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Foreign AffairsRe: France Has Over 8,000 People On Terror Watch List - Darmanin by Gbengais(m): 1:43am On Sep 01, 2020
Nice one . I don't trust them french peeps though.. they have too much interest in African politics and would do so much to control the continent. African leaders needs to come together and reason a way out without inclusion of them westerners.
CrimeRe: A Black Man Is Freed From Prison 44 Years After He Was Wrongly Convicted Of Rape by Gbengais(m): 12:53am On Aug 29, 2020
Justice will always prevail
FamilyRe: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by Gbengais(m): 7:33pm On Aug 17, 2020
Mizflo:
Please I need your advice. I had created this account because I am well known here with my main account because I am always active and I want to remain anonymously.

Am 21 a single mum with 1 girl age 5 , her dad rejected me when I was pregnant he left when I was 4 months pregnant with her .

I had a difficult time growing up , my mum died when I was 8 years and my dad denied me claiming my mum had cheated on him and there’s no way I could be his daughter.

My aunty who was supposed to care for me had never bothered about me , she was always out leaving me in the house all alone without food , whenever I complains she will beat me telling me to go to my mum graveyard to ask her for assistance.

I have suffered in the hand of my aunty she didn’t care about my education if I have managed to complete my primary school till jss2 was thanks to this aunty who was a teacher at my school and a good friend of my mum , she sponsored me , And when I was 14 my aunty landlord kicked her out of the house because of rent arrears she said I am the enemy of progress she cant take me to her boyfriend house because he won’t accept me to stay there that I should go and look for a place , I cried and pleaded with her to take me along with her but she refuse I beg her to show me where my dad is she said he will not accept me because he hated my mum but I beg her to take me to him .

She took me to him it was my first time seeing him I looked just like him with one eye big one small but he insulted the hell out of us saying he will never accept me because my mum was a cheater she had so many boyfriends that I should ask her who my real father is but my aunty insisted that my mum had told her before she passed on that he was my dad even taught I resembled him still he denied and kicked us out like we were dogs I cried and my aunty was angry because of the insult so she left me all alone in the street but later came to me .
Since that day my life situation has worsened because I was forced to stay with different people where I was being abused , my baby dad came as a guardian angel to my life he took care of everything i needed by promising me heaven on Earth I taught he will get me out of my hard situations but I was wrong i find out he was married with kids I was heartbroken because I didn’t want to live the same lifestyle as my mum had lived but history has repeated itself just like my mother had me with a married man but she knew he was married but me I didn’t know , but it was too late for me to moved on because I was already pregnant for him and I didn’t want to abort my baby I have decide to continue the relationship but when I was 4 months pregnant he left me and blocked me from all his contacts , this is the man that has never bothered to asked about his child for 5 years now..

My little girl dont even know her dad the same way I did not know mine until
I was 14 which break my heart anytime I think about it.

My daughter and I are staying with my madam the lady tat I serve her for now 3 years but things here hasn’t been easy for us because my madam children don’t like me they keep accusing of things I don’t do like I stole their money , clothes and many more before my madam was telling them to stop with their bad attitudes towards me but I have noticed that whenever they had accused me she start getting angry with me sometimes we can go days without her not talking to me which I think I have overstayed and I am not longer wanted here I want to leave this house and to go and hustle but I feared for my daughter because I don’t want her to end up like me.

If I leave this house we will be on the street for a long time till I will be able to get somewhere else to stay with her also I don’t think I can give her the best education because if she stay with me she will end up being a teen mother just like I did something I don’t want to happen to her and I came across someone who’s willing to help me by taking care of my daughter to give her the best life something that I have always wanted for her , she promised to take care of her till university and she will give me the money to rent a room and start up business she said she will take things to the right direction like adoption but I don’t know how she will do it because I have no idea that I will have to sign up papers for agreement i have agreed because I think is really a good opportunity for me even taught I have accepted but sometimes I am getting worried about giving her my daughter I am having sleepless nights and thinking all nights.

I am just tired of living this life I didn’t ask to be born my parents created me and now I am suffering from their mistakes something I didn’t consented and I don’t want my daughter to suffer because of my mistake I think giving her up for adoption is a good thing , but I don’t know if I am doing the right things.

please no insult what is your advice for me.

Thanks
Sent you a pm
AutosRe: 2009 Volkswagen Passat CC - 1.9m by Gbengais(m): 3:05pm On Mar 14, 2020
Price
AutosRe: Nigerian Used Camry For Sale N1,100,000.00 by Gbengais(m): 12:33am On Mar 11, 2020
900
PoliticsRe: Obasanjo Writes Letter To Sanusi: Your Dethronement As Emir Is Good And Bad by Gbengais(m): 1:02am On Mar 10, 2020
APCHaram:
Bad: Because he was unjustly removed.

