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rampant lover: @safarigirl.......... Don't wori ya head ova wot Ghanaian n other Africans will say about Nigerian girls. I am half Ghanaian n Jamaican n i also know dat 75% of Nigerian, Ghanaian and Jamaican women r useless no vision good 4 nuttin non entities. The only difference is dat most Ghanaian women r not loud n don't bark compare to Nigerian n Jamaican women. So tek a chill pill n relax cuz da lawyer is ryt.

I AM GHanian too, guessing from your post you have been rejected by many black girls and your probably chasing white women now.

I love alll my african sister ,,nothing wrong with any.

and the lawyer is not really clear ,on what he means.Judging that i have a sister I say God forbid she ever goes after a struggling man

why is it when a girl trust a guy she is called cheap. when she falls inlove with her heart and not his money. And she finally trust him and sleeps with him,she is automatically called cheap for loving him.

safarigirl:
Haha, this oughtta be in the jokes section, even the comments are funny. Especially those that insist that we have Ǟ reason to be jealous ☺₣ Ghana

Yes, I don't want Ghana to win this AFCON, because I don't like the Black Stars, never like em, I'm ÄŁĻ for cote d'ivoire, doesn't make ♍€ Ǟ hater, everyone mustn't support Ghana just cos they're Ǟ fellow british colony. I find Ivorians a lot nicer than Ghanaians. Bite me

to bad nigeria didn't qualify

and i would love to see ivory coast and ghana , now that's a game to watch.

PStylish:
@ghboytelle
I know why you hate Nigerian men.
Its only a Ghanaian that will marry a woman pregnant for another man who is still alive and take full responsibility for the child after his birth like he were his biological father. This is a scenario I have seen. I did not make it up. The woman in question is a Nigerian jilted by a fellow Nigerian of another tribe.
Also, how can a mother own the child? Thats so daft. Only Ghanaians hold on to that whacked reasoning in the whole of Africa if not the whole world.
In this age and time, a child can be conceived by Mrs A and carried in the womb for 9 months by Mrs B (surrogate). Who said Mrs A and Mrs B cant claim maternity of the child.
But either way, the father remains the same whether Mrs A conceived or Mrs B carried the pregnancy.
Hence, the father owns the child not the mother.
It is common knowledge that Ghanaian women control their husbands. That is not the case in Nigeria o.

ands thats why non nigerian women should start avoiding you.

you don't believe in  equal rights for women. you treat them like slaves once they marry you instead of a human being


TRUTH

more and more non nigerian women are finding out and now are avoiding you

stillwater:
Awww Malawians are warning their ladies from Nigerian men. So cute!!! Who will save Nigerian women from these Nigerian men then?

awwww yeah i know i am sad too. who will protect them. nigerian men are dangerous

this is sad to say, but honestly Congolese men and Nigerian men are both dangerous,and some Ghanaian men.

ekwah:
@ghboytelle

O boy na so u dislike Nigerian men reach?? One thing for sure is that Nigeria's reputation has been ruined in the international scene by the acts of various senseless Nigerian men/women, but this ur potrayal of our men is too far-fetched o. You can't just generalize like that, there are so many VERY good Nigerian men (like me ) out there. As for the thread, I think it was funny even though we all have to admit that Ghanaians envy or used to envy Nigerians to some degree. I see no reason for the childish insults here. peace to all ma Ghanaian friends.

i used to loveeeeeeeeeee nigerians both male and female.

but i saw your true colors, of how you treat women.

and then i lost respect for nigerian men. nigerian women are really the only innocent ones, while you nigerian men are destroying your country.

maybe your a good guy, but i have seen to many evil nigerian guys.

dayokanu:
https://a2.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash4/397225_776620654532_71108631_35356414_301109800_n.jpg

awwwwww to bad,those girls are asking to get used,abused,and scammed by nigerian men.

nigerian men are popular at the whole use and dump game, they are also popular at cheating. no right thinking girl should get involved with you.

[quote author=Yeske! link=topic=862664.msg10120883#msg10120883 date=1328372565]I can see your hatred for Nigerians knows no bound and it's so obvious you are a loser too, go get a life my friend and stop displaying your stupidity here.[/quote]i like nigerian girls ,but not the men. nigerian men are like monsters.

StarFlux:
lmao, go back to your ghanian forum. fool.

well this topic involves ghanians so i can be here if i want. if  it was only nigerians then i wouldn't bother.

but u guys had to mention ghana and here i am.

dayokanu:
I knew one African American girl who used to date a ghanaian boy.

She now told me the guy would beat her and tell her that she is lucky she isnt with a Nigerian cos he would kill her instead of beat.

I was like WTHell

welll that  guy is very wrong for doing tht ,and he is kinda right  a nigerian would of killed her,but tht ghana guy should be shot dead.

but i will not lie, i always warn ghananian girls to avoid you guys,and if they are involved with you guys. they should cut all contacts and run for their lives.
i always suggest move to a different state. since you guys are known for being stalkers.

please Nigerians make your own continent, pleaseeeeee i beg.

sorry but nigerians are becoming too troublesome abroad, i use to be cool cool with them,but now i avoid them. to many of you are into illegal activity.

majority of Africa is scared of you ,you cause trouble in our country, and you traffic and prostitute our girls. those Malawi ppl were right ,their women should start avoiding you.

nigerian women are okay i like them,but nigerian men are monsters i feel sorry for any women that falls victim to their crime.

am Ghanian and i say yorubas

so if i say people both men and women shouldn't be insulted for being unmarried at 30. i am all of a sudden a feminist?. if you guys like that then fine good luck paying your gfs school tuition fees ,good luck paying your gfs bills,good luck trying to take care of your kids when the other partner doesn't have a stable job.

good luck ,even thought i don't see it happening.

um you guys i am not a girl,just so you know. By the way not all of us lives in nigeria some of us are in a more modernize country.

it's ether you get a good job now , or let your kids suffer. how many 24 year olds do you know have a stable job?. Plus everyone knows no one in the relationship should be dependent on the other. would u really allow your own little sister to be a house wife to some block?.
we don't live in the african jungles anymore, were now living in cities where we need money from BOTH partners.

start thinking our era stop thinking your parents era.

