It's no longer Breaking news that Many girls starts engaging in abortions as early as there Secondary school days. Now, when they finally enter University or gets into the wider world, What they engaged into because of money and better life is better Imagined than seen.

After they must have finally damaged their system and become useless, they will now jump into church or ministry looking for a miracle man. That's why every Church, Ministry or Prayer house has more women than men...


Now, what younger men after seeing mistakes of our Elder brothers and their barren wife's now decided to devise a means many may unfortunately regard as a sinful path, which is getting her pregnant first b4 talking of Traditional marriage.

justnock:
Fvck it. I don't judge people by their past. I don't mind marrying an ex runs girl, if I love her. There are some Barren virgins, too. I think if you are enlightened, regardless of your age, you will judge people less.
I am not perfect...no one is.

kestolove95:
Any child conceive before marriage is an illegal child

Chizuru01:


I never said you should judge her by her past or not marry a truly repented runs girl. What am saying is that you should get her pregnant first b4 anything marriage would be said.

Some of them contracted strong disease that destroyed their ability to carry baby back then.

Some of them took harmful mixtures to eliminate an unwanted baby back then.

Why then will you stand in the line of fire on a war you never knew how it started.

justnock:


Dude, If I love her, we can still adopt a baby from an orphanage while waiting for God to have mercy on "US" and bless her with the fruit of the womb.
Y'all folks of this generation know nothing about true love. Maybe it's because I come from a family where I have never seen my parents argue or quarrel, for once. True love is about sacrifice. Put yourself in her shoes...she is also human. She deserves to be loved like anyone else.

Chizuru01:


Well, that's your choice.

For me, I can't be blinded by love to make a wrong decision i will regret.

I wouldn't want a situation where people playing with their kids will be painted as a mockery on me inside my brain.

You may not understand until you make such a grave mistake

Chizuru01:
Those damaged girls are the ones who holds unto "NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE " very tight. Don't listen to her, she might be pretending.

Marriage shouldn't be a thing of Gamble where it either enter or it cuts. Marriage shouldn't be a package where which you open to either receive a wonderful surprise or a heartbreaking parcel.

If her Character meets your standard, impregnate and marry her.

kestolove95:
Any child conceive before marriage is an illegal child

justnock:


Dude, If I love her, we can still adopt a baby from an orphanage while waiting for God to have mercy on "US" and bless her with the fruit of the womb.
Y'all folks of this generation know nothing about true love. Maybe it's because I come from a family where I have never seen my parents argue or quarrel, for once. True love is about sacrifice. Put yourself in her shoes...she is also human. She deserves to be loved like anyone else.

GhostGhost:
LOL LOL I laughed so hard and almost choked on my drink, you sound so gullible bro. Na your type them de pray for, love is awesome but love shouldn't be stupidd.
Adopt? its a gamble a very horrible gamble. There's nothing like knowing this is my blood.

justnock:


You are not enlightened. You want to marry a good girl but you don't mind knacking a lady that you are not married to yet, with reckless abandon. Freaking double standards. Anyways...it's a man's world.

justnock:


Dude, If I love her, we can still adopt a baby from an orphanage while waiting for God to have mercy on "US" and bless her with the fruit of the womb.
Y'all folks of this generation know nothing about true love. Maybe it's because I come from a family where I have never seen my parents argue or quarrel, for once. True love is about sacrifice. Put yourself in her shoes...she is also human. She deserves to be loved like anyone else.

kestolove95:
Any child conceive before marriage is an illegal child

Chizuru01:


I never said you should judge her by her past or not marry a truly repented runs girl. What am saying is that you should get her pregnant first b4 anything marriage would be said.

Some of them contracted strong disease that destroyed their ability to carry baby back then.

Some of them took harmful mixtures to eliminate an unwanted baby back then.

Why then will you stand in the line of fire on a war you never knew how it started.

jeff1607:




Not that I'm against child adoption oo, but do understand what it means to adopt a child and putting a stop to your bloodline?

Plus wen u got a child from your woman, no matter how the child behaves u know how to tackle it, imagine you come from a family of pastors you decide to adopt and everyone sees the child as yours, then the child as small as he/she is , doing things only adults would do, you will ask yourself where is this coming from, you might get lucky and get a good one.

If you truly love her wait till she takes in or go IVF

justnock:


Dude, If I love her, we can still adopt a baby from an orphanage while waiting for God to have mercy on "US" and bless her with the fruit of the womb.
Y'all folks of this generation know nothing about true love. Maybe it's because I come from a family where I have never seen my parents argue or quarrel, for once. True love is about sacrifice. Put yourself in her shoes...she is also human. She deserves to be loved like anyone else.

Chizuru01:


Another thing is this.

You see those funny little little behavior or actions that pisses you off, Which you refused to speak against during courtship days but rather decided to ignore and endure, they will definitely hunt the peace of your family later. Speak it out and pay close attention to her reaction (Sometimes you may think she has amended. Lies, she is just pretending).


E.g. If you have a Temper control problem, Please don't marry a Talkertive or a Nagger (You may kill someone)

If you are an introvert, Please don't marry an extroverted Alpha female ( You will regret it all the days of your shortified life)

GhostGhost:
hahahahahhahhahaha the double standards has been there, don't hate the player hate or switch the game....there are so many reasons why women or females shouldn't try to fvck around like men do. biologically they are not designed to go through that like men are. I'd whine, dine and fvck the shittt outta bunch of chicks that offer their good pussyyy with the utmost reckless abandon, they enjoy it too and come back for more, its a win win situation. except that their body start loosening unlike their male counterparts.

I wouldn't delve into the enlightened part because its obvious you don't know what that word means or is, so I wouldn't touch you with a stick soaked in an ocean of enlightenment. You are so freaking naive and know nothing about real life, its still a hollywood script to you kiddo but I trust time, its the great teacher for dummies.

Paramount01:




Then you think not arguing on anything is through love.sit down there
I did not support the op also but don't use aregudment as a yard stick for true love
If two friends enter a room and talk sense to there self they always come out with querrel but if the come out with lugh just know truth as not been told

GhostGhost:
LOL LOL I laughed so hard and almost choked on my drink, you sound so gullible bro. Na your type them de pray for, love is awesome but love shouldn't be stupidd.
Adopt? its a gamble a very horrible gamble. There's nothing like knowing this is my blood.

justnock:


Sir, even if I had a dozen biological kids, it won't stop me from adopting other kids.
I am a very optimistic person, my future wife is not going to have issues with child bearing...if she did, I am all in.

justnock:


Sir, I don't want to stoop down to your level and exchange words with you. Kings don't argue. Let's just agree to disagree on this issue.

I am optimistic you are going to get married to your desired virgin wife, give birth to six beautiful daughters with pretty faces, and figure 8 shapes.
Me on the other hand will marry a "bad girl," treat her like a queen and have six sons that fvck for a living.
My six sons will fvck the brains out of your six beautiful daughters, with reckless abandon.

kestolove95:
Any child conceive before marriage is an illegal child