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FFK always speaking from the two sides of his mouth. In 2019 he said mor Christians have been killed and more churches burnt in Nigeria. What changed?

casualobserver:
Many rich Nigerians made their money through rent seeking e.g forex subsidies and fraudulent fuel subsidies. Now that the playing field has been leveled, many can’t compete. Now we will know who are the real businessmen.

You took the word from my mouth. They just don't know how to do business without free government money. We need someone like Dangote in Farming too because I don't understand how imported rice is cheaper than home grown rice and farmers wants government to shut border so that they can hoard and up price

CyracksMrBlogger:
When most Nigerians begins to hate a particular person, know that he is good and has good intentions. For example Dangote and Tinubu.

I think the economy has been stable under Tinubu. That's fact. When you people remove hate and be objective, they will see it.

yang:
Dangote is operating in a FZE

Trade Free Zone

How much subsidy does the lost tax revenue amount to?

Or how much subsidy in the form of USD exchange rate does he recieve from CBN?

This man should stop trying to be PMS monopoly supplier in Nigeria

Live and Let live

He should refine and export others should refine and import

Let them compete on price, the Nigeria people will better for it

But i am convinced that Nigeria people prefer to suffer, they no like better thing

Nigerians never wants to suffer. Why should it be a challenge to you when I reduce my price. If they import and it is cheaper, we will buy the cheap fuel. Dangote understands that, the marketers know this. The competition is good.
Let them keep reducing price abeg.

All of you that has been eating broilers, fresh eggs, sweet corn 🌽 used for salad yet talking down on GMOs.

Joke of the millennium

My account is finally unlocked

noobody:
I emailed CBN yesterday

The story changed today.

Which email did you reach CBN with? I have given them all they needed. I thought the unblocking will be as fast as they were requesting for documents and proof. However, immediately I produced the last proof they asked, I didn't hear from them again. Please help me with the email. Thanks.

victory36:
Osimhen doesn't seem to have good advisers. He could have taken the Chelsea offer and build from there. With the way this is going, he might be forgotten in 4 years

Osimhen has nothing to prove to anyone and he knows this.

seunny4lif:

The USA and her allies spent over 500M dollars defending Isreal against Iran drones and missiles last night.

How much did the drone attacks cost Iran?

helinues:
Toh

Next time, don't start what you can't finish.

Sebi some people dey talk say Air peace consulting other airlines na nonsense.

Oya now. Let the flight fee continues, win win for the travellers

Travellers will lose in the long run because the price will go up when air peace is priced out of the market.

Faiththatworks:
I believe this headline about companies making losses are misleading.
These companies are making massive revenues with marginal increases in expenditure,but when it's time to declare dividend,they bring up this loss abracadabra.
This loss they are basically declaring is from their exposure to foreign debts, these companies secured foreign loans in the cause of doing their business,but now that it's time to repay, the exchange rate has now ballooned.
These companies should be more open on where their losses are coming from and stop this facade that the Nigerian Economy is in massive depression,their losses is not because the Economy is bleeding,but because of their exposure to foreign loans.
God bless Nigeria.....

I was going to say this too. They made good profit and FIRS is not going to listen to this story.
Besides, this account they are presenting Is not just for Nigerian stakeholders, hence they decided to dollar denominated their profit/loss.

I sell in FB market place on a regular

Many of the comments I see here are out of hatred for Ola. If you sell your jet for 5m and I sell mine for 10m, is it your concern?

What I saw is the white man using Ola to market his jet. It was simply a publicity.
Ola could ignore, or reply. Any reply he gives is still OK.

Stop beefing the young man abeg.

If his reviews are wack, clients won't be coming to him. You are simply not his target market if his message is not making sense to you.

DrDoc:
Unless you have excess, it is better to expand income generating systems. I.e build more businesses than build a house that doesnt generate or create substantial wealth on time

I've been reading and hearing stuffs like this for some times now.
Do you guys even think that doing business is easy?
That 25M can go down the drain in a twinkle of an eye, house you no come build, business, you no get.

Can your one hour pay in Nigeria afford those things? It's not about cost of living really. It's about purchasing power. Can you make a minimum wage of 8k per hour in Nigeria?

misreal:
He died well.I wish to meet my end while preaching the gospel

Suic*de

Interested

CuriousStudent:
Oga,leave me alone.

Obviously you are troublesome.even after I have let you be,you still quote me?

Go and deal with your finances and leave me . Were you complaining of car maintenance costing 25k? You have no car and you are contemplating Keke napep (probably no house or wife or kids or high paying job) yet you are pitying me for what you assume to be my plight?

Leave me and focus on your pitiful life.just so you know,I am doing better than you physically, financially, emotionally, spiritually. Okay. Rest

Probably everything you said or assumed about me is correct.
Go find ☮️ abeg. Stop wishing and face reality. I never told you I was done replying you.

hairyman:
Guess what one the highest predictors of present fathers is; joint physical custody.

Once a man has access to his kids (I don't mean visitation) in a manner that the woman does not control in any way, he stays with them and takes responsibility for them.

Women don't want this ofcourse because it implies that she may not get any child support, they fight it tooth and nail.

Pure fact

CuriousStudent:
I knew it was a failure of a man I was chatting with and the chance of amounting to anything in this life is low for you

Better focus on your Keke napep driving (eya fuel price will affect your hustle) or the petty trades you do.

This is my last conversation with you,I don't talk to hustling guys

Go find peace abeg.

I really feel for you. Do not let bitterness and hatred consume you.

