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It's obvious we need to fumigate your brain with common sense 😂😂😂.

Aren't you aware if the recent appointment given to her?You go just dey carry android phone up and down without optimising the use of it for informational reasons.

Alison was appointed and Eniola Badmus too was appointed only that Allison had a bigger portfolio than Eniola Badmus.

Eniola Badmus has direct access to Aso rock than you on Nairaland 😂😂😂.
I won't blame you sha the of abusive language on a public forum is a function of your exposure to how your mother often address your father at home .Your comment is just an indicator of a poor job your parents did on you.😂😂😂😂🙏🙏🙏

NewDea4:
This one na werey

We dey talk of Deziani e say Eniola Badmus...why not talk about human being. If Tinubu wan fúck toto shey na Eniola Badmus wey resemble sea cow e go fûck

You're clearly insane

So what is Eniola Badmus doing in Aso rock with thing?

She is cleansing the Aso rock with the blood of Jesus abi? 😂😂😂😂


This selective judgement Una dey get often baffles me.

Leave Politicians alone they know what they are doing and non of them send you at all.Focus on your life whether you are obedient or Asiwaju person.

NewDea4:
She use tohtoh scatter Aso Rock during Yaradua and Jona regime

If this is true why do we hear tales of men not getting committed to marrying them there even when there are many ready ladies for marriage? Why are the women largely unmarried there even when they are ready for marriage there?

Men can't see good things and reject it Is it a gender problem where the male are the problem but the women aren't?

I don't live there but an insightful answer can go a long way to educate us all


Using the word desperate sounds weird to me in the lane of sustainable marriage.


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grandstar:
He spoke the truth.

If you want to marry, it is best you pick someone already in the UK, who is desperate to settle down.

Such a person genuinely wants marriage and nothing else. She is not out to take advantage of the system or swindle you.

Another alternative is to marry a foreigner. They too want to genuinely settle down.

It's recently I discovered that MANY women are the most confused set of species on this planet .They will liter all spiritual centres with a cardinal request of searching for their ideal mantis husband them.In reality,they really don't know what they want.

This same girl was dating iceberg slim during this long years she mentioned ooo.Ice prince has been smashing babes wella wella.

The truth is MANY women are not in love but in business when it comes to relationship.

Tomorrow when she meets Drake then the narrative will change that she has been in love with him for 30 years.

Well I only admire few women who have distinguished themselves with strong character.

Hello Fellow Nairalanders,

This post is for educational purpose.

I use to have this girl I was dating while in school but she was seeking admission.I was so naive and insecured.Any time I hear a guy's voice at the background I assume she as doing things which I later discovered it was true.

She gave me the hot and cold treatment.I almost lost my sanity in school and had fragmented focus.I travelled home to beg her even on my kneels ooo this girl use me catch cruise and later told me it's over.


I cried oooo but later travelled to Lagos and within a month I remembered.i haven't called her at all.Omoooor I stayed two years before one day she called me and accused me of been a wicked person all in a way to guilt trip me.At this time I had lost all interest in her totally and even today sef she no appeal to me at all.


What's your story and was there a comeback?

I discovered that when you have breakup even if she marries one day she will reach out to say hi as long as you keep the no contact rule .

My brother there is this saying that "may we not marry the weapon fashioned against us"

I am a Christian but I am buying to the idea of tasting it before you get married.This will let you know if you the capacity to satisfy her.

If you had tasted her and unemotionally gauged her feedback after the kerewa then you will know if you can go ahead with the marriage plans.


Some women libido level is way to high and some VJ is now deeper than our national kanji Dam so with your medium size joystick you are just a scratching the surface.


For her that have posted that then it means she has the potential of cheating on you in the future big time .

If I were you I won't have reacted emotionally by confronting her because you should know that women are better and smarter cheats than men.You have registered your observations to her and mama will change her tactics from the Mourinho way to the Pep Guardiola tikitaka tactics.


She will become very nice and she fit initiate spirituality at home but all na setup to divert your mind and once that is done omoooor she go do the unimaginable.


You could have created a fake Facebook account.Go to Instagram and get pictures of well built guys with the kind of gbola size and start chatting her up.Then you wikk.inow the kind of wife you married .That will help yiu take the appropriate action.

For now start exercising a detached mindset immediately and prepare for a possible betrayal because of because of her you loose your job my brother you will be the most unfortunate woman on earth and she will leave you for a better man

So can the governor of Edo state comfortably dethrone the Oba of Benin without any consequences?
Military era is different from a democratic setting.

At least you should know that the sultan ore existed the governor and he has the loyalty of the people more than the governor.

I am not disputing the fact that the governor can't pull a trigger but in the longrun King na king.Ordinary Sanusi wey no get kingship experience see who win at last.


