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She broke up with me before 4.5 months after a relationship of 5 months. We are very different (99% my mistakes) due to that broke up. Then I changed myself according to her. but she found new boyfriend and dumped me for lifetime. She said I found new BF who is of my type and she also said "I love u" to him in front of me on phone. She said we can only friends that I refused and I said her u did cheating with me by breaking commitment, when u got better then me then left me. then she said ur thinking is very cheap and even u dnt knw how to talk to girl....get lost ..... never show me your face....

I did too much care and spent lot of money for her.....and give lots of gifts of her choice but she forgot everything.........I want to survive her from this bad world but she did same...I love her too much and did everything for her....her work.....love more than my parents..........family.......even more than myself.......and told everthing to her about me.......it was my mistake.....

can I get ger back?? I need ur advice??

F22RAPTOR: bro....you Indian?

bro....you Indian?

no ......from aus

dytbabe: Na wa oo
I advice u face ur studies ooo

what??

She broke up with me before 4.5 months after a relationship of 5 months. We are very different (99% my mistakes) due to that broke up. Then I changed myself according to her. but she found new boyfriend and dumped me for lifetime. She said I found new BF who is of my type and she also said "I love u" to him in front of me on phone. She said we can only friends that I refused and I said her u did cheating with me by breaking commitment, when u got better then me then left me. then she said ur thinking is very cheap and even u dnt knw how to talk to girl....get lost ..... never show me your face....

I did too much care and spent lot of money for her.....and give lots of gifts of her choice but she forgot everything.........I want to survive her from this bad world but she did same...I love her too much and did everything for her....her work.....love more than my parents..........family.......even more than myself.......and told everthing to her about me.......it was my mistake.....

can I get ger back?? I need ur advice??

We had 6 months relationship and commitment of marriage until April, 2014. Due to my bad nature (dominating and over possessive), my GF decided break up from her side. I did too much requests for second chance but she refused because her friend realized her "She is much more better than me". I did too much efforts (also begging, calling, giving new gifts) but failed. yesterday she said "we will never together in future and don't keep any hope from me because we are not of same type". I promised her that I will change myself but she is not ready to listen. She blocked me on whats app. She said I did mistake to be in relationship with you. She also said "my parents will not allow because we are from rich family and we have some standard and reputation and I am also very beautiful". I have changed my goals with respect to her life and I did too much for her very honestly and I also celebrated every occasion with her before and after breakup and gave her costly gifts but she is not ready to talk in that mood.....
I am very honest in this case....i had some bad habits but now i have improved but she is not ready to listen......Actually I did promise with her to buy home, car of her choice and job.....currently i am that process and I did 50 % work and I also changed my goals for her but she left me in between...I did PhD but she is also doing PhD and teaching.....I know she can not do without me..

.Please help me ...I want her at any cost .....What should I do ??

Thanks.....I admitted, I was wrong at starting but now I have changed and according to her wishes....but she is not ready to listen....I want her back at any cost.......any solution do you have plz tell me.......

She said I need happiness not worst life......now everything has been improved but she is not ready to listen......then what should I do??

glare: I am very honest in this case....i had some bad habits but now i have improved but she is not ready to listen......Actually I did promise with her to buy home, car of her choice and job.....currently i am that process and I did 50 % work and I also changed my goals for her but she left me in between...I did PhD but she is also doing PhD and teaching.....I know she can not do without me..

please help me, my life has been stucked....

Prowizy2: Some girls bad o!!

I am very honest in this case....i had some bad habits but now i have improved but she is not ready to listen......Actually I did promise with her to buy home, car of her choice and job.....currently i am that process and I did 50 % work and I also changed my goals for her but she left me in between...I did PhD but she is also doing PhD and teaching.....I know she can not do without me..

We had 6 months relationship and commitment of marriage until April, 2014. Due to my bad nature (dominating and over possessive), my GF decided break up from her side. I did too much requests for second chance but she refused because her friend realized her "She is much more better than me". I did too much efforts (also begging, calling, giving new gifts) but failed. yesterday she said "we will never together in future and don't keep any hope from me because we are not of same type". I promised her that I will change myself but she is not ready to listen. She blocked me on whats app. She said I did mistake to be in relationship with you. She also said "my parents will not allow because we are from rich family and we have some standard and reputation and I am also very beautiful". I have changed my goals with respect to her life and I did too much for her very honestly and I also celebrated every occasion with her before and after breakup and gave her costly gifts but she is not ready to talk in that mood......Please help me ...I want her at any cost .....What should I do ??

ITbomb: As in you made life time commitment after being with her for just 4 months?
When you never graduate or get job, abeg the babe no fit dey tied down for that kind arrangement.
Buckle up

After a relationship of 1 year, everything was fine but suddenly happened break up from her side.........i gave her too many gifts....too much costly....

I did too much her work but she always appreciated before break up but ignoring after break up. Really i did nothing and i have changed my nature but it is impossible to move on for me...... she is also frustrated but i dnt knw why....!!!

echobee: Is it only over possessiveness and dominating?

yes it was only over possessiveness and dominating. but two weeks before she said i will never go anywhere but before one week she said so many things (i am doing harassment etc.) like " i will never marry with u if u will be the last man on earth". i did so much help for her in last year very honestly and her friend motivated her for break up by realizing her she is better than me. so plz help me../thanks in advance

We are studying in same university, We were in relationship and have lifetime commitment, but due to my mistakes (over possessiveness and dominating), she broke up before 4 months. after that i requested her so many times for second chance, but she rejected and asked for time. then i did everything of her daily without asking. but day by day she is not caring me and she said i am very boring person and she said so many things to me, she is not behaving with me as previous. Now i am nothing in front of her, when she needs help she called me after that she forgot and behaved me very rudely. I am very awkward situation , please help me I want to get her back and live with her for lifetime.

How to get her back??

glare: My GF dumped me before 2 months, bcz i was over possessive and dominating. Her frnd also supported her decision. We have commitment for marriage but now everything has finished. After that we talked causally as a friend. But after one month there were fight between us without reason. She said I need break, after the no contact of 15 days, I just called and did her work and asked again indirectly, she said no time for this, then after some days she said don't contact me too much and showing attitude on me, then i left her for 2 weeks, in these two weeks, she called me, text me but not reacted that i am interested, today I contacted her but she is in aggressive mode, don't want to talk to me because she think i am showing attitude..... , I want her please help me.......What should I do??

please help me.....

My GF dumped me before 2 months, bcz i was over possessive and dominating. Her frnd also supported her decision. We have commitment for marriage but now everything has finished. After that we talked causally as a friend. But after one month there were fight between us without reason. She said I need break, after the no contact of 15 days, I just called and did her work and asked again indirectly, she said no time for this, then after some days she said don't contact me too much and showing attitude on me, then i left her for 2 weeks, in these two weeks, she called me, text me but not reacted that i am interested, today I contacted her but she is in aggressive mode, don't want to talk to me because she think i am showing attitude..... , I want her please help me.......What should I do??