₦airaland Forum

justnock:
Dude, If I love her, we can still adopt a baby from an orphanage while waiting for God to have mercy on "US" and bless her with the fruit of the womb.
Y'all folks of this generation know nothing about true love. Maybe it's because I come from a family where I have never seen my parents argue or quarrel, for once. True love is about sacrifice. Put yourself in her shoes...she is also human. She deserves to be loved like anyone else.

LOL LOL I laughed so hard and almost choked on my drink, you sound so gullible bro. Na your type them de pray for, love is awesome but love shouldn't be stupidd.
Adopt? its a gamble a very horrible gamble. There's nothing like knowing this is my blood.

kestolove95:
Any child conceive before marriage is an illegal child

Really? please enlighten me on this, what makes such children illegal?

proclinician:
Another very frustrated, depressed, poor, miserable, unfortunate, and regrettable dead body. You mr man are an ediota. I doubt if a good news can come out of all you do.

What else can leak from your porous brain ? show me

proclinician:
You need to shut the hell up and respect her. Mumu

In a sane clime and in a world were reasonable people exist, stupidity is not something to respect but I guess in a fool's world respecting stupidity is the order of the day.

kendrick93:
Glowing with stupidity....
No one wants to see a clout seeking pregnant woman
displaying her foolishness online...

hahahahah glowing with stupidity indeed, such an airhead. You can tell there is nothing upstairs at all, there's probably echo in her skull.

ubunja:
you'll derail somebody's thread.

Anyways you seem too much into her I don't think you'll like the advice I can give. But start your own thread and we shall see.

I've started a thread bro...I like hearing the truth..folks think truth is bitter but I think its sweet when its a fact bro. I didn't ask your opinion for you to say what I want to hear (that's what bitchess do, I want ur well analyzed facts baba.

https://www.nairaland.com/5723522/she-playing-hard-get

healthserve:
Then go ahead. Stop seeing problems where they are none. Be careful in relationships lots of imaginations come to break it. Be disciplined to wait to hear from her before you reach conclusions. And when you hear from her, don't be in a hurry to mistrust her.

Feel like maybe she thinks I'm on some revenge fvck or something which is ridiculous, I can't afford to bear grudges over pussyy or initial declination.

healthserve:
You're too excited and its scarry. Does she reciprocate your excitement equally? Is she as excited as you are about her?

she's a lot more excited whenever we meet in person bro. Before we went on a date she was a little bit like this and when we saw I was surprised how excited she was...

CC ubunja bro...
Created.

healthserve:
Indecision is your problem and its destroying you


You sound weak. For the qualities you have. Decide what you want and strike. The onys lues on men to decide what they want with a lady and hers is to consider not help you decide.

To think you waited for years and you're squinting like a baby after such long duration mkae me pissed. I feel like slapping you on the wrist. Decide what you want with her and be fast about it.


Copy my new strategy, I don't give women second chances and hardly spend more than five minutes to communicate my interest, by words or deeds. Anything other than that is a long thing.


With all your qualities, she should be the one drooling and not you. Get your acts together dawg. Personally i don't take ladies back. Never


Decide and act


Back me up Ubunja

Bro not like I was waiting...I had girls around and stuff and still got girls around but want to lay off the game. Who the Bleep sits around waiting on a girl and shitt. Matter of fact I was in a serious relationship with my main chick then bro. Thanks for the advice tho.

Good day, there's this girl that I like and stuff, saw her about 2017 then she was in a keke and Lives close to my area in Abuja and I hopped on the keke and we talked a little I tries to get her number but she declined after she told me her name. Met another chick names C.1 same week and we started dating and it was awesome, we dated till 2020 had its ups and downs and for some reasons we have to part ways. Actually 2017 my mind was off this particular chick in question 2018 my mind was off her because I like going after someone whose attracted to me and vice versa & I got a girlfriend that I love and about 4 side chicks (don't judge me but u can do so it makes no difference). During that period I got a car and stuff, got my attention to other girls and things. I used to see her while driving by. Someday I saw her waiting for cab and gave her a lift and collected her number, so later on we chat and stuff but I wasn't paying attention to her cos I had full plate but mainly cause I felt she wasn't interested in me and I moved. Was just chatting her cos I just like her.

Then 2020 we started chatting a lot more share pics, baby pics stories and stuff, I started liking her a lot more and said OK let me go on a date with her so we picked a date.
I went to meet her where she was waiting for me and we greeted and she held my hand while we were walking and stuff. I switched it and held her and the eatery was close by so we walked there and had a nice time. She was calm and calculated, smart too which is what got me a lot more into her now. she's got a very adorable and beautiful eyes too and a nice smile. Her body and shape is dope as fvck, she's thicker than a mofo, laps sexy AF but that's not my primary intention BC I really like her. She facially she's no Alicia keys or Beyonce but looks OK, the thing I'm more of a personality/character kind of person when I really like a girl unlike when I want to just fvck her then I consider facial looks a lot. I complimented her on her eyes and smile she said I was lying about her smile. She doesn't think she has a beautiful smile but she does. Maybe she thinks she's not beautiful or something. Ran into a couple of guys I know and we greeted but I didn't introduce her because I felt like this is our first date and stuff. We left and board a cab, she seems like a good person and I like her a lot, actually she's growing on me. Saw her off to her place and left, we chat a little that day.

We chat and stuff but she kind of pulls this you should try to get me and stuff BC while we were discussing she mentioned about something then I playfully told her she'd teach me and she said I have to pay and stuff I told her I've got no money she said if I dont pay for it I won't value it and few other stuff she gave off which seems like she's the type that thinks if you don't suffer to get stuff or if it wasn't hard for one to get stuff the person won't value it.

