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MamBi:
But do you honestly think they really believe that or they are just saying those things to get a rise or reaction out of women?

It is a bit too suspicious when people are too pre-occupied with a particular topic. When ALL and ANY sentence leads to someone talking about their favourite subject, I begin to think hnmmm!

What do you begin to think? I'm interested.

I think they're messed up either way, whatever their reason for causing drama, so I just move on.
What about you?

Alex is busy dancing, SMH,

Khloe is following Leo around,

Work out is over.

This khloe's outfit. SMH

Let her not enter market sha

spongeisback:
So because white people say this now we've to believe it and accept? Even to the extent of bringing it up on a forum filled with black women?! Come on we need to do better in life, other races bring us down the last thing we need is our OWN men accepting it.

Seems Black men bring black women down the most,
Thank you. That guy (and others on this thread that think like him) has a prejudice towards women.,


This all knowing attitude he and some others on this thread have towards women is disturbing.

Anyways, moving on.

genius43:
True tho, Cee-C don't know how much she is hated in that house

I don't think she even thinks about them and if they hate her or not,
I don't think she cares, all she knows is her Tobi

bodyonchecheche:
I'm realising

I'm telling you

If bambam had asked that question.
"What Is she supposed to do with this information?"
I wonder how he would have reacted

Vivuch:
please watch the show don't believe on hear say, Teddy A mingles with everybody in the house, he's just a cool calm guy, that bares his mind.

Teddy A with the money ooooooo

Are you saying they are lying? Are you saying that teddy A didn't act that way?

mizz2posh:
I watched the scene the person you quoted was talking about, and he was joking, that was last week, they were not this close then, the video is on twitter, was actually after that they became inseparable.

Was he joking?
That kind of joke sef,

Anyway let me go and watch the video,
How did you find it?

DoubleeDee:
Let me give you a detailed picture of what happened.
Both of them were lying on the bed gisting like two days after the pairing.
Teddy wanted to stroke Bambam romantically as they talked, but she was resistant.
Teddy then asked why she picked him in the first place if she was not down with it.
Bambam said she felt it was a task pairing and wanted to get to know him........
Teddy suddenly got up from the bed and started his rant that lasted for almost five minutes.
I was both amused and shocked.

DoubleeDee:
It started as a joke in bed, but he became livid when he got up and threatened to diss her with other babes in the house.
My daughter was particularly disgusted. Teddy doesn't joke like that. When he said he wasn't participating in the truth or dare if boobs touching wasn't allowed, it sounded like a joke, but he meant every word to the T and boycotted the game.

Eeghe:
I am gonna quote him

"There are many other girls in this house and if you don't cooperate, I am gonna go to them, and trust me, you are not gonna like it" Teddy said to Bambam in a menacing, slow TexandrawlmixedwithNaijaPidginvibe

Miss Bambam just wilted

(I make this up not)

Eeghe:
Oh okay
Someone else heard him too
I had a shot of whiskey when I heard that, I needed to cool my poor falling for him brain (the whiskey was laced with plenty soda shaa)

Even though Bambam today tried to talk him out of belittling other housemates, of course he swatted off her arguments as one would do a squeeto

Bambam drains my energy, like one Motamma of The Chase that Dillish won/had Nando disqualified

WHAAATTTT!!!!

He said all that

Cool10 come and defend him,


Isn't this classic example of when bambam tried to say no to him and he used manipulation, threats and bullying to get her to do what's he wants? While being dismissive and disrespectful of her choices?


I don't know, maybe one of the reasons biggie brought this topic maybe to teach teddy to respect boundaries,


It's official, I dislike Teddy,

He is controlling, manipulative, dismissive.


Now bambam keeps stressing herself trying to kiss his ass all because he is her partner

bodyonchecheche:
She's too passive

Lol I would've asked the guy what he wants me to do with this piece of information, nonsense

Bambam, Self esteem = low or none ,
She can't ask anything


And she was wasting her time bothering about Nina's IQ, not knowing she has bigger problems.

Loooll

Everyone suggesting teddy A ,
K don't knownif he is intelligent and hard working,
I know that he can be firm and strict though, but the housemates still need intelligence and hardwork,

Can teddy A do both, I genuinely don't know, I'm asking

DoubleeDee:
Spot on.

Thanks

DoubleeDee:
Bambam was playing mama's girl and feigning disinterest in romance.
Teddy was having none of it and read out the riot act in a menacing way.
It was funny but also scary. His outburst happened like a flash in the pan.

I don't understand, bambam was saying or acting like she doesn't want romance? And he basically told her that he won't tolerate that? Since he wants romance,

Is that it?
Damn.

COOL10:
. Hmm,alright. I'll be more detailed since you think I'm putting words in your mouth(or trying to). U made use of 'trying to control' which alternately means convincing/persuading/manipulating or in my words forcing her to do his will.

Am I wrong?

You also said 'collapse'. Now if that doesn't mean he's suffocating her through his supposed 'forceful/controlling' actions,I don't know what is. Then I said that Bam bam is old enough to tell him a simple NO if she feels inconvenienced and Teddy would understand just like he did earlier. I don tire with the explanation sef. I agree with you that the pairing should be called off but I do think that you're quite harsh on teddy.

I don't know if it is her or if it is him, I just know she is putting in so much effort and I'm tired of seeing it, besides. I did say she acts like her self esteem is 0


If I'm harsh on teddy he deserves it, if he is controlling he deserves to be called that.

