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why is this "other woman" thing very common amongst nigerian men?

i have a female friend in nothern ireland thats in exactly thesame situation

definately for entertainment.

@ gamine

i never knew someone else appreciated syphon filter. my favourite game of all time.

it went down the drain!!

tope2000:
so finish the story

why are u so interested in the story?

@ toluxa

estate management, 2006 set

i miss minna a bit oh, whats it like there?

and do the chicks still form?

tope2000:
just like that o
im fine o , u nko?

im kool

the game is too close to call but i'm hoping nigeria wins.

tope2000:
Then thou shall have wedding cancelled

just like dat

fine girl, how u dey?

helium44:
i reserve my comment my brother!.

u know what u are trying to do and you know you are not being fair. maybe thats why she's here in the first place. you know one man's meat is another mans poison.

thats y in my initial post, i said it was goin be an uphill task

helium44:
Guys!! Guys!! Try Check out her profile first.Just a piece of advice.

what are you trying to do? encourage people?

@ poster

aaaahhhhhhhhh fut minna, my alma mater. i graduated from the school about 2yrs ago and i'm sure i'll know the girl.

you should have expected that type of behaviour from the girl in the first place. fut girls are very notorious set of people.

@ sistawoman

at times its pointless arguing with onyinye. i'd advice you give your advice to someone else who'll really appreciate it

[quote author=cbase link=topic=14996.msg2655646#msg2655646 date=1218715518@gabe_logan
Guess you now feel what your friend, the one you were with his girl must have felt, you know as they say wht goes around surely comes around.
I so much believed in true Love, but now i know until i'm ready and very sure to get married then i would leave my heart to love that way, but as for now, OMO _{na love nwa nti nti}, jeje[/quote]guy, i feel you. i no go lie, after that incident, shame catch me. i didnt go out for about 3days. i had never felt more ashamed of myself.

tope2000

cbase:
@donkay

for sure, Guys are mean, there's always somebody around to take your place. Especially if she's pretty and you know like what guys want, even if she isn't, Since you saw something in her that attracted you to her, somebody else would see that.

Happened to me just this few months back, Thought i was all she wanted, kept calling her all day, because i was on my IT and she was down in school, My friends kept me up to date with her doings, Two months after, I started hearing Rumors 'bout her, If I hadn't trusted her i would have lost her for good by my actions, because i'm hot tempered.

Trust Guys that was why i told you WE GUYS ARE MEAN, even my friends who knew what we had for each other went behind my back asking her to come to them, since i wasn't around and couldn't cater to her needs. I couldn't believe it.
Nobody told me to seek permission from my Boss, spun him some lies and traveled down to school, good a thing i came back the time i did, if i had wasted more time, I would have lost her. I couldn't believe her, we were like 2 strangers again, we seemed not to understand each other.
There was this guy who she had started seeing, said at first he was a friend to her, but she couldn't understand what was happening to her, I felt confused and angry with her, but what could i do, I understand twas the distance having effect on her, I guess what helped me too was we were always able to tell each other stuffs 'bout our lives
when i told her i was coming down to school, she sounded so indifferent to the news, that made me hasten my preparations.
I started all over again with her, spending more time with her, before i left, she was back again 2 her senses and all throughout my stay i never even saw the guy, he never came around when i was around, i didn't blame him sha, i blame my girl for not knowing better.
I couldn't agree more with my best friend when he told me that gals were "Present Values" i.e if you're not there at the moment, There's another Investor ready to invest in her.

Don't get me wrong, she had never slept with the guy, but i was pretty sure if i hadn't come at the moment to strengthen her resolve, sooner or later it would have happened, now i know better,

I don't love her as much as i did when i left for my IT, I mean if i was so strong for her that no girl here in Lagos _{imagine that} could make me misbehave, then why would some asshole shake her that way, it would take me time to get back to that level we were before, Guys check am na.

