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since I am not an afrikan woman,I would like to know what EXACTLY "SHAKARA" means?

also the word "sha".I don't know the meaning.

please can someone enlighten me

mo money:
@Germanlady

it does have something to do with luve

money - and therefore gifts - has nothing to do with LOVE.

I rather have a man who show me respect and is faithful to me ,than one who is showering me with gifts.

I get gifts and I don't even like them,because the guy never knew my "taste".So I wasn't happy about that kind of gifts.

you can show LOVE in so many ways - and it even cost you NO dime !

wow I can use some of these nice text messages for my babe

loyalty and respect.gifts has nothing to do with LOVE.

just give her the feeling she is special and number ONE in your life.

mo money:
tough lady

who else would tell them if not their wifes/husband or friends.it is still somehow a tabu,and nobody likes to tell the other person.if you tell it in a nice way ,people might be thankful.

segun111:
Ladies: question to you all based on observation: Is it difficult or is it hard for you ladies to advice or info your guy if he needs help in with odor? My question is this: are you afraid of his reaction if you tell him that he needs to work on his problems?

and not only to my guy, first off he would bot be MY guy if he don't smell right


I told people at work because it bothered me and others so much - but nobody had the guts to tell them - but ME

Lucifer:
An intelligent response! Yeah, I am a dog, a luciferous one at that. You would do well being one of my bitches. I will accord you enough bitch-respect

I am only a "bitch" to a MASTER !

I wonder why men call me THE DEVIL when I am done with them must be something in me.

so you see I am aware of the devil.

I prefer to be number ONE BITCH with all the good stuff that comes with it - now the question for you is - can you efford ME ?

Lucifer:
I have got lots and lots of bitches, where does that place me? I guess I am married

that places you to be a DOG - married or not - you have no respect for women,that is for sure clear as water .

men who don't know about grammar

it is such a turn off to read a love letter with so many mistakes,so guys ,it is helpful to use spell check

not single - not engaged - not married - but IN LOVE

kaecy5:
hello people this topic sure affects me
i should going away for awhile most probably minimum of 3 years. my girlfriend for 3 years has not yet come to terms with it she is sure hysterical, well i am feeling the hurt already but am pretending to be strong
we sure love each other

the last time i was away for 1 month it was hell the phone bills went up to the skies, and we sure miss each other
now the scary part is her family issues

her dad went on cross posting for 3 years and never / has not yet come back after 15 years she is hell scared that what happend to her mom might repeat it self

i sure love her, she makes my world complete , just a little confused

if you really love her - be with her - stay ,or take her with you.

If I were a man and I would love my woman,I would not want her to be without me.

Make it happen !

what do people know what 's going on behind closed doors ?! whitney and bobby or someone else - don't believe the hype -newspaper or gossip.

divorce is always a bad thing,people are getting married because they love each other.

I filed for my divorce 11 yrs back and I was crying when I walked out of court.I use to love this man but I had to let him go - and with HIM - my trust in men went right with him.

Shokoloko:
Germanlady
are these mixed race kids up for adoption. my sis wants to adopt some mixed race kids; her guy is white and there are no mixed race kids in nigeria for adoption. she's tried ethiopia (there are mixed ones) but adoption over there is such a looong process

what do you men by THESE mixed kids? what exactly do you mean by that ?

I have no idea about adoptions here.most mothers will keep their kids here in this country,no matter if the kid is white ,black or mixed.

all my friends who have mixed kids would NEVER give her child for adoption.

bad odor - messed up or missing teeth - insecure men - long or dirty fingernails /toenails - real skinny men

my name is Martina

mamaput:
It costs 1500 in Germany if you pass every thing the first time.
But it can also come up to 3000€,
It is not the you pay up to 25/30 € an hour and you must have 20 hours. Plus pther extras.

you are absolutely right !!

so it is very expensive - and to start as a beginner when u buy a car ,the insurance is very expensive too.
sometimes I really wonder how 18 yo kids can efford all that since they doesn't make much money at that age.

most of them collect money for birthdays for years from family members so can start driving school when they have the money together.

I remember my licence had cost 750.- DM = 375.- € 25 yrs ago - and THAT was alot of money back then also !

teaser:
@Germanlady
i have been going out with her for 8 years, we knew we were going to get married,including members of our family,infact a cousin of mine grew up thinking we were related because of our closeness and the understanding. i just had to do it because i cherish her,am not stingy and i have taken correction. I would have said i will correct the mistake but you know these things happen just one in a lifetime.

Next time be nice with your words,ie if you're really a german.

I WAS nice with my words - you don't want to read when I'm not nice,cuz that would sound much different. LOL

I would not think of divorce.he is defenitely hiding something ,other that that he would have YOU involved to this little sister/big brother chat.you need to tell him to stop this online flirting,because it hurts your feelings , and see how he behaves then.

if he continues - just pull the damn computer out of the wall

if that doesn't work ,put some "stuff "in his food so he can't leave the toilette - you just tell him that causes from being online too long and it's not healthy for him

whitedove:
My g/f is always suspecting me that i cheat on her esp.,when she sees me with tall girls,i work in an environment where there are beautiful w/men.she is beautiful but she is not tall.i like her, please Nairaland users what can i do ?

maybe you should have never told her that you like tall girls

so she is getting unsecure now.