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Thanks to you all, I appreciate every one that contributed.

Hello ladies and gentlemen

I got married early last year and am recently staying in my husband place but my husband is not based here in Nigeria, when my husband was coming to marry me, my parent from their reaction was happy with him n like him but the problem is that each time my husband gives Me money to give to them, they will just say he tried without showing appreciation by calling him to say thank you .when I asked if they HV call to say thank you, they will lay insult on my husband saying is it because of the small money they will call him ,that is the money up to what they used in training me in school ,but I told them that my husband is still building his way and is from the one he has that he happily gave them , if he had more he would HV given them. But they will not listen ,sometimes they will say he is stingy .
With all this am not happy, and when I opted to tell my husband they will tell me not to tell him about it dat is not every tin that happen I will tell him but after much pain I will just tell my husband about it and tell my parents I didn't tell him.

My husband was disappointed n not happy when I told him, he said if not that he love me and married me that he can't continue with the marriage that he noticed that since he know me and started giving my parent money they never thank him or even to call him on phone to know how he is doing, even if is flash ,that he has been the only one calling them on phone but he didn't take it as anything though,

My greatest pain now is that my husband spoke wit them on phone of recent to know how they are doing and he told my mum he will find something for her cus she just recovered from sickness n she was happy , so later my husband give me 10 k to give to her which I send to my sister to give them ,around evening my dad called me asking me who he gave the money to, I answered him is them and he said for what, that does it look like he is begging for money, that somebody should not insult his fellow human,that i should send my account sharply let him send it back .I was so devastated and couldn't even alter a word ,I wept bitterly ,

When I told my brother about it he said he is not supporting them but I know the money is small ,that I should have just told dad is mummy he gave it to ,that if my husband can't take care of me and them now we neaver born when is he going to do that I became more angry , I later told my husband what my dad did and he vowed not to give my parents anything again even if God blesses him tomorrow or to even call them on phone , that he understood the money is small and they are bigger than that but he just gave it to them wholeheartedly , that they dnt no what he suffered to get it, that is what he has he will give

Right now am so angry ,did I do the right thing by telling my husband or should I HV told him to add more in what he gives to them ,is my parents doing the right thing ?what should I do now , Pls somebody should talk to me before I run mad here

Hello ladies and gentlemen

I got married early last year and am recently staying in my husband place but my husband is not based here in Nigeria, when my husband was coming to marry me, my parent from their reaction was happy with him n like him but the problem is that each time my husband gives Me money to give to them, they will just say he tried without showing appreciation by calling him to say thank you .when I asked if they HV call to say thank you, they will lay insult on my husband saying is it because of the small money they will call him ,that is the money up to what they used in training me in school ,but I told them that my husband is still building his way and is from the one he has that he happily gave them , if he had more he would HV given them. But they will not listen ,sometimes they will say he is stingy .
With all this am not happy, and when I opted to tell my husband they will tell me not to tell him about it dat is not every tin that happen I will tell him but after much pain I will just tell my husband about it and tell my parents I didn't tell him.

My husband was disappointed n not happy when I told him, he said if not that he love me and married me that he can't continue with the marriage that he noticed that since he know me and started giving my parent money they never thank him or even to call him on phone to know how he is doing, even if is flash ,that he has been the only one calling them on phone but he didn't take it as anything though,

My greatest pain now is that my husband spoke wit them on phone of recent to know how they are doing and he told my mum he will find something for her cus she just recovered from sickness n she was happy , so later my husband give me 10 k to give to her which I send to my sister to give them ,around evening my dad called me asking me who he gave the money to, I answered him is them and he said for what, that does it look like he is begging for money, that somebody should not insult his fellow human,that i should send my account sharply let him send it back .I was so devastated and couldn't even alter a word ,I wept bitterly ,

When I told my brother about it he said he is not supporting them but I know the money is small ,that I should have just told dad is mummy he gave it to ,that if my husband can't take care of me and them now we neaver born when is he going to do that I became more angry , I later told my husband what my dad did and he vowed not to give my parents anything again even if God blesses him tomorrow or to even call them on phone , that he understood the money is small and they are bigger than that but he just gave it to them wholeheartedly , that they dnt no what he suffered to get it, that is what he has he will give

Right now am so angry ,did I do the right thing by telling my husband or should I HV told him to add more in what he gives to them ,is my parents doing the right thing ?what should I do now , Pls somebody should talk to me before I run mad here

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