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FamilyRe: I Am Sex Starved, My Marriage Is Falling Apart by fuzzywuzzy: 3:31pm On Jan 24, 2020
koyyes:
Did you really read the op's post at all? or are you just expressing your usual spite against your fellow woman?
She likes the validation she gets from men, just read her posts and pass.
RomanceRe: This Thing Is Getting Out Of Hand Naija Girls Change. by fuzzywuzzy: 3:30pm On Jan 24, 2020
Ardar:
Are you a female or a male?

I've noticed that in every male vs female thread you keep on licking the azzez of men why?
Attention.
And praise from guys.

She needs it in copious amounts.....
FamilyRe: Deadbeat Father: How A Nairanlander's Quote Ended My Family's Rift. (photos) by fuzzywuzzy: 9:10am On Dec 13, 2019
Miarose:
So OP contacted his dad and apologized as seen from the chat. Well, maybe he wasn't abandoned.. maybe OP did the abandoning.
Also, he said he is 26 and haven't spoken to the dad in 6 yrs, since his 200 level. So the dad was in his life up until he was 20 yrs.
I guess it's a Tiff between him and his dad. Not as deep as abandonment as an infant. Not a deadbeat dad if he was there till ur 20s.
Madam please keep quiet
Thanks
I can see that some blockheads are already praising you because they want to insult women and write rubbish about them

Read op's post well,
1. he said he suffered a lot due to. paternal negligence and abandonment, let me quote him, ("the effects of parents exhibiting apathetic attitudes towards their wards. Lugubriously, I was a victim of that on the father's part" .)

2. He said he is a graduate at 26 because his mom raised him with limited finances while his dad was building houses up and down.

3. He said he finally decided to go incommunicado with his dad at 200 level because of the issues he had been having with his dad and how he maltreated his mother

4. The dad had always been deadbeat even before the guy stopped communicating, and the dad was a bad husband to the mother as op himself stated. It's not simply an issue between father and child.
FamilyRe: Thoughts On Thread: She Married An Old Fashioned Man, Kindly Advise Her by fuzzywuzzy: 7:15pm On Dec 02, 2019
bukatyne:
The wife needs to be wiser than reporting him about till she gets dicked.
Good evening ma

I come in peace ma, personally I dont think she is "reporting him about"

"Till she gets dicked".

She needed help and advice because she was unhappy so she came to seek it, please don't make her feel bad by critisizing that action.


God bless you.
LiteratureRe: Slay Queen by fuzzywuzzy:
Ginaz:
Oh they have come again with this super story. While you go taking drugs for slay Queens head, who told you they don't know the risks involved?

And the message was judgmental undecided

Is that how to win souls?

Everybody is dying on top slay Queens, what of yahoo boys? Or are they the only ones whose pasts won't catch up with them?

Yeye dey smell.

I'm not a slay queen but enough of this nonsense. Someone can't take pix in peace again without getting named what you are not.

Last 2years it was a "runz babe ", this year it's "slay queen ". I'm waiting for the next name slogan bunch of jobless people would pick up.
NL men can kill themselves on top of women
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HealthRe: My Rehab Story,i Guess I Failed Nairalanders, I Drank 1 Bottle Of Codeine (pics) by fuzzywuzzy: 7:43pm On Aug 05, 2017
OP you must be that yoruba boy I served with. You even have a tattoo on your arm like him.
FamilyRe: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by fuzzywuzzy: 3:37am On Aug 03, 2017
OP don't mind the men saying you should sweet talk him or kiss him or be loving. Imagine what will happen if a man came to nairaland to say his wife was hooking up with a guy from facebook and boasting that she does not owe him faithfulness.

This thread will be filled with countless men telling him to divorce her and all manner of insults will be hurled against the woman. Now when a woman is the victim suddenly prayers and humility are the best solutions.
Men are f*cking hypocrites that will treat you like shit simply because they feel they are better than you as males.

