₦airaland Forum

leketoye:
Whatever, just quit making disgusting comments here and go get a life.

what exactly is disgustings comments to you? come clear.

darling you see things a bit unclear - I don't need to GET a life - I HAVE a life already, and a very good life at that.

leketoye:
Are germans brought up to be this saucy? I'll try not to join issues with you but your few posts i've read show clearly that you are not too bright. Wonder what you are looking for with that nigerian guy that's caught your fancy. Old woman just go take care of your children and stop looking for Nigerian men to sleep with Word.

sweetheart ,I am brighter than you might ever be and you know that,so don't be disrespectful to lady.

where ar your manners? I might be old for you,but guess what - everyone is getting older and YOU as well.

I was not looking for a man,if you read my postings correct.

he found ME and he is a nice man,very intelligent and tall and handsome and my age,so old man found old woman

so don't you wondering what my business is alright.you better go and lern some respect boy.

leketoye:
Hmm fancy germanlady sounding like a grandma. So tell us exactly how old are you?

And guys leave this gigolo guy alone, if he wants a sugarmummy it's his decision. We are mostly hypocrites here. We do worse things behind closed doors and come here to sound like we are angles

lord have mercy leketoye,why you think people have PROFILES my age is for all to see

just use your intelligence and check when you click on my name.and if you can't manage - I am 45yo and I am not a grandma yet,my daughter is only 13yo

LoverBwoy:
thanx for the update you are very frequent in the romance sexuality forum, u looking for your black piece?

black piece? what a word

I'm not sure what you really mean by that.

Can a lady be here and not looking for a black piece?

I am in this forum for some days only and it is interesting to read how nigerian people see things so much different than european do.

I was married to an african american here in germany,so I am more americanized in my ways.

I've met a nigerian man that is catching my interest,so I am here to see what I can learn about nigerians.

I've noticed it's more young people here (20's or so)and they have a totally different opinion because of their age/experience /upbringing of life.

some not even had sex and talk about it like they KNOW what it is, LOL, very interesting,a virgin is talking about having sex and what she wants to do and what not, very interesting, like this 13yo boy that said MouthAction is nasty.he is just out of his diapers and propably don't even know why he got a penis between his legs,but he wants to talk like a grown man here,



so I'm not sure if I'm at the right place here,because most are so young here.but I will stay for a while and see where it's leading.

zebudaya:
German Lady The west is way better than where we come from, and the way you are talking about germans and their racism. I don't think i would be going there anytime soon, i guess i would spend my money in spain, Italy or France

I can only talk about germany since I live here ,but let me assure you it is not different in italy spain (just look at the new right now) or france,from what I know and read and see on tv.

I think a good place to be for nigerian people (in europe) is the uk,since you talk english and the language would be no barrier like in other non english speaking countries.

in the uk you can really spend your money,because the cost of living there is way higher than here .

you're a sweetheart

of course we have lots of men here in germany,but they are WHITE.

and I am just refering to ladies that like to be with a black man

just like I thought.

and like I've said - that don't exist in germany.we don't have sugger mummies to take care financially for a young man just to get sex from him.

they run after women here no matter what age and looks,because they are desperated and out for the papers.

I think I know,but not 100% sure

is it a woman who pays for sex?

sorry if it's that,we don't have anything like this in germany,we get young men for FREE hahahahaha,now who is laughing now

what's all about this sugger mummy thing? can't you guys don't get a damn job ?

can you explain what sugger mummy exactly means? sorry I am german and I am not sure if I get this all correct.

omonozozo:
German women are the best in Europe though. Love them.

you got me a bit puzzled omonozozo,here you say german women are the best in europe and you love them and some postings above you said most germans are ignorant.

that makes no sense at all,you sound contravers.

chinani:
German Lady, if African men are so bad, why don't German women stay away?

What don't they just take care of their kids by themselves?

I don't condone bad behavior but women need to do better (i.e. treat themselves better) not look for an _African man.

Very interesting insights though. . .how about African women & German men? No worries. _{I have my 'green card'}.

Chinani,I am far away from saying african men are bad.I know some very good ones as well.

but if you see how they behave here in my country ,you would not like it either.

they are in a situation  here where they can never tell a woman straight what they want and who they are,they lie and tell they are from Liberia .I am sure everyone (in africa) knows the reason,but most german young girs have no idea why her african boyfriend LOVES her so quick and want to get married or impregnant her and get divorced after a certain time because HE DON'T NEED HER ANYMORE.

since we have that new law in germany ,if you have a child with a german woman ,that is your STAY in germany!

so you might be able to imagine what's going on here and that behavior is not much liked.plus it is not fair to the lady or the kids.it's a lie from the get go!



about african women /german men ? I have no idea ,I don't know any african ladies .
I'm sure german men have a different reason why they marry an african lady.

so how many german people do you know then? have you lived in germany before?

