₦airaland Forum

mizlolar:
Please i need ur help. Am having challenges in area of relationship. I have the problem of ending up with men who are nothing but gold diggers. They seem good from the start but before a few months, they will turn into pests.

I dont know what is responsible for this. I just need a man who ll love me on the basis of who i am not what i have. I am from a well to do family, I am the only daughter of my parents and my dad is late, I actually inherited quite a lot and initially it seemed like a blessing until I got older.

All the Guys i ve met so far re fake displaying fake love just to get hold of what is in my possession. I will give you a little insight so you can understand what I am going tru. Around 2013, my then fiance kidnapped himself and because i already knew he was too needy and then their was a lot of inconsistencies in the story so i ignored the kidnappers who were demanding for 700k ransom. The guys showed up 2 weeks later fuming without any injuries or even shedding any weight


He was ranting and saying all sorts like how wicked i was and how i abandoned him to die. I had to break it off immediately because he was beginning to sound like i was his mother and father joined together. The next relationship went quite the same way.


The guy sold my car and came up with stories of how he was robbed at onipanu by palm-grove. unfortunately for him, i had a tracker which had its own inbuilt battery, so when they disconnected the car battery thinking they have disabled the tracker, they gaffed. the car was subsequently tracked down to shagamu at a hotel managed by his cousin. these are just the few recent ones.

There are many more experiences that i wouldn’t bother you with but I am tired. the worst is that some will even want to move in with me because of the comfort of my place. Its really frustrating. My mum said i should stop driving but its nearly impossible for me to get around lagos without a car.


I simply stopped using the big cars and got a Toyota matrix and i even had to drive myself so it dosnt look like i am the one attracting the wrong men and scaring away the good ones yet i haven’t been lucky.


I am not looking for a millionaire, I just want a man with a little dignity and value not the ones who will start demanding for loans or come up with stories within months of how their visa was stuck or how their mother was diabetic and needed money for blood transfusion. I have heard a lot of such stories and i am tired.


I dont know if my mum is right that i am scaring away the right ones with my lifestyle. Honestly, i dont even live flamboyantly neither do I club. I am in my early 30’s and i really need to settle down.


Plz help me with ideas on how to stop attracting gold digging shameless men. As at now, 4 guys re on my neck including head of admin in my firm but they are all my subordinates and I don’t want a scandal. Thank u.

Please advice. I don't need abuse from you guys... Thanks

vizkiz:
I don't know why good people die and bad people like fayose, saraki, dansuki are still alive

lomprico:
Dumb asses! Drugs do wear off! You dont expect to find traces of drugs months or weeks or even days(depending on the half-life of d particular drug) after taking it.
I believe my Tiwa

lomprico:
Dumb asses! Drugs do wear off! You dont expect to find traces of drugs months or weeks or even days(depending on the half-life of d particular drug) after taking it.
I believe my Tiwa

zuchyblink:
List Of Oil Producing States In Nigeria and
NDDC Facts You Must Know
The list of oil producing states in Nigeria will
be arranged according to the highest
producer of crude oil from the top oil
producing states in ...
No 1. Akwa Ibom
No 2. Bayelsa
No. 3, Delta
No. 4, Rivers
No. 5, Cross River,
No. 6, Imo
No. 7, Abia
No. 8, Anambra
No. 9, Ondo State

cleatoris:
A really smart move indeed.
The guy is a loyal party member (he stood his ground against the swearing-in of a new PDP member for almost 3months). But he obviously angered the governor and the party leadership with the way he handled the Local Govt Chairmen tenure issue.

ibietela2:
how much was your pay?

ibietela2:
how much was your pay?

blackwisenigger:
ogbeni rest, nigga started using goodluck's initiative of TSA to shine next he's talking about paying on time like it wasn't in tenure they started paying late.
I didn't even know he could pay this early and he's been paying late. What we have is a government not willing to do things right till it becomes a problem. Can't even believe you still belief in this dumb change thing. Buhari is a proud uneducated kakistocrat running a kakistocracy with mediocre niggas round him.

raker300:
The girl I buy vegetables from here in enugu is finer than this. I don't even use the vegetables, I just like it when she bends over in front of me to select them for me..she has the fullest boobs ever.

I threw away the vegetables I bought from her one time after she refused to gimme her number.. ...I still wave @ her whenever I pass by though and she waves back with that killer smile

Menakay:
if ur salary is paid every on the 25th of each month it means u re being paid in every 30days and if ur salary is paid on every 28th or 30th of each month it also means ur salary is also paid in every 30 days, so what is the sai buahri abt it? does it reduce d price or ur house rent, cost of living and fuel price? very soon u ll be paying ur monthly bills on every 25th.

Aromas:
No I guess is Prof. Maurice Iwu

dtruthis:
This one na bread of life
If u chop am u no go need another