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koyyes:She likes the validation she gets from men, just read her posts and pass. |
Ardar:Attention. And praise from guys. She needs it in copious amounts..... |
Miarose:Madam please keep quiet Thanks I can see that some blockheads are already praising you because they want to insult women and write rubbish about them Read op's post well, 1. he said he suffered a lot due to. paternal negligence and abandonment, let me quote him, ("the effects of parents exhibiting apathetic attitudes towards their wards. Lugubriously, I was a victim of that on the father's part" .) 2. He said he is a graduate at 26 because his mom raised him with limited finances while his dad was building houses up and down. 3. He said he finally decided to go incommunicado with his dad at 200 level because of the issues he had been having with his dad and how he maltreated his mother 4. The dad had always been deadbeat even before the guy stopped communicating, and the dad was a bad husband to the mother as op himself stated. It's not simply an issue between father and child. |
bukatyne:Good evening ma I come in peace ma, personally I dont think she is "reporting him about" "Till she gets dicked". She needed help and advice because she was unhappy so she came to seek it, please don't make her feel bad by critisizing that action. God bless you. |
Ginaz:NL men can kill themselves on top of women |
OP you must be that yoruba boy I served with. You even have a tattoo on your arm like him. |
OP don't mind the men saying you should sweet talk him or kiss him or be loving. Imagine what will happen if a man came to nairaland to say his wife was hooking up with a guy from facebook and boasting that she does not owe him faithfulness. This thread will be filled with countless men telling him to divorce her and all manner of insults will be hurled against the woman. Now when a woman is the victim suddenly prayers and humility are the best solutions. Men are f*cking hypocrites that will treat you like shit simply because they feel they are better than you as males. Since you have the financial means I would advice you to not let his behaviour upset you. Make yourself happy, go for spa treatments and fun outings of just treat yourself to a good time anyhow you can. Don't plead or beg him to be faithful, rather show him you can be happy and fulfilled without him. Seperation would have been a good option since you are pregnant and don't need any stress but from your tone it doesn't seem like you want that |
OP you sound like a yoruba boy I served with. Do you have a tattoo on your hand? That guy swallowed tramol, smoked up to 9 wraps of weed a day, mixed coda and milk to drink everytime and drank beer like a mad man. Whether he used to masturbate as well is what I don't know. |
Op abandoned his wife and children for 2 whole months, changed his number so his wife will not contact him when he was abroad didnt bother finding out his childrens welfare when he abandoned them always making travel plans without letting his family know and somehow the wife is the demon here? He is a confused and irresponsible person and I am sure his irresponsible behaviour is what frustrates his wife into nagging since she wasn't that way before marriage. He is also a foolish man. So because your wife bought red boxers for you when you came back it means she did juju to spoil your plans, you could not even appreciate a welcome back gift. Maybe when she does nice things for you this is how you show ingratitude by reading meaning into it then you come on nairaland to tell a one sided story and play victim. The day shd asked you to move from the bed and when she started nagging you should have tried to resolve it or got her family to talk to her to find out d problem instead of running abroad |
Op ask for forgiveness and continue listening to music . Music is therapeutic for humans and it can improve your mood, motivate you, help you remember etc. i cant imagine a life without music, seems very boring. am sorry but the whole thing souns like torture and sadism to me. hmmmm......so one should just live their life without the melody, the art and the beauty of musical sounds? hmmmmmm |
CFCfan:Lol, no be small learners o! This one is even a minor and her house is 4 times more expensive than palin's daughter's. I just ask myself what have I done with my life after seeing these people lol. |
CFCfan:Seriously, I died of jealousy after I read the news. And she got the money for it just from appearing on KUWTK. |
Why are men so senseless when it comes to sex? Imagine the number of animals on this thread supporting the paedophiles's actions. |
strenghtofawoman:Welcome to reality, majority of men. |
cococandy:Its not this generation. It has always been like that. |
The situation OP described is taking place in almost every home today just that the wives are hiding it because they don't want to look pathetic. Listen closely to their convos with best friends and you'll hear them complaining bitterly about their husbands' irresponsibility......... |
Stop chasing other women's husbands, like one useless girl at my place of work. |
I don't know why we have this habit of giving stûpid dehumanising advice to women in Nigeria as if they are robots that cannot feel anything or as if they are slaves that must put up with whatever men throw at them without complaining. Imagine the title of this messed up list; how to put up with a womanizer. Why will anyone be adviced to put up with a person that has blatant disregard for their feelings and constantly exposes them to the risk of catching diseases that can kill them or render them infertile? Its just like writing a list of how you men can put up with a prostitute or wayward girl that sleeps around with any Tom and Harry in the town. Put up with him my foot. If you are stuck in a relationship with a womaniser for any reason maybe because you live in Nigeria where divorced women are stigmatized, the best way to ease your grief is to make his life miserable. |
bukatyne:Yes! For sure. Useless STD containment vehicles. |
Very stupid thread. As if men are not more useless and desperate when they are chasing a woman. |
Evina:What he is trying to tell you is that men cannot be faithful after marriage. Don't expect fidelity from them because they are barely capable of it. The 'faithful' are either too poor to keep a girlfriend/clean prostitute or have embarrassingly small joysticks they are ashamed to work with. |
Nigerian men steps to recovering from an extra marital affair is: 1) throw her out as if she is a slave 2) cheat as well. While Nigerian women steps include praying, dying of frustration and emotion dissatisfaction, cooking his favourite meals, being even more submissive......well at least that is the mumu women's steps to recovering. Smart women either cheat as well or get rid of his sex crazed ass, or punish him till his life takes a u-turn for the absolute worst. Those mofos deserve it. |
How did you miss all this during courtship period? An insultive talkative is usually easy to spot during courtship, or maybe you were growing old and felt you had to get married to him so you don't end up as an old spinster. I would have said leave him, but I don't know how strong you are mentally to withstand the stigma that comes with divorce.....am sure that man has a girlfriend outside that's why he has forgotten that you are still his wife and he has to respect you. Men own no pass cheating. Its something all men look forward to after marriage; like a rite of passage or something. And when they start having strong feelings for the girl outside they start seeing their wives as shit and as a source of inconvinience in their lives. I wonder why their unfaithful, STD carrying asses even bother getting married. |
Look at his ugly face. Senseless hegoat. I wonder how many male doctors are still engaging in this rubbish as we speak. I bet they're very many. Especially in a country like Nigeria where there is no law and order and where victims of molest are shamed and accused of lying. |
soulglo: ![]() |
Op you don't have to kill him. You can make his life miserable |


