i just found out my girlfriends uses three different names.
how i found out is that it so happens my girlfriend's ex is my cousin's friend , i showed him her picture and he said that is* insert name*!!. I was so shocked that i asked maybe it's a different girl ,but he shook his head with confidence and said it was her. How i found out her third name was she left her phone in my car, it rang i picked it up ,and the person asked for her but with another name, i told the person this was the wrong number the person insisted that this was my gf cellphone number and thats her name, the person even went as far as repeating the number two times.

why i am worried is i remember watching an Nigerian movie, the ashawos in the movie had used more than one name to be address.
so i am wondering is my girlfriend hiding something ,is she a criminal, is that why she is changing her name? what other reason could there be.

Honeycity:

if you are trully religious like you said, you wont try to help God rather wait for God's appointed time.

what happens if i was 49 and my baby clock was to die out in 5 month ,

is it still a sin

hello lol this scenario just came up in my head randomly, so okay what if i was a 45 year old women who was waiting for mister perfect, but mister perfect never came and i really want to reproduce anyways before my reproducing clock runs out of time,and i had a bright idea to go to the sperm bank ,but i am very very religious.

so is using the sperm donor method a sin?

also i guesss your friends don't see you as competition

wouldn't you hate being frds with a girl who gets all the compliments and attention .

sucessful guys have no frds ether, fake frds don't count!!

lol every guy knows if a girl makes you a friend, you are in the frd zone forever, that's why you must be straight forward and not allow the frd word to come out their mouth.

Orikinla:

All points taken. Orikinla will update you. But she prefers an older man with long years of experience in romance to teach her a lot. She knew when I produced booklets on family planning, and sold condoms and pills and she has read my love book. Let me just coach her for a week.   

she just wants your money not you, you old fool .

stroking your ego the best trick ever

all the guys wanna sleep with you and all the girls envy you.

so how on earth do you make friends


one of my seven wonders btw

sexkillz:

[size=14pt]If it's Dumb for a lady, it's dumb for a man as well. What's with the gender compartmentalization? [/size]

but its the guy who pops up the question, will you marry me.

claremont:

I honestly don't have a clue about what the point of this poster is!

if you agree that cohabitation before marriage is a good idea then argue its good. For me am on the opposite side i believe cohabitation is bad for people who are thinking of marriage.

cohabitation:
the act of living together and having a sexual relationship (especially without being married).

freecocoa:

and what makes you think every girl plays the wife role before marriage?

but you already said the right thing so i won't be too hard on you.

freecocoa:

and what makes you think every girl plays the wife role before marriage?

then i guess you will not play the wife role once i marry you, because you will already be too use to living with me just the same way.

Dyt:

Well as 4 me, i cant marry a man i dont live wit atleast 6mnths

but would you already act like a wife to him?

freecocoa:

^
If they are talking about living with a man before marriage,that's a no no for me,I'm outta here jare.

yes that's what i mean, sorry i should of been more straight forward.

you are practically doing a wife's role before marriage.

it's almost like being intimate with a guy who isn't yet your boyfriend.

pendo89:

Dumb and dumber>> Losing your own self. The moment a lady surrenders her mind and stops applying reason and soberness leaving the man to think on her behalf,initiate everything, I mean when you lose control of your own self you become useless.
A lady in a mature relationship should be an independent thinker,have her own life going on so that when they meet everything is balanced.

agreeeed!!! same thing can be said for guys too.

he is already getting what he wants without marrying you so whats the point.

Amya:

It doesn't really matter. I've seen people who don't live together have a relationship of more than ten years. Guy ended up marrying someone else.

atleast she wasn't living with him like a married women ,who cooks for him,cleans the house like a wife.
they kept their distance.

To move in with her boyfriend before they marry.

the reason is you are already acting the wife role.

so what's the point of marriage.

listen am not trying to be mean,but if you are not planning to get married, cohabitation is fine, but if you are its a bad idea.






http://imfcanada.org/default.aspx?go=article&aid=1193&tid=8

Cohabiting relationships which precede marriage are characteristically unstable, while cohabiting relationships which do not move into marriage are characterized not only by “high levels of instability but also especially low levels of relationship interaction and happiness.”[viii]



"3. Living Together Doesn't Necessarily Lead to Marriage
After five to seven years, 21 percent of most cohabitating couples are still doing just that -- cohabitating, without getting married. In a new study by Popenoe and Whitehead, one of the top 10 reasons why men said that they are reluctant to get married at all is because they can simply live with a woman -- and enjoy the same benefits."

http://www.ivillage.com/3-reasons-why-researchers-say-living-together-marriage-risky/4-a-284085

incase for people that don't know
cohabitation:
the act of living together and having a sexual relationship (especially without being married).

she looks like a panda bear

kiss

well if ur under age then

*backs away*

she fast because she was desperate and would do anything to have a child. the people we should be blaming is the church she put her trust in.

