Nice thread.

solreb:

Thanks for the update. Did you leave from Lagos as I plan to travel from Lagos to PH tomorrow driving. I trust both soldiers and police will collect toll. Please edit they're not collecting more than N200 per toll gate

My own case was quite different, I don't want to put all my private issues out here, that was why I didn't give the full reason why I had to travel. Well I explained my reason for traveling to the police officers why some where sympathetic others still insisted on collecting. Some collected N 50, some collected N100. I know of some police men that rejected 100 box and insisted I 'top it'. So I gave 300. There where some that asked for 2k I negotiated for 1k. Moreso I was traveling with loads. So carry enough cash. You may not even pay any dime.

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senatorken01:


How many hours did u spend on the road

Took off 7 am reached abj 5pm. Though I stopped over for few minutes to get water and others. Just understand that you would be delayed by soldiers scattered all over the highway.

senatorken01:

OK. Thanks. If ure ti calculate how much you spent on the road giving to this guy's in check points. Did you spent close to 10k or more... Just want to know how to prepare for the journey ahead.

Around 3k sha. Some where sympathetic to me when I explained my situation to them. Why some where indifferent. Soldiers didn't collect money from me, just police officers. The soldiers just delay unnecessarily.

senatorken01:


Pls I also plan to move to Abuja by weekend. How much is the transport fare. Which park did u enter from or where did u get the vehicle going to Abuja... Thanks

I drove myself

ammesidog:
. Which transport company did you use? And how much did you spend

I drove myself, though I saw available transportation on the way to Abuja.

madgoat:


Good of you. You have probably infected your whole family with corona virus. I guess we will soon seen an update from NCDC

Lol. Thanks.

movod:
Pls I would like to travel from Lagos to ibadan, (driving myself). Its very urgent, Is it possible. Any advice

Carry enough cash for the officers. You will pay your way through.

tammie24:
don't run from army go enter Fulani herdsmen hand o

Bush this time in Nigeria??

. I considered that sha, However the locals where manning their own check points inside the bush.......not free though. And it was only once we entered the bush, around Abaji.

Major challenges I had was when I got to Abaji, there was no way we could pass through as the Army officers mounted road block with their Vehicle. So we had to divert into a bush path created by the locals, of course we had to pay some cash to them for clearing the makeshift road.

Finally I did travel as I said earlier. Am in Abuja now. However I must say that, it was stressful in the sense that, at every check point you are made to part with something by NPF manning the post. In the end was it worth it? Yes! Am home now with my family and that's what matters.

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ahmedyoung:
What is the way forward now

I will risk it this week. Will give you feedback. I just have to move.

ahmedyoung:
Is it possible I travel to Abuja from osun state this period

I need to travel to Abuja from Akure, so that I can be with my young family. Am tired of Akure. I learnt those drivers are diverting into the bush path any time they encounter Army check points.

TheGiftedOne:
Just keep up your fight against masturbation and in no time you'll fall in love. It will naturally happen, even subconsciously.

So true. When you stop masturbating, you unwittingly awaken the desire to be with a woman. Keep fighting.

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RisenPhoenix:
Whether you marry your 'choice' or not does not really impact on your satisfaction in marriage. Even if you marry your first choice, there will still be dissatisfaction in your marriage by the end of one year; in fact, probably less satisfaction than if you let your parents choose for you or if you marry anyhow.

Edit: Based on the addition highlighting the detail of your own case, those criteria you mentioned are not what sustains a marriage. In fact, marrying a woman that you do not idolize from the beginning may just be what will make your marriage work because she is a second choice and she knows it, so will be less likely to misbehave. But make sure that the child is yours and that she has a potentially humble and submissive character. But never marry because of outside influence. If you do marry her at last, make sure that the decision is purely yours.

Noted pastor.