NosaIgiebor:
I swear na clowns full nairaland .The way you captioned the post,I even thought you landed a mansion or something of that sort.See the way I rushed in only to be

NosaIgiebor:
Etsako central my hometown . Na villages full there o

Goodlady:

How do we know you are a corper wire (corps member).
Nairaland's GoFundMe is very strict and we all need help like UN children. In fact, some people's story dey pathetic more than ya own. So don't come and use bread to soak out soup before you swallow it.
How do we know you are for real before contributing our hard earned naira?

Aaaaarghmed:
Which village you dey in Etsako central?

Louisboy22:
Concentrate on the job and take off ur mind from there, but that doesn't mean u will abandoned her ooo, just try and concentrate on the learning, when she's tired definitely,she will call u to sort things out..be safe, wish u d best

Lexusgs430:



You are the architect of your misfortune........ Why would you not know, how much your wife brings into the family pot ......

It's meant to be a partnership relationship, not a slavery zone ....... You should have made her contribute her quota, towards running the family expense.......

Man and wife, MUST financially contribute....... Now she is gone, wait for 2 years, get her divorced, look after your daughter, marry another, only this time, share the family financial burden .........

frozen70:


As it is now, three things are making you sick

Loneliness
Absence or wife and child
Lack of money

You know what, you just have to keep calling to say hello to them and assure them that everything will be fine

Concerntrate on the job you are learning so that you don't come out half baked

By the time you find your bearings, you can look for you family and bring them home

You barely feed, so why do you want to bring them back and end up not providing for them

You rushed into marriage at a very early age, when you don't have family's to support you

Learn from that mistake pls

Relax she will not marry another man without her family informing you

Just keep calling, even if they don't pick your calls or communicate with you

To avoid any one blaming you for not reaching out to them

Stevenbright:
You were earning 75,000 naira and normally give her 40,000 naira for upkeep.

She works too as a private school teacher but you don't know how much she earns which means she didn't tell you and hence not even open about her finances and she has mind to be angry at you who is open about your finances and giving a moderate sum to the home considering your earning power!

You were not miss using the rest of your funds as you saved a part of it and probably used some to meet your personal effects and transportation fares.

You have not done anything wrong but next time maybe you can be more open by clarifying what your remaining funds is meant for and also demand to know her financial status.

Again, she realizing that after the lost of your job, your savings came in handy should have made her to respect and regard your stand and opinions if she actually loves you.

But for now, focus on yourself, finish your skill acquisition, launch a career on the acquired skills and work at it to regain your lost time and finances. After which, you can decide if you still want her or someone else.

A teaser--- "What if she is with another man right now"?

Nice2023:
U created a new account to appear innocent.

U were earning 75k and u went and married and u think she wouldn't run like Ben Johnson.

U should saved money and invest it to provide u with a passive income but na marriage u follow.

I don't think u love yourself,if u really do,u would not marry a woman whose income u do not know.

Na only u enter that marriage...and that is why u are begging ur mother in law and also begging your wife.

Advice:
Start earning income and see ur wife come with full force.

Pls,in ur next life,do not marry semi liability as a wife and for women out there,do not settle for a man who can't take care of u.

U can abuse me i don't care but let us join hands in reducing poverty in our land.

Marriage needs money and without it,na trouble u dey look for.

Wish u the best in all u do.

Softbby123:
Find menial jobs and be doing.


You can look for hotels or large scale restaurants and apply for work as a bartender or a waiter.


If you've a car , use it and do Uber.

This is not the right time to learn how to install solar panels and CCTV.

Now this is the time you be a man and take full responsibility of your family.

Klass99:


But I thought you people said you are logical and not emotional, and women bring nothing to the table except sex?

Again, I mean no offence to you I couldn't help myself . You will be alright OP, in fact all of una go dey alright las las.