The sultan isn't just a traditional title ooo but more of the spiritual father of all Muslims in Nigeria.Except the sultan is trying too over impose himself on the governor then I will say okay which nature will stand with the governor.

DeLaRue:
I believe a Sultan was deposed under a military government in the past. Nothing happened.

There's always going to be a collision between traditional rulers and those in government especially where a traditional ruler expresses strong opinions in public issues.

Some politicians want traditional rulers to keep mute even when the people want their traditional rulers to speak up for them.

Yoruba traditional rulers have learned over the years to thread very carefully.

You won't here the Ooni openly criticise his State government or the federal government. These people can depose you and nothing will happen.

My advice: I am telling you from third party experience.

She is definitely considering another guy aside from you but she is using your "lack areas" as a cover up to buy time to see if the grass is greener over there.

You must understand women well.A woman who loves you truly will be all over you to come see your parents.Except your relationship has history of domestic violence, cheating on your path etc. Asides that, It's conspicuous that another man with better potential is in the pipeline and you are a back up plan amd she knows yiu cant do without her hence her confidence to say slow down.



Ask yourself this question.If she was dating Davido or WizKid will she say slow down or do you think she is not thinking about marriage seriously?


Action plan: Start now to detach your mind from her immediately before she finally serves you the breakfast.Start ghosting her immediately and Donna internal audit as a man.

Ask yourself certain vital questions.Who are you ? What's your purpose in life and how well do you give yourself to this course.Whats your emotional intelligence level? An answer to this will make you attract the right woman.



Baba take it from me that girl doesn't love you at all.She is taking advantage of your unhindered access to find her real spec for marriage.You will not die though it will be tough but trust me brother you will be better and stronger.


The third party experience was a similar situation like yours and he started forcing the love on her till she got to married to him cos he is the only one available.


It's three weeks now after wedding she has refused to join her husband but excusing it on trying to arrange her things.

I am reliably informed that She is currently been banged by the guy who is not giving her time and refused to marry her.

My brother it's better to let her go and you have peace.
You see that feeling you are having for her is not real .Na just chemical reaction of Dopamine and oxytocin that's working in Ur brain.When you enter marriage the reality will stare at you I pray you won't be unfortunate then.

Follow Agbafrian on twitter to see things that are happening in marriage.Dont think wedding is the end .It's just the beginning

Yahoo boys I have seen are always on dread hair styles.These ones look like secondary school students.


I have never liked that yahoo thing.Instead I use that energy to become a guru in one or two programming language.

I am from the same state with him but I am ashamed of this statement.

Even if you are paying loyalty to Tinubu and to defend his tenure must you stoop so low to say irrational things?

Why didn't he go to zamfara forest unarmed or unsecured with his security aides then chant the New national anthem.

No wonder the NBA warned him not to address himself as a barrister.Baba sense don reduce wella

I believe it all boils down to God's grace.

In Nigeria even with your money she can use you to climb the ladder and once she gets there she dumps you.

In UK ,most of them are independent.I am in Nigeria though but I know that there is huge trust issues there because guys there as I heard oooo are just trying to see who they are getting papers from and are scared of the extremities of women when it comes to the law favouring them.

A balanced guy in the UK is willing to marry another woman there who probably is a medical doctor doing well because he knows the family settings will be okay.

In the grand scheme of things I believe it's better we trust God alone he is the only one that can locate the partner that will love you genuinely without too much stress.


I can be corrected about my view on men in the UK like Scotland.Where I hear say if them jam babe wey carry them fit run am street but will first love bomb you to brainwash your head .

That's why me like this I love my peace .I make my money and do love the normal way I don't know how people sleep at night after defrauding people.

It's clear From his verbal outburst Osimen left the slump but the slum didn't leave him

When a man receives a break up message : You are free to be with other people.

Then you refused to reply and block her on all social media and delete her number on your WhatsApp.So sanity sake cos the more one sees those pictures and updates I could delay healing.

Will she see your actions as holding grudges?
Is the silent response a perfect approach?

Thanks man I really do appreciate your kind words.I have done the needful and have move on.Better days ahead.

It's better the breakup now than marriage issues .God knows I can't withstand that.

God bless you bro 🙏🙏🙏

imagrg:
You are a caring and consistent lover but unfortunately, ladies have preference for hard and bad boys who treat them ruthlessly.
Please, for your peace of mind, drop her and move on. There are many fishes in the sky just as there are many stars in the ocean....sorry, it's the other way round.

I thank you for your kind and reasonable advice.I adopted the no contact rule.To cut the long story short she just sent me a message: let's end it completely and you are free to be with other people.I didn't reply her message at all.

As you rightly said,the girl doesn't love me.I have accepted the reality that she is gone.

