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@Topic

Well, do you see guys complimenting other guys?> I dont think so!

@Topic,

NO WAY!!! I will never look at a married man the way I see my bf/husband

My love. . . This is how I express my love to you and I have always have express it through this song and this song has said it all. . .

My love
I�ll never find the words, my love
To tell you how I feel, my love
Mere words could not explain
Precious love
You held my life within your hands
Created everything I am
Taught me how to live again

Only you
Cared when I needed a friend
Believed in me through thick and thin
This song is for you
Filled with gratitude and love

God bless you
You make me feel brand new
For God blessed me with you
You make me feel brand new
I sing this song �cause you
Make me feel brand new

My love
Whenever I was insecure
You built me up and made me sure
You gave my pride back to me
Precious friend
With you I�ll always have a friend
You�re someone who I can depend
To walk a path that never ends

Without you
My life has no meaning or rhyme
Like notes to a song out of time
How can I repay
You for having faith in me

Some men are born stupid really. Its sad but true

LPF:
Hey Gabby, I'm once an old time friend here, just checking your thread out.

Really? What is your old ID?

uyimen:
Hey Gabry.
Were is my Pat.?
Pat i miss you. Sorry i lost our thread but i will bring it back again.
How are you coping?
Cheers.

Dont know. . .

Vuitton:
Nope, didnt hear ya bu!
Am in Abuja on official duty so no much time on the forums

Ok honey but please. . . I hope u are not flirtin with any other ladies!!!

chipmunkey:
Hey Gabry, so how are you getting it on now that Vuitton is on "Official" assingment.

It dont matter cause I as well have an Official Assignment!

LORD!!! May the Lord save your soul . . .   Its so obvious that you only love her for her beauty andf nothing else. If she grows old or fugly or after pregnancy she will be a big bimbo, I bet you would dump her. Well, save yourself the drama and dump her and I suggest you better stay single untill you learn to get back to your senses!  

Pweety4me:
@Gabry so how's it all going 2day?

Its hard when he is not around

platinumnk:
sharrup Gabby ive seen Tony and he is very sexy, so u cant say u don't go on physical features

@topic- muscular dudes, stocky like American football players

How can u say that? Im serious ooo. . Mind you, I dont look at his muscles or anyones muscles for that matter. When T wears a shirt, he doesnt look muscular at all. I just found out that he is muscuilar after living with him now

suzy:
i told u but doesnt mind.the promble is from my side.he told me that his uncle married from my side but my foss are reaily serious about me marryin from my side but i dont want to.am confuse

I dont understand what are u really trying to say

190:
gabry pls i need your help~

What is it?

platinumnk:
well thank God T hasn't changed since yall met, you lucky thing!! how's the trip going?

I do hope so ooo

Anabel:
lol, lol, everything lol but interesting, we gonna have good poets here

No dey lol now. Wheres your own?

platinumnk:
wow, T has any brothers?

yes he has but the complete opposite from him

posakosa:
I put a  on pureminded's post and she gets upset. 

There must be a misunderstanding ooo. . .

platinumnk:
Gabby its funny how the ugliest of people always have something to say. I was offended about Pureminded post, not that he was speaking to me, but that he and others have the guts to harp on others people pics when they have never posted their faces on here.
How would they like it? Grow up.
If one feels that they are not good enough to post their pic on here then dont open your mouth to come down on those that do! Simple

Again, its funny how the ugliest of people have the nastiest things to say. A clean representation of what they look like, no picture needed.

And backwards people fail to realize that plenty of people will love u the way you are as long as you love yourself

_{When I say plenty, I mean it}

Twinny, Yes, I am kinda upset with what pureminded is saying as well cause its really mean but I know pureminded is not suppose to sound this harsh. Ive seen him posting a couple of time and he is a nice guy but he made me shock on this one around.

sexyLeamon:
I have been following dis argument and I honestly do not understand why you guys are on plantin neck, purminded said most nairaland girls are "ugly and fat", plantin simply asked "if you don't like move on!Are they living their life for you, do you pay for their clothing, do u feed them?" which I believe is a fair question, answer it or skip it simple no need for all this arguments, now pls guy do not start with me, my comment is not intended to offend anyone am just stating my humble opinion.

U are darn right and you have always been right Exactly! U have spoken everything right outta my mouth.

michelin89:
@ Leamon

It's not unusual for NL members to join one party against another especially if the latter has been on their nerves for a very long time but they have never had the opportunity to lash out their insults.

Thats right and Im guilty as charged! However, the good news is that I have been fully recovered

platinumnk:
Twinny!! You have said it all my sister. Have fun and be safe on your trip, I'll  miss you


and im not joking, T is a hottie grow his hair a lil longer and Next Top Model is his

LOL but unfortunately, he is a little short to ber a model ooo.Im 162cm and he is 175cm.

platinumnk:
Wow, an inspiration to us all. . . . . 6 years and you write like you just met him , I'm proud of ya

YES!!! And u even realize it! The first time we became a couple, it was hard. . . There were too many differences between us and there were to many cultural conflicts. Its sooo hard but the surprising thing is that we never did fought or threw tantrums at each other. We have alot of disagreements but than we compromise alot after that. The things which he doesnt like me to do, I would change for him and the things which I dont like him to do to me, he would compromise in return. So its like everyday theres always something to learn about each other and theres always something to know and identify.

