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Good evening my fellow nairalanders, some few days ago i created a thread here https://www.nairaland.com/4044625/slept-180-prostitutes-4-years concerning my strong addition with engaging with different prostitutes, i also saw same topic on yabaleft and gossip mill pages, in which i saw so many thousands of insults not replies and also i made mention of quitting totally from it in which i vowed and swore with my life to God Almighty that the last time i went will forever be my last, i swore never to engage and risks my life and sleeping with different prostitutes, and also i mentioned something like going for an hiv test the next day which is this past monday.

To cut the long story short i summoned courage and went for the text first thing that Monday morning before going to work.

When i arrived at the test center i sat and waited a little while because others were there before me, they all came to do their own different tests, then it got to my turn and my blood sample was taken, and i waited with shaky legs and a racing heart, just a few minutes and the result came in the woman in charge then handled it to me and i glanced through it and behold the unthinkable happened it came out positive (i was HIV positive +v) i just keeps staring at it like a doll, i don't know what to do or say at that moment, the woman was still standing looking at me, then she utter her first words something like it's not the end of the world that i should follow her that she wants to take me to someone for counseling, i was so filled with rage and regrets that i went out at once with so much anger and frustrations, i just went straight home and didn't bother to go to work that day, even up till today i had not gone to work, am just here lying lifeless, that same monday i logged in to nairaland and i saw many mentions urging me to update how the test result went, i don't have any intentions of opening a new topic concerning it, so i replied one of the mentions that it came out positive, since then i haven't logged in to nairaland until now, in which i logged in to read replies on the last page of my previous thread, in which i saw so many replies urging me to create a topic concerning it so that others will be able to learn from my experience.

Sincerely speaking i don't really knows how and where i wants to start in advising those engaging with prostitutes, and also those having sex without condoms. smh

If only u guys really knows how regretful and sorrowful am currently feeling , if only i could turn back the Sands of time, but it's too late to cry before the head is off, it's not worth it.

All because of 10 - 15 minutes pleasures, i used my own hand and money to destroy my life, so many thoughts on my mind right now i don't really knows what to do, am so confused, so i will start living on drugs daily for the rest of my life, me that don't knows how to take drugs also am always feeling the side effects of mostly all drugs i always took, just a little self control would have avoided all this mess i got myself into, i really feels like the ground should just open up and swallow me right now, what will my family say if they eventually finds out, the first son and father of the family, and also the most quiet and cool headed of them all has been infected with hiv virus, none will ever belive that i had ever kissed a girl before talk more of sleeping with different prostitutes, i don't really knows what to do or say anymore, i feels so weak and tired right now, am really so confused and frustrated, i really so messed up right now, i must say that everything in this life has his consequences, the icing of the cake is very sweet so it's the diabetes it could give u will be very bitter, nothing goes for nothing in this life, i must say to u guys my friends and my family that abstinence is the best, if u can't abstain at least use a condom, never u have sex using a condom when u are drunk it's too fatal, sex is sweet so it's the consequences of it is very disastrous if u inventually ran out of luck, the thought of living on drugs for the rests of my life is making me semi_mental, am so fed up with life right now, me that don't knows how to take drugs, me that am always feeling the side effects of taking any drugs all because of sexual pleasures my life has been ruined i can't actually believe that this is really happening, so am now hiv positive, so i have contracted the dreaded hiv virus.


When i was doing it jumping from one girl / prostitutes to the other, i thought i was enjoying life, i thought i was feeling and Banging a soft feminine body, i didn't knew that the feminine body is what will end me, i didn't knew that it's the same feminine body that is going to ruin my life, i didn't knew that it was not worth it, the cons smartly outweighs the pros. I really so full of anger, regrets and frustrations right now, what could easily be avoided, i allowed my stinking sexual urges to be controlling me all this while, all the sex i have had all this while what have i gained? Nothing.
What really pained me most is that all through my life since when i was born i had never and ever had sex without condom and am 100% certain i contracted this from condom breakage, just some little minutes that condom broke before i later noticed, i mentioned it earlier on my first threat that condom had busted about 5times since i started having sex, i definitely knew for sure that was how i contracted this, i have never enjoyed the feeling for once of normal skin to skin sex, i always use condom when ever am having sex, never have i had sex without using condom.