I have deleted her number on WhatsApp and on my phone contact so I won't be seeing any status or update.On Instagram and other platforms I have blocked her successfully.

I don't care to burn the bridge.Though a bit hurt but not like the first time.

I will focus more on me and Trudy God for healing before thinking of another relationship.


Thanks so much you prediction: that she doesn't love me was true.

Cheereeeers

Clevagal:
Stop taking breadcrumbs. She’s only calling to check up on you so when whatever relationship she has going on now fails..she’ll fall back to you as second or maybe third option. Trust me..you don’t want to be anyone’s second option because even if you get married..she’ll still leave if she sees someone else. One thing I’m 100% sure of, that girl doesn’t love you!

Sometimes the way these BATerians analyse issues is amazing to logicality.Why did Tinubu bundle over 50 businessmen to India to seduce foreigners for FDI?

Have you ever taken out time to understudy the importance of foreign direct investment in economic advancement.

Foreign organisations are leaving in droves to even smaller African countries due to policy summersault and high cost of doing business.
Currently,you don't have a local companies to replace it


Tinubu campaign of calumny against Jonathan and his harsh words on him will cripple his efforts.Its karma that's playing out until he goes to apologise to that gentle man

He called him a clueless president and now he feels he will do well ? The unfortunate issue is that the masses will suffer.

StreetFight:
They are MAD. Who invited them before?

From your post it's very conspicuous that you were raised in an environment where love and empathy was a big issue.How can youbspew this rubbish just to make it look like he owed you any explanation for his Japa.Must you force patriotism on people? Your pain of not been able to own an international passport oor even travel afar is funny.Mr patriotism go to north from Katsina to Maiduguri to zamfara and flag this your stupid patriotism let's see if those blood thirsty demons will exempt you.So ridiculous you can't offer positive words

omoadeleye:
Ehyaa. Japa could not even save his life,

You japa from Nigeria to save your life only to end up your life in abroad.

At least no one would be able to say Nigeria happened to him


It can only be japa happened to him


r.i.p to him

It is because of the presence of the seaport.

Explanation: Lagos is known to be the commercial capital of Nigeria just as Douala is to Cameroon and New York is to America.Its also a known fact that we run an import dependent economy where everything down to toothpick is imported into Nigeria.

This goods dominate the markets in Lagos and they don't fall from the sky.They all find their way through the seaport.

Think of the computers at computer village,the clothes at yaba and Eko market,the cars at Apapa wharf etc.

Tech business earnings haven't supersede the collective earnings from trading in Lagos .

Most of the manufacturing companies in Lagos with substantial production activities have their major raw materials sourced from abroad.Eg Guinness,Peak milk,Milo etc.

Entertainment is another major area that makes Lagos greater than other places in Nigeria.This is due to the presence of heavy weight promoters and marketers here . Though the earnings from this thriving sector can't be compared to trading in Lagos.


If you have contrary opinion please kindly state them without the use of abusive language.

Even Pastor Adeboye why senior BAT with some significant tears no fall at all.

Sometimes you just need to backpedal in life to respect yourself.Since him say na strongman then he go receive wotowoto

I just dey imagine how twitter go be.

When Omojuwa called Jonathan pig shebi to you it was intellectualism.When Tinubu insulted GEJ as clueless president it was right.When Soyinka insulted Jonathan and his wife calling her shepopotamus it was morality.


Now it's the turn of shaky shaky daddy you are having diarrhea over the issue......😂😂😂😂.

The way you guys select truth and fairness still marvels the devil in hell.

Your mental health imbalance just started.more to come.

Hand dey shake
Leg dey shake
Baba still dey shout
Emilokan oooo

😂😂🙏🙏🙏🙏

Kukutente23:
Fixed

Bastards usually disgrace their fathers online

I wonder how Sofia momodu will be feeling now ? When Ifeanyi died the way she and her camp spearheaded by Eniola Badmus were posting you will know they were happy the boy passed on.

Anyways may they all have happiness at the end of the day.We are all humans.

Finidi George is just a conduit pipe to steal enough money from NFF.

No wonder them run buy Baba G wagon.

What is wrong appointing Samson Siasia as the coach considering his track record of performance or appointing Emmanuel Amunike as the coach.

These NFF people are more corrupt than corruption itself.

Exactly my brother

You captured my exact state.Moving on is just very hard but I have no choice as it stands.


I really appreciate your kind counsel.

I apologise for my wrong use of words.God bless you brother

okerekingsley90:
I understand it's not easy to start afresh and build with someone else honestly not easy. Not easy finding that person that unconditional does things for you. But right now from your post it shows you are worried so I l advise you follow your manly guts. You as a man on the other hand. Brush up your skills confident business work hustle groom position yourself well the right lady would come for you

My brother, honestly speaking what gain will I find in validation from fellow nairalanders.Its because am confused that's why I sincerely asked the question.I won't hold anyone responsible if I take their counsel.