Girls cheat abi? I think guys cheat as well

Why are u not telling him about your problem? You should consider that he loves you. Im Asian and my bf is Nigerian and my parents dont like it and I have to tell him. . . Well, guess you and me have to stand by our decisions in life my dear cause if your parents are gone one day, you might regret it not making your own decisions

This year is a really bad year. . . Im struggling, you are struggling, and yet we still maintain our principles and charactetistics. You always tell me that the only time you could see a real person's behaviour is when the person has alot of money and when the person looses all his/her money but truth be told, you oncre had alot of money and you once had no money at all and you are still the same. I was thinking how possible is this? and than when you mentioned the same thing whivch I thought about you to me, than I realize that its true. . . Our love was never based on anything concerning towards money or materialistic things.

Life has not been not good for the both of us this year and we almost lost our house but thank God for everything. THANK GOD. . . The days of you fasting and the days of me being a vegetarian has been worth it baby. . . Whatever happens to us, we both will always know that HGod has always loved us and has always bless us with his eternal blessings.

Twinny Plat! I told my bf that you said that he can be a model. He said that you must be joking.,

Hello my brothers and sisters in Christ and in Allah!

Im back here but maybe just for a little while cause right nowe Im at the airport. Left my hometown Labuan Island like 2 hours ago and I travelled by plane from there to Miri. . . Miri is one of the placres where its famous for its oil and gas industry but unfortunately, my destination is not here. Im waiting for the next flight to another place called Bintulu. Over there is also very famous for its oil nad gas industry. My hometown is also famous for its oil and gas industry though

Anyways. where were we!

TheSeeker:
Heeeeey, slow down, it's ok. Hold your peace, time is almost here when your family will come to terms that your heart's desire and wish is more important and is supreme over racial and cultural segregations. You will be fine, I can assure you of that.

Brother, what will OI do without you? Acytually it shouldnt be this bad considered that mny father's eldest sister got married to an Indian man and my mom's 2nd and 3rd eldest sister both got marrierd to British man and like my other uncles and aunts and cousins all got married to Portuguese, got married to Egyptians, got married to Scottish, got masrried to a Jamaican. . . Seriouslky, I dont see it as a problem. The only problem I guess is my father. He is not use to it. . . And his mentality is a little old fashion. But despite all that, the most difficult part is to choose my responsibilities and prioroties in life. . .

pc guru:
@Gaby I like post and effort to make best of a relationship,and energetic effort in which you go just to make your partner happy.So i'll say you're exception or anomaly to my belief.First of all i don't believe in relationships,love ,emotions because i've been there done all things one would expect in a relationship being nice,sensitive but at the end there's nothing but pain at the end of the road.I'm like why risk emotional trauma and your sanity.Deep down i want to believe Love exist and that it's something you can open your heart to.Or smell it's breath or feel it's presence or understand it's language but everytime i open my heart all i feel is hatred,and pain.That's why i don't keep relationships or have much friends cuz at the end of the day.No matter how much pple love u or claim to .They'll leave you,and that pain and memory will be unbearable for you to handle.The only way i can avoid that is not being emotionally attached in the first place.Sounds stupid but the logic is simple.

Im so sorry to hear that. My bf had this kinda problem once before when we were best friends. When we were best friends, he dated 5 girls before he dated me and I knoew all his gf's and all of them lasted for 1 week till a month. He gave up hope on females and he had the same feeling like you. But most of all, he hates Malaysian females. He always told me that he is annoyed with them cause all they ever know to do is whine and complain and they are all gold diggers. and only like him for his money and his d*ck. I dont comment on anything when he says that cause I know he was soo angry.

But after all that, we both came into na conclusion. . . When you love someone so badly, you need to adopt 2 main criteria's into consideration.
1) When you love someone so badly, always be prepared to let her./him go - Hard right? But its the truth
2) When you love someone so badly, always be prepared to be truthful to him/.her at all times. - The truth is always bitter but who else would tell you the truth apart from the one you really cherish and love?

Before I met my bf, I didnt want to be commited to any relationships at all its because Im afraid of men. Im scared of them cause I have a feeling that all they ever wanted from me is sex. I had many gf's whom had lost their virginity bto men which is not worth it. Its like after the guy had sex with them, he will leave her immediately. . . Thats what made me stayed on. It got harder when my bf first admitted his feelings to me and it got even harder when he was always there by my side as a friend and a protector. . . Thats when I could not afford to not love him.

So all IUm trying to say is that if its your calling, you will find the right partner in your life. Just remember that on this earth, no one was made the same and theres always someone out there whom will be suitable for you.

TheSeeker:
Gabry, if there's anywhere I see you in the next one year, it's you walking down the aisle in your white gown with three beautiful flower girls and blossoming beautiful and sexy bridesmaid.

U are making me cry even more

So this is where the fighting starts. Posakosa, na waaa for you oo. The fight is between pureminded and platinumnK, why you interupting like this? Calm down now. . .