I don't think my life will ever remained as it was before again, just when i have made up my mind about quitting with different prostitutes

Am feeling so weak and tired right now, i can't type anymore, i wants to sleep now.
Goodnight and God's speed be with you all.

ireneony:
was it postive or negative?
Share ur story so others can learn from it

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It came out positive, i don't wants to create a topic concerning it, am having shaking hands right now as am typing, i can't type much.

girl4rmspace:
Is it that u are so ugly u can't get an actual girlfriend? Why prostitutes?

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Am not ugly, and am a very shy guy.
I have a very ugly Penis and also gynaecomastia

Famocious:
Sorry bro..
Your test may come out negative if you had not been infected prior to this encounter. You can go for a test now and repeat it in 6 months time.
Your symptoms are non specific for disease conditions. It may be a viraemia, malaria or bacteria infection.

It is always good to play safe and stay negative.
Most of the foreign aids and assistance Nigerians living with HIV are being withdrawn and the care for those clients may likely be expensive later on.

Moreover, there are many people with HIV who are currently failing the second line therapy due to non drug compliance. No 3rd line for now.
For your parents sake, protect yourself.
You can equally do hepatitis B and C screening. If negative for hepatitis B, kindly go for hepatitis B immunization.
My one kobo

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Tnk u very much sir.

dirtymoney:
While you and the doctors battle with the symptoms, let me battle with the accounting.
180 prostitutes in 4 years.
Assuming each prostitute cost 1,000 that would translate to 180,000.00
That is 35 per year.
Assuming after the first year 35,000 was invested at 5% per month.
5% = per month
= 1,750*12 = 21,000
At the end of second year. Principal + Interest = 35,000 + 21,000 =56,000
Second month savings from Ashawo abstinence 35,000
Add that to the first year principal +Interest. =71,000
At year 3.
71,000 invested at 5% per month would yield 3,550 per month and 41,600 in 12 months.
Add that to the principal and interest of year 2 and the Ashawo abstinence savings of year 3 = 148,000.
At year 4.
148,000 invested at 5% would yield 7,400 per month and 88,800 at the end of the year.
Add that to the principals and interests of preceeding years plus the Ashawo Abstinence savings for year 4 = 88,800 +148,000 + 35,000 = 271,800
All calculations are in Naira.
So in 4 years N271,800 would have been saved.
271,800 can get you a considerably small piece of land where u can start a small business in the village. Eg snail or snake farming.
Anyway.when the results are out on Monday, ensure u give us update. Everyone has a second chance. Ensure you don't abuse it.
Good luck

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Tnk u very much sir, i really learnt from this. I nearly shed tears after reading your comment,. Tnk u very much i really do appreciate

Souljeezy:
Wen people have problems, dat is wen dey will remember God..
I'm 70% sure u'll continue ur fuckery if u test negative(history always repeats itself)....

Symtoms of malaria..
Bt dnt self-medicate urself.
Be sure to go for that test..it will surely turn out gud inshallah.

Nonetheless..as a poster above said, jxt double ur condon game cos wen serious konji will catch u, even vaseline will nt satisfy u..
Unless u sincerely want to change nd give ur life to christ(which is the best tin any man can do for himself)

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Tnk u very much sir, i still stand on my ground that never again will i have anything sex in my life time. Tnk u

Addicted2Women:

Calm the fucck down

This is not how you get HIV

You always use condoms but have had 5 broken condoms ?? No fluid were exchanged ?? No seminal fluid or blood ??

There are only 2 ways you can get infected with HIV

1. Through blood

2. Through seminal fluid (sperm or vaginal discharge)

Relax bro

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Tnk u very much bro, i got a full loads of relief from just this comment alone. Tnk u

Coldplay007:
lol.. OP.. it's malaria you have.. but seems you also have HSV.. do an HIv test though..

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Hmmmm, what's have ma. And hw do u knw i have it??

