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So you like this no get body smell, breath and you no dey fart? Nigerian women so so dramatic and na why I dey happy Una dey meet Una match.

So what is marriage to you? Did your parents live in desperate rooms?

All these ghetto girl in shanty towns will demand a lifestyle their father never gave them from another man.

No wonder organ harvesters use you guys to cash out well .

Na organ harvesters go give you separate room and you wake up on day see say your kidney don disappear.

Na front page we go dey see Tori Tori Una no wan learn.I won't be shocked if you just finished writing NECO exams today ......😂😂😂😂

Jeon:
I support separate bedrooms .At least one suppose to have a private space and time.
No be everytime I go dy inhale someone's breathe, odour, or fart.

Love is the most complicated subject in the world currently.May be because of the unpredictability of the object of focus which is the human emotional heart .Even empirical research from Ph.D adventure can't sufficiently address this issue.

Some school of thought will say make money and pursue your dream and you will get your ideal woman who will love you forever.Truth is when fame and wealth comes that's when you should be very careful.

That's why I always tell guys always marry a woman that loves you more than you love her.If you do the opposite walahi shege Banza is waiting for you no matter your religious affiliation.


I don't blame Victor Boniface ( Leverkusen player) Mickel obi,Osimen etc all married non Nigerian girls.

I am curious to know your state.I can imagine how your state capital looks like an IDP camp.

bnanny:
Uyo doesn't look like capital of large volume oil producing state. It's look like village.
From the pictures you can see there's a large volume of poverty in this capital city. you can imagine the poverty in other locagovernment.

Village looking capital city. Africa standard.

Sorry to say but you must be a greedy person for you to have fallen for their antics.

Do you know torrents of fraudulent mails I have received from those idiots? Once I sense superficial offers I just delete the mail.I can't just fill any form online.

Just like all those Nigerians doing tapswap.It shows how low their intelligence are.Even some bankers are buying real bots to tap for them ......lol.

Next time be very vigilant to any mail you read


My apologies for the loss .

RedfolkActivist:
good for em. i remember last year i was scammed 4000$ and my cc was maxed that shit got me paying debts for months

It's openly believed that those with beards are mannly and are alpha male in nature. Surprisingly, many of them simp pass any other thing......lol

This spacious nature of house apartment in the US and Canada is what makes me love there far more than UK.

See how the room gets space and looks beautiful.The architectural structure of UK looks old and archaic for a modern city.

According to Portable,Tiwa savage is the godfather of all single mothers .......looooool.


It's her life and this news will not make Tinubu tackle fuel inflation effectively.

Name one outstanding governor in Nigeria that hasn't stolen while in government.Is it Fashola, abi Tinubu or Akpabio abi Donald Duke etc.

The best way to steal money in Nigeria is through the timely delivery of projects.Steal as you want but make sure you are delivering on your mandate.


The governance achievements of Otto in 1 year outclass the cumulative achievements of Kalu,orji and ikpeazu all together.


My problem with you is that you are so used to underdevelopment to the extent of not believing any development you see.

Nigerian politicians have really twisted your sense of reasoning that you see evil in every good.

Locate the nearest psychiatric home close to your the can 'unset' that default thinking with some powerful fumigation chemicals 😂😂😂😂

yyba:
So this is the road Alex otti claims he spent #109 billions on it otti is a real thief

From the comments I am seeing, this proofs very well that Nigerians love suffering and we aren't ready for God leadership.

At the time the president is meant to be accountable to Nigerians for the opportunity of national leadership given to him through electoral franchise we are busy having a narrative about patriotism through the recitation of national anthem.

Her action isn't purposed to rebel against the government but her subtle way of protesting the obvious incompetence of the Tinubu's administration.


When you are faced with bandits in the north is it by national anthem you be unharmed?

Will the national anthem normalise the exchange rate brouhaha?

Will the new anthem increase increase our foreign reserves?

I meet a family that told me that it's 4 full months they haven't eaten meat.
To that family now it's recitation of the national anthem that will create a less inflation situation to help them eat meat.

It's obvious Patriotism and religion has destroyed many Nigerians sense of reasoning.

Truly,Nigerians deserve the kind of leaders we have.

Now part of her Job description is to supply the law makers Solid and juicy Olosho to calm their nerves after their senate duties.

What is really the social event that she is to handle for the house of representative except for the Hob description mentioned above.


Tax payers monies and savings from the fuel subsidy will be used to finance this irrelevant office.

At this point I will say you are right and I have learnt valuable information from this.Thanks so much for the clarity.I don't mind having your email for further conversations.Mine is abraham.iniobong001@gmail.com.

God bless you so much Cheers and I wish you the best.

fastseo:
How many people are able to secure a job in tech? Compare that to care sponsorship as at last year then conclude.

We are on field and u can't know everything by going on Internet.

We av Indians who are majority here and are far ahead in tech.