So sorry for you o.

I was wondering if you are just a victim of circumstances but it turns out what happened to you or is happening to you was/is your fault.
Go seek ☮️ abeg.

vickydevoka:
Them don carry my name go shilo tire, and then still know say I de irresponsible. Abeg no be mental craze be that

No mind them

CuriousStudent:
The wise take advantage of every exhortation. The fools personalize it.

By the way I don't wish men ill,it is men that wish women ill. I didn't wish I'll on the poster,I only explained a real life situation that happens Everytime and gave advice to men on how to avoid it.
How is it wishing men ill?
The only person with malice in their heart here is you, because you are projecting . Counter my argument or move,you know nothing about my life or personal life.

I will continue to call out men bullshit when necessary, the wise will learn from it or ignore.

By the way I don't advice children against father's. It is men in the business of poisoning others mind with "don't marry this or marry that or she did this". Children are wiser and think for themselves as you said. No manipulation needs to occur to know who was there for and who wasn't it.

I won't advice anybody to be with a wretch like you,poor in mind,and poor in pocket. I can swear you earn less than $1000.


And you are very stupid, just in case you don't know

Abeg I no be your papa. No be me do you o. Seek peace abeg. Pepper body no go help you. That your pipe dream will not come to pass unless you seek and find ☮️ wise, educated and we'll to do woman.

CuriousStudent:
Are you sure you are educated? You claimed it was women vileness that caused men to stay away,right?
My post was based on if the woman proves to be dangerous or vile,and in this case your only contribution should be prayers and upkeep. Why go close to a dangerous woman?

There is no excuse for abandoning your kids after divorce. Women cater and raise the kids of the most terrible men out there , of men who abused them,of men who failed them, of men who broke them.
We stay in the worst of marriages for our kids sake but you will take the first run "for peace of mind sake"

How about struggle for custody of your child if she is that bad? The kids most likely bear your surname,the law favors your kind. So what's the excuse?

Keep giving excuses. Excuses you will never take from women when vetting them. It will never change the fact most of you are irresponsible. That is why you die lonely without love. Look at rashidi yekeni,one of our greatest footballer. His last days were sad. He was defecating in public.talking to himself. He died in a lonely mansion despite his many kids from different women. Or did all the women manipulated the kids?

Before children will avenge the death of the father's even if it means them losing their lives in the process. But now to put your picture on father's day is a problem . Or is it that all women are manipulating their kids?
How can in a family of 5 kids a woman manipulates all of them, so 1 of them could not attest of your goodness or paternal love? Just one?

You think it is normal for a grown child to come denounce his father or change his surname in adulthood? Oh,your defence is the same "the mother manipulated him". No introspection. It is never the man fault. Everything she tells the kids are lies. Even when they witness him beating her or are aware of his side chicks

When you are ready you ,you will tell your gender to act better

modified
For those of you divorced men waiting for your children to come look for you as is the usual practice. Better zero your mind on them. Kids are wiser now. You can't decieve them with the altar call or show up when you aging. Except you are very rich( most kids like to identify with wealthy them as their fathers ) no one wants an aging man who usually comes with health issues. They may reconcile or want to know their routes but don't expect devotion or care or introducing you to your grandkids or inviting you over for holidays or building house for you or video calls or nursing you or sending you money or renovating your leaking roof

Educated woman!
I can feel your bitterness from afar.
And I will always and always stay away from your kind.
You fight for what you can handle. Why struggle for custody when you have no means.

Children are wiser indeed.. They become adults right? They can now think for themselves and begin to look through your hatred-filled advice and vomit all the poison you gave them while growing up.

Madam stop wishing.

The same instruction goes to you. Keep away from irresponsible men.
Do not use your kids as a means of getting back to your ex.
Learn to move on. Be at peace with yourself.

Mind you, I will never encourage even my sister to stay in an abusive marriage because of the kids. You are not doing the kids any favours. Tell yourself the truth, in your deepest 💓 you know why you are sticking around.

In sane countries, there is what we call prenup.
And if the women are sincere, why are they not the ones insisting on prenup?

Ahaa, unless the woman has some change. If not, she will start the emotional blackmail.

Please pursue peace of mind.

CuriousStudent:
So sending upkeep,will staying away,will it harm?

The thing is alot of you men are so irresponsible that is why when you are placed in a structured society you feel like a fish on land . Alot of men claim child support is evil or persecution.

No matter how vile a woman is and dangerous (you and I know this is rarely the case,if not why do women initiate most divorce), you should send money for upkeep of the kids. You don't need to visit (for your safety) but send money.

But no,once a union ends,the man focus on his new partner and her needs and neglect his kids

Send money! That is what makes a man responsible abi?

And you think that is what is good for the child?

Imagine your height of selfishness.

All you want is for money to be sent.

If you believe the child is safer with you, play a part in their lives then.
You separate a child from their father and you think that when the child grows up, just knowing that the dad trained him will be enough for the child to forget all the mental suffering he/she suffered alone as a result of physical absence of the dad.

avicky:
They will just comment as if they have carried out a survey.
Do you know how many women are longing for their exes to be part of their kids' life?

And no matter what happens, children will always look for the abandoned parent. That's the annoying part for me.

Unfortunately, whether you believe it or not, the only reason why some women are even considering their exes is when they are having difficulty in footing the bills.

Did you leave the kids with the man and he didn't take care of them?

I doubt if anyone is going to tell you. It's a trade secret. You have to give something in exchange.

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