Honestly now I really like her which tend to mess with me( making me to drop my games and stuff) unlike when I just like/aka wanna just Bleep n move which is 90% fucksexfull. They tend to like and fall in love with me when I'm on some player mode smh.
I called her like 3 times she now didnt pick and later on sent me a message that she was sorry that she was so busy then, she called ans we talked. The next day i called and she didnt pick and i just stopped calling. She acts a little indifferent but whenever we meet in person shes kind of smiling, giggling and stuff the way girls do when they really like you (either that or im gonna give her a grammy award for best performance).Guys I guess my mistake is going off my player mode which wasn't intentional BC honestly I'm a little tired of the game, like I want to drop the game but lately her response makes me want to force-switch up my shitt.



CC ubunja bro I need your opinion on this, drop it as honest as u do. I dont need to like it bro just say your observation.

Good day, there's this girl that I like and stuff, saw he about 2017 then she was in a keke and Libes close to my area and I hopped on the keke and we talked a little I tries to get her number but she declined after she told me her name. 2018 my mind was off her because I like going after someone whose attracted to me and vice versa. During that period I got a car and stuff, got my attention to other girls and things. I used to see her while driving by. Someday I saw her waiting for cab and gave her a lift and collected her number, so later on we chat and stuff but I wasn't paying attention to her cos I had full plate but mainly cause I felt she wasn't interested in me and I moved. Was just chatting her cos I just like her.

Then 2020 we started chatting a lot more share pics, baby pics stories and stuff, I started liking her a lot more and said OK let me go on a date with her so we picked a date.
I went to meet her where she was waiting for me and we greeted and she held my hand while we were walking and stuff. I switched it and held her and the eatery was close by so we walked there and had a nice time. She was calm and calculated, smart too which is what got me a lot more into her now. she's got a very adorable and beautiful eyes too and a nice smile. Her body and shape is dope as fvck, she's thicker than a mofo, laps sexy AF but that's not my primary intention BC I really like her. She facially she's no Alicia keys or Beyonce but looks OK, the thing I'm more of a personality/character kind of person when I really like a girl unlike when I want to just fvck her then I consider facial looks a lot. I complimented her on her eyes and smile she said I was lying about her smile. She doesn't think she has a beautiful smile but she does. Maybe she thinks she's not beautiful or something. Ran into a couple of guys I know and we greeted but I didn't introduce her because I felt like this is our first date and stuff. We left and board a cab, she seems like a good person and I like her a lot, actually she's growing on me. Saw her off to her place and left, we chat a little that day. Later on

CC ubunja bro I need your opinion on this.

Nadoson1:
Pls OP, I know what you are going/thinking now about your present condition today but please remember to comeback to this forum tomorrow and tell us how you were treated like a QUEEN by same man people are throwing stones to, I believe he is coming back for you in no distance time with a very surprised package, as for your baby keep your child because that will be the link/bond to glue you two tommorow.

u sure can build paradise in the air. taking care of a child is no kidsplay. its no jokes, you fvckers apply sentiment in so many things. some or most part of that lady's is going to be stopped once she give birth. doing it alone is horrible

Enemyofpeace:
Some people go just dey deceive themselves with long distance relationship. This same guy the op is talking about is happily married with tree childrens here at iyana Liverpool in London. You are there waiting for him. Dont go and look for seun or lalasticlala and pin your pregnancy on them before it is two late. For your information i am in love with dominique.

I haven;t laughed so hard in a while like i did after readidng your post. lol you might be right though, you are 88% correct.. it happens to get kpali no be here oo

ithink7:
Same thing they're doing to guys who refine crude in River state.

They don't try to make the best out of bad or whatever situation rather all their skull comes up with is destroy.... destruction. Almost everything situation can be turned into something good or gain something positive if we'll thought out and executed.

Corruption is king in. Nigeria, money rules over evil and good here.

Nigerian Govt can be so stupid, you buy guns from foreign countries when your citizens can make guns "illegally"?! Why not make it legal and make them staff or whatever and turn it into a Nigerian gun production company?! sell the arms to other Countries that might be interested?! though 1st world countries might not buy but who knows? if for nothing else buy from them or employ them to produce guns for the government and save the cost of buying and importing from other countries. Just ensure their production meets the international standard. Useless country.

SkinnyNigga:
i dont like the part where you lent her your car...

llogobenz is doing too much, lending ur car to a girl u just met, haven't bleeped, not ur main chick? u don't know her driving skills? what if she crashes and dies now pop go talk say na yahoo boy him Don use that girl make money. so many wrong moves here bro. skinnynigga I de with u logobenz is bleeping up. this bitxhh will mess him up I've been there with this kind of bitchh fell for her but thank God how my pops trained me I saw her bson time and called it off on her birthday. I know the bitchh is just. finessing my niggardly sadly his friend is a dummy, when ur with ur guy scope out his chick moves if he's falling in love and tell him what u. see, all his situation here is just similar to mine almost the same. luckily my niggas told. me the chick is on some. bsand I was smart enough to look beyond my heart and soon I saw signs. it was very hard for me to cut her off but I had to, before she ducks me up. took me three days to get. over the bitch and convince my hear that she's crap and useless and not worth it. she kept calling and I blocked her on all my lines. Tips for guys once a bitchh starts calling u for a ride like more than its supposed to and depending on situation cut that butch off unless she has proved herself and worth it. funny enough I almost kicked of this my main chick then and would have married her last year December I'd she was what I thought. Bleep love until u seeits real in ur partners eyes.