The only way to go is if u run a program n it cost good money. Then they put u in placements or have strong link to connect u as a candidates.


carpenter, bricklayer, joinry, welding, fabricator etc with this skills u can get job fastly insanely. Nothing beats hand jobs they are looking for them. Ready to give sponsorship in this field.. All over indeed u see them enticing u with sponsorship if u know this hand jobs
My regret is not learning one. This earn 20pound per hour.

Secondly if u know how to drive this big truck .. ADT, 360, Dozer and have cscs, npors card you could be earning 25 pounds per hour. Weekend could be higher.

How much does nurses earn in UK? Just 2000 or 2300 after all the years struggle in school n job hunt but all those jobs above could give u 5 to 6k per month.


Like I said Untill u land before u understand.

This should be for all APC enthusiast.Let them that believe in Emilokan use it alone.If the bandits hold them to ransom I want to see if the bandits will give concession to APC member and ensure their liberty.

Just want to be sure of something.

Agreed! Everything I tell you here is also backed up with a empirical result.

I have never admired Data analytics so much.I would prefer a core coding skill.

Yeah you can't land a direct tech job in the UK on like the US that it's easy .


My good friend came to university of Bournemouth for his masters and while doing that he took a course in Cyber security and boooom after school that guy landed a good job .Him and his wife are their with their kids doing well.

fastseo:
I know u will mention programming and tech. That's what u find online but the question u should ask ur self " how easy is it to find this jobs?"

Without UK experience it's not easy to break through with those tech skills.
While coming to UK I did data analysis and couple of other tech skills. But getting this job is another story.


Remember u have just 1 year or max 2 years before visa expires?. So where is the time? Moreover you have bills pressing ur neck.


The easiest job to get was care assistant, cleaning, kitchen porter, gate men etc

Don't mention construction because u need cscs card to access any construction site before u now talk about ur experience in the field u want to go for.


See what u have in Nigeria in ur head is very different from what u see on ground.

There is a reason they say the world is now a global village.You can stay in your room no matter how remote the location is .Just have a good internet connection and the sophisticated skill to search online.You will see what's up.

How will someone in Nigeria carrying a B.sc in psychology go through the UK and think you can survive easily? But another guy is heavily armed with latest programming skillset and has juicy portfolios will do well.Both are in the same country but with different skills.They will never live the same quality of life.


If Mr psychology had researched he will know that his academic knowledge in Psychology isn't relevant as a migrant in the UK.


My point is don't rely solely on information from those struggling there.Do well to listen to those doing well and compare.Above all research online to understand the current state of the country economy.


It's research that will tell you that Austria is a good place for foreign educational ambition and from there it's easy to move to other nations.


My point is the idea of research cannot be over not at all.I am drumming it to you to develop a research mindset.


Many complaining maybe right but also a vast majority of them are trying to emotionally hoodwink you to believe that it's not their fault that they are suffering so you won't mock them.



Do you know how much a cyber security guy earns in the UK? Do you know the labour shortage in that space?






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fastseo:
See as u de bark like dog weh carry rabbies

We no de fight... Abi UK get better economy? Every indices and indicator look promising.

Now u said when I get there I will work and pay school fees when we on ground said its highly not possible without dependant


Now see the result... School withdraw their sponsorship.


When u fail to listen to those on ground, even to travel to visit those countries and see things ur self u didn't but decide to look for data with no practical experience. Then u are bound to error

Your thinking pattern is classical example of the problem we are addressing.Why would you base your decision on what people are saying? Why not engage in a more objective and constructive research.Go online to fact check about the economy of the country,The employment state, understand the in demand skill and ask yourself if you have it to exchange it for value.

This lazy mentality of acquiring information is the same bane of Africa's development in Africa.Leaders make decisions based on rumours and unverified third party information rather than established data( statistics).

There are Nigerians doing extremely well there and you careless to know what their opinion is? Is it every Nigerian abroad that's complaining? If No what are those few doing that makes them exceptional abi your Nigerian mind will say they bribed their way to the good life..... hahahaha.

We need fumigate your brain with better reasoning powder because like play like play them fit make you minister in Niger na with this mentality naira go be 7k to a dollar because you don't know how to effectively engage your mind to source fact and translate it to actionable insight.

fastseo:
Which research do u need that is more than Nigerians in abroad telling our people that abroad is not easy. Don't sell properties. The next is "u are there advising us not to come" u are wicked u are selfish

Why is the bage by the speaker arm has the APC colour as a background with the coat of arm on it?

This can be so frustrating honestly.Thats why it's always good you do your research very well before you even think of travelling especially for relocation purposes.

This Kebbi governor will embezzle their funds.Go deep into Nigeria union of teachers to know how funds were misappropriated.Though he is a giver sha but he will waste their funds well

Clevagal:
Stop taking breadcrumbs. She’s only calling to check up on you so when whatever relationship she has going on now fails..she’ll fall back to you as second or maybe third option. Trust me..you don’t want to be anyone’s second option because even if you get married..she’ll still leave if she sees someone else. One thing I’m 100% sure of, that girl doesn’t love you!

Exactly my mind don strong now.