I'm going to play around small sha, see if it would help ease the hurt a bit, what do you think?, I mean no guy loves losing his place to another punk ass, even if averted mine, but it still hurts to know she betrayed my love for her even if twas little as she did, Imagine her telling me she _{was confused as to what she was feeling 'bout us}
Before i went I was very sure, we were back to where we were before i left, but i know deep in my heart i couldn't be committed to it as i was before, she pretty does all the calling now and texting, i call 2 but not as much as before, i've taken time to INSURE my heart, n be pretty sure that if ever something like this happens i wouldn't be brokenhearted.
_{whoever said having one girlfriend is good}

while i was reading this story, i was scared, why? beacuse somethin similar happened to me. this time, i was the guy scoring with my friends gfriend. hope its not u. the guy was on it, he came back and caught me in a compromising position with his girfriend and he still made the relationship work even after he caught her. really nice and mature guy.

fast foward, months later, i was in a long distance relationship (i was in lagos, my girl was in gombe) and i found out she was screwing around.

my take on long distance relationships, i dont really know. they say out of sight is out of mind but on the other hand, it takes a lot of trust and resolve to make it work.

tope2000:
come closer and let me whisper something in your ear

you shouldn't be doing that to anyone, all ear whispering should be reserved for me exclusively. you just keep hurtin me dont u?

meanwhile hw u doin? aint responded to my unofficial date request

a game library is something i have always wanted to have but circumstances never let me have one. i used to have an atari, a family computer, snes, sega mega drive 2, a playsatation, playstation 2 and now an xbox360. the only console around is the xbox360.

at least if not for anything, for posterity's sake so i would be able to tell my kids "this is what we played back in the day"

ive played pes 2008 on the ps3 and it didn't feel different from the previous editions. ive not played fifa08 but saw a couple of screenshots and gameplay footage. it still looked like the same old fifa game to me.

pes has always been better than fifa interms of everythin except that fifa has the offical licenses.

the july 2008 edition of the uk oxm did and exclusive on the game. the game is subtitled "return to iwo jima" and i think it is set in japan. the game is still under development.

the game looks very nice, great graphics and seems like loads of fun. however, i do not like first-person shooters so dont think i'll like it.

just wanted to find out, has anyone played raibow six las vegas and is it a first or third person shooter and what dyu think about the game army of two?

naijachix:
i'm not a perfect character, but women find my physique very attractive.
most girls i've had sex with, find it difficult to leave me even after we
have broken-up. this is by the way.

i met my girlfriend last 2yrs. but before we started dating she insulted me and we parted ways.
that was before i started having sex with girls. we came back 5months ago

Now i've sworn with my live never to cheat on her (of course she is not aware of this).
my only problem is that she finds it difficult to tell me about her past. she said she had only had 1 boyfriend in the
[b]past. my friends keep telling me that she dated 'this-and-that'.[/b]not that it matters, but considering the way i love her, i feel i should trust her and believe what she tells me.

guy/girls what do you think?

there is always an element of truth in rumors and women are the best liars amongst both sexes. she is probably being economical with the truth.

guy, biko be careful.

madan:
wants a caring guy for a serious relationship

thats going to be an uphill task

with the football i saw this afternoon, i dont think the nigerian team is capable of winning any medal. monday james and the other right back were appaling. there was no midfield, although kaita did very well, and the strikers were very wasteful.

the bright spot for the team was ogbuke. that man boy has a lot of talent.

what were those boys doing for God's sake??

ggggggggggoooooooooaaaaaaaaaallllllllllllllllllllllll


nsofor

hollandis:
who knows japan/holland score

japan holland is still 0-0

the full backs are terrible, especially that monday james (the guy resemble ape, no be small)

and someone should tell nsofor to stop those long distance shots and try to be more clinical with his passing

did i hear the commentator say issac promise is 20? someone who is already past his prime, the guy no fit even run again.

met one, c_jay

we attended thesame school and lived in thesame apartment for bout 2 years

met another recently, wont disclose the name but she's really cool.