Pureminded, your first post which leads to this fight is a little too mean and harsh. When you say something, it will hit you back one way or another so you better watch what you're saying.

posakosa:
Ok i've stopped--- puff puff mouth, we shall meet at a later time. bumburukuutu!

Thank you and abeg ooo. . . . . Calm down

platinumnk:
 we should write a book

YES!!!!! The title is How to please your man and make him stay with you like foreva!!!

TheSeeker:
As much as I'd like to claim the credit of being a seer, I'm a seeker that seeks everything from good to bad. I've found lots of things and tell you what, the most successful relationships are mainly those who have undergone different kinds of stresses and strains, trauma and tensions because believe it or not, if you're strong enough you'll derive your strength right there, and on the other hand, it's the beginning of an emotional wreck. . . all comes down to where you want to pick up your line from.

Thats true and being 6 years with my bf. . . Gosh, . . U can imagine the number of ups and downs we've been through. ,

platinumnk:
Well my friend family is not that hostile to outsiders , but the guys family is Hindu while she is a devout Catholic.
But never seen such a pair so dedicated to each other.  


The secrets of a successfull relationship is when you always imagine yourself in your partner's shoes when you want to do sumthyin. Like before you do sumthin, always imagine yourself in his shoes and how would he feel if you are to do anything in life before you react.

I like this, because you imagine how your partner treats you is the same way you will want to be treated. You don't your partner to do something, then don't do it yourself, because there are two in a relationship not one.  Respect is given to those who earn it.

The 2nd thing is to always treat him like a man and treat yourself as a woman. Man has different responsibilities and so are the woman. Once you know how to differenciate between both sexes, you will do just fine.
True.

The third thing is to remember that its no more about you and you alone but its about us. The foruth one is to trust and support him with all your might. And finally love and cherish him and always be thankful that you met him.

No more about you but its about us. What a nice statement, that mean when ones hurting its not the time to run about having fun, or bragging about your latest collection item. How does your partner help you when you are down? Does your partner actually helps or offers sympathy words?  Do you believe that your partner is really there for you forever or is it just a fleeting moment?

When you figure out that, then trust should never be a factor.

Amen to that sista!

posakosa:
I will---- Just wanted to have some fun DISSING THAT FATSO---- PUFF PUFF MOUTH

Pleaseee. . . ENough. The one with the puff puff mouth right now is you cause you aint stop dissing her. I seriously think you have a serious issue.

posakosa:
Who is your dear--- abeg carry go jor! Im here to diss PUFF PUFF MOUTH

hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha!

Than please open your own thread!!!

posakosa:
She can continuing INSULUTING JAMES BASSEY---- James Bassey insulted her MOMMA-----

My dear, who is James Bassey?

TheSeeker:
Two peas in a pod, right? Gabry, all I can do is wish you the very best of luck, believing that one day you will rise above your faceted problems. Long as you both stand your grounds, everything else is good. Why do I keep having a feeling all your worries will be over soon? Keep your head up

U do? I hope you are right and I hope God blessed you with that gift of sight. To see the future. That would be so cool.

As for yours, how did it go?

topup:


Lol, well hate to be all sappy, but I really am loving God these days, especially after yesterday.

As for a lover in the form of a hu-man, you've exposed me!! Nope, but when I do, I'll be sure to return here. . as always.

What happen yesterday

posakosa:
PUREMINDED brutally DISSED her and she is taking her anger out of James Bassey---- the poor boy

is dying with Cancer and she keeps mentioning him in every statement she makes------- He is as good as dead---- let him be na! Puff Puff mouth, you can always hold a fundraiser for him.

Puff Mouth, James Bassey is dying with Cancer---- leave him oooh! shey u don hear.  oloriburuku radarada

Ok, and why does it have to end on this Love Thoughts Thread?

Abeg oo. . . Im here suffering from love pain and you are here insulting the daylights with anothet topic.  If she wants to insult Mr James and you are not happy with it, just ignore her naaa. . . In every human being, there are bound to be good and bad mockings. Thats just it. Nobody including you and me could satisfy every single individuals

TheSeeker:
I wasn't referring to you or anyone, I'm just saying what I feel. . . . but whether or not you believe men are valuable depends on your yardstick for what you call a man. To some women, a dunce man is a man, and anything different from that is a monster. Pardon the explanation but that's the best I can come up with right now.If you ask me, I'll correctly say most women will think this is bullshit, but in fact, they are very intelligible golden nuggets. Unfortunately, the truth is some men won't even appreciate these, and men who would appreciate these, don't get them from their women.

Well, not every man is the same brother. But I know for my guy, he appreciates this so Im going for it

posakosa:
I haven't called you any names---- so watch it---- Puff Puff mouth started the disses---- you aren't exactly eye candy----- ewo to jo obo--- she should learn to shut the phuck up

But on my thread, u started it first ooo. . . Why the insult?

platinumnk:
@gabby- got your message can u email me

Ok I will go online now but only for awhile if you dont mind and dont mind that piece of shit ok? Some people are jobless around here. They think they are so cool but truth be told, they are nothing.

This baffoon is really pissin me off right now. . .