Clevagal:
If you want that girl to value you.. you better go “no contact”
Don’t text her to greet anybody. Don’t text her “happy sunday or birthday” ghost her!
And I don’t know why you told her that you’d keep trying until she tells you to move on…she will only look at you like a simp! I’m a girl and I’m telling you the absolute truth.
That girl doesn’t rate you…the only way she will rate you is if you ghost her completely. Stop texting her friend too! Focus on improving yourself. Go to the gym. Meet new people. Hang out with the opposite sex. If you do this correctly, she’ll come begging for you and when she does, don’t act like you’ve waited for that moment all your life.. you act BUSY. Don’t reply fast. Always miss a call then pick the second or call back after 12 hours.

Many thanks dear.I appreciate and don't know how to keep in touch with you .I have solidify my mind totally to COMPLETELY ghost her even if she goes no problem life goes on.

okeysoninv:
link me up with her. I'm in England though.

Link you just like that.Someone I don't know.It doesn't work like that bro.

Jflex07:
You seem to be inexperienced and naive. Nobody should advice this young man any longer. He will only do what he wants.

Yesss I am but I have accepted the reality and have decided to move on.

helinues:
So breaking up with you now mean you guys are enemies to each others that can't communicate again without anything attached?

I understand better now.I have started detaching myself and not have any expectations anymore.

helinues:
She moved on already, do same bro.

If she has why would she still call to check up on me to say hi ?

Any thanks so much for your wisdom.I have effected the no contact rule Asap now.


Lat week Sunday I messaged her that she should Greer my father in law for me( cos she went through see her dad) and I said I won't give up unless she asks me to move on.


She replied with an 😊 and a thank you.

I was expecting her to tell me to move in if she was in a serious relationship.What do you think?

Clevagal:
She may not want to reply her friend because she feels her friend has no right to know what’s happening with her or maybe she doesn’t want her friend involved.

If you’ll listen to me, go on a 30 day NO CONTACT.
Delete her number. Put your WhatsApp settings in a way that only your contacts from view your dp and about.
Don’t call or reply her chats even if you will…be the first to end the chat or call. “Hi, I’m busy rn..hope you’re good too? Have a nice day”
Stop accepting breadcrumbs from her! “I just called to say hi bla bla bla” please stop it!
And most importantly, focus on yourself. If she's for you..she’ll find her way back especially since she’s the one who initiated the break

Big thanks my brother

wizrose:
GEEWEAN ITS BETTER YOU LET GO OF HER NOW THAT SHE WANT TO END THE RELATION YOU CANT FORCE SOMEONE TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU. OR ELSE YOU WILL REGRET THE OUTCOME LETTER MAYBE SHE ALREADY MOVE ON WITH SOMEONE ELSE SECRETLY WHO KNOWS JUST LET GO OF HER OR ELSE WHEN YOU NO EXPECT IN GO SERVE YOU BREAKFAST OOOO

Can you share your email let me tell you in detais what happened? I can't spill all here

Gerrard59:
To add, the majority of men there are married and have grown-up children. The single ones ARE majorly post-graduate student wey dey find their feet. The economy no too big sef and the so much climate change blah blah blah has affected its oil industry, unlike Norway (very hypocritical climate mumbo-jumbo country). Additionally, Scotland is an afterthought for Nigerians in the UK. England comes first and within England sef, many regions dey to opt for before people decide on Scotland.

geewean: She no get boyfriend for Nigeria? One thing I would say about relationships is that if one could not find a partner in his/her dominant environment, it becomes difficult outside that environment.

P.S. Environment here encompasses cultural and racial.

My sister just got a medical placement there from England to work as a psychiatric doctor.

I wanted to know because she is really anxious of getting married.

How is the social life there and is it possible to meet Nigerians there that can settle down you know guys in the UK are nit really ready for marriage

I hadca conversation with a lady who told me how she had sex with a medical doctor.She said the guy looked so innocent but when the guy was done with her infact she saluted him that he was fantastic.


That conversation made me understand that many medical doctors are codedly promiscuous oooo but does this include the female gender?

MrBrownJay1:
stop wasting your life/time/energy on long distance r/ships...

Many thanks

I agree with you bro.Because even when she said we should be in a break she kept insisting that we shouldn't tell anyone about the break.I think she is in a relationship while keeping me on side as a second option.

Thanks for this as this will help me ghost her forever.I appreciate

Namaster:
This guy does NOT know what's going on.

A girl ABRUPTLY decided that the relationship is over because of distance that was NEVER an issue before.

OP cried and begged her NOT to leave him and she agreed. But she still INSISTED on putting the relationship on pause.



OP, there is a NEW diick in the picture. And your girl wants GUILT-FREE dicking.

OP is the wet dream of the average Nigerian girl. They get to Bleep whoever they want while locking down a lover boy that'd catch a grenade for them.

Thanks for your response.She works.No need for the swear .I just wanted to know the meaning of her refusing to reply her friend.

Samesame247:
No matter what you do. Dont send her money and if you do, God punish you. Let her hussle even if it is with her toto... no man will do better than you unless you are at fault