Modified,
With evidence I've seen now he is definitely suffocating her, manipulating and disrespecting her,
He told her no and he didn't respect it and instead threatened her. Nah,
Bambam is trying too hard to please him, never works,

bodyonchecheche:


I reckon it will make them less (maybe not entirely) lazy and spook them into taking things more seriously

I see these people losing their wager and then wagering 25% next week,
That's how much faith I have in them, especially if tobi somehow manages to be the hoh again,

I need them to have an intelligent, hardworking but no nonsense hoh that they can't intimidate.
I would have said khloe because she fits the bill, but they have a bias towards her and may shut her down before she even says much,

Maybe Leo or Anto, I don't know how "no nonsense" they are but I know they are hardworking and intelligent

I just don't know, these people are lazy, still writing script when presentation is tomorrow?

DoubleeDee:
Few days after the pairing, Teddy threatened to switch to other babes in the house to spite her if she was not forthcoming.
His tone was very harsh, arrogant and scary. Bambam was obviously uncomfortable and I thought she'll take off cause that mood swing was degrading to say the least. Maybe she likes domineering men but I'm absolutely sure Rico would have treated her like a diamond.

This is scary, forthcoming in what way?
And yes, Rico would have treated her well.

bodyonchecheche:
They're so nonchalant, I was even wondering if the live show had been cancelled this past Sunday at a point with the way they were lounging around and their lack of preparation lol, I need to stop comparing them to last year's housemates sha, they were just a lot more...active

Anyway 'real' nominations will soon wake them up

Real nominations will wake them up. But will it make them to stop being lazy? I've never seen housemates wager 50% on the 2nd week when they are still supposed to be gingered up.
What will they now do in maybe the 5th week?
0%

Akorkor:
I personally don’t like him because he’s too cocky. Always looking down on the other housemate and I am sure he doesn’t even have anything meaningful he’s doing as a job for a living. For example, bambam ask him, what do you do he was blabbing

He keep saying some housemate are weakling.... How dare he say that? Does he know how viewers are seeing him. Ohhh my!!!! I can’t stand a man full of himself

Seems he is trying to pull everyone down to lift himself up, he needs to chill.

COOL10:
. Hmm,you and this your Teddy A matter sef like he's forcing her to do what she doesn't want. Even if he was,a simple NO would do it. She did so today and though he was indifferent,he still said 'I get you,I understand you'. Bam Bam no be pikin nah. Besides no one ever made Teddy A the leader of the pair.

React to my post and my post exactly. Don't add or subtract.

Did I say he is forcing her to do what she doesn't want? I said he is dismissive and controlling,

I even stated that she is pushing herself on him,

Did I ever say anything about leader of any group?

Why trying to put words in my mouth?
No point responding when you won't respond to what I post.

COOL10:
. Calm down. I understand where you're coming from but you're taking it the wrong way. Firstly you compared stories and I hate it when people do that. You can't say because you suffered a greater deal than someone else and handled it better,you now feel the person is some sort of fool for not being to handle his appropriately. I dislike those 'nah you suffer pass?' statements. Nobody suffer pass. Everyone has their way of handling different things in different situations. That doesn't give you the right to disparage another who doesn't seem 'manly' to you. If u think that's your way of encouraging him then I'm sorry to burst your bubble,but you're wrong. You'll only cause more damage. Rico might look strong and hardened to you but the day he'll para ehn,you'll know it's just a facade. Another thing you mentioned is that his mum prolly spoilt him but don't you think that you just did what you mentioned the guy above for? Judge? Bro/Sis,no be everybody get the same type of heart. Some are fortunate enough to toughen up which usually ends up being disastrous when provoked but some never recover and that's a bad thing too. Pls let's learn to be more tolerant and accepting of each other.

I love this, it's perfect
Especially the part in bold.

eksbabe:
So they have this much to do and not even one rehearsal. Pls what did they wager this week?

50% I think,
Lazy asses

dominique:
Looking at this BamTeddy relationship, I now see why we have so many single mums nowadays. A man clearly shows a babe that he's NOT that into her yet she still keep forcing herself on him. Apply goat and yam theory, next thing she falls pregnant and the guy rejects her that's when she realizes that she never really stood a chance with him. Bambam should stop being so needy and clingy to Teddy, it doesn't look good on her.

Is that really true?
Bambam, self esteem = 0
And she was saying Nina has a low IQ, while she with high IQ look at what she has put herself into. I feel she is pushing herself unto teddy because she feels they must bond, but can she survive it?

And teddy A needs to stop being so dismissive of her, what kind of character is that? He needs to stop trying to control her,
And he even has a child. What will he teach the girl or boy?

Biggie needs to remove this pairing before people like bambam will collapse.

I feel bambam is boring, brings nothing to the house,
She just hides under teddy, I think she also allows teddy control her, a lesser version of cebi,

Teddy A, people's example of a real man

Anyways, is there even anyone worth rooting for?

What are they doing to k brulé?
Someone should give an update please,
Although k brulé has been annoying me but I don't like when anyone is bullied

teamsynergy:
this hms r insensitive to d plight of kbrule

Please How is he acting? I haven't watched in a while

Thanks to everyone updating with pictures

Iwillnotjump:
Yep, the camera didn't focus on her because it was one style she used till the end.

That's nice, I wondered,
As for cee c, I guess that's why I didn't see her.

cabalocracy:
Cee C : listen, i don't like... if you... maybe, see ehn, it's just... I'm not even...
tobi do you understand?

Tobi: Yes

Me:

Lol did this really happen?

Iwillnotjump:
Didn't you watch the last party? Ceec can't even whine her waist, it's so stiff.

This your moniker?
Is it an ode to k brulé?
Lol,

I didn't notice her, the camera was mostly on those who could dance, Alex, vandora, anto and the rest so I never noticed her.

Anto looks so cute, she is really good looking
Anto, Leo and lolu talking about their script in their closet.
Anto seems happy, cat walking and twerking.

Why don't they play music for these housemates?

So cee c can't dance?

Is this how tobi and cee c walk? Holding hands?