[quote author=Mynd_44 link=topic=830388.msg9819247#msg9819247 date=1324582817]^^^
So you would forfeit your future just cos mum and dad are disturbing you?
Is there no difference between pressure and forcing? You always have a choice and if women are as half as strong as they claim to be then they should be able to resist pressure[/quote]sounds like you do not like to listen to your parents.

[quote author=Mynd_44 link=topic=830388.msg9818923#msg9818923 date=1324579166]And this is supposed to do what? Seriously people should stop blaming others for their misfortune. Granted you are being pressured to marry, did they tie you arms and leg and force you? Evrything is a choice and your future is nobody's responsibility except you. So if you say you got married becaiuse the insults are too much then be ready for more.
Feminist jargons. You want something that is already yours[/quote]but choice can also be influenced.Stop trying to ignore the fact that people strongly make their decision based on public opinion,especially if it is from close relatives like mom and dad.

[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=830388.msg9818872#msg9818872 date=1324578579]@OP
You need to modernize your grammar.[/quote]You are absolutely right ,I'd be happy if you would point out my mistakes so i can improve. My very poor grammar is due to having too grow up with an illiterate mother, a grandmother who couldn't speak English, and a poor school system that didn't spend much time teaching me how to correctly write. At the moment i am learning things on my own.

[quote author=190_@ link=topic=830388.msg9814542#msg9814542 date=1324539915]tell Nigerian girls [/quote]No everyone is included,both men and women on this site insult unmarried individuals.

Ijogz K:
You berra go and marry that your Aboki

go marry now and be poor. then you will be asking yourself why didn't i just get my education so i can provide for my family.

ogugua88:
Thank you thank you. Some of us are still in school and our parents chasing us on marriage and grandchildren issues. E don tey wey I break my biological clock. I simply go as the wind blows. I can't be rushing to meet marriage and child-bearing deadlines because of agadis who have already lived their own lives. At about 55-60, our parents should get golfing memberships and travel, rather than meddle into the affairs of their children because they hardly make sense. 1975 and 2011 contrast extremely. Jobs that didn't need much education now require one or two levels of university degrees. Money first, family later. That is, if you wish to live comfortably.

Yeah a tun of African parents including aunts and uncles need to know that things have changed. were not in 1975 anymore

I am very sorry,but we need to grow up ,as in we need to act our era. I am sick and tired of going on African sites  and seeing ppl  being insulted for asking a modernize question. One of these questions is about marriage. I seriously cannot see a 21 year old marrying and having kids. It's not like olden times where people by the age of 16 have most of their future sorted out and are sure of a job to provide for their family. This is the 21st century where we might not even get a proper job at 24 years old.

So i ask this question why must we Africans not understand when a women or even a man at the age of 30 still not married?. As a result we resort to insulting them by  telling them to hurry up,theirs no chance , you will be single forever ect,

were not in the past anymore medicines,law, and everything has advanced.

start thinking like ppl today and  stop condemning ppl who are not married by 24 or 28,29 whatever ,we got a career to be thinking about nobody wants to deprive their children of something because of money issues. Get the better Job you want now and stop thinking about marriage.

education and money are important in today's world weather u like it or not.

who else feels this way?

things are not always so perfect.

are they suppose to symbolize evil?

Joagbaje:
This thread might help I created it for purpose like this.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-816628.0.html

thank you god bless you brother

i seriously have no clue how to fast . plz help this is no joke

[quote author=Mynd_44 link=topic=824713.msg9760558#msg9760558 date=1323843578]Who be this one na?
Waste of space[/quote]how was your day

i want to fast because i want to prove to God ,that i am serious about my prayer to help my sick mom.

please tell me how do i fast properly?

do i not eat at night or something like that

hi

orinkla you old foool,get married already

orinkla you old man get married already

i read all your comments,but i don't believe most of you know how it feels like when a child telling me to grow up. i am the elder how would u guys feel if ur own kid tell u to grow up.

Beync:
She might be right, In some cases, maturity doesn t come with age.

how can she be right i did more schooling than her ,i have more life experience

my gf is turning 20 and i am 28 , today we were arguing then she told me to grow up. that really hurt ed me , how can she tell me to grow up when i am many years older then her. she is not suppose to tell me what to do, i am the grown up. is my gf 30 years old to tell me to grow up is she my mother.

who can agree this is an insult beyond insult

theres already enough ppl in nigeria ,it wouldn't hurt to muc to abort it .not all babies were meant to be born,let it go live with god.

Flashaldrin:
some things amaze me. i wonder how someone can be smart enough to log on to internet forums in 'Nigeria' yet ask such dumb questions.
@op i pray one day you will be smart enough to realize she ia a very smart and dangerous love peddler and can get you into trouble.
and you, you are the super maga!!
btw, modify your thread title.

how is it a dumb question asshole, like really think is it normal for ppl to be addressed with multiple names, nooooo. unless u do the same urself