Since you have the financial means I would advice you to not let his behaviour upset you. Make yourself happy, go for spa treatments and fun outings of just treat yourself to a good time anyhow you can. Don't plead or beg him to be faithful, rather show him you can be happy and fulfilled without him. Seperation would have been a good option since you are pregnant and don't need any stress but from your tone it doesn't seem like you want that
HealthRe: I'm Addicted To Codeine , Weed, Tramadol And Many More by fuzzywuzzy:
OP you sound like a yoruba boy I served with. Do you have a tattoo on your hand?
That guy swallowed tramol, smoked up to 9 wraps of weed a day, mixed coda and milk to drink everytime and drank beer like a mad man. Whether he used to masturbate as well is what I don't know.
FamilyRe: Help! My Wife Wanna Leave Me by fuzzywuzzy: 7:09am On Jul 30, 2017
Op abandoned his wife and children for 2 whole months,

changed his number so his wife will not contact him when he was abroad

didnt bother finding out his childrens welfare when he abandoned them

always making travel plans without letting his family know

and somehow the wife is the demon here?
He is a confused and irresponsible person and I am sure his irresponsible behaviour is what frustrates his wife into nagging since she wasn't that way before marriage. He is also a foolish man.
So because your wife bought red boxers for you when you came back it means she did juju to spoil your plans, you could not even appreciate a welcome back gift. Maybe when she does nice things for you this is how you show ingratitude by reading meaning into it then you come on nairaland to tell a one sided story and play victim.
The day shd asked you to move from the bed and when she started nagging you should have tried to resolve it or got her family to talk to her to find out d problem instead of running abroad
IslamRe: I Made A Promise To ALLAH (s.w.t) But Want To Break It by fuzzywuzzy: 9:42pm On Feb 24, 2017
Op ask for forgiveness and continue listening to music .

Music is therapeutic for humans and it can improve your mood, motivate you, help you remember etc.

i cant imagine a life without music, seems very boring.

am sorry but the whole thing souns like torture and sadism to me. hmmmm......so one should just live their life without the melody, the art and the beauty of musical sounds? hmmmmmm
CelebritiesRe: Genevieve Nnaji's $4million House In Ghana [Alleged Photo] by fuzzywuzzy: 4:46pm On Feb 25, 2015
CFCfan:
Lol. I was like that is a sure sign of the end time grin

I recall in 2010, Sarah Palin's daughter, Bristol, bought a $500,000 in Arizona with cash. And she was in early 20s then.