SAFO:

Another poor man's lefu or should I say Lefu lite 2.0.

This act has already been played.

Lefu, you need to put a muzzle on your mini-me's

am not lefu

and you cannot possibly be single in Nigeria

i swear when i went to nigeria it was hard to go out and not get thousands of girls jumping at you. i didn't even look rich all i had on was sweats and a flippin baseball cap.
im not even that good looking ether.
thts why i don't how guys are begging here for a girl.

Lol you guys let her be at least she had the guts to say it , don't shout her back into the closet . it isn't like she did it on purpose most rape victims tend to not even comeout and this is probably why.
so for those of you saying she deserved it,are you trying to say if a guy  ask  a girl to chill,and it turns out he actually wants sex, yet she  really didn't know he met that. does that give the guy the right to force sex on to her?
yet i hear some of you guys complaining about that guys don't  always want to have sex with you ,give us a chance  (bull sht)

really think about what your saying before you type it, most of you guys are just looking at the title and jumping to conclusion without even looking at the evidence of why it happen. Try looking at her perspective.
i notice Africans tend to yell at things without looking at the process of the issue, that is why i hate watching african movies.

Op i suggest you take this to a white website like yahoo answers.com  or the human sexuality forum on topix.com, there you will probably get more help instead of insults.

heres the guy

most igbo men and women i see tend to have extremely big lips,very big flat noses,and very hard features (a heavy jaw). when compared to other tribes in nigeria.

like actresses like tonto dike and oge okoye

even look at this guy

http://i40.tinypic.com/w87w41.jpg

who knows op can be very sexy and hot.

i got a thing for innocent babes , i got a lotttttt to teach her, Op are you still available i will like to make you my very own adorable doll.

fresh and new just the way i like it!!!
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op plz i beg comeback and respond to my post adorable sweety

Idowuogbo:

@gbhoyteele

Bros which part of your medula was held hostage i am willing to pay for its ransom,your senseless sister met someone today and waka go hin house nextday because d guy na miracle worker abi.If no b say dem cellotape d gal brain she will know dat dose kain parole na deadbody inside black bag dey follow am.Poster u better continue to glorify his name d guy wasnt Clifford Orji flipping sondoyo

no no nooooooooooo i am just helping ,this is a common mistake and she doesn't deserve the blame.

r231:

you are a player and you proud of it

whats new. . . . you do this allday

I bet you go hang at mr biggs as well giving numbers out

lol i have no doubt in my mind that seun was drunk when he made you a moderate

oooooo burrrrnnnn!!!

you can never insult the playa without gettting burned!

agreed this is a mad house ,people here don't know how to give advice just insults.

LaShawn:

OP

Don't be too hard on yourself, girl. U probably wanted a boyfriend, but that is not the way to go about it. Be very alert and careful.
What happened to you, is how many girls have been deflowered by total strangers. It is the oldest trick in the book. Visiting a guy should be done with absolute care, even a guy you have known for years. Like me, i made a new friend some months ago. We hung out in a sports arena (which I loved) and then he started troubling me about visiting him. I wondered what he had to say that had to be private. I declined.
I've even heard of a guy who forcefully kept a girl in his room, soaked all her cloths in water, deflowered and slept with her continuosly for 3 days. He only releasd her when he was tired.
You might not be so lucky next tym. You could get gang-banged or worse. All it takes is locking the door on you and putting on some loud music. Even the police will blame you.
Peace, am out!

3 days!!! what an asshole, he should be arrested, no matter what no one has the right to violate someone.

freecocoa:

So in your black mind,you've helped her na abi?

well you guys are having a hard time looking at someone else perspective.isn't that what you do when you give someone else advice.

i mean to say next time  , give the guy your facebook or email.

seeing a guys facebook will tell a lot about him trust me.

email a smart guy will take the time to write

and he will think your really fhucking classy,and will wanna marry you.

this mistake only happened once so don't be too hard on yourself.

you play the fool once shame on them you play the fool twice shame on you.