I did not intend to two-time, that was d 1st time I was doing it & see how much pain it's brought me now, I would never advice anyone to two-time - male or female! When my Ex approached me, I told him I was engaged but he will not let me be & kept telling me engagement was not marriage. I tried to avoid being involved & told him we could only be friends but along the line his good points were overwhelming. I guess one reason things happened d way they did was coz my fiance & I were in a long-distance relationship & Mr. Ex was closer. Looking back now I'm happy I didn't leave my hubby for my Ex coz my Ex got married 3weeks after I did, to someone he used to claimed all the while we were together that they were just friends & I wonder how coz there was nothing he didn't do to convince me dat I was d only one in his life & I'll be happier with him, even few days to my wedding! I wonder how even with all these I still can not stop thinking about him.

My Ex was the best thing that ever happened in my life. He taught me soooo many things and we so complemented each other, even more than my husband and I do. Problem was he came in too late into my life; I met him after I met my husband (though we were not married then). I almost left my husband for him then but I could not fathom why I should since my Hubby never offended me in any way and loved me too. Besides the fact that I was in a relationship when I met my Ex, there were other reasons why I could not have married him. I thought will get over him once married but the truth is ever since I got married I can't stop thinking about my Ex and the good times we spent together even though he is also married now. I dream about him night and day and sometimes wonder if I did not make a mistake by not marrying him. I keep comparing him with my hubby all the time (in my mind) and wonder if I'll ever be as happy as he made me be, he was my best friend and knows much more than my hubby does about me.

My tall and slim frame.

@ Poster, the same reason Nigerian men prefer to date Nigerian or Black Ladies.