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Gippeum:Just as an update, I've gotten the visa!!!! Biometrics: September 24 VAC email: September 25 Decision and collection VFS email: October 6 Passport and visa collected: October 7 |
spiceadole:Wow thank youuuuu, its been a journeyyy |
Manlikechims:Okay, so like me now that has recieved the collection notice but has no refusal mail it means its been approved? |
No I'm sorry, I was just asking because I was looking at which airline to book samoji84: |
Oh okay, thank you! Amarathripple0: |
Hey guys, can I book an appointment and then pay for priority later? If yes, how? |
When is your flight? samoji84: |
Hey, what day did you book and when did you book for, I've been trying but can't seem to get a date, please help Bluetherapy: |
Okay so guys I'm back again�� How can I use paga verve to pay? |
Alright will try again later vivvica: |
Okay thank you Amarathripple0: |
Hello everyone I have just one question, can I pay for priority service with a naira Mastercard, my aunts dollar card that I'm using isn't working and I can't wait till Monday to pay... please help! Thank you... I've paid for his and standard visa fee already |
Ifyjos:Dear girl you were not very matured.... You were just manipulated into thinking you were... I'm sure "your crown" told you that you are more mature than other girls your age just to whine your head and since then it has filled your head that you are more mature... You are not, age is not just a number, if that was correct it would then be okay for an 8 year old to be chased by a 21 year old or we would be having 10 year old presidents... Abi Na?... Age is not just a number when I comes to performing acts that you are not mentally mature enough for... Don't allow yourself to be deceived by the words that were used to capture you in the first place... Whether you've been with him for 7 or 30 years it still doesn't change the fact the he committed statutory rape and he manipulated you as well... Sha sha that's your lifes stress and struggle. You better tell your sister because in case you don't know depression doesn't just stop at depression it can also cause high blood pressure and hypertension... So let me make it simple for you to understand... you better tell her soon or you stand the risk of watching your sister slowly waste away simply because you were too immature to realize that she wasn't insulting you to oppress you... It also seems to me that you're suffering from some form of inferiority complex with regards to your sister... Stop it... You can be someone great without using someone else's achievement as a yard stick... |
Meliann:Hi... Hello sorry... First of all people are not "sentimental fools" for not thinking the way you do..... Also you realize that the OP was 15 when she got pregnant... Apparently 14 when they started dating (eurgh).... The man was 24.... No sibling would enjoy seeing that at all... At 15 her life just basically started and to have it distorted not because of an accident but because of something that was willfully caused by the OP themselves and, judging by the way she has been responding, feels no remorse for... Can be annoying... The sister most likely voiced her concerns about the guy from the get go.... And NO the guy gets no brownie points for "accepting the child", that is his responsibility you get no brownie points for doing your responsibility... And to keep seeing her sister continue the predatory relationship... Because yes it IS predatory... With the guyy is something that can push the sister to anger... You're talking as if they we're just maintaining a co-parent relationship... They were more likely than not STILL sexually involved with each other... Wouldn't you be angry as a sister seeing this? Even in her disappointment and anger she never shirked from the responsibility of her niece... Yes she insulted and that isn't right at all but her anger was not from a "vengeful or bitter" place... It was most likely from an angry and disappointed place... And you keep emphasizing on the fact that she locked them up... She was physically assaulted in her OWN home... Because you can't honestly tell me that it started and ended with a slap, seeing as the boyfriend, who hates the sister, was present... And the assault was initiated by her sister, so wys?... Biko please she DESERVED to be locked up... Miss me with that unconditional love thing.... The op is a petulant, entitled and unrepentant child... Also you talk about cussing and raging.... Don't you watch movies? When you see the characters making silly mistakes do you just go "oh that's right my dear one go on... You can do it" or do you yell and insult?... The sister is not a saint... She should have encouraged the sister and held her closer BUT her very vocal disapproval of the guy is extremely justified... He's not educated, without a steady job, not even living on his own... Lets push that aside... He smokes AND drinks ejo.... That is not someone I would want my sister to be with also... He was a 23 year old man lusting after a 14!!! Year old girl... He ain't nothing special either.... The OP is keeping a man that isn't that great an influence not only around her but around her child... Who is an impressionable 5 year old... Not great as well... Also the sister didn't squander it all on vengeance the OP squandered it in vengeance don't get it mixed up You said she got depressed when her fiancee broke up with her so she mustn't be a strong woman... This was what made me want to reply... First of all how dare you? This is a woman whose marriage was 3-4 months away and for no apparent reason it was canceled, her fiancee is someone she must have been with for quite a while if she was comfortable to marry him... And to have him end it FOR NO APPARENT REASON!! Is painful and she most likely loved her fiancee... That is enough emotional trauma and her depression is justified and has absolutely NOTHING to do with strength... Its a harrowing experience... Second of all, the sister most likely has dreamed and planned and laughed and rejoiced about her upcoming nuptials and to have all that snatched is brutal.... As a psychologist I can tell you that depression is not a test of "strength" so please try not to make such statements in future as it might make people suffering from depression feel weak and that ain't helpful... OP is not doing herself any favors by keeping her boyfriend around... I don't know about others but I'm not disapproving because he's presently not rich but I'm disapproving because he seemingly has no game plan... He's not someone to be trusted with her childs future... Hard work is not it anymore its smart work now b... The OP should try and establish herself and make something of herself for her daughter and stop saying we will be rich in Jesus name... Because they have a child to consider... |
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