Bros we be learners cheesy
Lol, no be small learners o! This one is even a minor and her house is 4 times more expensive than palin's daughter's. I just ask myself what have I done with my life after seeing these people lol.
CelebritiesRe: Genevieve Nnaji's $4million House In Ghana [Alleged Photo] by fuzzywuzzy: 4:37pm On Feb 25, 2015
CFCfan:
I'm still shocked that a 17-year old bought a $2 million home!!
Seriously, I died of jealousy after I read the news. And she got the money for it just from appearing on KUWTK.
FamilyRe: Help!!! My Host Is Sexing A Minor... What Should I Do???? by fuzzywuzzy:
Why are men so senseless when it comes to sex? Imagine the number of animals on this thread supporting the paedophiles's actions.
FamilyRe: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by fuzzywuzzy:
strenghtofawoman:
Itis not wrong for a woman to assist in the home, it bcomes wrong wen d man abandons all d responsibility to her,, A man dt does such is a failure to himself,his family and to God..
Welcome to reality, majority of men.
FamilyRe: I Can Beat My Wife And Yes, I'll Beat Her. by fuzzywuzzy:
cococandy:
One needs only a thread like this to see how demented most of these guys are.
So she's disrespetful or rude or doing things that piss you off and the answer is to beat her up.
I pity who will end up with these deranged folks.
I know the OP was correct to say he can hit her back in self defense.
Which is a stance I share myself too.
You can't fold your arms because you're a man and watch a violent woman pummel you to death or serious injury because you are being a gentleman
But it is amusing to see sadistic folks using the OP as cover to justify violence.
With watery excuses like 'she pushed him to the wall' 'she was disrespetful' ' she's frustrating him'
*Shudders at the generation of monsters being pushed into the the world at an alarming rate.
Its not this generation. It has always been like that.
FamilyRe: Why Do Men Shy Away From Responsibilities Once They Notice Their Wife Has Money by fuzzywuzzy:
The situation OP described is taking place in almost every home today just that the wives are hiding it because they don't want to look pathetic. Listen closely to their convos with best friends and you'll hear them complaining bitterly about their husbands' irresponsibility.........
RomanceRe: 10 Things Women Need To Stop Doing To Each Other! by fuzzywuzzy:
Stop chasing other women's husbands, like one useless girl at my place of work.
RomanceRe: Tips on How To Tame a womanizer by fuzzywuzzy:
I don't know why we have this habit of giving stûpid dehumanising advice to women in Nigeria as if they are robots that cannot feel anything or as if they are slaves that must put up with whatever men throw at them without complaining.
Imagine the title of this messed up list; how to put up with a womanizer.
Why will anyone be adviced to put up with a person that has blatant disregard for their feelings and constantly exposes them to the risk of catching diseases that can kill them or render them infertile?
Its just like writing a list of how you men can put up with a prostitute or wayward girl that sleeps around with any Tom and Harry in the town.
Put up with him my foot.
If you are stuck in a relationship with a womaniser for any reason maybe because you live in Nigeria where divorced women are stigmatized, the best way to ease your grief is to make his life miserable.
FamilyRe: 5 Things Every Married Man Should Do Around Single Women by fuzzywuzzy: 6:01pm On Feb 18, 2015
bukatyne:
I bet you mean 'Nigerian men' grin
Yes! For sure. Useless STD containment vehicles.
RomanceRe: How To Spot Ladies Desperately Looking For Boyfriends by fuzzywuzzy: 3:44am On Feb 18, 2015
Very stupid thread.
As if men are not more useless and desperate when they are chasing a woman.
FamilyRe: 5 Things Every Married Man Should Do Around Single Women by fuzzywuzzy: 8:31pm On Feb 17, 2015
Evina:
undecided huh
What he is trying to tell you is that men cannot be faithful after marriage. Don't expect fidelity from them because they are barely capable of it.
The 'faithful' are either too poor to keep a girlfriend/clean prostitute or have embarrassingly small joysticks they are ashamed to work with.
FamilyRe: Eleven Steps To Recovering from An Extramarital Affair by fuzzywuzzy: 5:14pm On Feb 17, 2015
Nigerian men steps to recovering from an extra marital affair is: 1) throw her out as if she is a slave 2) cheat as well. While Nigerian women steps include praying, dying of frustration and emotion dissatisfaction, cooking his favourite meals, being even more submissive......well at least that is the mumu women's steps to recovering. Smart women either cheat as well or get rid of his sex crazed ass, or punish him till his life takes a u-turn for the absolute worst. Those mofos deserve it.
FamilyRe: Hot Tempered Married Man!i Want To Run Away by fuzzywuzzy: 5:04pm On Feb 17, 2015
How did you miss all this during courtship period? An insultive talkative is usually easy to spot during courtship, or maybe you were growing old and felt you had to get married to him so you don't end up as an old spinster.
I would have said leave him, but I don't know how strong you are mentally to withstand the stigma that comes with divorce.....am sure that man has a girlfriend outside that's why he has forgotten that you are still his wife and he has to respect you.
Men own no pass cheating. Its something all men look forward to after marriage; like a rite of passage or something. And when they start having strong feelings for the girl outside they start seeing their wives as shit and as a source of inconvinience in their lives. I wonder why their unfaithful, STD carrying asses even bother getting married.
HealthRe: 16 Female Patients Accuse Nigerian Doctor Of Sexual Assault by fuzzywuzzy: 10:06pm On Feb 16, 2015
Look at his ugly face. Senseless hegoat. I wonder how many male doctors are still engaging in this rubbish as we speak. I bet they're very many. Especially in a country like Nigeria where there is no law and order and where victims of molest are shamed and accused of lying.
FamilyRe: Please I Need Your Advice I Feel Like Killing My Husband by fuzzywuzzy: 9:06pm On Feb 16, 2015
soulglo:
You're welcome
Hahaha! grin grin grin
FamilyRe: Please I Need Your Advice I Feel Like Killing My Husband by fuzzywuzzy:
soulglo:
She might not he have seen that in him. She says he did not have a good job then but does now. Going from the posts I see here it seems that Nigerian men generally cannot handle earning a respectable living. It might be a symptom of many growing up impoverished. It seems when they get a little bit of money they must womanize until they die from a disease.
grin
FamilyRe: Please I Need Your Advice I Feel Like Killing My Husband by fuzzywuzzy:
Op you don't have to kill him. You can make his life miserable

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