I'm 45

I think I am not at the right spot here ,since the age gap is wayyyyy to big

is someone about my age in this forum ?

nubian:
BABY - are u sure u are 21? . u sound soooooooooooo mature. - nice talk , very nice talk. and a preety face too

this is copied from the www

it's spread all over the net I know this for a long time,but nice anyway

clocky:
GermanuLady u seem to be talking from experience. why is there so much racism in Germany i have been therebe4 and i just don't like the vibes i get over there would never go there again

that question I can't answer.

It depends on where in germany you have been.I live in southwest part and I never had any problems here with my exhusband (black american),but as an american you get treated different here anyway, regardless of the colour od your skin.americans are mor welcome here.

most africans here are on asylum status ,so that means the german government is paying you guys some money every moth to live here until they send you back home or granted your legal stay.

and that money comes from the german taxpayer,people who work for their living.so of course they don't like it when they see where their money is going to.

if I tell you african people are the lowest seen people in germany I am not lying.and that is the reason why most german women don't want to be seen with an african man.

racism in the usa is even worse,I thought it was bad in germany ,but I saw the differnce when i was in the us (some parts down south)

you ever heard the saying, once you go black un never go back,

let me asure you,the majority of german ladies would not even TALK to an african man,because in germany you are NOBODY for many germans,

only women who was with a black man before will give you a chance.

I shake my head when I see old ladies with their 20 yo younger man,

defenitely you african guys are more charming as german men, right after amican men of course,

but a normal german lady wants a secure life, means: a man who has his steady income and social life

I know many german females with 4 kids and all 4 are from different black men (well at least 4 guys are having legal stay here now ,because they PRODUCE a baby here) , those ladies are desperated,and that is when an african man get his chance to step in.

a german lady with an african husband will hardly get respected in germany, but of course they wont tell in your face,people do it behind your back.let a mixed couple go find an appartment to rent here, or finding a job for the black husband, it is hell!!

but all this has nothing to do with being CHARMING, because just being charming might be fun in bed ,but for sure it wont feed your mouth .many african man are still something EXOTIC for a white lady,but very often behind closed doors and not as a husband,

anymore questions? feel free to ask.

money is not growing on a tree and you just have to pick it like apples, ohhh no, weather u are in usa ,uk,germany, it might seem the DREAMLAND for you, but let me tell you, for black afrikan people here in germany it is never easy,

even if you are myrried to a german, you get the lowest paid job (if u get one) ,unemployment rate is very high, so the big bosses will rather hire a german man than a foreigner who barely speak the language.

not every nigerian brother is telling the truth back in his motherland how hard he has to struggle to make a living.most are ashamed of the way they live here.

I would not believe all you read here in this forum about the DREAMLAND, you will wake up and see the mess you are in when you wake up !

babe1:
I don't get it Tanicarr, Why are you not marring this guy?

I understand her 100 %, who is telling her he doesn't only want her for the damn papers? that is what girlfriend is worried about and she is right,

women in my country are facing the same problem, I want to get married for love and not for any papers, but african men can be very decieving ,so who is there to tell the truth?? It's always a risk for females like in USA,Germany ,UK if they meet an african man,

the question is eating your brain up, does he REALLY LOVES ME?

I am a german lady and I've been dealing with nigerians for many years in my country, it is shameful when a man is telling a woman he LOVES her and back in his mind is just the green card (for usa) or the legal stay in germany, I've seen it all and I am very careful when it comes to afrikan men here, they even make babies just to get their papers, poor kids!!!!!

Afrikan men period are too fast in saying I LOVE YOU anyway,those are the ones women here have to be very careful,

why not looking for a lady you REALLY love who can help you in this case, it would keep you guys out of trouble and the kids at least have a father that is still around.

i've seen so many bad things here in germany with afrikan men and german women, it's a shame and so obviously for the ladies who are aware of afrikan men problems of staying here legally.

go find yourself a woman you can LOVE and RESPECT, not just for the damn papers, it will pay in the long run und you're much safer.

for the ones who thinks their is a cure to hiv, you need to get some education on this topic, lord have mercy,I am rolling my eys here,

if you are hiv infected there is NO CURE, you will die in several years, and hopefully you produce no babies in that time,

you ever heard of www.GOOGLE.com ? why not getting some information and education on HIV there, i see there is really need for that,