Good: Because he paid the price of the curse placed on his grand father by an Igala King not with his life but the throne.

Obasanjo nah demon himself.

Funny how Obasanjo addresses him as former Emir

grin grin grin grin
Seen
HealthRe: Colombian Mum Of 2 Dies After Having Fat Removal Surgery To Surprise Husband by Gbengais(m): 7:37pm On Mar 07, 2020
deltateam:
Keep on celebrating mediocrity.

Its just like a child who came 17th in class out of 20 pupils.
The child be like: "Mummy, do you know I performed better than Femi?" Poor Femi came last and is now his yardstick.
Na your papa dey celebrate mediocrity.. I'm not a bastard.. I hail my country small if them try
HealthRe: Colombian Mum Of 2 Dies After Having Fat Removal Surgery To Surprise Husband by Gbengais(m): 7:14pm On Mar 07, 2020
Am I the only one seeing 4 million Colombia pesos is equivalent to £900? Talking bout the naira.. we a boss
AutosRe: First Body 2008 Camry by Gbengais(m): 7:40pm On Mar 04, 2020
Let's do 1.2
AutosRe: Distress Sale Muscle 2008 by Gbengais(m): 7:27pm On Mar 04, 2020
What's the fault
AutosRe: Awoof Honda Accord 2010 For 1.3m by Gbengais(m): 7:24pm On Mar 04, 2020
,1m
AutosRe: Camry 03 SE Used Sale@1.1m by Gbengais(m): 10:36am On Mar 04, 2020
1m
AutosRe: 2003 Lexus Es300 With DVD (2units) Available @1.4m Asking by Gbengais(m): 10:31am On Mar 04, 2020
1.250
AutosRe: Awoof CRV 2010 For 1.3m by Gbengais(m): 9:59pm On Mar 03, 2020
Paganizonda:
Bros all Honda crv's are 4plugs
Thanks for the enlightenment ..
AutosRe: Awoof CRV 2010 For 1.3m by Gbengais(m): 7:12pm On Mar 03, 2020
4plugs?
AutosRe: CAMRY 2005 Neatly Use. by Gbengais(m): 6:05am On Mar 03, 2020
1m
AutosRe: Registered Camry 2004 6 Months Reg. @ 1.150m by Gbengais(m): 5:03am On Mar 02, 2020
1m
AutosRe: Awoof (leather Interior) Big Daddy Going For 1.3m by Gbengais(m): 1:59pm On Feb 29, 2020
1.1m
AutosRe: Super Clean Registered Toyota Camry 2006model @cool Price by Gbengais(m): 1:56pm On Feb 29, 2020
1m
HealthRe: Surviving Lassa Fever, The Story Of Dr Usman Abba by Gbengais(m): 2:20am On Feb 23, 2020
Happy for you Doctor
CelebritiesRe: Churchill Sues Tonto Dikeh For N500million For Defamation Against Father, Others by Gbengais(m): 11:52pm On Feb 15, 2020
Digmygold:
This Churchill.is shameless though.
Let's comment with sense please!!
Foreign AffairsRe: Passenger plane makes emergency landing to avoid coming under Syrian fire-Russia by Gbengais(m): 6:55pm On Feb 07, 2020
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PoliticsRe: Reconsider The Ban On Illegal Mining In Zamfara, Emir Tells Buhari by Gbengais(m): 9:43am On Feb 05, 2020
Can you imagine
AutosRe: Super Clean Registered Toyota Camry 2008 Model @ 1.150m by Gbengais(m): 7:31pm On Jan 27, 2020
1.150
AutosRe: Clean 1st Body 02 Lexus Rx300 Reg Leather Ac For Just 900k by Gbengais(m): 1:10pm On Jan 26, 2020
This is a RX not an ES
AutosRe: Sold by Gbengais(m): 12:16pm On Jan 26, 2020
1m
AutosRe: Few Months Used Toyota Camry 2003 Model by Gbengais(m): 10:15am On Jan 26, 2020
800
AutosRe: Super Clean Toyota Camry Big Daddy In Perfect Condition 900k by Gbengais(m): 10:11am On Jan 26, 2020
Take 750 for tomorrow morning deal
AutosRe: Toyota Camry 2003 Model ( Clean ) by Gbengais(m): 10:10am On Jan 26, 2020
More pictures
AutosRe: Toyota Camry 2006 Registered Price N900k Location Isolo by Gbengais(m): 8:47am On Jan 25, 2020
700

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