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Love is not worth dying for if it involves a woman!

~Sissy~:
please i beg to differ with this one sided views of urs. i believe it is also a simple fact in life that it is a bad thing to categorize people into one box.

one size doesn't fit all. there are tons of people out there both men and women who are very well content with one person and don't cheat,

and these do have respect for their relationships. everyone is different and not everyone stoops so low to cheating on their partners

because someone is deemed ugly (which is very subjective) and broke doesn't mean that they deserve ill treatment in their relationship.

I like your views, but i dont think u understand where i'm coming from.
Ask yourself, was the word cheating used back in the day to mean a person's disloyalty to their partner? I can understand a situation where u choose to marry one person and stick to that but u also need to consider the fact that before marriage there is no hold u have over someone sticking with u, if they want to go they will go and there is nothing u can do about it.

I'm getting really sick and tired of girls and guys moaning about their partners cheating on them. It is a simple fact in life that no man will get stuck to only one woman whether in or out of wedlock, same goes for women - its mutual!
There used to be a time when a man was to 5 or more women, thats how it was from the begining - thats how it will continue to be. All these talk of heart breaking, cant u just take it on the chin and move on?
Its just so annoying, when an ugly girl or a broke ass man expects a handsome guy or a pretty woman to stick with them alone - is that possible? No! That is life, enjoy it while it lasts and take it on the chin when it ends.

Abi what do u think?

floxxy2007:
hello to all the pretty ladies in the house,i am folarin and based in london,i will be coming to nigeria for holidays by in the next two weeks,i need a pretty lady to hang out it whle i am back home so if you are interested call me on my cell phone +447045722242

I really hate to spoil your show dude, but that number is not a valid UK mobile number, its one of those Link-To numbers people get subscribed to over the internet. It is widely used by 419ers and yahoo yahoo boys.
Valid UK mobile numbers start like this: +44-75, +44-77, +44-78, and +44-79 depending on the mobile network.

Stop trying to decieve people here!

kiss_angel:
strong point there, but lets just hope its a genuine man of God and not some fetish backed up cowry dangling feather dressed oga follower claiming to be a man of God ,

truly i think its important to know God mind, but on the other hand, didnt the bible say "he who findeth a wife findeth a good thing" but as they say, na condition dey make crayfish bend, so even gals of today look for husband

There is no 'but' about it in the Bible, why wont a woman calm down and allow a man find her? why push a man into something thats not his heart's desire then later cry foul when he starts cheating?

some girls run faster than their legs especially when they are desperate. i think sh is just chasing marriage and hoping u will settle with her. be careful in everything u do from this point on.

If and when things start going deep she comes up with such information and claims pastor told her, i will seriously question her actions and if the answer is not satisfactory, i will become wary of her before she starts feeding me whatever the babalawo gave her.
But which kind of secrets did she tell you about that is worrying u sef, what if she is just guesing nko?

We now go to drink, and drink, and drink!!!

And dont worry about me, i go without my car to avoid drunk driving!!!!

Wrong @jkpretty

1.) I almost knew it that she would search my luggage - that was the reason behind the test.
2.) The test was never meant to end our relationship, it became necessary to end it all after her hysterical screaming of insults and threats at an undecent time of the night.
3.) Any of u supporting this sort of behaviour from a woman is an absolute disgrace to humanity!

~Antidote~:
Man you are confuzzled, ,Make up your mind jor, Was the girl an angel or a devil? You seem to be the one with issues. Ok, so you dumped her, ok move on. If you are so elated you did, why are you here lamenting?

Lamenting ke?
Shine your eyes, u that doesnt believe there are bad women out there. Should i have wasted my youth and my life following such a person? Abegi, we're off to the pub in like 30mins to celebrate this day - i invited my homies whom she terrorized! Then we're going clubbing to bring me up to speed - in the social arena

All of u are wrong about this girl, she totally tormented me and i'm glad to be free at last. You are all ladies and women, c'mon, it cant be that bad, i provided for this girl, took care of her needs, she was even on my monthly  budget. I took her out to places, never hid anything from her, i was as open as can be, and all i asked for was to be trusted and not publicly embarrassed all the time but mehhnnnnn that one was not going to happen oh

iseobio:
HOW MANY HAVE You DUMPED BEFORE?

Na my first ohhhh

~Antidote~:
And so what you Arrow? Did your balls grow heavier? or your 3inch d.ick 4 more inches? You are so insecure, it hurts,

Now this is getting personal

shylladear:
so we meet again
and u have finaly dumped her i thought we had an agreement

I had no choice shylla, it was the only way out. I need a breath of fresh air in these lungs, i feel like i've been smoking fufu-flavoured weed to the extent that it was affecting even the smell of my urine.
Now she's gone, i can have time to face me a bit, and analyze the contents of her list of potential replacements

buzyDiva:
Good for u. . . but, more like she DUMPED your lying ass

she doesn't deserve u anyways.

Wrong!
I put up with all her stress for so long and if she refused to change so we can as well call it quits. Nothing kills more than a suspecting girlfriend who keeps suspecting for over a yr. . .  I cant live with that when i never marry am

nana:
and so what?

It feels really good

I just dumped my girlfriend because of her nagging and lack of trust, and for once i feel good.
It hurts so much when a girl that u love dumps u, but it feels so good being the one who makes the decision. I know she wont be hurt at all - its what she's been looking for, just that it didnt come in a way that she had planned.
She is very smart but chose to use her intelligence the wrong way, God will provide her someone that she can intimidate but it wasnt going to be me.

