! What a bunch of wierdos!

Bump, the ground is still open for suggestions.

Hahahaha carefreewannbe

I like your resilience. See how they are suffering anger just because you mentioned that women are fewer than men.

doskie:
I was timid and shy as a kid. So I missed out child hood. As an adult, I'm lonely and depressed. Plus I wonder what I'm living for. I drive alone carelessly to the beach hoping to find a lonely girl I can share life with. In the end I find none. So I'm back to smoking and drinking cos my heart feels pains. I feel so empty within. I wonder what's left to be done. Hey! I forgot to say thanks for your attention and time

It seems to me that you're placing too much importance on having a relationship and letting your current inability to do so depress you. Please focus on other things and get your mind off the lonliness, try getting a business you can do in your spare time or hang around your nice friends more. Just get your mind off your singleness, you'll certainly get a girl as time goes on. The main thing is to stop feeling unhappy because of this issue, you can ask your friends to hook you up to any single girl they know or you can try online dating. Go for programmes, religious programmes, seminars, lectures etc. And make friends with some of the girls there then as time goes on they might start getting attracted to you and want to date you.

jennykadry:
It's sad. Hitting children? hardlyyy...they are more good at their paedophilia job

Perfect response abeg. @topic; Am not watching ooo. I refuse! Let me not lose the last vestige of hope I have in humanity.

AdeSuave: www.nairaland.com/attachments/1878184_screenshot20141118220620_jpegb399d40a36716277d8577090a7637bcf

This can't be real.....

Nature has bestowed every single women with innate female characteristics and they are ALL supposed to like stereotypical female ways of life like being attracted to a man, submitting to him etc. The same goes for men. Nature bestowed them with manly qualities like finding women attractive and providing for women etc. Anything that goes against this established natural rules is a perversion and should be stopped/fought against. Let men be men and let women be women.

jennykadry:
Why should she leave? She wants to open her legs so let her be.
I don't believe this story anyways

Am starting to doubt this story myself....what I still don't understand is why anyone would get up to concoct this type of thing.

RiffRaff:
why do people even bother getting married sef?
Y is it so Hard for some men to kip their d-ick in their pants? All these Family section sob stories are so sad.. Na wa oh.
When @KillJoy said piple shouldnt get married some piple were spewing sentimental nonsense.
@HappyWife
You are already on the right track. Like the average Niaja Women u have accepted that all Men Cheat and u are willin to live wit it for the sake of ur children.
U have found the perfect solution to ur own problems.
Just know one thing for sure... Life can neva be d same. Nobody ever forget betrayal and to live wit it is even worse.. Welcome to Misery.
For how long will u have him taking STD test? How will u know if another mistress wit HIV is now in d picture?
Let me kuku help u in ur line of thinkin. Keep tabs on him so that u can know who and how many of them he is screwin. That way u will be more informed on what to do always.
U will be sad, unhappy, miserable and would snap @ anything. Please no matter what u do, dont take out ur anger on the kids. Dont let whateva s-hitstorm happening in ur marriage affect them.
I wish u great strenght in this endavour, u are the kind of Woman every Nigerian Man pray for.

Really? Do you truly think this is possible? Even if she doesn't constantly snap at them or beat them up out of frustration they will still be affected because the woman raising them is unhappy, unfulfilled and despaired. When she should be laughing and playing with them she is dying inside and struggling to accept the betrayal and humiliation of having to open her legs to a philanderer every once in a while. Of course the inner rage and turmoil is bound to spill out sooner or later and affect the way she raises the kids.

sexybash:
Association of depressed married women
(Admw)
Lol pray for him, don't wacth, wear sexy lingerie, cook food,
Una nor dey tire can't you focus on other things apart from men
Ha na wa if he chat with women I suggest you take a hobby
If you are bored go to you tube wacth documentary videos not African magic, read wide no be every time man man,
The more you give people attention the more they move away the less the more they crave
4 days ago hubby dey form Indian monk, they give me silent treatment. for 4 days he did not call neither did I only for am to give me 5 missed calls as I was not picking he called my help as she bring the fone na so we both dey laugh
It's enough that I married you, give you a child. Ruin my body and shape only for you to cheat on me as a pay back you must be smoking abey igbo

Abi?
I honestly have no idea where those specie of women come from. Dress sexy ko, laff at his jokes ni.
It will be better for him if I decide to ignore his miserable existence and keep myself occupied with other things because if I focus on his case the only thing I will do is try everything in my power to make his life miserable

Sorry about all that OP. I really feel for you and hope things get better. But I have nothing special to share. Sorry again.

Thanks for your help again, I really really appreciate.

Thanks xcelsia

LizNaira:
restraining order from the police would work!

Police can't grant restraining order for online stalking.

acenazt:
Mehn keel that Crazed fella. I mean Otapiapia is readily Available anywhere.

Easier said than done. Here is a pic of him by the way: