2shure:
I met one of these riff raffs abt last week,driving a Nigerian used c300,no hate on that.me day I'm riding a muscle sports for close to a year plus,I asked for some updates.he started hyping himself,I then later asked him for just 5k loan cos money I was expecting didn't come that Thursday,he said he didn't have anything. Even showed me his opay acct reading 50naira as balance.i locked up.2days later I went to a random bar,u can't imagine this same guy bought almost 6bottles for 3 guys and was claiming boss.he was shocked to see me there.ibgreeted him briefly and moved out. Just this evening I heard he had an accident with the benz and it was a right off.i was so happy.cos he boasted a lot,ingested too much colos,buying bag for 20k.shey him eye don clear na.shakara don end.hahahahahaha foolish dumbo claiming woke on top naija used c300 wey be scrap. I also noticed he was lousy,always shouting at top of his voice,always hyper active and sometimes stuffs like lighter,phones and all keeps dropping from his hand. Any small thing ,he would be ready to fight,look for wood.i advised him to slow down then,but he saw me as a hater.him eye don clear now.hahahahaha. the car wey dey give am prestige don spoil,the dumbo dey hospital bed.hahahahaha

budaatum:


I'm glad you're depressed and want to be happy, because you can now stop bothering where your husband puts his dik and concern yourself with what you want. Hopefully, sex is off your priority list, so you don't get him putting it in you anymore and give you disease.

Concentrate on what you want. And don't you forget to smile.

aikyg:
Wahala! The man is doing you a favour by advising you to leave his wife and go and get your own wife. Some men would have attacked you without warning. It's also obvious that you don't have a girlfriend. Try by getting a girlfriend so you can leave people's wives alone.

BALLOSKI:
That one escorting a bachelor to a barber's place is something else.


If I come to my compound, I go to my flat, lock the door and I come out when I'm going to work or some other places. No talking, I just greet and pass.

My married neighbour would want to see me or borrow money, I don't give her face. Why married woman go de ask neighbour for money? Women have lost it.

blackpanthar:
I believe you are a fine guy and you appear successful but pls be wise o, you may be on your right to go ahead with using legal actions against the husband but pls sir as a single guy you are quite a very ignorant person.... with all the sexcapades gist on the internet involving neighbours and such. Not every good deed is a favor, some do it to gain access to you.

LEARN TO READ YOUR ENVIRONMENT.... e get why o.

Is it that you don't know how to clean your own surroundings? or how to not answer when they come knocking? or how to end unnecessary conversations?

BECAUSE, AT THE END OF THE DAY, YOU WILL BE BLAMED.......... This is why most landlords do not like to give SINGLE FOLKS a chance to rent their house because of avoidable nonsense like these.

Is ANY HELP FOR FREE IN NIGERIA? Didnt you see the signs........ you just FELT they were being NICE? Nice? in this country? Pls have more wisdom next time, any married woman whose husband is not always available for her, is a walking risk. YOU HAVE TO BE CAREFUL....

It may be wise to get a GIRLFRIEND or your sister or someone whom everyone can see with you and they will have to back off.

or, you can as well move out of the house.

or go and get married.

Another one that works is GETTING A RING.... wear it when you are about entering the house or going out... or when you have to engage anyone there in conversations... if they ask, say you are married and she is a daughter of the native herbalist in your village, that she will soon come (sounds like joke but it works o) WATCH HOW YOU WILL BE AVOIDED....

But remember, the MORE YOU TRY TO EXPLAIN YOURSELF OUT OF SUCH STICKY SITUATIONS WITHOUT EVIDENCE..... the more guilty and unbelieved you will be in the eyes and ears of everyone.

Matrix137:
Believe in the gospel of Jesus Christ and accept him into your heart as your Lord and personal savior.

That's all

delzbaba:
If a woman continues helping people without being appreciated she will soon stop the help, let her do that in her own time, with the other issues on ground, I feel that is her own way of adapting to a new society, she wants to connect with people apart from her family, I will advice you look for a church where Africans are many so that she can expand her friendship net and forget about those guys , in all be patient and supportive

Georgekyrian:
I grow up in Onitsha, I can’t have tangible business to do with Ebonyi man because you must have to be very careful

As of that time during school my tight guy squad was Ebonyi guy, but despite that I will always jokingly reminds him how I don’t like dealing with Ebonyi person freely

MyExpression:


If it's not too late, report the case to the police with evidence.
Apply for resignation through the right channel...let the police be aware too.

Possibly report at a higher police division.

3nity7:
No 14 deserves some clarity.

Johnycastro18:
No be by handsomeness bro

A lady whom i and my supposed handsome friend were competing to win her heart, later accepted me over my friend,

When I later asked her why she finally choosed me over my friend did you know wat her response was?

That although my friend is fair and handsome, she just don't like guys liked that,
she just liked me and my brown skin
So guy forget am

SpaceAngel:
Never try that next time , I guess the road was also lonely and they have to be very cautious on who is behind them, and it makes matters worse if it is a lone vehicle which might be suspicious.

Next time just follow them and give some space between you and their vehicle and wait for them to give you signal to pass else stay put , just remember that a living dog is greater than a dead lion.

grandstar:


You're patt of the problem.

Instead of you advising Nigerians to think thrice before traveling, you're selling them the "e go better" story.

Many would have stayed behind if they knew what they'll face

I have a younger brother in Germany who asked my older brother in England for cash recently. I wanted to advise him not to go as he was doing fairly okay here but decided not to.

And how do you know Nigerians own "houses across towm"?

CoronaVirusPro:
But at some point, Bobrisky is more beautiful than Pyhna

Samantha124:
Similar thing once happened to me back in varsity... I had just gotten out of the bathtub when someone started knocking on my room door... I kept telling him that I was coming, but he kept knocking.

I wrapped myself with a towel and went to the door only to find that there was no one anymore... I looked around and I didn't see anyone, so I left the door slightly open, removed my towel and started applying body lotion... I wasn't expecting any male because in my residence, male visitors were allowed only from 8am and it was around 7am, the security guard was also a female, so I was only a expecting the person to be a female.

As I was busy applying the body lotion, I could see a tall person standing by the door from the corner of my eye... As I turned around I found a tall dark man standing there... I immediately covered myself and I was ready to start shouting at him and kick him out only to find out that he was dumb and couldn't speak.

He had an exam pad and a pen... He also had this other paper requesting for donations... I was still pissed off, but shouting at him was now going to be useless... In fact, I started feeling bad for him... I gave him some money and he left... Apparently he asked the security guard for a permission to get in.