And by the way, this is a true story

jennykadry:
genuine nothing like wrong type here,men r something else , they cheat and they their women to just bone it and forget about it,but when women cheat na something else,nobody go hear word again

I beg to disagree again, men are different - some are good and many are bad! It also applies to nigerian women - some are good and many are materialistic!

jennykadry:
my sis buzy i tire ooo,i just dey reply this thread as per say incase person find imself for this situation make he/she know wetin to do,but as for d story i doubt am


what if a condom fell out from d girls bag wetin d poster for do,im sure all hell will break loose that night and he wouldnt mind sending her out that night,even if its 3am

men u guys love cheating but your babes still forgive u,but once a woman cheats shes already tagged prostitute,LovePeddler ,hoe and so on

meennnnn gone r those days wey women dey slack ooooo,if a guy messes up stupidly ,abeg leave him and cast your net into the sea,im very sure it will catch a lot of fishes and better ones at that

Guys are different, you obviously have had a rough time with the wrong type

buzyDiva:
seconded!

i pity that my boyfriend that will come back with half used condoms . . heaven go open that day o!
especially if me and u do have sex . . what kind of stupid testing be that.

u will give me HIV and tell me u were testing me . . ??

Your's is good because u dont choke your boyfriend with all sorts of close marking

tope2000:
Immature people

Mature person!

shylladear:
@poster
give her a little time then watch her not test her and see what happens
if she is for real or not

Give her any breathing space and she gets what she wants

buzyDiva:
so led her on?

Wetin man go do wey una go even accept?

shylladear:
@ poster
then she is hiding something  

I've had that feeling for sometime now oh, i feel she wants to go but she wants it to look like my fault so she's been waiting for me to mess up and as its not coming she's getting pragmatic.

finguy:
you're not just cheating but also lyiing, wonder why the good girls get stock with bad boys like you, when people like me dey

If u want her, come and take her - i no want again

buzyDiva:
and what if she was testing u too?

pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee . . . u people need to grow up!.
testing your girl by buying condoms from naija, open it, took some of it out . . just to test her.
what point are u trynna prove?

like someone said . . maybe u were already tired of her and needs an excuse for a break up.

What was she looking for in my luggage?
She sneaked in when i went to bed (cos i was wasted and needed sleep), she now woke me up in the middle of the night screaming and yelling and accusing and jumping around like she had finally found that cutting edge she's been looking for.

TOH:
why is it guys of nowadays act like bloody females? Bloody homosexuals I tell you.

Care to ask her what happened in her past relationship? Perhaps she was cheated on before or maybe something bad happened that caused her to have severe trust issues. Instead of you to talk about it with her you are busy whining on the net instead and making matters worse with retarded tests

Pleeeeez TOH, I didnt create severe trust issues for her, and 1yr is long enough for her to discover everything she needs to know - i've been very open and enduring with her. I have talked and talked, she's not even improving - thats the worst bit!

I think i'll even be a better person without her cos i've endured this close marking for over a yr now just to make her understand that i can be trusted but mehhnnnn, any small thing - wahala, any small thing - scandal, to the extent of my own younger sister becoming my babe!
I tire oh!!

buzyDiva:
good thing u ain't a girl . . a guys comes back from a trip with condoms in his bag and
Pleaseeeeeee people . . think!

@poster,
You haven't exactly answered what the condon was doing in your bag . . were u really testing her? did u use with someone and forgot it in your bag? do u guys use condoms when having sex and u had bought that for both or u?
your story ain't straight.

and why would u want to test your girl . . don't u also trust her?
u guys are really so full of ursef . . because with u . . u really don't see anything wrong in what u did.

I purposely made it a pack of gold circle so she'd know it came from naija, i purposely opened it up and took out 2 out of the four - i still have the 2 stashed up somewhere waiting to shock her when we break up.
I didnt cheat, i don't cheat, its a different thing if i was single and decided to play with many girls, but when i'm into a relationship, it stays like a relationship.
I did what i did because she's been looking for a scandal, she does things like scan my phones, my desktop an phone both have bluetooth and i programmed them to exchange info automatically whenever the phone is close enough to connect, so all my text messages download to my phone. . .  she is always pondering there, if i get a call when with her she insists on knowing who that is, i never monitor her like this. She insists on embarrassing me with this her jealousy all the time - and don't even tell me its love because its choking my throat!

Well i do hope she leaves me as well, cos i wont be with someone who doesnt trust me!
This is the thing with our girls, the few of u that have responded have stood with one voice and said i was wrong and i must have cheated, unfortunately this is how you people react. . .
The guys are silent and watching, but i want to ask u all this question: How will u prove that i cheated?
If i were truly the player, do u think i'd be careless enough to leave condoms where she can find them?
And finally, what do i stand to gain or lose if she leaves me?

buzyDiva:
your girl is very smart . . but, u need to answer your own question first.

what was the condom doing in your luggage?
did u cheat on her?

Well, if she's very smart - then i'm very wise. . .  I will not answer the question but the condom could have been planted in my bag, i may have placed it there to see her reaction. . .  She doesnt even trust me so why should i stop her?
The other day, my younger sister called and she insulted her thinking she was my lover - simply because i told my sister "i love you"