KAYCEEJUNIOR:
Oga go do your Hiv test and Stop alucinating and be waiting for someone to tell tell you its just a System of malaria so that you will sleep happily after. Better enter hospital and clear your conscience

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Lol, very funny. Lol

Luxed:
Go for the test and please don't kill yourself with high blood pressure. Those symptoms can be caused by fever.
At some point, most of us have been careless by having unprotected sex. It is well with you Bro.

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Tnk u very much sir. I appreciate

donk552:
It malaria fever, treat it well

. . Hmmmm, hw do u knw it's malaria sir?

dingbang:
Well just go for test.. If it comes out positive, face it, if it comes out negative, sin no more..

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Thank u very much sir.

LifeIsGuhd:
Just go for a test, if you are positive... Start treatment already.

If you are negative, double your condom game as that your promise you made would be broken within a week after you find out you are negative.

But why brothel tho?

Goodluck!

Oh! And for the symptoms your mind will keep playing games on you

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Thank u very much madam, i appreciate.
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But am really so very scared though, but i will just try and gather enough courage tomorrow.

Please Doctors In The House Help, Are These Signs And Symptoms Of HIV?

On 23rd of last month i went to a brothel met a dark chubby girl and took her in, we had sex with condom on and also kissed like 6minutes wet kisses, then after am done i came out and took in another one, this one is tall and fair. She gave me head for like a minute + to two minutes i had some tiny sores on my dick though, she then wore me a condom before sex.
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Then same day i went back again, i told the first girl (the dark and chubby one) we had sex with condom on and wet kisses for like 3 minutes, i then withdrew my mouth because her silava and lips are smelling with enough cigarette, then i was done and took in another one a dark tall one, we just had normal sex and nothing else like kissing and head, since i started visiting prostitutes this is the first time am kissing one and also receiving head from one, i must admit here that i have slept with more than 180 prostitutes totally in 4 years time since i started having sex, although condom has busted about 5times but i always detected it immediately, except one which i didn't knew that it has busted and i was going for about 3 minutes before i knew what was going on, i was very high though i guess that was why.
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Now back to the symptoms am experiencing, i got a sore like those of malaria sores with blisters at the right side of my mouth then some days later they form a dey sore and i peeled them off.
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After then about 3 - 5 days later i started having body weakness every evening for about 3 days then it has suddenly development to fever that is coming every evening accompanied with uncontrollable Shivering, cold, headache, serious night sweat that i have never had before, mild body temperature and dizziness, those are all the symptoms am currently experiencing from the past 5 days now and it normally comes every evening, one thing i also noticed is that immediately i took some drugs all the symptoms with disappeared within a space of 1 - 2 hours till the next evening, it will then re-appear.
I have already promised God Almighty that i will never and ever engage in anything sex till i married and i vowed with my life. And nothing can change it, it's been 9days clear now and i have not had anything sex or even the thought of it.
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Am planning going for an hiv text on Monday which is tomorrow and am very afraid now.

Agbgift:
I wish you all the best with the HIV test. It might just be symptoms of malaria. But you have to be very careful as life nor get duplicate.

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Thank u very much madam, i have already vowed with God Almighty, that never again will i have anything sex.

tolexy123:
Whats the lenght of days between the day u last had sex and when u started noticing all these?

