Foreign Affairs › Re: France Has Over 8,000 People On Terror Watch List - Darmanin by Gbengais(m): 1:43am On Sep 01, 2020 |
Nice one . I don't trust them french peeps though.. they have too much interest in African politics and would do so much to control the continent. African leaders needs to come together and reason a way out without inclusion of them westerners. |
Crime › Re: A Black Man Is Freed From Prison 44 Years After He Was Wrongly Convicted Of Rape by Gbengais(m): 12:53am On Aug 29, 2020 |
Justice will always prevail |
Family › Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by Gbengais(m): 7:33pm On Aug 17, 2020 |
Mizflo: Please I need your advice. I had created this account because I am well known here with my main account because I am always active and I want to remain anonymously.
Am 21 a single mum with 1 girl age 5 , her dad rejected me when I was pregnant he left when I was 4 months pregnant with her .
I had a difficult time growing up , my mum died when I was 8 years and my dad denied me claiming my mum had cheated on him and there’s no way I could be his daughter.
My aunty who was supposed to care for me had never bothered about me , she was always out leaving me in the house all alone without food , whenever I complains she will beat me telling me to go to my mum graveyard to ask her for assistance.
I have suffered in the hand of my aunty she didn’t care about my education if I have managed to complete my primary school till jss2 was thanks to this aunty who was a teacher at my school and a good friend of my mum , she sponsored me , And when I was 14 my aunty landlord kicked her out of the house because of rent arrears she said I am the enemy of progress she cant take me to her boyfriend house because he won’t accept me to stay there that I should go and look for a place , I cried and pleaded with her to take me along with her but she refuse I beg her to show me where my dad is she said he will not accept me because he hated my mum but I beg her to take me to him .
She took me to him it was my first time seeing him I looked just like him with one eye big one small but he insulted the hell out of us saying he will never accept me because my mum was a cheater she had so many boyfriends that I should ask her who my real father is but my aunty insisted that my mum had told her before she passed on that he was my dad even taught I resembled him still he denied and kicked us out like we were dogs I cried and my aunty was angry because of the insult so she left me all alone in the street but later came to me . Since that day my life situation has worsened because I was forced to stay with different people where I was being abused , my baby dad came as a guardian angel to my life he took care of everything i needed by promising me heaven on Earth I taught he will get me out of my hard situations but I was wrong i find out he was married with kids I was heartbroken because I didn’t want to live the same lifestyle as my mum had lived but history has repeated itself just like my mother had me with a married man but she knew he was married but me I didn’t know , but it was too late for me to moved on because I was already pregnant for him and I didn’t want to abort my baby I have decide to continue the relationship but when I was 4 months pregnant he left me and blocked me from all his contacts , this is the man that has never bothered to asked about his child for 5 years now..
My little girl dont even know her dad the same way I did not know mine until I was 14 which break my heart anytime I think about it.
My daughter and I are staying with my madam the lady tat I serve her for now 3 years but things here hasn’t been easy for us because my madam children don’t like me they keep accusing of things I don’t do like I stole their money , clothes and many more before my madam was telling them to stop with their bad attitudes towards me but I have noticed that whenever they had accused me she start getting angry with me sometimes we can go days without her not talking to me which I think I have overstayed and I am not longer wanted here I want to leave this house and to go and hustle but I feared for my daughter because I don’t want her to end up like me.
If I leave this house we will be on the street for a long time till I will be able to get somewhere else to stay with her also I don’t think I can give her the best education because if she stay with me she will end up being a teen mother just like I did something I don’t want to happen to her and I came across someone who’s willing to help me by taking care of my daughter to give her the best life something that I have always wanted for her , she promised to take care of her till university and she will give me the money to rent a room and start up business she said she will take things to the right direction like adoption but I don’t know how she will do it because I have no idea that I will have to sign up papers for agreement i have agreed because I think is really a good opportunity for me even taught I have accepted but sometimes I am getting worried about giving her my daughter I am having sleepless nights and thinking all nights.
I am just tired of living this life I didn’t ask to be born my parents created me and now I am suffering from their mistakes something I didn’t consented and I don’t want my daughter to suffer because of my mistake I think giving her up for adoption is a good thing , but I don’t know if I am doing the right things.
please no insult what is your advice for me.
