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Pls i need your pieces of advice.

I’m happily married with one kid which is just 9 months old.
There was a time I discussed with my wife dat we would have to adopt a birth control method. We agreed dat we would go to the hospital to get her tested so that we can choose the best available option. We agreed dat she should go first to get a kind of pre-counseling and dat I will go together with her later before we adopt any of the recommended methods. I personally would have stayed with usage of condom but she objected.

However, just yesterday, Sunday, my wife just told me dat she took contraceptive injection in February of dis year without my knowledge. Since when she told me, I have not uttered a single comment on it as I don’t want to say anything I will regret. When I’m angry, i normally say it d way I feel it which may be too nasty. She has been asking dat I say something on it but I refused even with all her crying and pleading.

Now my questions are; why would she do dat? What should I do now? Ao do I handle dis? Or is it me dat is making mountain out of molehill? I felt it should be our decision and not hers alone.

Pls know dat dis is something dat is happening to my home, I would like to implore us to mind d way we give our advice; it should be given putting my feelings into consideration and dat’s why I have not come to say it happened to a friend.

Thank you.

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My bros, wateva d outcome of dis situation, just know dat u've put ur marraige on a very bad course. The foundation of yor marriage (Trust) is shaken already and i don't know wat u can do 2 save it after dis very trouble. Why wuld u doubt yor wife?

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