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It's been two weeks now

Nellychinma20:
Body rash Night sweat Weakness All symptoms of HIV

. . I didn't have anything like body rash or swollen lymph nodes

On 23rd of last month i went to a brothel met a dark chubby girl and took her in, we had sex with condom on and also kissed like 6minutes wet kisses, then after am done i came out and took in another one, this one is tall and fair. She gave me head for like a minute + to two minutes i had some tiny sores on my dick though, she then wore me a condom before sex.
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Then same day i went back again, i choose the first girl (the dark and chubby one) we had sex with condom on and wet kisses for like 3 minutes, i then withdrew my mouth because her silava and lips are smelling with enough cigarette, then i was done and took in another one a dark tall one, we just had normal sex and nothing else like kissing and head, since i started visiting prostitutes this is the first time am kissing one and also receiving head from one, i must admit here that i have slept with more than 180 prostitutes totally in 4 years time since i started having sex, although condom has busted about 5times but i always detected it immediately, except one which i didn't knew that it has busted and i was going for about 3 minutes before i knew what was going on, i was very high though i guess that was why.
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Now back to the symptoms am experiencing, i got a sore like those of malaria sores with blisters at the right side of my mouth then some days later they formed a normal sore and i peeled them off.
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After then about 3 - 5 days later i started having body weakness every evening for about 3 days then it has suddenly development to fever that is coming every evening accompanied with uncontrollable Shivering, cold, headache, serious night sweat that i have never had before, mild body temperature and dizziness, those are all the symptoms am currently experiencing from the past 5 days now and it normally comes every evening, one thing i also noticed is that immediately i took some drugs all the symptoms with disappeared within a space of 1 - 2 hours till the next evening, it will then re-appear.
I have already promised God Almighty that i will never and ever engage in anything sex till i married and i vowed with my life. And nothing can change it, it's been 9days clear now and i have not had anything sex or even the thought of it.
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Am planning going for an hiv text on Monday which is tomorrow and am very afraid now.

Na wa

Na waaaaa, so in Nigerian naira, Hazard is receiving 80,000,000 a month. Hmmmmm

Period007:
How much did u get sir

. . It's 52,000 sir

ojotobiloba1:
Funny funny op, confused of Wat if I may Ask, I bought my infinix note 3 Pro mid June and it's running of android 7.0nougat and it's 2gb ram as well, 4G.. Fear not, the phone Os is upgraded from marshmallow to Nougat, no cause for. Alarm boss

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This really gave me a relief, thank God. I was really so scared that i have bought a clone phone

blezzy080:
Return it? I don't think they will change it.. If ur phone develops any fault they will only direct you to Carlcare

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You are right

blezzy080:
Why u dy fear nw guy.. I was also surprised when i got mine also(Note3 pro 2g ram+16) June this year and discovered it was running on Nougat. There is nothing wrong with the phone my guy. I got mine 60k then.. How much did u get yours?

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Wow, this is a real releaf for me, thank God.
I bought it for 52k

DonAustyne:
HW MUCH U TAKE BUY AM

. . It's 52k

henry007:
It shipped with marshmallow last year but the upgrade should be the least of your worries. If you asked what you were getting and they said it's 3GB but you saw 2GB ram, that's not the right phone. That 2GB variant of the Note 3 pro is available actually. Then again it's written on the box so you probably already knew what you were getting before you opened it.

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Sir does note 3 pro actually has 2gb, you are very right because it's written on the carton 2gb+16gm rom.
Am okay with that but the noughat the phone it's running it's what is making me to think that it's a clone phone.

bravesoul247:
You de fear? You de fear say your phone na follow come upgrade? Lol. If it has warranty then be praying that it should develop fault so that you'll have reasons to return it. But seriously I think you should tell them you don't want it if you ain't comfortable with the phone.

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Am just so confused,i don't really knows what to do

I bought a new note3 pro from infinix office yesterday, everything seems to be working perfectly fine. It's 100% original, but the problem am having its that the phone it's running Android 7.0 noughat instead of normal 6. 0 marshmallow, am so confused. I took it back today for a refund but they said nothing it's wrong that, that it's how it is, but i had done a lot of Google search but i can't see any single post that claimed note3 it's running Android 7.0noughat, and also this phone it's 2 gig ram instead of 3, but it has 4g network and it's working perfectly fine.
I don't understand this, am always thinking it's clone but it does not have any fault yet. Am really so confused

ojotobiloba1:
OP, go for infinix note 3 Pro if fortunately, it isn't out of stock in ur location. Ignore all the rants about d phone

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I heard the note 3 pro drains battery very well.

henry007:
Note 3 isn't fault prone, my bro has been using it for a year now and it's very very okay. Even the screen protector that came with it is intact.



Why didn't you just go for the Note 4 instead?

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xxxtedyxxx:
If I were you, I won't get a new phone.


I will use the money to buy a dictionary, and a new textbook on Grammar.

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Common sense is not always common, Mr Goat, just take a look at the trash u just spilled.