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Godoverevery:
Nawa ooo

No man.....CeeC and baye rocking themselves

Lmaoooo

Edu93:
Mike was a delawood

Clement1111:
Geezem

Tell your girl to stop doing this rubbish rotation,it isn't cool abeg

Chimezie198:
cross na the largest shareholder.
Lol

Clement1111:
It's better than getting scolded from our godmother

humility101:
Did she just grab his Gbola or my eyes is paining me

aremubabs:
Relationship is not a do-or-die affair. You can change it as many times as possible.


I am married now, and my wife and I share a very healthy relationship. Of course, fighting and quarrelling is allowed. But no insult. No disrespect. No raising of voices. Once I am the wrong party, I admit. When she is in the wrong, she admits. We respect each other. We don't talk down or belittle each other by scolding each other like scolding a dumb fellow.




When you start stomaching insult, you are becoming helpless and your self esteem is dying.



I said it here once that I could see helplessness in Adekunle because I had been there at a time in my life. Coincidentally, the girl was biracial too. At a point, I began to even believe her that I was useless without her. She would gaslight me into believing that I was overreacting when I demanded to be addressed with the same respect that I addressed her with.




The fact is that Venita has very little control over her tongue. And if you allow her the liberty, you would never be happy with her. It would get to a stage that you would begin to rationalize the insult sef. It is at that point that you would start saying to yourself after every insult, "I have to be mature. Insult is a part of relationship".




My brother, insult does not have a place in a healthy relationship. Don't let anyone tell you abuse is a normal thing in a relationship. It is a red flag.




I tell it to my sister as well. There are some subtle abuse that if you don't address would make you end up in an abusive marriage. It is not until a man raises his hand to you before you start thinking straight. If your spouse uses words like " fool, idiot..." during an argument, that is not someone you want to be with.

Clement1111:
Boma says hi

Clement1111:
My fren friend

Kpele, remember you yabbed me yesterday too😂😂😂

One good turn deserves another....just tell our boy to behave na so our god mother won't scold him again

Clement1111:
One thing about this thread is that those who attack you and comes for your faves today will always defend theirs tomorrow

We had more than 4 fanbase crying and shouting for Pere to be disqualified yesterday and now the golden boy is getting scolded by his god mother

O ga ju😌😌😌

fitzmayowa:
Yes now, I don't understand why you are criticising the healthiest relationship BBN has ever seen, how can you be angry at that small scolding banter between mother and son lovers......

Clement1111:
😲😲😲

Did kuku offend his husband again??

Godoverevery:
Well you go change relationship tire then......I was once like you nah so I can relate.

When you live under the same roof for 6month to 1yr with your lover.....you go learn how to stomach disrespect once in awhile and patience.

Clement1111:
Teamie

What happened all day please,I just tuned in to the show and this thread but it seems there was a little gbas gbos and I have to read up

Aguwanyi:
Instead of u to focus on ur general with his hairy armpits,u are here crying over Adekunle’s matter

Alheeri:
Am in support of what venita did to him oooo,I want her to use megaphone to insult him sef,slap him and send him outta of her bed 💯

PatientVulture:
we might not agree on a lot but at least we both support Pere. That was no show of strength yesterday, He was baited and stupid to fall into the trap. show of strength would have been to walk away and completely ignore. He was stupid, plain and simple and I'm sure He regrets his actions.

Clement1111:
She is on something today and I believe it has to do with Doyin's eviction

I don't know how to insult someone or else I would have really insult her real good cus from where to where is this accusations coming from

Alheeri:
So he never collect slap, I need her to slap him to reset his brain...
Biggie we need the Great Divide btw Adekunle and venita , minimum of 3days the guys shud chill with guys same with the girls..

lanjum:
I wish Venita can just go tomorrow, so Adekunle can just focus for once.

safarigirl:
I don't like the way Venita speaks to Adekunle.

He's not her child, and she shouldn't be using certain tones with him. They are supposed to be equals in that ship, if he wants to air something, she shouldn't be interrupting and speaking over him.

Lean on me, no mean say make you press me die.

Alheeri:
I no use anything like that girl, let her insult him jare,if possible make he collect slap join..
But shey the insult no too much shaa 😁😁 cos I no watch...

Alheeri:
Well-done madam, last week when he left her u guys were calling him heartless,wicked,well he kept quiet today cos she's up for eviction before she starts crying up and down like Alex .

AutoChick4U:
Adekunle simply didn't want wahala and seemed he was wrong.

Alheeri:
But you always believe any rumour about other housemates esp . Adekunle without seeing the videos..
Well both of them enjoyed it, EOD...

Psychedelia:
I am PegasusSolid, Geezeem and Beorn
😎 😬 😂