Thanks Sent you a pm |
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Autos › Re: 2009 Volkswagen Passat CC - 1.9m by Gbengais(m): 3:05pm On Mar 14, 2020 |
Price |
Autos › Re: Nigerian Used Camry For Sale N1,100,000.00 by Gbengais(m): 12:33am On Mar 11, 2020 |
900 |
Politics › Re: Obasanjo Writes Letter To Sanusi: Your Dethronement As Emir Is Good And Bad by Gbengais(m): 1:02am On Mar 10, 2020 |
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Health › Re: Colombian Mum Of 2 Dies After Having Fat Removal Surgery To Surprise Husband by Gbengais(m): 7:37pm On Mar 07, 2020 |
deltateam: Keep on celebrating mediocrity.
Its just like a child who came 17th in class out of 20 pupils. The child be like: "Mummy, do you know I performed better than Femi?" Poor Femi came last and is now his yardstick. Na your papa dey celebrate mediocrity.. I'm not a bastard.. I hail my country small if them try |
Health › Re: Colombian Mum Of 2 Dies After Having Fat Removal Surgery To Surprise Husband by Gbengais(m): 7:14pm On Mar 07, 2020 |
Am I the only one seeing 4 million Colombia pesos is equivalent to £900? Talking bout the naira.. we a boss |
Autos › Re: First Body 2008 Camry by Gbengais(m): 7:40pm On Mar 04, 2020 |
Let's do 1.2 |
Autos › Re: Distress Sale Muscle 2008 by Gbengais(m): 7:27pm On Mar 04, 2020 |
What's the fault |
Autos › Re: Awoof Honda Accord 2010 For 1.3m by Gbengais(m): 7:24pm On Mar 04, 2020 |
,1m |
Autos › Re: Camry 03 SE Used Sale@1.1m by Gbengais(m): 10:36am On Mar 04, 2020 |
1m |
Autos › Re: 2003 Lexus Es300 With DVD (2units) Available @1.4m Asking by Gbengais(m): 10:31am On Mar 04, 2020 |
1.250 |
Autos › Re: Awoof CRV 2010 For 1.3m by Gbengais(m): 9:59pm On Mar 03, 2020 |
Paganizonda: Bros all Honda crv's are 4plugs Thanks for the enlightenment .. |
Autos › Re: Awoof CRV 2010 For 1.3m by Gbengais(m): 7:12pm On Mar 03, 2020 |
4plugs? |
Autos › Re: CAMRY 2005 Neatly Use. by Gbengais(m): 6:05am On Mar 03, 2020 |
1m |
Autos › Re: Registered Camry 2004 6 Months Reg. @ 1.150m by Gbengais(m): 5:03am On Mar 02, 2020 |
1m |
Autos › Re: Awoof (leather Interior) Big Daddy Going For 1.3m by Gbengais(m): 1:59pm On Feb 29, 2020 |
1.1m |
Autos › Re: Super Clean Registered Toyota Camry 2006model @cool Price by Gbengais(m): 1:56pm On Feb 29, 2020 |
1m |
Health › Re: Surviving Lassa Fever, The Story Of Dr Usman Abba by Gbengais(m): 2:20am On Feb 23, 2020 |
Happy for you Doctor |
Celebrities › Re: Churchill Sues Tonto Dikeh For N500million For Defamation Against Father, Others by Gbengais(m): 11:52pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Digmygold: This Churchill.is shameless though. Let's comment with sense please!! |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Passenger plane makes emergency landing to avoid coming under Syrian fire-Russia by Gbengais(m): 6:55pm On Feb 07, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: Reconsider The Ban On Illegal Mining In Zamfara, Emir Tells Buhari by Gbengais(m): 9:43am On Feb 05, 2020 |
Can you imagine |
Autos › Re: Super Clean Registered Toyota Camry 2008 Model @ 1.150m by Gbengais(m): 7:31pm On Jan 27, 2020 |
1.150 |
Autos › Re: Clean 1st Body 02 Lexus Rx300 Reg Leather Ac For Just 900k by Gbengais(m): 1:10pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
This is a RX not an ES |
Autos › Re: Sold by Gbengais(m): 12:16pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
1m |
Autos › Re: Few Months Used Toyota Camry 2003 Model by Gbengais(m): 10:15am On Jan 26, 2020 |
800 |
Autos › Re: Super Clean Toyota Camry Big Daddy In Perfect Condition 900k by Gbengais(m): 10:11am On Jan 26, 2020 |
Take 750 for tomorrow morning deal |
Autos › Re: Toyota Camry 2003 Model ( Clean ) by Gbengais(m): 10:10am On Jan 26, 2020 |
More pictures |
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Autos › Re: Toyota Camry 2006 Registered Price N900k Location Isolo by Gbengais(m): 8:47am On Jan 25, 2020 |
700 |