If you really have a rich experience plsss do share your thoughts and you never can tell what help your thoughts can give.

Sorry I said the agbero talk thing.

I really love the girl but a part of me don't want her to go before I regret may be I acted out emotional.

Why would she ask me what's my Japa plans? And why would she hold the relationship on a pause? Am just trying the reconcile the two different situation.

I will appreciate your response.God bless you my brother

okerekingsley90:
I take responsibility. but on the other hand every body has that innermost subconscious that advises us. You know what to do. You only brought it to NAIRALAND to seek for validation. Search yourself. God bless.

This Nedu podcast thing is now a good PR or non-paid advertising platform where girls who seem descent come to advertise their 'commodity' to economically viable Men.

She first of all made her ex-husband look guilty so she will be clean and then hoodwink the naive listeners about the subject of empathy to pitch her Olosho business model.

Many Nigerian men love bobby so much so that's her selling point and she has told them indirectly that she is available for happy ending as long as your price is 20 million.


What a smart way.In this derilious game of knacking I now believe that women are more strategic than men.

What is this one saying? Can't you be civil and pass your thoughts without condescending yourself with agbero talk? Make your point like a matured person

okerekingsley90:
Honestly eh you be real odo

I was dating a girl though I am in Nigeria.She came to Nigeria to visit me .Infact I gave a a queenly treatment.She was like where have I been that am a good man.She was like let's get married.I agreed but I no get money to relocate.She would have assisted but she said two guys have used her head well.

I did a mistake to ask her to add money to add to get my laptop.She asked if I wanna rip her.From then I noticed a change in our communication especially as she moved newly to Scotland.

After much pressure from me to tell me her mind she now said she loves me but because am in Nigeria it won't work that she is breaking up.I later asked her to give me till October let's see how far.She agreed but said the relationship should be on PAUSE.

So I stop contacting her for two weeks .Naso she start to dey check on me .Even sent me happy Easter message.


But if I call she won't pick my call claiming she is busy but she will call me by 11pm I won't pick.I got angry and stopped contacting her.

She recently messaged me asking: Godwin, how far with your japa plans? I was shocked it was like she still loves me.

I just told her that I am on it her told her my moves she said.Its well and when I told her I will do everything in my powers to at least move to a Euro country.She said : Noted!

Now could it be that she has a side dick but she isn't sure of the guy?

I am kinda unclear about the situation .Those in the UK should I give up on her and move on?

How are the farmers greedy? Have you factored the role of insecurity on their farming activities? Do you know the informal tax paid by farmers to bandits in the north? You have an Android phone please research intelligently .Don't use your phone to watch comedy skit too much.

Northernblood9:
I will suggest that Nigerians boycott some of these perishable foods. Let these greedy farmers suffer heavy loss.

It is not proper that federal government will fund these farmers to encourage self sufficiency but yet, these greedy bastards will still make these foods non affordable for common man

See how South Africa own looks like the Data warehouse of a thriving US tech-based silicon valley organisation but Nigeria owns looks like BET9ja collation centre.

How come the women in the life of those footballers I mentioned aren't in the news for negative reasons? Imagine a Nigerian girl that is the wife of Mikel with twins and till now no marriage you know weytin for don happen? Instablog for carru news say Mikel reason for not scoring up to 10 goals in a season is because Baba dey bedwet.

Women in the world all have general characteristics but you see many Nigerian women their drama son collect oscar awards most times its due to poverty.

Sonfethopia:
Anywhere in the world. Women are same. It's not a matter of race.

In south Africa the billing regime: Pay per view is different from what they do in Nigeria where you pay for a full month whether Nepa give you light or not.

kingsways:
I no understand

I find this grossly unfair. The is a private business and customers who cannot afford the subscription are free to downgrade or leave.

Premier league and other TV rights are very expensive. Nigerian TV companies don’t have these rights because they can’t afford to pay. If you doubt this, go and ask the late HiTV

These rights are paid for in Dollars and everyone knows Naira has lost at least 100% of its value in the last one year alone!

DSTV has been struggling in financial performance and this sort of irrational action can make the company decide to shut down and if they do , thousands of Nigerians will lose their means of livelihood

Is this not the same man that was everywhere criticising Tinubu .Even insinuating that he will leave Nigeria big Tinubu wins the election.

Very certain Ghana must go with tax payers money has reached his residence from Aso rock.

Many of this so- called critics are only Plying their trade to gain public visibility to be on the periodic payroll of those they criticise.

Everything now na business even activism.